How fat do you like 'em?

[sophie lou]

I'm not good with weights but my actual scale ranges from Plump carrying a little bit extra to cause a nice soft wobble right up to belly hanging softness. Im sure the heaviest girl woman woman i had a real crush for was around 400 lbs

[jigenbakuda]

I guess I have a preference for medium pear shaped bbws... but I like all women, I can see beauty in a thin girl and a ssbbw, its all good, because women in general are attractive.

[mzfluff]

i dnt like em fat i wanna be on the fat

[ssbbw4m4]

hard question to answer as it's a complete package I look for. I have dated a couple women 400+ that looked great but, we did not click other wise.

When I was in my 20's, 3 decades ago, I was in a very long term relationship with a BBW. when we met, she was a bit older than me (about 10 years) and was about 175 lbs. When we broke up a few years later, she was well over 300 but, we broke up for other reasons.

I just like a woman that is comfortable with her size. Going to the beach and not wearing shorts and a t-shirt but, wearing a swim suit. Going to a restaurant and ordering a salad a diet drink (only to make the waiter/waitress think she was trying to lose weight) but, at home, rarely eating salad and never a diet drink. I met a women once that would order 2 meals, one with a diet drink and one with a regular drink for carry out but, throw out the diet drink. She wanted 2 meals but did not want the counter person to think both were for her. I know that it's hard for many people because they have been bullied or teased when they were younger so they try to hide things from people. I do accept that. But, I much rather seeing someone that is comfortable with their size and has an f-you attitude with people that don't accept her as she is.

[bakez]

honestly it depends, i like them as big as anyone really, but obviously i'm not as shallow to purely say the bigger the better (though that is my preference)

depends on shape too. i've seen big girls that didn't really carry the weight so well, even though they probably weighed a tonne. nice big and round for me.

[Stuffingkit]

Any shape, Any size <3

[fatnick03]

Right now I'm about 525 and falling, but i've been with women anywhere from 120lbs to 400, and it's always been a good time.

[m2hammer]

As fat as humanly possible... When I first heard Susan Eman was trying to reach the 2,000lb mark I said that's my kinda woman But now that she's gone on Dr. Oz and talking about losing the weight I have no more interest.

[fatluver78]

I would say 350 to 450 but not picky..

[J34]

I'm not really picky on size. I think nothing is more awesome than a woman comfortable in her skin whether big or small. Nothing puts me off more than a woman who is always finding a fault about herself constantly. Still though more than anything it is personality, that is what really gets me.

[Lollipops]

It depends. I definitely like bigger men, and I love to feel tiny compared to someone very big, but I don't really have a weight range. I've crushed on men of all sizes, but, ideally, i'd love to have someone bigger than me. So... up from 200lbs, I guess? Being tall does't hurt either.

[MasterMike]

I usually go for women within the 180-475 lb. range; but it usually depends on the woman herself; we all wear weight differently. There are other factors that figure into what attracts me to a woman of any size, her confidence, how she carries herself, her dress sense, her hygiene, whether I find her funny or interesting. But again, it depends on the woman herself.

[bbwsrule]

Never been with someone really huge. I'd say I'm likely to find the most suitable candidates in the 200-250 range (assuming a 5' 4" height) but could be much larger if I like the whole package. Truth be told I'd rather be with someone with a sweet personalty and good chemistry than with anyone based mostly on size but not a lot else.

[*Goofy*Girl*]

Originally Posted by Steve373

and I don't do anal.

LOL, thank you for sharing that with us.



The only main preference I have is that he isn't a skeleton. Seriously, at 5'10" & 552 lbs., I'd crush him. I guess I prefer normal weight to a little overweight, it depends on height.

However, In the past I have dated a couple of very obese men and I have to say it's very difficult to make out with someone who has a huge belly and/or is obese when you are obese as well.

As far as height is concerned, I have no preference. I've dated men from 5'4" to 6'2" - it doesn't matter to me. The two shorter guys did seem to have a complex about their height, though. One didn't like it when I wore heels.

Anyway, I haven't really gone after guys much. I'm way too fearful of rejection to ask any of them out or initiate anything, so I just let them come to me. And oddly enough, the really fit and body-builder types are the ones I seem to attract the most. Weird.

[tjw1971]

To me, there are really two different things going on. If we're talking what I find most physically attractive? Then it's much more about shape than size. I'm not into skinny women who are just too thin to have any curves on their figure, but beyond that? Weight isn't all that relevant compared to how a woman's body is shaped. And of course, facial features (which really are one of the most important aspects of "beauty" - even if guys tend to just make a snap judgment on it and then fixate more on everything else).

But the second part to all of this, for me, is the fact that all else being equal, a woman being heavier is a turn-on in and of itself. I enjoy seeing how everything around a really big woman reacts to her weight. (EG. An ex-g/f of mine used to like to sit on the back bumper of her car or other people's cars, and she was big enough to make most of them squat down noticeably. I always got a kick out of watching that. Even better if I sat on one first and it barely budged, and then she came along and sat next to me and down we went.) I once knew another really big gal who played as a linebacker on a local, all women's football team. One time she was in heels and walked up the steps to an old wooden deck on the back of a house, at a house party, and one of her heels pierced through one of the wood boards and got stuck in it.Obviously, it was a rotten board -- but it was still pretty impressive. Best part is, she was proud of her size so she wasn't embarrassed about it or anything. (I think she may have been as impressed as I was that she could do that!) She's the same one who'd watch pro football games on TV and make comments like, "Pfft.... I'm bigger than him!" about the guys when they'd announce their height and weight, though. Loved it ....

Originally Posted by ssbbw4m4

hard question to answer as it's a complete package I look for. I have dated a couple women 400+ that looked great but, we did not click other wise.

When I was in my 20's, 3 decades ago, I was in a very long term relationship with a BBW. when we met, she was a bit older than me (about 10 years) and was about 175 lbs. When we broke up a few years later, she was well over 300 but, we broke up for other reasons.

I just like a woman that is comfortable with her size. Going to the beach and not wearing shorts and a t-shirt but, wearing a swim suit. Going to a restaurant and ordering a salad a diet drink (only to make the waiter/waitress think she was trying to lose weight) but, at home, rarely eating salad and never a diet drink. I met a women once that would order 2 meals, one with a diet drink and one with a regular drink for carry out but, throw out the diet drink. She wanted 2 meals but did not want the counter person to think both were for her. I know that it's hard for many people because they have been bullied or teased when they were younger so they try to hide things from people. I do accept that. But, I much rather seeing someone that is comfortable with their size and has an f-you attitude with people that don't accept her as she is.

[s13]

In an ideal world 500-600 lbs, I like the very largest ladies that are still quite mobile