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Old 09-09-2008, 12:09 PM   #1
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Okay...I guess I can be a bit personal with a bunch of strangers...right?
Okay. Here it goes.

My Dr. recently put me on hypo thyroid meds and I have to say I feel really good...maybe too good. I feel like I'm 18-19 again...and unfortunately so does my libido.
My poor husband can't keep up. Does anyone know what I could ad too his diet to help increase his libido? And yes, I would be doing this with his knowledge....I would really like to know what I could cook for dinner etc that could make a difference...hopefully I don't kill him with my cooking attempts...
Or maybe even what vitamins he could ad to his diet even...any help is GREATLY appreciative.
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Old 09-09-2008, 01:08 PM   #2
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Okay...I guess I can be a bit personal with a bunch of strangers...right?
Okay. Here it goes.

My Dr. recently put me on hypo thyroid meds and I have to say I feel really good...maybe too good. I feel like I'm 18-19 again...and unfortunately so does my libido.
My poor husband can't keep up. Does anyone know what I could ad too his diet to help increase his libido? And yes, I would be doing this with his knowledge....I would really like to know what I could cook for dinner etc that could make a difference...hopefully I don't kill him with my cooking attempts...
Or maybe even what vitamins he could ad to his diet even...any help is GREATLY appreciative.
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Honeslty...I have no idea. More protien? Some vitimain E?

Just guess....
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Old 09-09-2008, 01:17 PM   #3
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Yeah....I don't think there is much you can do. A guy is at his peak at 19. A woman is in her peak in middle age. It isn't fair at all. I know meds have made you horny....how much is he putting out? Maybe you should invest in some toys for yourself. I don't think it is fair to make your partner feel bad because your hormones have made you more sexual.

I hope you find something that works for you. When you find the secret potion...let me know....my guy isn't 19 either
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Old 09-09-2008, 01:17 PM   #4
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Well, I think it is the quest for this that has resulted in so much poaching of rhinos and tigers.....traditional medicine using animal 'parts' There is viagra....oysters are supposed to help.....


But there is first of all that people just have different libidos. Has his ever really been as high as yours is now? And secondly that for most men, libido does drop some with age, so in his thirties, for example, it will not be like when he was 18. They say with women the peek is MUCH later on.

The one thing that I can think of in real practical terms is that testosterone tends to drive libido to at least some extent. Testosterone tends to go up with exercise, with 'victories' (over any sort of challenge, even as a fan of a sports team), and no doubt some other things you could google. So a little more exercise and a little more competition might help....a little.

Best of luck....to both of you.

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Old 09-09-2008, 01:18 PM   #5
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Yeah....I don't think there is much you can do. A guy is at his peak at 19. A woman is in her peak in middle age. It isn't fair at all. I know meds have made you horny....how much is he putting out? Maybe you should invest in some toys for yourself. I don't think it is fair to make your partner feel bad because your hormones have made you more sexual.

I hope you find something that works for you. When you find the secret potion...let me know....my guy isn't 19 either
OMG!! I like to think I'm like a fine wine...I get better with age!
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OMG!! I like to think I'm like a fine wine...I get better with age!
HA! You do....but you get....less frequent with age
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Old 09-09-2008, 01:21 PM   #7
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HA! You do....but you get....less frequent with age
*coughs*..I'm sorry, what?? You are SO mean to me *cries*. I think your memory is failing with age and you are forgetting the awesome s*x we have like every hour
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Old 09-09-2008, 01:33 PM   #8
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Okay...I guess I can be a bit personal with a bunch of strangers...right?
Okay. Here it goes.

My Dr. recently put me on hypo thyroid meds and I have to say I feel really good...maybe too good. I feel like I'm 18-19 again...and unfortunately so does my libido.
My poor husband can't keep up. Does anyone know what I could ad too his diet to help increase his libido? And yes, I would be doing this with his knowledge....I would really like to know what I could cook for dinner etc that could make a difference...hopefully I don't kill him with my cooking attempts...
Or maybe even what vitamins he could ad to his diet even...any help is GREATLY appreciative.
My age, by the way is 71 y.o.

The issue of libido goes beyond things like Viagra and Cialis. However, having tried both, I have come to an interesting conclusion. The standard medical cant is that Cialis, for example, is only an amplifier for the mind's (and brain's) desires. Taking it's clue from the brain, Cialis expands the blood vessels in the penis, but also expands them in the entire vascular system. This is why it is dangerous to take in concert with other (some, at least) blood pressure medications. Expanding the vascular system increases the volume, thus dropping the pressure, until the spleen can make up the difference. Cialis supposedly does not increase desire.

In confirmation, a side effect is a variety of muscle aches which, I suspect, are due to swelling of the vascular supply to the muscles.

However, I have experienced another effect, though not consistently. After our 'business' is finished, I have occasionally had a continuing urge to be all over Mrs. Ho Ho. I don't mean (just) sexually - I couldn't keep my hands off her. It led to hours of full time cuddling, with not much else going on. This is not terribly scientific because we do a lot of cuddling anyway, and take much pleasure in it. But on these Cialis occasions, there was such a sense of urgency about it!

I did discuss this with my primary physician, and did a bit of on-line investigation as well. Neither furnished any confirming evidence.

My personal hypothesis is that the mind-body connection is a two-way street. I believe that the expansion of the vascular system sends a message to the brain that the body is now prepared for intercourse, and that this message triggers 'desire', or enhanced libido. The brain, in turn, now flashes a message to the consciousness to 'get on with it'.

Note: it is only in my old age that I became aware of this. In my younger years, it all happened so fast! (Without benefit of drugs.)

We don't use Cialis consistently, nor have I experienced the same sensation every time. I would be interested in hearing any other anecdotes on this topic.

It does remind me of an old joke, however (old ones are the only kind I know.)

The sweet, young thing (let's make her a BBW) is newly wed, and disappointed in her new husband's performance. She mentions it to her old friend, the butcher. He suggests that oysters might be of some help, and sells her a dozen.

She is back the next day with a frown on her face. "I don't think your advice was too good. I fed him the dozen oysters, but only nine of them worked."
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Maybe you should talk to your Dr about the side effects? Your meds might need to be adjusted.
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Maybe you should talk to your Dr about the side effects? Your meds might need to be adjusted.


Actually, I feel really good. I mean really good. Best I have felt in years. They will do a blood test on me in a few weeks to double check but after going through years of being painful to the touch, achey, stiff, tired this is a really nice change. I honestly don't want to change it (unless something is really off).

As for hubby, will is not the problem, it's just that after he's done, he's done...basically we can go once a day and that's it, me...at this point...I feel like the energizer bunny...
And in no way do I EVER let him feel bad about this...he can't help it that my hormones have been put on over drive...I just deal with it really...good self control I guess
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Old 09-09-2008, 03:01 PM   #11
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Actually, I feel really good. I mean really good. Best I have felt in years. They will do a blood test on me in a few weeks to double check but after going through years of being painful to the touch, achey, stiff, tired this is a really nice change. I honestly don't want to change it (unless something is really off).

As for hubby, will is not the problem, it's just that after he's done, he's done...basically we can go once a day and that's it, me...at this point...I feel like the energizer bunny...
And in no way do I EVER let him feel bad about this...he can't help it that my hormones have been put on over drive...I just deal with it really...good self control I guess


When I hit my 40's my sex drive went through the roof!! Hubby was not enough. Find a really good vibrator - one that makes you have amazing orgasms and let HIM use it on you. It can work wonders for your sex life. And how about a cock ring??
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Old 09-10-2008, 10:54 AM   #12
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What about some night simply asking him directly, "I'd really like to have several orgasms tonight. How do you feel about that?" One possibility could be working to delay his orgasm until you've had multiple, as I've personally found that its much easier to hold off an orgasm as opposed to staying erect after one.

Another option, and this is all-too-common advice, would be asking what sort of things put him in the mood. On a board as full of kinks and fetishes as this one, there's always the chance that something might just rev his crank better then others. Congrats on feeling so good and I hope a happy equilibrium gets found!
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