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Old 07-26-2016, 05:08 PM   #1
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Have any of y'all told anybody irl that you want to gain? Friends, family, lovers? How did you explain it and how did they react? Have you ever been open with a health care provider about wanting to gain or at least being happy being heavy and not wanting to lose?
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No...I never have to all questions!

After unintentionally gaining and then Intentionally gaining to see how Fat I could get ....I gained 40+ Lbs. in a fairly quick time frame probably 3 + Months. I had the urge to show off my new huge gut by wearing tighter T shirts and clothing (which at this stage all my clothes were tight and I looked 9 months pregnant) to people such as Grocery store employees, restaurant waitresses, few of my wive's friends and even my wife. I devilish wanted to hear them say Wow....you have gotten so Fat....but their reactions' were more just eye balls and some extra long hugs from some of my wive's friends (I actually think a few of her friends were to a special liking to my new big Fat gut).
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I did inform my nurse practitioner something of the sort. I forget just what I said (it was some years ago), but it was to the effect of "I really don't have the warm-fuzzy feelings about thinness that most people have -- being thinner might have practical benefits but it will never be a moral 'thin is better' feeling for me. I'm willing to talk about my weight and associated health issues, on a practical level -- but I'd like to minimize 'you should lose weight' discussions."

She took that fairly well, and has generally cooperated with me on that. it probably helps that I have an overall reasonably healthy lifestyle and am aware of my health risks.
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I opened up to my room mate about my gaining. She was concerned at first, but as she saw how much happier I was, she accepted it.
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I opened up to my room mate about my gaining. She was concerned at first, but as she saw how much happier I was, she accepted it.
I am intrigued by your post.

Approximately how much did you tell your room-mate you intended to gain? Were you heavier or slimmer than her before beginning gaining (taking relative heights into account)? Would you be slimmer, somewhat heavier, or a lot heavier than her upon achieving your stated goal? Do you think she would be implicitly pressured, or effectively permitted, to herself emulate your personal changes?
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Told the wife I want to be fat with her this year. She's always squeezing my fat now.

Everyone I know knows I like fat ladies. Because I always have. No one but my fat wife knows that my growing fatness is turning me on. I love all the fat. And she's helping me. I'm her blubber boy now. And, she's fatter every time I touch her too.

We have a new fat secret. Two of them- We both love our fat and we eat to fatten more.

This secret is poorly kept though as any observer can watch and see that we are increasingly obese together. Our loving gluttony is quite public whether we wish it or not. We love our fat and food enough not to care!

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Told the wife I want to be fat with her this year. She's always squeezing my fat now.

Everyone I know knows I like fat ladies. Because I always have. No one but my fat wife knows that my growing fatness is turning me on. I love all the fat. And she's helping me. I'm her blubber boy now. And, she's fatter every time I touch her too.

We have a new fat secret. Two of them- We both love our fat and we eat to fatten more.

This secret is poorly kept though as any observer can watch and see that we are increasingly obese together. Our loving gluttony is quite public whether we wish it or not. We love our fat and food enough not to care!

Sounds awesome -- enjoy like crazy!
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Told the wife I want to be fat with her this year. She's always squeezing my fat now.

Everyone I know knows I like fat ladies. Because I always have. No one but my fat wife knows that my growing fatness is turning me on. I love all the fat. And she's helping me. I'm her blubber boy now. And, she's fatter every time I touch her too.

We have a new fat secret. Two of them- We both love our fat and we eat to fatten more.

This secret is poorly kept though as any observer can watch and see that we are increasingly obese together. Our loving gluttony is quite public whether we wish it or not. We love our fat and food enough not to care!

Welcome to the club! It's always great when someone new grows into the community
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Welcome to the club! It's always great when someone new grows into the community
Thanks. Been here since '96 but I was never fat until this year. I love seeing the fat effects on myself. Having grown suddenly fat is very pleasant. Very.

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I opened up to my room mate about my gaining. She was concerned at first, but as she saw how much happier I was, she accepted it.
I am rather curious as to how that went. When I came out as a lesbian it was almost anti-climactic, most of my family and friends k
new or suspected for years.

It is obvious that I love to eat and that I have gained weight. Most of my friends and family have reacted with concert or in some case criticism. While I did not necessarily gain on purpose, I know I was putting on weight and quite frankly enjoying it.
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I am rather curious as to how that went. When I came out as a lesbian it was almost anti-climactic, most of my family and friends k
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It is obvious that I love to eat and that I have gained weight. Most of my friends and family have reacted with concert or in some case criticism. While I did not necessarily gain on purpose, I know I was putting on weight and quite frankly enjoying it.
Oh she didn't like it at all and still doesn't agree with it, but doesn't hound me about it like in the beginning. It took the longest with my mother probably because she didn't know it was intentional and I didn't tell her. So she thought something was wrong and I should see a doctor
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Oh she didn't like it at all and still doesn't agree with it, but doesn't hound me about it like in the beginning. It took the longest with my mother probably because she didn't know it was intentional and I didn't tell her. So she thought something was wrong and I should see a doctor
I feel like I will eventually have to come up with some kind of explanation, at least for my mother when the time comes. I mean, she has made little comments and this and that, and gave me a lecture when we were on a cruise after my graduation last summer.
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I feel like I will eventually have to come up with some kind of explanation, at least for my mother when the time comes. I mean, she has made little comments and this and that, and gave me a lecture when we were on a cruise after my graduation last summer.
Just some thoughts, because I'm falling asleep at work right now and need to do something to wake myself back up again.

Parents seem to get wrapped up about their grown kids getting fat for a few key reasons, that to exaggerate I'd describe as:

- You'll never get married! (or at least settle down with someone and give me grand kids)
- I don't want you to die before me!
- This must be a sign of something else being wrong (because nobody wants to be fat)
- What will people think of my parenting?!?

On that first one, unless your Mom has been doing heavy research on the lesbian community you might be able to kind of fend her off? And depending on what your plans and hopes are there might be a whole other conversation there?

On the second one you can promise to watch your health, to see a doctor regularly, and to take advantage of NYC being such a great city for walking. (which are all great things to do, anyway).

On the third one sometimes assurances that you are happy and know what you are doing will work? Although some may never believe it?

Seldom will parents admit to the last one, so it can be harder to address, and you would know better than anyone else how much that may or may not be bugging her. But if she's already at peace with you being gay then hopefully this one won't be a huge issue?

I guess what I'm getting at, is that no matter what she says, try to hear what the real concern underneath it is and respond to that, not to the bait of what she actually says.

Hmmm, or better yet, find a copy of The Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense by Suzette Haden-Elgin. I think it applies to dealing with well meaning family at least as much as it does with less well intentioned people. You can find a summary of the system on the web, here, but the full book makes more sense out of that summary.
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Just some thoughts, because I'm falling asleep at work right now and need to do something to wake myself back up again.

Parents seem to get wrapped up about their grown kids getting fat for a few key reasons, that to exaggerate I'd describe as:

- You'll never get married! (or at least settle down with someone and give me grand kids)
- I don't want you to die before me!
- This must be a sign of something else being wrong (because nobody wants to be fat)
- What will people think of my parenting?!?

On that first one, unless your Mom has been doing heavy research on the lesbian community you might be able to kind of fend her off? And depending on what your plans and hopes are there might be a whole other conversation there?

On the second one you can promise to watch your health, to see a doctor regularly, and to take advantage of NYC being such a great city for walking. (which are all great things to do, anyway).

On the third one sometimes assurances that you are happy and know what you are doing will work? Although some may never believe it?

Seldom will parents admit to the last one, so it can be harder to address, and you would know better than anyone else how much that may or may not be bugging her. But if she's already at peace with you being gay then hopefully this one won't be a huge issue?

I guess what I'm getting at, is that no matter what she says, try to hear what the real concern underneath it is and respond to that, not to the bait of what she actually says.

Hmmm, or better yet, find a copy of The Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense by Suzette Haden-Elgin. I think it applies to dealing with well meaning family at least as much as it does with less well intentioned people. You can find a summary of the system on the web, here, but the full book makes more sense out of that summary.
That is so nice of you to take the time! Wow!

I don't think it will be a major issue, just the kind of thing I will eventually have to be prepared for. I feel like mom will be a tough s
ell on this because she has always been heavy and has really tried everything under the sun not to be. We'll cross that bridge when we get to it I suppose.

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Well put Tad. And remember Amanda, it's your life and you have the right to do what makes you happy whatever that may be.
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