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Old 02-05-2018, 08:35 AM   #26
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She does a lot of running and plays volleyball three times a week. I suppose exercise isn't a bad thing but she does it because she wants to stay thin not because she wants to be healthy. I suppose the excessive exercise is better than her starving herself but she is definitely underweight.
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Old 02-05-2018, 08:52 AM   #27
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Earlier in the thread you said she’s 5’6 and 150 pounds. That’s not under weight. And for an active female it doesn’t sound unhealthy either. If she’s eating “whatever she wants” that’s not optimal but it’s also not uncommon. There are a lot of people who are in good shape who don’t have the most healthy eating habits. Some can pull it off and for others it only keeps them from taking their fitness to the next level but isn’t necessarily unhealthy.

There is a lot more to health than ht/wt too. But running and volleyball doesn’t sound like excessive exercise in the least bit. And her goal isn’t necessarily wrong either. A lot of people cite asthetics as their reason for their exercising and they’re not necessarily wrong for doing so. Everyone’s motivation is different.

I’m sorry she hasn’t responded well to your confession. It may be wise to look inside and see what you may need to change about yourself in order to keep things working in your marriage. I’m coming up on 12 with my wife and I’ve had to do that a few times along the way and likely will have to do so again in the future. It’s a marriage: you’re not going to get everything you want, especially if an emerging desire involves her changing something she likes about herself.
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Old 02-05-2018, 09:15 AM   #28
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I guess you might be right about her weight. She just seems so skinny but her weight is actually considered healthy, which I didn't realize before. I also suppose that her exercise isn't that excessive but I don't challenge her on the exercise only the laxatives. Is taking laxatives to lose weight bad for you? I'm no doctor but it doesn't seem right.

Maybe I should stop trying to get her to give up the laxatives and just accept it, which I have no problem with if she is healthy. I certainly don't want to change my wife I just want her to be happy and healthy and share my fantasy with her. I don't see it as a big deal, everyone has fantasies and I don't think that they are bad as long as they stay fantasies only. I just worry that she will be upset and won't want to be with me if I told her about it. I feel like I'm flirting with the woman from work and looking at BBW porn too much. Is it worse to masterbate while looking at BBW porn or fantasizing about my coworker?
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Iím not familiar enough with laxatives to be able to say yes or know to that. How often does she take them? Have you researched the actual brand she is taking? If sheís using as directed it may not be the problem you think it is, though there may still be other ways for her to achieve the desired effects.

As for your porn/co-worker question thatís a values judgment you have to decide for yourself. I donít think itís uncommon for men to fantasize about women other than their wives. Your first question is are you okay with those thoughts? And if so, does it matter if sheís just a person on your computer screen or someone you know in real life. Of course the real life side comes with the potential for it elvolving into something bigger, so thatís something to consider.
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google "laxative abuse"
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