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She said she didn't want to turn into a water buffalo. Ouch! Methinx some issues there, so we've decided to butt out. ![]() Oh well, this wasn't our only mishap as we've reconnected with other long-lost friends in the age of Facebook etc. Some have been downright funny, but thankfully we've had more hits than misses. I'll spare you the details. ![]() |
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I'm not going to pretend like I haven't made cutting remarks about another person's appearance - in private. I'm sure most of us have - in private. However, Sue, discretion is a very good thing. Comments you would make in private with your partner aren't always appropriate to share publicly, especially comments cutting down someone for their size on a "size acceptance" website. But then....you've had similar things said to you before about such comments and yet you still make them, so I'm thinking it's rather obvious you don't give a rat's ass and are going to say whatever cute-sy little story you feel like sharing, to hell with discretion.
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Oky doky. I'll keep my private life private.
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Robert Earl Hughes made it to 1069 pounds 51 years ago this year.
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.... I think some people ... are genetically prone towards being bigger ... like me
but I chose not to let my genetics win and workout and pump up i think STAYING FAT IS A CHOICE !!! |
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Staying FAT is a bad choice ... if it is causing problems ... if it is not then ... i feel that if that person is comfortable being bigger ... there is no reason to change PERIOD
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And I'm Done. Bye.
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Being fat is not a choice quite precisely because fat people cannot choose to be not fat. An extremely small number of fat people become not fat people semi-permanently, but there is no true choice involved in any of that. When the supposed means of making us not-fat fails over 95% of the time, there is no choice. "I did, so can you" isn't a proof. Its just a way of trying to enforce your perceived moral superiority and your fantasy of accomplishment. My fat is not a disease, nor did I choose to be fat. I choose not to hate myself, though, and that's been an amazingly healthy and achievable choice to make. |
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FAT does not come out of thin air ... FAT is a result of how our bodies deal with what goes in .. if nothing went in ... well we would waist away .... FAT is not a permanent thing ... I am short AND THAT IS PERMANENT !!! FAT can change .. but i am NOT SAYING FAT IS BAD !!!!!!!! FAT WAS BAD FOR ME BECAUSE IT WAS CAUSING ME SOME PROBLEMS IN MY LIFE ... to each their own |
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This thread saddens me. Wish I could explain the why...probably if I could explain it...the feelings part, it would be good for me. I'd be able to "intellectualize" the feeling and seize feeling it. To simplify being fat as a choice seems cruel to those of us (to me) who have been working to accept our size and not feel inferior to others because society tells us we are inferior because we are "choosing" fat and fat is ugly...it is unhealthy...it is destructive...we are suicidal...we have lousy will power...we are lazy...we are ... a bane to all others. How lovely to carry that around all our lives. I come to Dimensions sometimes because there are people here who seem to love fat, not to judge fat people as others judge fat people, and to feel more "normal" after a day of feeling quite abnormal. I did not choose fat. I am fat. Was fat, am fat, will always be fat. I've lost weight before. I gained it back. Lost it again. Gained it back again. How did I lose it in the first place? By choosing to do what is un-natural to my body: eating less than 900 calories a day. I am not lazy. I am not inactive. I am not stupid. I gained the weight back. In the end, I gain the weight back. Is that a choice? Guess it appears to be to most people. To me, it isn't a choice. It is the way I am supposed to be. I am sad, because I am frustrated and angry, that the issue of fat is simplified down to being a "choice." More and more, scientists are discovering there is little about us that is truly a "choice."
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I'm with Theresa....this thread makes me sad, as well. Why does it matter if it's "choice" or not? The idea of acceptance doesn't have a lot to do with the "why" all the time, does it?
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I hate fat-haters!
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Discussions about the reasons why people are fat can be interesting from an academic viewpoint, but I don't like them because they provide fodder for the enemies of fat people. It makes it easier for these people to rationalize their own fat hatred and discrimination, and easier for them to convince weak-minded people that fat people are inferior. If the reason is genetic, then fat people shouldn't be allowed to breed. If the reason is lifestyle, then fat people must be "re-educated" to change their evil ways. I don't like either of those. Here's another way I think about it: If fat is a choice, then it's like religion, right? Do we want a society that allows religious discrimination? If fat is not a choice, then it must be like a person's race. Do we prefer racial discrimination?
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... yeah, I'm not what you expect .... ![]() ----------------------------------------------------- "I aim to misbehave - who's with me?" - from "Firefly"/"Serenity" - Cpt. Malcolm Reynolds Last edited by joswitch : 11-21-2009 at 11:43 AM. |
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Epigenetics, or the science of how genes are expressed is young yet. But, already we know that period where it is determined how most genes are expressed, happens between conception and birth. You must have been a very precocious fetus, to make those kinds of choices in the womb. |
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I wonder..if he did have kids..did any of them get as huge? Anywho wasnt he a very rich man? and therefore had the luxury of being huge? |
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LOL...yes I was. (firm believer of mind over matter...just depends on what is on the mind..)You know while I was pregnant with my son..I used to meditate on the traits I wanted him to have. His father has fantastic legs/cardio ability and I sooo wanted him to have his instead of mine..i cant run to save my life..lol..and it doesnt matter what weight I'm at. |
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I make no excuses for being fat, even if it is genetics i know i can be thinner if i worked harder at the gym and ate better, sure i would never be a size 8 but could probably get down to a 14/16 if i worked at it..... So for me i guess it is kinda a choice in away, as I'm not working harder.
There is always talk with in the Government about free WLS, but i don't think that i would take the offer, as the article says most people put the weight back on.. http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/nat...-1225719998899 (I know that there are rules about postings in relation to weight loss, but from my understanding of the rules the above does not break the any... if it does please feel free to remove it) |
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Some of the arguments put forward in this tread are overly simplistic. The one thing obesity researchers agree upon is that obesity has multiple causes. In this respect obesity is like intelligence.
Most people, I assume, would like to be intelligent and educated. However, not everyone has what it takes to be a physics professor at Princeton. We can act as individuals and as a society to ensure that people maximize their potential (i.e. from prenatal nutrition to reading to our kids to supporting higher education). But in the end some people will be more accomplished than others -- that's just a fact of life. Some kids will unfortunately inherit genes that limit their intellectual potential, some will be exposed to in utero toxins that likewise limit their potential, some will grow up in neighborhoods with crappy schools ... (the list could go on forever). Do we say its a choice to be less than brilliant -- of course not -- we as a society recognize that not everyone can be an Einstein. This is so even though there are lots of personal choices involved in (i.e. to study hard or not, to go to college or not ...). We only get mad when a person is obviously squandering talent. Like intelligence, fatness has multiple causations (from genetics, to unavailability of good food, to the lack recreational opportunities ... again the list goes on). So it doesn't really make sense to say being fat is a choice. You may have chosen to eat that extra piece of pie last night (but so did a lot of thin people) but you didn't choose your parents, you didn't choose the food you ate as a child, you probably didn't choose to live in a city where walking is either unsafe or totally impractical .... As a society we accept that people vary in their intellectual ability (and physical ability for that matter) -- why is it so hard to just accept that people will vary in size. |
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I claimed Tina!
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wow, such an easy answer, how did i not know this in being 50 years old, that all i need to do is to deny my genetics and my fat ass wouldnt be fat, thank you, now i know.
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No, Robert Earl Hughes wasn't rich - he was only one step away from being a hill billy! There is at least one video on Youtube made from a short movie clip of him and his parents, and their house would tell you they weren't rich. He made a living for a time as a side-show attraction, judging by the photographs. I've never seen any mention anywhere of him marrying or having kids - and his own spectacular growth was supposed to be the result of a childhood infection that somehow changed or damaged his hormonal system.
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we are all so hard on ourselves. we spend so much time listening to the negative little voices in our head that we forget what a miracle we are and how much we mean to other people without ever changing anything about ourselves. we are always comparing ourselves to some "ideal " thing thats out there somewhere and internalizing the belief that we don't measure up. you are the standard already. you are the ideal. all of us have to learn to love and appreciate the stuff we think is bad inside of us along with that we think is good. its part of us. its part of our journey. we might just not understand why yet. we need to let go of our own guilt and shame over just being who we are. then no matter how you got where you are, you are in a good place. as for normal. you are already normal. its just that other people can hide thier differences better. people like putting on to you what they really see and believe about themselves. its not really you they are thinking of when they act disgusted. they are thinking of thier own issues that they feel out of control of that fat eople seem to embody physically for them. people did the same thing regarding black people. it reminds me of what Joseph Conrad was trying to get across in Heart of Darkness. don't take everyone's negative feelings about themselves into you. don't do that to yourself. you don't deserve it. you are exactly right though when you say that you are who you are supposed to be. that was really truth and beauty all together right there. Last edited by superodalisque : 11-23-2009 at 11:53 AM. |
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Thank you! Your words make a lot of sense to me and I appreciate the time it took to make the response.
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Predominantly, obesity greater than slight or moderate obesity is caused exclusively by genetics or epigenetics (with one key exception being psychological disorders such as compulsive eating, though that is usually not responsible for extreme weight gain even then unless paired with genetic tendency). This is not to say it is simple. In breeding rats, scientists have determined that obesity inheritance is a complex mixture of 15-20 genes, comprised of recessive, dominant, double dominant, and double recessive(that gets into epigenetics). So, for a person to be extremely overweight (say, 75+ lbs or more, there must be a mixture of the appropriate genetic and epigenetic traits. Furthermore, epigenetics is the study of how these genes are expressed. The best illustration of epigenetics is visible in locusts. Usually, locusts are harmless little green grasshoppers, but when pummeled repeatedly, (as happens during overpopulation), they turn in to big brown devouring migrating monsters (same genes! different expression!). Scientists now know that much of this happens in the womb. Recently, Agouti mice, genetically bred to be obese, orange, and diabetic, when fed a high antioxidant diet during pregnancy produced normal offspring, Despite their genetic baggage. So, what in the last fifty years has caused this horrible epidemic? Well, we understand that oxidants (carcinogens), and antioxidants have an effect. other chemicals may have an effect as well, for example, endocrine disruptors. And, our environment in the last 50 years has changed dramatically, ambient pollution is much much higher. Smoking while pregnant started in the 50's for women as a way to control weight, and smoking is a key carcinogen. Also, artificial sweeteners which are known to be carcinogenic happened primarily in the last 50 years. Flouridated water, and also medications in water supplies has continued to increase. In other words, we are bombarded daily and primarily in the womb, by the very chemicals that force undesirable genes to be expressed. Do we have control? Sure, we have some. THis is each person's locus of control. Some may have more than others, though, this locus of control is also somewhat genetically regulated. In my experience, each person's locus of control is about 10% of the obesity equation. So, can you lose weight? Sure, but not as easily as another person with a different genetic and epigenetic package. Hope this clears up stuff. see next post. |
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Now, let's look at the problem of obesity:
First off, let me say that I have read this study (and am trained in social research) and it is a flawed study, in that it fails to take into account some of the following research: Appetite shutoff is controlled genetically, in a pretty strong way. We know this, because disorders such as Prader-Willi syndrome exist. In cases of these disorders, sufferers never feel full, even if their stomachs are full to the point of bursting. Clearly, this is not at all environmental, and, it is not eating like pigs, and it is not the fault of poor parenting. All in all, appetite, though, has only a small part in the obesity complex. How do some people stay thin all their lives, eating the worst junk, while others eat decent, and end up obese? It's not all self control. Scientists know now that obesity is a complex genetic issue, including genetic traits, and environmental triggers. From Discover Magazine (http://discovermagazine.com/2007/may...ouse):Recently Churchill and his Jackson Laboratory colleagues decided to go after some big genetic game, the gene network that controls body weight. "With 300 million people now suffering from obesity worldwide, fat has become a global epidemic.. . .The map they came up with looks like a flowchart from hell. Churchill’s group identified a dozen sites in the mouse genome where genes are influencing the body weight of mice. But the genes have different effects. Some make mice large-bodied, and being big makes mice more likely to get fat. But they also found genes that had separate effects on both body size and fat levels. In some cases, the same gene could make a mouse both big and lean. Other genes influenced only how fat the mice were, with no effect on their body size. Still other genes determined the size of different fat pads. One region of mouse DNA appears to make mice fat overall while actually making the fat pads on their haunches smaller." Further research is presented in the book "Rethinking Thin", By Gina Kolata(http://www.amazon.com/Rethinking-Thi...5804371&sr=8-1) Incidentally, a summary of this article shown on your show was written by Gina Kolata, so I am quite sure it was misrepresented and misinterpretted. This book presented peer reviewed research linking obesity to exposure to cigarette smoking during gestation, and also presented large government funded research interventions which show massive expensive efforts at dietary change in communities has no effect whatsoever on obesity within a community. Now, back to smoking while pregnant; this gets into epigenomics, a relatively new area of genetics. This link between obesity ad smoking while pregnant has to do with the methylation cycle. Have a look at this article:http://discovermagazine.com/2006/nov...rm=epigenomics So, what your mother does while she is pregnant, makes a huge difference. So, it may be that we are getting fatter, but perhaps the cause of this has more to do with smoking, aspartame, and plenty of other environmental triggers that interrupt the methylation cycle. However, the diet industry has gotten their fingers into things too. In 1998, after intense lobbying by the diet industry, the BMI was changed so everyone was obese(http://edition.cnn.com/HEALTH/9806/0...ure/index.html) therefore providing them with lots more people to sell ineffective diet products to. However, are we really getting more obese? And, does obesity mean poor health. Well, the CDC published scientific reports and then had to do plenty of retracting. (http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn...2004Nov23.html) Good research is hard to find in the obesity world. SO, let's talk about what I think is really going on with this whole obesity and social groups research thing. it is simply this. Due to organizations like Meme Roth, and other people like her, which you all feel like putting on TV, overweight or obese people are socially maligned. In many cases they are like Lepers. SO, who are they going to hang out with? well, with other lepers, or other fat people. If you ask any person who has grown up fat, this is completely obvious. And while genetic tendencies can run in families, obesity may be slightly hereditary, it is NOT contagious. This is bad science, and your presentation does considerable harm to many people all over the country. I hope you can present a more tolerant view on your show in the future, instead of doing your part to ruin people's lives. Response to the idea that sugar causes diabetes: This is absolute HOOEY!!!! You ought to not pay attention to the diet hype. Ok, let's go through this: Carbs are a basic formula consisting basically of Carbon, Hydrogen and Hydroxyl elements. Sucrose (table sugar) is a Carbohydrate. Sucrose is a composite of Glucose and Fructose.(http://www.biology-online.org/9/1_ch...omposition.htm) Glucose has a chemical composition is C6H12O6, with a chemical weight of 180. Fructose is a simpler, easier to digest sugar. The ratio between Glucose to Fructose for table sugar (Sucrose) is about 50/50. Now High Fructose Corn Syrup is also Glucose, and Fructose. Same thing! The ratio for HFCS is about 45% glucose to 55% Fructose. Now, really, we are talking about a miniscule difference. http://fscn.cfans.umn.edu/pf/outreac...orn_syrup.html Neither Fructose or Glucose is bad for you. In fact, both are necessary for survival, for the most part. However, it is true, that fructose enters the body faster, sometimes spiking insulin and causing problems for diabetics. Fructose is present in most fruits and fruit juices in much higher percentages than in HFCS, by the way, and we consider that healthy. Carbohydrates are carbohydrates, not fat. Now, let's get rid of more hype: The obesity epidemic, is a product of much lobbying on the part of the diet iindustry. So much so, that millions of people be came obese or overweight overnight! Just have a look at this article: http://edition.cnn.com/HEALTH/9806/0...ure/index.html Now, that happened in 1998. That's about when this whole obesity scare really kicked into high gear. Its not as bad as they make it out to be, but the diet industry needed more customers. They got greedier, and more sneaky which resulted in the CDC issuing statement about there being some 300,000 deaths from obesity. Well, later on, when real scientists started checking data, the CDC had to eat its words: http://www.consumerfreedom.com/news_.../headline/2744 Again, it is not as bad as they make it out to be. But let's not kid ourselves, we are somewhat fatter than generations ago. Where does this come from? Doctors are working on the answer. Appetite is part of the issue. And, we know that appetite has a large genetic element. The existence of Prader-Willi Syndrome, and inherited genetic component represents a simplification of this. Scientists have learned more about taste in recent times, which has an influence on appetite. Do you find broccoli bitter? you probably carry a genetic trait that allows you to taste a very bitter chemical in broccoli. This particular genetic trait is not the only one. Appetite is not the only obesity gene controlled by genetics. In fact, scientists have their eye on a pretty good estimate of how many there are, though, they don't yet know what they are. Have a look at this article: http://discovermagazine.com/2007/may/mendel2019s-mouse But if this is true, then, wouldn't people have been fat all along? Well, maybe. But, maybe these genetic traits have an environmental trigger. That is where the methylation cycle, and epigenomics comes in. This new field REALLY fills in the holes, as to how obesity happens. Take a look: http://discovermagazine.com/2006/nov...rm=methylation So, from this article, did your mother smoke while she was pregnant with you? Smoking, and other factors interrupt the methylation cycle and the epigenomics pattern, and this can lead to obesity and and diabetes. Well, Ms. Gina Kolata has done some research into all of this. Research shows that what happens in the womb has ALOT more power than what you can do right now. Millions of dollars of government money has been spent on intervention programs, changing the diets of whole towns. The result? Well, nothing. Meaning, nothing changed. No matter how they ate, kids and adults were just as fat or thin as ever. If you'd like to know more about that, you can buy and read her book: http://www.amazon.com/Rethinking-Thi...697819-4221567 Anyway, I hope this public service announcement has been informative, and leads you all to a better understanding of obesity, etc. etc. |
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