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Old 01-19-2016, 04:36 PM   #1
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Question How do you know if you're Dominant or Submissive?

Just curious Seems like an interesting subject? Personally I think I'm somewhere in between, I prefer being on top and in control but occasionally enjoy my partner instigating things or pressing down on me with his weight. I hate being dominated though and also dislike the idea of my partner just doing everything I say.
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Old 01-19-2016, 05:21 PM   #2
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I definitely prefer to be the bitch. Nothing better than a man smacking me around in bed. Or anywhere else.
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Old 01-19-2016, 09:18 PM   #3
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Read some S and M stories (lots of them online) and see which suits you. Some people can also "switch". Knew a guy online that could do that- found it interesting.
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Or you might be neither. Just putting that out there; there is nothing wrong with the whole scene and I know lots of awesome people who are into it, but it isn't something everyone identifies with. I personally couldn't stand the idea of being dominated (I've tried it) and neither would I be comfortable being a dom and that is okay too.
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Yep ^^^^^^^^^
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The question should be asked: When having sex, do you like to take control or be controlled? If the answer is the latter, you may be submissive.

Read, though. Read up on it as much as you can. And please, do not use 50 Shades of Grey as a manual.
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I think I prefer being in control, but hate the idea of hurting someone. So probably just neither
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I think you would know if you were dominant or submissive. Please be aware that study say that most people are neither.
Speaking of myself I am slightly submissive and the idea of beeing at the mercy of my partner, serving her and pleasing her was a turn on for me since ever.
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I think I prefer being in control, but hate the idea of hurting someone. So probably just neither
You do not need to have pain within a Dominant/submissive relationship. That is a major misconception: ALL D/s relationships involve pain.

The most important part of the relationship is communication. You have to talk with your partner, set up limits (boundaries), set up safe words, etc. Most of all, there has to be respect.
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Old 01-26-2016, 05:29 PM   #10
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Yeah I think I'm neither just prefer to be the one in control and love feeding my partner lol ^^'
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