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Old 01-11-2013, 07:13 AM   #151
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I'm not good with weights but my actual scale ranges from Plump carrying a little bit extra to cause a nice soft wobble right up to belly hanging softness. Im sure the heaviest girl woman woman i had a real crush for was around 400 lbs
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Old 01-11-2013, 01:39 PM   #152
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I guess I have a preference for medium pear shaped bbws... but I like all women, I can see beauty in a thin girl and a ssbbw, its all good, because women in general are attractive.
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Old 01-26-2013, 05:39 PM   #153
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i dnt like em fat i wanna be on the fat
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Old 01-28-2013, 07:12 PM   #154
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hard question to answer as it's a complete package I look for. I have dated a couple women 400+ that looked great but, we did not click other wise.

When I was in my 20's, 3 decades ago, I was in a very long term relationship with a BBW. when we met, she was a bit older than me (about 10 years) and was about 175 lbs. When we broke up a few years later, she was well over 300 but, we broke up for other reasons.

I just like a woman that is comfortable with her size. Going to the beach and not wearing shorts and a t-shirt but, wearing a swim suit. Going to a restaurant and ordering a salad a diet drink (only to make the waiter/waitress think she was trying to lose weight) but, at home, rarely eating salad and never a diet drink. I met a women once that would order 2 meals, one with a diet drink and one with a regular drink for carry out but, throw out the diet drink. She wanted 2 meals but did not want the counter person to think both were for her. I know that it's hard for many people because they have been bullied or teased when they were younger so they try to hide things from people. I do accept that. But, I much rather seeing someone that is comfortable with their size and has an f-you attitude with people that don't accept her as she is.
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Old 01-28-2013, 07:24 PM   #155
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honestly it depends, i like them as big as anyone really, but obviously i'm not as shallow to purely say the bigger the better (though that is my preference)

depends on shape too. i've seen big girls that didn't really carry the weight so well, even though they probably weighed a tonne. nice big and round for me.
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Old 01-28-2013, 08:17 PM   #156
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Any shape, Any size <3
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Old 02-07-2013, 12:58 AM   #157
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Right now I'm about 525 and falling, but i've been with women anywhere from 120lbs to 400, and it's always been a good time.
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Old 02-07-2013, 01:49 AM   #158
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As fat as humanly possible... When I first heard Susan Eman was trying to reach the 2,000lb mark I said that's my kinda woman But now that she's gone on Dr. Oz and talking about losing the weight I have no more interest.
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Old 02-07-2013, 06:59 AM   #159
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I would say 350 to 450 but not picky..
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Old 02-07-2013, 05:42 PM   #160
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I'm not really picky on size. I think nothing is more awesome than a woman comfortable in her skin whether big or small. Nothing puts me off more than a woman who is always finding a fault about herself constantly. Still though more than anything it is personality, that is what really gets me.
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It depends. I definitely like bigger men, and I love to feel tiny compared to someone very big, but I don't really have a weight range. I've crushed on men of all sizes, but, ideally, i'd love to have someone bigger than me. So... up from 200lbs, I guess? Being tall does't hurt either.
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I usually go for women within the 180-475 lb. range; but it usually depends on the woman herself; we all wear weight differently. There are other factors that figure into what attracts me to a woman of any size, her confidence, how she carries herself, her dress sense, her hygiene, whether I find her funny or interesting. But again, it depends on the woman herself.
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Never been with someone really huge. I'd say I'm likely to find the most suitable candidates in the 200-250 range (assuming a 5' 4" height) but could be much larger if I like the whole package. Truth be told I'd rather be with someone with a sweet personalty and good chemistry than with anyone based mostly on size but not a lot else.
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The only main preference I have is that he isn't a skeleton. Seriously, at 5'10" & 552 lbs., I'd crush him. I guess I prefer normal weight to a little overweight, it depends on height.

However, In the past I have dated a couple of very obese men and I have to say it's very difficult to make out with someone who has a huge belly and/or is obese when you are obese as well.

As far as height is concerned, I have no preference. I've dated men from 5'4" to 6'2" - it doesn't matter to me. The two shorter guys did seem to have a complex about their height, though. One didn't like it when I wore heels.

Anyway, I haven't really gone after guys much. I'm way too fearful of rejection to ask any of them out or initiate anything, so I just let them come to me. And oddly enough, the really fit and body-builder types are the ones I seem to attract the most. Weird.
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Old 02-23-2013, 12:10 PM   #165
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To me, there are really two different things going on. If we're talking what I find most physically attractive? Then it's much more about shape than size. I'm not into skinny women who are just too thin to have any curves on their figure, but beyond that? Weight isn't all that relevant compared to how a woman's body is shaped. And of course, facial features (which really are one of the most important aspects of "beauty" - even if guys tend to just make a snap judgment on it and then fixate more on everything else).

But the second part to all of this, for me, is the fact that all else being equal, a woman being heavier is a turn-on in and of itself. I enjoy seeing how everything around a really big woman reacts to her weight. (EG. An ex-g/f of mine used to like to sit on the back bumper of her car or other people's cars, and she was big enough to make most of them squat down noticeably. I always got a kick out of watching that. Even better if I sat on one first and it barely budged, and then she came along and sat next to me and down we went.) I once knew another really big gal who played as a linebacker on a local, all women's football team. One time she was in heels and walked up the steps to an old wooden deck on the back of a house, at a house party, and one of her heels pierced through one of the wood boards and got stuck in it.Obviously, it was a rotten board -- but it was still pretty impressive. Best part is, she was proud of her size so she wasn't embarrassed about it or anything. (I think she may have been as impressed as I was that she could do that!) She's the same one who'd watch pro football games on TV and make comments like, "Pfft.... I'm bigger than him!" about the guys when they'd announce their height and weight, though. Loved it ....



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hard question to answer as it's a complete package I look for. I have dated a couple women 400+ that looked great but, we did not click other wise.

When I was in my 20's, 3 decades ago, I was in a very long term relationship with a BBW. when we met, she was a bit older than me (about 10 years) and was about 175 lbs. When we broke up a few years later, she was well over 300 but, we broke up for other reasons.

I just like a woman that is comfortable with her size. Going to the beach and not wearing shorts and a t-shirt but, wearing a swim suit. Going to a restaurant and ordering a salad a diet drink (only to make the waiter/waitress think she was trying to lose weight) but, at home, rarely eating salad and never a diet drink. I met a women once that would order 2 meals, one with a diet drink and one with a regular drink for carry out but, throw out the diet drink. She wanted 2 meals but did not want the counter person to think both were for her. I know that it's hard for many people because they have been bullied or teased when they were younger so they try to hide things from people. I do accept that. But, I much rather seeing someone that is comfortable with their size and has an f-you attitude with people that don't accept her as she is.
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Old 03-02-2013, 01:57 AM   #166
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In an ideal world 500-600 lbs, I like the very largest ladies that are still quite mobile
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Old 05-25-2013, 02:23 PM   #167
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Don't know what my # is ,,I've always dated petite women until now,
When I firswt met my gf she was about 190 at 5'4. I thoght that was good, but in the past 6 months she's put on quite a notiable amount of weight ,,my guess is she now weighs somewhere about 220ish and I'm loving every ouunce of it, if she kept her weight there I would be content,,,but would I like more? I def would,,
Again this is the frist bbw that I date so I can only speak from what I know for sure,,iveseen pics of women weighing 300,400 and more and I like what I see but can't say more than that as I've never actuall been with a woman that big
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Strictly speaking, there's no hard and fast weight that ends my attraction--as long as the fat is tempered with muscle. A 600-pound guy who's half fat and half muscle would just be... wow. Like a giant walking wall of man.

Granted, that's not remotely realistic in terms of physical feasibility. In the real world I'd like a guy who's anywhere from 250 to the later 300s, assuming a height of 6'. Mobility is a must.
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only just get my arms around big, or even struggle to get my arms around, but never immobile.
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Old 06-03-2013, 08:55 PM   #170
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Strictly speaking, there's no hard and fast weight that ends my attraction--as long as the fat is tempered with muscle. A 600-pound guy who's half fat and half muscle would just be... wow. Like a giant walking wall of man.

Granted, that's not remotely realistic in terms of physical feasibility. In the real world I'd like a guy who's anywhere from 250 to the later 300s, assuming a height of 6'. Mobility is a must.
What about Blair River - 600 pounds and 6'8". Possible - yes.
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What about Blair River - 600 pounds and 6'8". Possible - yes.
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Strictly speaking, there's no hard and fast weight that ends my attraction--as long as the fat is tempered with muscle. A 600-pound guy who's half fat and half muscle would just be... wow. Like a giant walking wall of man.

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Possible -- yes -- but only for a short time.

http://newsfeed.time.com/2011/03/04/...-from-the-flu/
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Possible -- yes -- but only for a short time.

http://newsfeed.time.com/2011/03/04/...-from-the-flu/
Well he died of flu and pneumonia, that can happen to anyone, it isn't like he died of something relating to his size.
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Well he died of flu and pneumonia, that can happen to anyone, it isn't like he died of something relating to his size.
Well, very few healthy 29 year olds die of pneumonia these days--not saying it is impossible, just very rare. Pneumonia is often what kills people when their health is poor for other reasons, however. Not enough information in that article to really know what happened, however.
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Well he died of flu and pneumonia, that can happen to anyone, it isn't like he died of something relating to his size.
In all likelihood his death was related to his size. A person's pulmonary system has definite limits. A supersize person has diminished reserve capacity. When faced with circumstances that decrease pulmonary capacity (like pneumonia) a supersize people may not be able to cope.

Pneumonia hits very large people hard -- the laws of physics can be very unkind.
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