The FA closet. Are you in or out? - Page 2

James · 11-19-2009, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by exile in thighville

where's the option for I'M OUT OF THE CLOSET AND WOULD LIKE TO GO BACK IN james

does anyone ever want to do this? lol

musicman · 11-19-2009, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by joswitch

I chopped my closet up years ago and burned that fucker for warmth in the winter! :P Never going back!

No, you're doing it wrong. If you're really out of the closet, you find a woman big enough to keep you warm, and use your wood for something else.

Jon Blaze · 11-19-2009, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by musicman

No, you're doing it wrong. If you're really out of the closet, you find a woman big enough to keep you warm, and use your wood for something else.

"Go make sweet love down by the fire?"

kioewen · 11-19-2009, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by exile in thighville

where's the option for I'M OUT OF THE CLOSET AND WOULD LIKE TO GO BACK IN james

Conversely, I'll bet that there are quite a few men who may have been closeted when they were younger, and wish that they could go back and have a redo, being open about their preference from the beginning -- whether that means chatting up curvy girls whom they always crushed on, but never had the guts to approach, or times when they bit their tongue when curveophobic comments were being made, and wish they'd taken a stand.

exile in thighville · 11-20-2009, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by James

does anyone ever want to do this? lol

can't be just me

Dusselchen · 11-20-2009, 05:35 PM

Some of my friends know it and, more important, my boyfriend knows it.
I don't deny, but I also don't tell everyone about my preferences.
And I don't hide my boyfriend... so I think I'm kinda out. Am I?

Santaclear · 11-20-2009, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Santaclear

Obviously, many of us around Dimensions (at least those who post) aren't in any sort of FA closet.

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Originally Posted by exile in thighville

yeah you can't be in the closet behind the anonymity of the internet

I mean people we know, who've either met in real life or posted pictures with our fat girlfriends etc. Sure, some are phonies and there are bound to be closet cases but many are not.

exile in thighville · 11-21-2009, 06:49 AM

i'm not real

Dr. Feelgood · 11-21-2009, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by exile in thighville

i'm not real

And I like that about you. Surrealism is a turn-on.*

*This presumably means i am our of the Reality Closet.

musicman · 11-21-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Dusselchen

Some of my friends know it and, more important, my boyfriend knows it.
I don't deny, but I also don't tell everyone about my preferences.
And I don't hide my boyfriend... so I think I'm kinda out. Am I?

I think that, if you have a fat partner or date fat people, and you don't try to hide it or deny it, then you're out. You don't have to tell complete strangers about your preference.

joswitch · 11-21-2009, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by musicman

I think that, if you have a fat partner or date fat people, and you don't try to hide it or deny it, then you're out. You don't have to tell complete strangers about your preference.

"HEY!!! Hey YOU! Yeah - you in the hat! I LOVE FAT CHICKS! Yeah! That's right! I love 'em! Okayz, now go about your day.... .... HEY!!! You in the crap trousers! ...." etc.

Jon Blaze · 11-21-2009, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by joswitch

"HEY!!! Hey YOU! Yeah - you in the hat! I LOVE FAT CHICKS! Yeah! That's right! I love 'em! Okayz, now go about your day.... .... HEY!!! You in the crap trousers! ...." etc.

My favorite is what my friend P said:

"I don't end a job interview by saying I like fat chicks." LOL

UMBROBOYUM · 11-21-2009, 02:35 PM

I'm out and about. Those who cant accept me can shove it up their buns and Swivel on it.

Lastminute.Tom · 11-21-2009, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Jon Blaze

My favorite is what my friend P said:

"I don't end a job interview by saying I like fat chicks." LOL

hmm, but might be worth a try, do you reckon that you could cry FA discrimination if they didn't hire you?

fat9276 · 11-21-2009, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by joswitch

"HEY!!! Hey YOU! Yeah - you in the hat! I LOVE FAT CHICKS! Yeah! That's right! I love 'em! Okayz, now go about your day.... .... HEY!!! You in the crap trousers! ...." etc.

hahahaha.. I am still giggling

joswitch · 11-24-2009, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by fat9276

hahahaha.. I am still giggling

I'm thinking this is the "talky bit" lead in to a video for a rap song - "I love fat chicks!"...
There will be dancers...
and... jiggling....

MrRabbit · 11-25-2009, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by kioewen

Conversely, I'll bet that there are quite a few men who may have been closeted when they were younger, and wish that they could go back and have a redo, being open about their preference from the beginning -- whether that means chatting up curvy girls whom they always crushed on, but never had the guts to approach, or times when they bit their tongue when curveophobic comments were being made, and wish they'd taken a stand.

Absolutely! I am one of those. I wish I could redo my teens/twenties with the confidence I have now. I have spent evenings and evenings eying at beautiful big girls at a party without having the guts to approach her... I completely missed out on that phase in your development where you experiment and take your first steps to the opposite sex

Spiderweb Sitar · 12-01-2009, 08:31 AM

The boyfriend and I are both polysizual... we discussed FA-typed things before we started dating, sort of in passing. It's since come up a few times (me having a preference for big guys, not so much his preferences), but its sort of an unspoken understanding with us.

mediaboy · 12-01-2009, 12:45 PM

I'm out like George Michael at a central park bathroom.

OLD-LOVE · 12-01-2009, 06:41 PM

the Door Is Half Open.

coolag12345 · 12-01-2009, 07:19 PM

Interesting question; I'm "in the closet" with the exception of one or two people, and that wasn't by choice.

Long story short, my sister's ex-boyfriend was playing around with my iPhone and came across a picture that was... well, let's just say there was no way to pretend it was anything other than what it was. Now he knows, and I'm sure he told my sister; come to think of it, I hope he didn't tell anyone else.

Oh well.

I try not to be too vocal about my preferences; I date girls based on the girl, not their body. Though there are obviously a few pluses when that girl happens to be a BBW.

FredtheFA · 12-01-2009, 11:59 PM

I did not know about the whole closet deal until I started visiting Dims, but I would say I'm in between, by that I mean I've been single since high school for the most part. The only girls that I would call a GF were definatly fat no question about it. I would have people walk up to me between class periods a without hesitation say hey you can do so much better, but I didn't care for their opinion, what really messed with me is my mom and sister always taking cheap shots whenever they felt. If only they know how much that screwed me up. I guess I started out of the closet to now being in the deepest darkest part of the closet. I won't approach anyone now because I don't want relive to relive that again, but after lurking here for a while I've seen that other have been through much more and still keep moving on I have no excuse to not approach who I feel I beautiful.

MrRabbit · 12-02-2009, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by FredtheFA

...snip... I have no excuse to not approach who I feel I beautiful.

This is very true. You can try to hide your preference from others, but you cannot hide it from yourself. No matter how hard you try, your preference for big girls will never go away. If you want to find peace with yourself, you will have to accept your preference.

JMNYC · 12-02-2009, 04:27 PM

I love the big girls and I am not shy about telling everyone I know, not that it comes up too often. But it does, hell, yea, I tell people.

What I am not "out" about is specifics.

Cellulite. Folds. Rolls.

I love 'em like some people love lemon cake with white frosting. Love 'em like a boy loves a kite. Like a bird loves a piece of straw that fits the nest just right.

Cellulite, Folds and Rolls.

And---

BrainsTalentKindnessSenseOfHumorWit---I'm out about liking all that, too.

liz (di-va) · 12-02-2009, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by FredtheFA

...I have no excuse to not approach who I feel I beautiful.

Interesting way to put it (has other applications, that)

View Poll Results: How do you see yourself in relation to forming relationships with fat people?
I am in the closet and have no desire to come out	11	9.57%
I am in the closet and would like to come out	20	17.39%
I am out of the closet	84	73.04%
Voters: 115. You may not vote on this poll

11-21-2009, 06:49 AM	#33
exile in thighville paunchientious objector Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: hiding under your porch because i love you Posts: 4,865	i'm not real __________________ Results 1 - 10 of about 55,500 for "wealth insurance"

11-21-2009, 02:35 PM	#38
UMBROBOYUM Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: New York, Hudson Valley Posts: 478	I'm out and about. Those who cant accept me can shove it up their buns and Swivel on it. __________________ http://adudewholovesfatchicks.blogspot.com/

12-01-2009, 07:19 PM	#46
coolag12345 Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 58	Interesting question; I'm "in the closet" with the exception of one or two people, and that wasn't by choice. Long story short, my sister's ex-boyfriend was playing around with my iPhone and came across a picture that was... well, let's just say there was no way to pretend it was anything other than what it was. Now he knows, and I'm sure he told my sister; come to think of it, I hope he didn't tell anyone else. Oh well. I try not to be too vocal about my preferences; I date girls based on the girl, not their body. Though there are obviously a few pluses when that girl happens to be a BBW. Last edited by coolag12345 : 12-01-2009 at 07:33 PM. Reason: Grammar Fail.

12-01-2009, 11:59 PM	#47
FredtheFA Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 18	I did not know about the whole closet deal until I started visiting Dims, but I would say I'm in between, by that I mean I've been single since high school for the most part. The only girls that I would call a GF were definatly fat no question about it. I would have people walk up to me between class periods a without hesitation say hey you can do so much better, but I didn't care for their opinion, what really messed with me is my mom and sister always taking cheap shots whenever they felt. If only they know how much that screwed me up. I guess I started out of the closet to now being in the deepest darkest part of the closet. I won't approach anyone now because I don't want relive to relive that again, but after lurking here for a while I've seen that other have been through much more and still keep moving on I have no excuse to not approach who I feel I beautiful. Last edited by FredtheFA : 12-02-2009 at 12:07 AM. Reason: Elaborate answer

11-20-2009, 05:35 PM	#31
Dusselchen Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Germany Posts: 21	Some of my friends know it and, more important, my boyfriend knows it. I don't deny, but I also don't tell everyone about my preferences. And I don't hide my boyfriend... so I think I'm kinda out. Am I?

12-01-2009, 08:31 AM	#43
Spiderweb Sitar Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New York Posts: 8	The boyfriend and I are both polysizual... we discussed FA-typed things before we started dating, sort of in passing. It's since come up a few times (me having a preference for big guys, not so much his preferences), but its sort of an unspoken understanding with us.

12-01-2009, 06:41 PM	#45
OLD-LOVE Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: BATON ROUGE LA Posts: 58	the Door Is Half Open.

12-02-2009, 04:27 PM	#49
JMNYC F.A.,zaft enthusiast,etc! Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: NY NY Posts: 618	I love the big girls and I am not shy about telling everyone I know, not that it comes up too often. But it does, hell, yea, I tell people. What I am not "out" about is specifics. Cellulite. Folds. Rolls. I love 'em like some people love lemon cake with white frosting. Love 'em like a boy loves a kite. Like a bird loves a piece of straw that fits the nest just right. Cellulite, Folds and Rolls. And--- BrainsTalentKindnessSenseOfHumorWit---I'm out about liking all that, too.

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