Secret Turn-ons - Page 5

That1BigGirl · 03-22-2009, 10:02 AM

I just thought of one that really can drive me crazy---

Men in belts.

NancyGirl74 · 03-22-2009, 10:09 AM

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I love heels... I was just nuts enough to wear them into my 8th month of pregnancy... (low ones).. that's when my feet started to swell etc etc.

I love heels, too. In fact, I have several very nice pairs that I wish I was able to wear without wanting to cut my feet off after only 20 minutes of walking around in them. I can last longer in a wedge and they are often very cute....but nothing says sexy in my opinion like a thin, spiky heel which is exactly what I can't wear for too long. Oh well. lol

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That is also why I like the (now out?) style of the leather boots that go over the calf.

Like.It.Lots.

I wish I could find boots that would fit my ginormous calves! I covet leather boots like that, especially ones with a nice thin, spiky heel. I lurve that look but even if I could find boots that to fit my calves I wouldn't be able to walk in them. CURSE THE FAT CALF GODS!!!

Cors · 03-22-2009, 10:22 AM

Keep those heels in the bedroom!

I like people who aren't put off by scarily high heels and well-groomed feet. Then again, I am a bit of a fetishist...

That1BigGirl · 03-22-2009, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by NancyGirl74

I love heels, too. In fact, I have several very nice pairs that I wish I was able to wear without wanting to cut my feet off after only 20 minutes of walking around in them. I can last longer in a wedge and they are often very cute....but nothing says sexy in my opinion like a thin, spiky heel which is exactly what I can't wear for too long. Oh well. lol

I wish I could find boots that would fit my ginormous calves! I covet leather boots like that, especially ones with a nice thin, spiky heel. I lurve that look but even if I could find boots that to fit my calves I wouldn't be able to walk in them. CURSE THE FAT CALF GODS!!!

Zappos.com I just found a bunch... like these: http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/52661059/c/6.html But then... those are more bedroom boots to me.

Really though, they seem to have a pretty good variety...

NancyGirl74 · 03-22-2009, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by That1BigGirl

Zappos.com I just found a bunch... like these: http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/52661059/c/6.html But then... those are more bedroom boots to me.

Really though, they seem to have a pretty good variety...

OMG I love them, That1! But I doubt they would fit

. I have found a few ankle high boots that work for me. I love these:
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Ok, back to the topic at hand....I love a man who is good with kids. Nothing hotter than a guy holding a baby or carrying a toddler on his shoulders or playing tee ball in the park. Yeah, I'm a sucker for a guy who can hold his own with kids.

Spanky · 03-22-2009, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by NancyGirl74

OMG I love them, That1! But I doubt they would fit

. I have found a few ankle high boots that work for me. I love these:
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Ok, back to the topic at hand....I love a man who is good with kids. Nothing hotter than a guy holding a baby or carrying a toddler on his shoulders or playing tee ball in the park. Yeah, I'm a sucker for a guy who can hold his own with kids.

OK, no posting boots and I promise not to post pics of guys running around the park with kids.

NancyGirl74 · 03-22-2009, 12:14 PM

LOL...but they're not calf boots. They're ankle boots so they don't count.

Spanky · 03-22-2009, 12:29 PM

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LOL...but they're not calf boots. They're ankle boots so they don't count.

The picture is cut off, so my imagination took over. Whew. <fans self>

Boy that sounded really girly on my part.*

<runs outside to split wood in a manly way>

*not that girly is bad, unless you're me, a guy, really....I am.

Green Eyed Fairy · 03-22-2009, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by NancyGirl74

I wish I could find boots that would fit my ginormous calves! I covet leather boots like that, especially ones with a nice thin, spiky heel. I lurve that look but even if I could find boots that to fit my calves I wouldn't be able to walk in them. CURSE THE FAT CALF GODS!!!

That was my first thought....finding ones to fit the calf. I recently ordered some from Roamans...assuming they came with bigger calves. Nopers....had to send them back and pay the shipping. I won't be ordering shoes from them again.....
I have some high heeled boots, too, that just go over the ankle. Works best for me, as well. I don't even carry most of my weight in my legs so it kind of annoys me....though I am fat in the lower half....just thought a plus size catalog would KNOW to have them run bigger....

@That1fatgirl- I worked in a garage when I found out I was pregnant with my twins. I still tromped around in platform sandals everyday- they were unbelievably comfortable. However, one of my bosses aka best friend got really freaked out when my belly started pooching out (very early on I might add) and I kept going up and down the stairs to the lower garage in those platforms. I had to give them up

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The picture is cut off, so my imagination took over. Whew. <fans self>
Boy that sounded really girly on my part.*

<runs outside to split wood in a manly way>

*not that girly is bad, unless you're me, a guy, really....I am.

This made me think of how my friend used to tell all the mechanics she wanted "see nothing but butts and elbows"....as in she wanted to see them all get to work repairing cars. I always secretly wondered if she just liked seeing them bent over doing manly things so she could watch them and they wouldn't know it ......

NancyGirl74 · 03-22-2009, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Green Eyed Fairy

That was my first thought....finding ones to fit the calf. I recently ordered some from Roamans...assuming they came with bigger calves. Nopers....had to send them back and pay the shipping. I won't be ordering shoes from them again.....
I have some high heeled boots, too, that just go over the ankle. Works best for me, as well. I don't even carry most of my weight in my legs so it kind of annoys me....though I am fat in the lower half....just thought a plus size catalog would KNOW to have them run bigger....

I do know it's possible to have them customized but I have no idea how or where. I'm sure they must be extremely expensive.

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This reminds me.....

I need to add lumberjacks to my list.

Spanky · 03-22-2009, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by NancyGirl74

This reminds me.....

I need to add lumberjacks to my list.

I am starting to think you are checking off, one at a time, the Village People...

NancyGirl74 · 03-23-2009, 05:11 AM

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I am starting to think you are checking off, one at a time, the Village People...

Oh all right! Go ahead and check off the contruction worker and the Native American while you're at it. Sheesh! Steal my thunder, why don'tcha!

enxtc · 03-23-2009, 07:01 AM

A man in tight jeans, nice bod, and a wonderful smile, and beautiful eyes. But most of all, it is touching the man who is all of these things!

Spanky · 03-23-2009, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by enxtc

A man in tight jeans, nice bod, and a wonderful smile, and beautiful eyes. But most of all, it is touching the man who is all of these things!

enxtc,

Thanks for the response. And for the others too. As OP I was interested in the little things that trip your trigger. The general descriptions above any male model would know is tripping all kinds of triggers with the opposite sex, hell, maybe the same sex too.

But something like a big belt buckle, flannel shirts, mutton chops, a gap btw the teeth (ala Letterman or that NYG lineman, what's his name??? Oh, Strawman, uh Strahan)

The stuff that some unsuspecting person walking by would have no idea that you are "likey-likey" with it.

/spanky

snuggletiger · 03-23-2009, 09:29 AM

secret turn on.....Genuine affection

tattooU · 03-23-2009, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by NancyGirl74

Ok, back to the topic at hand....I love a man who is good with kids. Nothing hotter than a guy holding a baby or carrying a toddler on his shoulders or playing tee ball in the park. Yeah, I'm a sucker for a guy who can hold his own with kids.

i never thought i'd agree with this, but ya know, i'm getting weirder as i get older. i've never wanted children, don't have children, but i must admit that i've become attracted to a guy mainly because he's such an amazing father. That one caught me off guard!

Greying around the temples, and crow's feet generally melt me.

And purple stains from thermofax paper can really push me over the edge...

marlowegarp · 03-23-2009, 04:48 PM

Eyepatches.

Sandie_Zitkus · 03-23-2009, 04:56 PM

Sweaty men - Oh yeah - Oh GOD YEAH! Sweatier the better. I gotta tell you working all last summer out in the heat watching men sweat - was - amazing! LOL

One more:

Watching a strong muscular man grab the support beam of our booth and lift the roof all by himself? OH - MY - F*CKING --- GOD!!!

AnnMarie · 03-23-2009, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Tooz

Many things to those who don't like kids.

Just hadda say.

Also, talent in general is pretty hot.

Hell yes to all of that.

A man who doesn't want kids and knows it? Good thing.

Cors · 03-23-2009, 05:22 PM

It is strange that many women seem to be perfectly understanding when it comes to men who don't like kids, but stare at me like I eat babies for breakfast when I tell them I hate children. The silly motherly instinct thing I guess.

I wore my thigh-high boots with 4" metal heels out today (pic) and caught plenty of men staring. I guess the whole dominatrix/boots fetish is more common than most think.

AnnMarie · 03-23-2009, 05:45 PM

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I think I really like women who can talk dirty and actually make ME blush. I don't mean bad women. Just dirty "talking" women. Dirty talking. Stuff that trips me up as a guy, keeps me off balance.

People, the answers are just great. I love hearing about the little things that get you going, stuff that the poor person seeing you staring has no idea why.

I have a large vein in my arm and that pretty thing over there is staring at me and I have no idea why.......

.....or something like that.

Keep it up!!

Oh did someone list arm veins??? I LOVEEEEE arm and hand veins.

Hotness.

Violet_Beauregard · 03-23-2009, 07:17 PM

I gotta agree with this. I don't "hate" kids... but I know I don't care to have any of my own. I absolutely LOVE my nephew and he may as well be my own child, but I knew a long time ago I didn't want to have kids. BUT... when I tell people I choose not to have my own kids... they act as of I just flew in from another planet! Or else I get the standard "oh, you'll change your mind." Well, at 45.... I seriously doubt that is going to happen. LOL

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Originally Posted by Cors

It is strange that many women seem to be perfectly understanding when it comes to men who don't like kids, but stare at me like I eat babies for breakfast when I tell them I hate children. The silly motherly instinct thing I guess.

marlowegarp · 03-23-2009, 07:18 PM

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Hell yes to all of that.

A man who doesn't want kids and knows it? Good thing.

Hello? (Clears throat) I'm over here!

AnnMarie · 03-23-2009, 07:30 PM

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Hello? (Clears throat) I'm over here!

And someone just got pushed over the top.

Cute+smart+non-breeder=+1,000

troubadours · 03-23-2009, 11:06 PM

my bf cleaned my hairdryer for me the other day. it made me

03-22-2009, 10:02 AM	#101
That1BigGirl Bella Nom Noms Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: USA Posts: 352	I just thought of one that really can drive me crazy--- Men in belts. __________________ D & D Goodness Today will always be remembered as the day I was asked, "So, do fat women wear pants?" And I was standing in front of them wearing blue jeans. :doh:

03-23-2009, 09:29 AM	#115
snuggletiger Clowns Fear Me Join Date: May 2006 Location: Sunshinny Las Vegas Posts: 4,916	secret turn on.....Genuine affection __________________ Just when you think Mankind is smarter then animals, Mankind does something stupid and you end up cheering for the animals.

03-23-2009, 04:48 PM	#117
marlowegarp I wanna meet that dad Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Valley Village, CA Posts: 996	Eyepatches. __________________ I should really learn about what people are talking about when they give these numbers. i will guess i am a 69 69 007. - Mergirl

03-22-2009, 10:22 AM	#103
Cors Delurking Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Europe Posts: 2,763	Keep those heels in the bedroom! I like people who aren't put off by scarily high heels and well-groomed feet. Then again, I am a bit of a fetishist...

03-22-2009, 12:14 PM	#107
NancyGirl74 Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 2,997	LOL...but they're not calf boots. They're ankle boots so they don't count.

03-23-2009, 07:01 AM	#113
enxtc Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Kansas Posts: 68	A man in tight jeans, nice bod, and a wonderful smile, and beautiful eyes. But most of all, it is touching the man who is all of these things!

03-23-2009, 04:56 PM	#118
Sandie_Zitkus Entrepreneur Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 6,042	Sweaty men - Oh yeah - Oh GOD YEAH! Sweatier the better. I gotta tell you working all last summer out in the heat watching men sweat - was - amazing! LOL One more: Watching a strong muscular man grab the support beam of our booth and lift the roof all by himself? OH - MY - F*CKING --- GOD!!!

03-23-2009, 05:22 PM	#120
Cors Delurking Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Europe Posts: 2,763	It is strange that many women seem to be perfectly understanding when it comes to men who don't like kids, but stare at me like I eat babies for breakfast when I tell them I hate children. The silly motherly instinct thing I guess. I wore my thigh-high boots with 4" metal heels out today (pic) and caught plenty of men staring. I guess the whole dominatrix/boots fetish is more common than most think.

03-23-2009, 11:06 PM	#125
troubadours Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,281	my bf cleaned my hairdryer for me the other day. it made me