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Old 06-30-2017, 04:29 PM   #1
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Note: I really don't know where to put this thread after careful debating of it being her or the F/FA section. If it's the wrong one, please feel free to move it, mods.


I seriously doubt anyone else before me came out saying they were aces in a sub-community like this one where sexual aspects and arousals are highly encouraged amongst us FAs. Well, I'm here to say otherwise that I'm not like most, if not all, everyone when it comes to seeking pleasure or anything. And whatever you do, do not think I'm one of those plumper ladies who have an issue with their weight in having doubts in regarding sex. That is not the point of this statement. However, I do feel that my agenda and position as being an asexual is probably not recognized very much. The way I can put it that my position is essentially 'antithetical' in oppose of what stated above.


I know this is not the best forum to discuss this matter, but I thought maybe it could bring in a different side. I have yet to find more people in my position or understanding it. I just want to know if there are others out there like me and this can be shared more.
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Old 06-30-2017, 11:37 PM   #2
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I'm there with you. It's weird being part of a community that matches your aesthetics but you're missing the sexual parts of it.
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Old 07-01-2017, 07:33 AM   #3
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I'm there with you. It's weird being part of a community that matches your aesthetics but you're missing the sexual parts of it.
I don't see how it's considered a bad thing, you're definitely right. My orientation really influences on how I see myself in the community and to be honest, I could really care less to call myself a FFA because it's just what I'm doing. I'm more on the sidelines.
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Once you know how to communicate better, stuff like this doesn't really matter so much. You might find.
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Once you know how to communicate better, stuff like this doesn't really matter so much. You might find.

Something's telling me that you're right and another thing telling this is not what I'm talking about or asking for. I'm saying is that communication with other people is not that big of an issue. I'm just more just curious in learning other like-minded people like myself having different opinions from the typical sexual orientation in the FA community.
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Take a look in the GLBTQ forum for at least a couple of threads around this. Loopytheone, our esteemed Admin empowered moderator, is asexual and periodically puts some information up there on the topic.
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Take a look in the GLBTQ forum for at least a couple of threads around this. Loopytheone, our esteemed Admin empowered moderator, is asexual and periodically puts some information up there on the topic.
Oh, thanks! That really helps a lot.
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I admit, I was rubbing my little hands together with excitement at the thought of another ace person on here!

Spoiler alert: not only am I an asexual FFA/BBW, my bf is an asexual FA/BHM. 10/10 most ace fat couple ever.
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