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Old 12-21-2017, 10:09 AM   #151
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Even in an FA world those words would still be said sometimes - for instance I'm currently trying to lose weight because one of the things I love to do is climb hills and that would be a whole pile easier if I was 50/60lbs lighter. I'm never going to be thin but I would like to not actually be fat either.
It's your life. Still, it's a shame.

And as to the highlighted part, I fear we have little in common, then.
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Old 12-21-2017, 03:05 PM   #152
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Even in an FA world those words would still be said sometimes - for instance I'm currently trying to lose weight because one of the things I love to do is climb hills and that would be a whole pile easier if I was 50/60lbs lighter. I'm never going to be thin but I would like to not actually be fat either.
You’ve highlighted the one drawback to being married to a plus size woman. I’m an avid outdoor enthusiast and would do a day hike every weekend if my schedule permitted. My wife isn’t as enthusiastic as I am but would come along (and actually has a few times). Her weight really is a limiting factor for her though. She’s tough and will gut it out but it’s hard for her. Usually I just pursue outdoor activities on my own as a result of this. I love having a fat wife but it comes at a price. It’s worth it though.
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Old 12-21-2017, 09:35 PM   #153
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Every year at Christmastime, I make four batches of cookies of different varieties (though I make two batches of those nice peanut butter cookies with the chocolate kisses in the middle, because I know people love those so much,) and distribute them at the office where I work, then cap off my last workday of December by putting the remainder in the cafeteria. It's rare when they last all day.

I think this may be my favorite act of generosity to perform; giving people food, and it's not just because I'm an FA, because watching people eat doesn't normally make a difference in my feelings. However, it does open me up to a wide range of responses. A lot of "thank yous," a lot of "you're so sweets," and a lot of "oh, no thanks. I can'ts." However, a few times a year (especially from women,) I'll get the kind of remark that really hurts my soul. An "Oh, I'm trying to lose weight," or a "I was doing so well on my diet too." Every time I hear these remarks, I have to struggle with the urge to reply "Oh, that's a shame."

Oh, for an FA world.
Cookie twins! I made peanut blossoms last night, both milk and dark chocolate. I bake huge batches at Christmas time though, so I can give platters and boxes of cookies as gifts. (And so I can eat some, of course.) It's the most gratifying feeling to see someone's face light up when you ask if they want a cookie. I have made their day a little bit brighter!

One of the best things about embracing my fat is never having to say "Oh, I really shouldn't." Sometimes I say "Thanks, but I'm way too full", or "Thanks, but I'm going to eat dinner in an hour", but never "I'm on a diet"!
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Old 12-21-2017, 11:44 PM   #154
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Peanut butter cookies are my absolute favorite! It's really hard to find good soft cookies in the stores though, only really awesometastic ones I've had have been either homemade or the ones Subway makes (I once waited in Subway for over an hour for them to start baking them lol, when they finally had them they gave them to me for free for waiting so long).
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Old 12-22-2017, 06:36 AM   #155
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Cookie twins! I made peanut blossoms last night, both milk and dark chocolate. I bake huge batches at Christmas time though, so I can give platters and boxes of cookies as gifts. (And so I can eat some, of course.) It's the most gratifying feeling to see someone's face light up when you ask if they want a cookie. I have made their day a little bit brighter!

One of the best things about embracing my fat is never having to say "Oh, I really shouldn't." Sometimes I say "Thanks, but I'm way too full", or "Thanks, but I'm going to eat dinner in an hour", but never "I'm on a diet"!
Bingo. I don't mind hearing "no thanks" from someone if they're full, or are about to have a meal, or are too sick, or have diabetes or celiac, but it makes me so sad when people refuse a cookie because they want to lose weight.

Fortunately, when you're giving away a ton of cookies, there's plenty to cheer you up.
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Old 12-22-2017, 06:37 AM   #156
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Peanut butter cookies are my absolute favorite! It's really hard to find good soft cookies in the stores though, only really awesometastic ones I've had have been either homemade or the ones Subway makes (I once waited in Subway for over an hour for them to start baking them lol, when they finally had them they gave them to me for free for waiting so long).
Yup. Plus the ones you can make at home are usually much better for you, and contain fewer chemicals and preservatives. And the taste and texture are generally better as well, depending on the recipe you use.
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For reference of this story, my girlfriend is younger than me. I was out for drinks with my girlfriend and two of her close fat girl friends. My gf asks me what beer I ordered. I tell here whatever it was, I don’t remember and it’s irrelevant. She then says, “What you didn’t get the Old Chub (beer)?” I said, “no?” not sure why she is asking. She says, “Oh that’s right, you only like the young chub!” Both of the other fat girlfriends were drinking at that moment and started laughing and gagging on their drinks.
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I have this one friend who knows about me being an FA (I didn't tell them, but he figured it out after watching me reject several skinny girls only to see me then get together with a bigger girl), and nearly every day he'll send me a snapchat screenshot (since I'm not on snapchat) that shows a different picture of me with an FA-related caption and some of them are absolutely hilarious.

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pic of me looking pissed
"When the folks at the brothel bring you a "fat girl" but she's only 150 lbs"

pic of me looking disapproving
"When the girl shows off her disgracefully flat tummy"

You get the idea


Thankfully the GF doesn't see those otherwise I'd have some explaining to do as to why my overweight bisexual friend is making jokes such as those
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Old 02-13-2018, 04:34 AM   #159
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For reference of this story, my girlfriend is younger than me. I was out for drinks with my girlfriend and two of her close fat girl friends. My gf asks me what beer I ordered. I tell here whatever it was, I don’t remember and it’s irrelevant. She then says, “What you didn’t get the Old Chub (beer)?” I said, “no?” not sure why she is asking. She says, “Oh that’s right, you only like the young chub!” Both of the other fat girlfriends were drinking at that moment and started laughing and gagging on their drinks.
You are such a lucky guy. Most girls would never say stuff like that.

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I have this one friend who knows about me being an FA (I didn't tell them, but he figured it out after watching me reject several skinny girls only to see me then get together with a bigger girl), and nearly every day he'll send me a snapchat screenshot (since I'm not on snapchat) that shows a different picture of me with an FA-related caption and some of them are absolutely hilarious.

Example:

pic of me looking pissed
"When the folks at the brothel bring you a "fat girl" but she's only 150 lbs"

pic of me looking disapproving
"When the girl shows off her disgracefully flat tummy"

You get the idea


Thankfully the GF doesn't see those otherwise I'd have some explaining to do as to why my overweight bisexual friend is making jokes such as those
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A girl you got a fond since a whilewhile start by complaining about her weight gain: but instead encouraging her to feel comfortable with her size or give her some fitness tricks like would did any "normal" male, you're just manage to lost any chance to go further with her by saying the exact opposite.
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Old 02-18-2018, 10:22 PM   #161
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When an another girl you have a fling since long realize that you've posting a body-positive picture depicting different plus sized models accordingly their sizes from 14 to 26... but that she's a radical fatphobic so she react quite negatively to your post.
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Old 02-18-2018, 10:26 PM   #162
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When people realize that both Mia Khalifa and XTina in person get subscribed to your IG account but the only thing which matter to you according the number of females you've following is anything fluctuacting from an Iman Hammad to Bobbery lookalike beauty... with any Amara La N**ra to Lucy Vixen-tier average following list.
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Old 02-18-2018, 10:28 PM   #163
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When people get out of their minds about how the sexy chick around get fat, whereas you get out of your own mind too: but not for the same reasons...
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Old 02-18-2018, 10:31 PM   #164
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When everyone praises Scarlett Johansson for having shed a lot of post-pregnancy weight, but in the meantime you are the only one who pass through a dit of tantrum.
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When you're still praying for the day XTina return to her not-so-lowkey 2010-11 Gainer body days.
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Your hubby moans that there was room before the meal between the bellt and the table top.

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