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Old 05-28-2017, 01:32 PM   #26
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Its been so long for me I have forgotten which arm its under.
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Its been so long for me I have forgotten which arm its under.
A woman as beautiful as you? I'm surprised you don't have a line of suitors.
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Thanks everyone, pillows are definitely the way forward. We were even able to do doggy without her knee injury flaring up thanks too them, a good night for all. If you've got any other tips I'll still take them on board.
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Here could be some help for you!!!! http://persephonemagazine.com/2012/0...afraid-to-ask/
Good article! Expands on a bit of what was written in this thread.

Has anyone read the book mentioned in the article? "Big Big Love, Revised: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them)"

The Amazon reviews are very mixed but it's a bit hard to tell who is writing the reviews. I am on the fence about getting it. It sounds interesting but I could see it not really being what it sounds like.
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Good article! Expands on a bit of what was written in this thread.

Has anyone read the book mentioned in the article? "Big Big Love, Revised: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them)"

The Amazon reviews are very mixed but it's a bit hard to tell who is writing the reviews. I am on the fence about getting it. It sounds interesting but I could see it not really being what it sounds like.
Thank you, fuelingfire!!! I have my own concerns becasuse I'm a big bellied FA who wants to have a pear shaped SSBBW but my doubts were killing me.

The book you mention was written by Hanne Blank. I was one of the first books written on the fat sex subject!!!
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This is porn with out pictures LOL
Is it hot in here or is it just me?
This thread is so very hot, Tracii, but is necessary because ignorance destroys relationships!!!!
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Old 06-18-2017, 04:36 PM   #32
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I do find it interesting how others overcome the issues that being fat have on sexual interaction.
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I do find it interesting how others overcome the issues that being fat have on sexual interaction.
It's the main goal, Tracii!!!!
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I do find it interesting how others overcome the issues that being fat have on sexual interaction.
Well I've found everyone's contribution helpful, it's infuriating when you look sex positions up online they tend to use a male Olympian and an anorexic woman which is useless not just for F/FAs and BBW/BHMs but for 90% of the population.

Still open for suggestions if you've got any.
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Well I've found everyone's contribution helpful, it's infuriating when you look sex positions up online they tend to use a male Olympian and an anorexic woman which is useless not just for F/FAs and BBW/BHMs but for 90% of the population.

Still open for suggestions if you've got any.
I hope you a very pleasant sex from now on, ScouseFA!!! This tread could also help me to write a book on the subject!!!

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I don't have any new positions to suggest but they make special sex furniture you may be able to try. Of course, some of it isn't cheap so you'd have to have the budget to make something like that worth the expense. My wife wants a specific chair but it seems every time we get close to were we can discuss getting it something else pops up and we can't get it. She seems to think it'll open up a few options for us and if we ever get to where we can it I'll post some updates. Maybe even some pics!
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I don't have any new positions to suggest but they make special sex furniture you may be able to try. Of course, some of it isn't cheap so you'd have to have the budget to make something like that worth the expense. My wife wants a specific chair but it seems every time we get close to were we can discuss getting it something else pops up and we can't get it. She seems to think it'll open up a few options for us and if we ever get to where we can it I'll post some updates. Maybe even some pics!
How about this, happly_married? The liberator!!!! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liberator_shapes
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I'm not sure the wife would go for furniture, she's never owned a vibrator.
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I'm not sure the wife would go for furniture, she's never owned a vibrator.
Furniture can be very innocent looking, the right size bench, a chair that is the right height/width or the arms in a special configuration. Some ways much more acceptable, just a nice piece of furniture that has a secret purpose.
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Furniture can be very innocent looking, the right size bench, a chair that is the right height/width or the arms in a special configuration. Some ways much more acceptable, just a nice piece of furniture that has a secret purpose.
That's true, for some reason the first thing that came to mind was a sex swing, couldn't move away from that thought then.
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Furniture can be very innocent looking, the right size bench, a chair that is the right height/width or the arms in a special configuration. Some ways much more acceptable, just a nice piece of furniture that has a secret purpose.
My wife and I briefly considered buy a new house in Jan/Feb timeframe and one of the models we toured had this little alcove in the master bedroom. My wife asked the sales rep if it was standard and she said it was. My wife then mused aloud, "I wonder what we'd use this for." I replied (before thinking), "Sex furniture." My wife gasped and said, "Good idea but you could have waited until [sale's rep] wasn't here!" Then she apologized to the girl.

The sales rep, a cute little plumper herself, laughed and said it was all good and "good for you two. I hope it gets lots of use!"
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My wife and I briefly considered buy a new house in Jan/Feb timeframe and one of the models we toured had this little alcove in the master bedroom. My wife asked the sales rep if it was standard and she said it was. My wife then mused aloud, "I wonder what we'd use this for." I replied (before thinking), "Sex furniture." My wife gasped and said, "Good idea but you could have waited until [sale's rep] wasn't here!" Then she apologized to the girl.

The sales rep, a cute little plumper herself, laughed and said it was all good and "good for you two. I hope it gets lots of use!"
I usually hate sales reps, but I have a feeling about this one.
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I usually hate sales reps, but I have a feeling about this one.
She was awesome. Too bad for her we decided to stick w the house we already have. She was going through the options on one model's bathroom and she pointed out the soaker tub could be removed for a bigger shower. She said, "You two would probably like that because you could be in there together." That was all she said verbally but the look on her face said a lot more.

FWIW I do find shower sex to be challenging. Belly to belly is impossible because I'm taller than my wife enough to the point that getting low enough is really uncomfortable for me. I've been able to do standing like this in the past, but not with a fat woman. If my wife bends over that's easier for me. It gets tiring for her. If she leans up against the wall and arches her back, her butt is too big for me to get full penetration (and of course part of that limitation is my size). We've tried a few other things in there but only to moderate success. Usually what ends up happening is my wife gets frustrated and tells me to either drop to my knees and go down on her or we just finish up and move to our bed.
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She must have read you well. That was a bold move on her part, that could backfire on the wrong people. I have never attempted shower sex. It’s about footing. I think I would need track cleats. Hot tube yes, and it was way more work than I was expecting.

Also my doggy style issue was actually about height. She is the only person I have been with that was within an inch of my height. Being a pear, she has chubby thighs and knees. The knees might give her a bit of height as well. So she had to put her legs wider and I put a pillow under my knees.
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She must have read you well. That was a bold move on her part, that could backfire on the wrong people. I have never attempted shower sex. Its about footing. I think I would need track cleats. Hot tube yes, and it was way more work than I was expecting.

Also my doggy style issue was actually about height. She is the only person I have been with that was within an inch of my height. Being a pear, she has chubby thighs and knees. The knees might give her a bit of height as well. So she had to put her legs wider and I put a pillow under my knees.
By the time we had that conversation we'd had a few interactions with her and she knew us well enough to know we'd not object to her comment.

Isn't it hilarious how our body types, sizes, dimensions and so on affect it? Sex with smaller women was certainly a lot easier but it definitely wasn't as fun either. I still appreciate all body types. Seeing an athletic girl at the gym or on the beach is great. My wife doesn't even begrudge me a double take every once in a while (she isn't even into girls but sometimes she checks them out too). But every time we get intimate with each other I feel so lucky that this is the woman I am with. I'm not missing a thing out there.
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