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Old 08-26-2008, 06:09 AM   #1
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I was in Denmark, just a short holiday. On Friday afternoon, after some sightseeing, I decided to stop at ěresund train station and see if I could find the ěresund bridge somewhere (the bridge between Denmark and Sweden). I had no idea where to go until I started seeing little boys with beach balls and women in bikinis coming my way. The beach was that way! I went to the beach, in my jeans and plain shirt, felt a little out of place, but I wasn't going to stay long anyway.

There was this concrete building, that you could get on top of, it had the toilets and showers in it. I went up the steps and there, on the floor was a guy. Asleep. I wondered why he was lying there, instead of on the beach. So I was standing there, taking pictures with megazoom (the bridge was really far away), when he asked me what the time was. I had no idea what he was saying though, so I responded with my standard "Sorry, I'm not Danish". He asked me again, it was a quarter past five and he jumped up and we started talking.

He reminded me of a guy I was once with, which was disturbing and comforting at the same time, he was also not wearing a shirt, which made it really difficult not to think about naughty stuff. But hey, I'm a well behaved girl. At some point I said I should probably head back into the city and get some dinner, and he asked me if I wanted to have dinner with him. He'd told me all about the area he lived in, so we ended up getting a very tasty pizza from this tiny pizza place and eating it by the waterside.

He took me to a bar, to another bar, where the lady behind the bar was big like myself, which made me totally comfortable. I had been walking around all day, was wearing boring clothes, I really wasn't all that confident.

We ended up in a dark bar full of arty farty people. Alcohol had flown and I was getting more at ease. At some point, an older man walked up to him, speaking to him in Danish. After their conversation, the guy looked at me, as if contemplating to say something. I asked him what the old man had told him, and, a bit embarrassed, he said: he was pointing out how much he admired me being out with a fat girl, complimented me on my good taste. Later the old man - I have his phone number on a piece of the back cover of the poetry book he was carrying around and he left on the table when he quietly left a few hours later - came to sit at our table and fell in love with me, or so he claimed. He kept kneading my chubby arm and saying he wanted to take it home, telling the guy how jealous he was etc etc. It was surely very flattering.

The old man told me something very very beautiful. I'm not too good with compliments and he could see I was insecure, and somehow, in between his drunken rambling, he told me that my mother may have been skinny or fat, her mother, her father, their parents etc. and there would have been countless possibilities and I wouldn't be in this world if I wasn't supposed to be. A tear or two rolled down my cheek.

To cut this story short. I have no idea how it happened or how I did it, but I have never been so appreciated for being the way I am, as during that night. This guy, who had seen me in my baggiest clothes at my worst, worn out on a beach, gave me one of the best nights of my life.

So this is for Thomas, for Paul and for every other boy and man who let fat girls know they too belong in this world.
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Old 08-26-2008, 09:15 AM   #2
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What a great story!

I wonder if you'd also put this is a 'real life experience' on the story board? There are a few similar ones there.
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Old 08-26-2008, 09:17 AM   #3
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wow. this is such a lovely piece and is so beautifully written. thank you for sharing.
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Old 08-26-2008, 09:43 AM   #4
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Wow, what a wonderful story. Sounds like such a great time and quite possibly a pivotal point on one's life.
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That sounds straight out of a story book!! Lucky you!!
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Old 08-26-2008, 10:40 AM   #6
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thank you so much people.

It ended like in a tv show though. I must admit we were both very drunk, and normally I really don't drink that much, but the old man, Paul, bought all of us half a case of beer to share, and this was the fourth bar we were at. (Seriously, I still don't even believe it happened) Sometime during the night Thomas told me about this butterfly in a case that his friend got him. So, it was nearing 5 am, and I really thought it was time to go, I had to check out of my hostel room before 10. We were outside, I was smiling, dancing, trying to avoid broken glass, and he asked me: do you want to see my butterfly? So cheesy, if he wasn't very cute and Danish, I would never have said yes So I ended up in the arms of a guy who told me I was beautiful, repeatedly. But I had to go...

There was no way I could wake him up, I'd had an hour of sleep myself, so I left him lying there. I told him "I don't care if Im allowed to or not, but I'm taking a shower" and then while he was still half unconscious, I left, leaving nothing but a note saying "find me sometime".

I walked to the hostel, it was so surreal. I had no camera with me or anything, but with my crappy phone camera I took this picture after we left the last bar: the only memory of this awesome surreal night out.
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Old 08-26-2008, 10:55 AM   #7
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Wow, what an awesome story, totally makes me want to watch Before Sunrise again. Or do a remake with a BBW and FA! Hope your journey continues on with such positive vibes.
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Old 08-26-2008, 07:10 PM   #8
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This was an amazing story juniper thanks for sharing i love hearing these tales of personal worth being found everyone has their own beauty, & Us Fa's know exactly where to find the most beautiful!!!
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Oh my...what a lovely story, Juniper.

Thank you for sharing it with us.


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What a great story!! Im sad about the note you left him *sniffle*. Where do you live?
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I live in The Netherlands, this happened in Copenhagen.
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I live in The Netherlands, this happened in Copenhagen.
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Juniper....from all Men who love, admirer, and desire you fat women... We are so glad you are here!! Thanks for sharing your lovely story and I hope, where ever you are today, you are with someone loving your curves!
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i hope you carry it inside of you forever--you are beautiful
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Awww, thanks for sharing! What a beautiful story!!!
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What a truly breathtaking experience....thank you for sharing it!
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