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Old 03-15-2007, 01:36 PM   #226
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Old 03-15-2007, 09:40 PM   #227
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So, I don't have time to read all the way through this thread - forgive me if something very similar to this has already been posted.

I am quite the daydreamer.

My current daydream:

Meeting someone I know from Dims in "real life" - someone who has become special to me.

When he picked me up, I'd wear something a little tighter than I usually wear, and I'd quietly revel in the fact that he can't keep his eyes off my belly. When we walked places, he'd hold my hand, for the most part, but occasionally put his arm around my waist, and every now and then let his hand slip down to my ample ass. He would constantly feel the need to touch me in some way. His attraction to me would be obvious.

It wouldn't just be physical, though - the conversation would flow easily between us, and we'd spend the majority of the date laughing. He would make me laugh so much, actually, that my cheeks would hurt. We'd drive to the river, and sit on the bank talking and laughing, maybe sharing a picnic. We'd talk about everything - from literature, to music, to politics - and never run out of steam.

I'd spend most of this time wondering when on earth this adorable man, so obviously my intellectual equal, was going to get around to kissing me. He'd sit on a tall rock, and ask me to come sit on his lap. When I did, we'd look at the river together, and I'd melt away when I felt him gently kissing my neck. I would turn around and look into his eyes, willing him to kiss me, and he finally would.

We'd head somewhere that appealed to both of us - somewhere that isn't a typical first date. A bookstore, maybe? He would have already planned all this out, showing me that he was thinking of me and what I love well before this date actually happened. I'd start to realize that this was a man who really cared, and with whom I was compatible - someone I could really see myself with.

We'd go have dinner at a tiny little intimate fondue restaurant that I adore, and then we'd head out to a deserted field somewhere outside the city, where he would spread out a thick blanket and we'd lie on it and look at the stars. He'd kiss me again, but this time, he wouldn't stop. He'd slowly remove all my clothing as if he were opening the most amazing gift ever. He'd let his eyes roam all over my body, and he'd explore every inch of it with his fingertips, and then his lips.

I'd help him out of his clothes, and he'd lie next to me, look into my eyes for the longest time, and tell me he was falling in love with me. I would know he meant it. Finally, he'd make love to me under the stars. Then, he'd hold me close to him, and tell me that I was a beautiful woman, with an even more beautiful soul, and he was beginning to think he might want to spend the rest of his life with me.
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Old 03-16-2007, 06:23 AM   #228
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great. now i look like a freak for wanting to get it on with prisoners.




Oh, Eric? Lyle? Where are you??
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Old 03-16-2007, 07:48 AM   #229
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great. now i look like a freak for wanting to get it on with prisoners.


I understand. But its cool. Some of us dream big romantic scenes and some of us want to get taken from behind from a huge scary man with a barcode on his shirt and some of us want it both.

Nice story, Ginny, It sounded so nice and intimate it actually made me feel like a perv for reading it cause it was so much more than a sexual fantasy. Good luck to you on that!
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Old 03-16-2007, 07:54 AM   #230
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the reality is that, for me at least, it's easier to imagine the hypersexual, less easy to imagine the romantic (and still sexual, certainly).

What that says about me probably speaks volumes, but it's hard to fantasize in a vacuum, I'll just leave it there.

I also, as you said, feel much more private about the romantic/sexual than just the sexual. So I'm less apt to share.
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the reality is that, for me at least, it's easier to imagine the hypersexual, less easy to imagine the romantic (and still sexual, certainly).

What that says about me probably speaks volumes, but it's hard to fantasize in a vacuum, I'll just leave it there.

I also, as you said, feel much more private about the romantic/sexual than just the sexual. So I'm less apt to share.
hear, hear. learning how to fantasize in romance is beyond me right now. i don't know what it looks like and i don't really know what i want. goals for one day, i suppose. (again with the analysis. i love this thread)
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the reality is that, for me at least, it's easier to imagine the hypersexual, less easy to imagine the romantic (and still sexual, certainly).

What that says about me probably speaks volumes, but it's hard to fantasize in a vacuum, I'll just leave it there.

I also, as you said, feel much more private about the romantic/sexual than just the sexual. So I'm less apt to share.
Strange. I find it easier to say I want a guy to rip off my clothes and take me in the woods than it is to say I want a guy to take me to the park and hold my hand. Well, it might have something to do with the fact that I don't want to be taken to the park. :P

I'm not really a sweeping romance kind of girl. I just like spending time with someone and have no preference for a scene or special excursion. I could be romanced over the phone while taking my clothes out of the drier. The perfect date could be meeting up after work and riding the the subway together to talk about our favorite dead celebrities. I'm a cheap date.
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Old 03-16-2007, 08:31 AM   #233
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Strange. I find it easier to say I want a guy to rip off my clothes and take me in the woods than it is to say I want a guy to take me to the park and hold my hand. Well, it might have something to do with the fact that I don't want to be taken to the park. :P

I'm not really a sweeping romance kind of girl. I just like spending time with someone and have no preference for a scene or special excursion. I could be romanced over the phone while taking my clothes out of the drier. The perfect date could be meeting up after work and riding the the subway together to talk about our favorite dead celebrities. I'm a cheap date.
well, me too. I think we may be saying the same sort of thing, but I guess MY point is that...I feel more shy about those things for a few different reasons.

so maybe we're not saying the same thing. haha.

I don't have elaborate romantic fantasies, and part of that is b/c I find them a little...difficult.
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Interestin how stereotypes don't always hold true. I think most people would be inclined to say "women fantasize about romantic situations, men fantasize about sexual situations."

Yes we have a lot of women here focussed more on the sexual, and I'm at least one guy who fantasizes purely in, well, if not always romantic situations then at the least relationship situations, where actual sex is really not a major feature.

Hah, take that, stereotypes!

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well, me too. I think we may be saying the same sort of thing, but I guess MY point is that...I feel more shy about those things for a few different reasons.

so maybe we're not saying the same thing. haha.

I don't have elaborate romantic fantasies, and part of that is b/c I find them a little...difficult.
For me it's more the product of maintaining a tough exterior. If I start talking about bunnies and unicorns people are going to think I'm soft. I'm not really a romantic gesture kind of person but I do have a romantic side. I'm devastated when I don't get something special on valentines day or my birthday. I naver have though and it's because people assume I don't like that kind of stuff. Something keeps me from showing that side of myself, small though it may be.
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though and it's because people assume I don't like that kind of stuff. Something keeps me from showing that side of myself, small though it may be.
ah. so we ARE talking about the same thing.

and personally, i've mostly given up the romantic daydreaming. none of it ever came to pass and it just became too painful. even in fantasy land.

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ah. so we ARE talking about the same thing.

and personally, i've mostly given up the romantic daydreaming. none of it ever came to pass and it just became too painful. even in fantasy land.

eh.
I can't even remember what mine were. A good thing too because it's been so long since I've entertained romantic daydreams that I'm certain a Barbie house was involved which would no longer be applicable.
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I just can't help it. I'm a huge sap. You girls take the brawny prison/pirate dudes, and I'll take the sweet, thoughtful ones. I think maybe even with that drawn-out romantic fantasy, the whole main point to it was (listen up guys), what I really want is to know that you're thinking about me, even when I'm not around. I truly think that's what romance can be narrowed down to for me, at least in part.

And don't get me wrong - I have strictly sexual fantasies as well.
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I'm a teacher dressed in a short skirt, no panties. The guy I'm dating is the "student." He has to stay after school because he was doing something stupid in class. I assign him a few exercises to write out, and then hop up on the desk. My legs fall apart slightly as I'm reading whatever book I have. I look up and catch him looking up my skirt. I walk over to his desk, rap my ruler on his desk and say "Didja like what you saw?!" A meek "yes," would be all that escaped his lips. I'd lean down and whisper into his ear that he had better do every single thing I said that afternoon, because if he didn't, I'd call his parents and tell him he was looking up my skirt. I'd order him to take off all his clothes. Then I'd order him to take off mine. I'd tell him to kneel in front of me and lick my pu--y. Then I'd make him f-ck me, hard, until he just couldn't hold it in anymore. I'd tell him detention was over, and he could go home, but that he'd better start behaving in class if he didn't want to stay after again.

Strictly sexual fantasy #2 is not as elaborate. It simply involves me handcuffed and blindfolded, a feather, some candle wax, an ice cube, and other tactile pleasures.
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I just can't help it. I'm a huge sap. You girls take the brawny prison/pirate dudes, and I'll take the sweet, thoughtful ones. I think maybe even with that drawn-out romantic fantasy, the whole main point to it was (listen up guys), what I really want is to know that you're thinking about me, even when I'm not around. I truly think that's what romance can be narrowed down to for me, at least in part.

And don't get me wrong - I have strictly sexual fantasies as well.
Strictly Sexual Fantasy #1:

I'm a teacher dressed in a short skirt, no panties. The guy I'm dating is the "student." He has to stay after school because he was doing something stupid in class. I assign him a few exercises to write out, and then hop up on the desk. My legs fall apart slightly as I'm reading whatever book I have. I look up and catch him looking up my skirt. I walk over to his desk, rap my ruler on his desk and say "Didja like what you saw?!" A meek "yes," would be all that escaped his lips. I'd lean down and whisper into his ear that he had better do every single thing I said that afternoon, because if he didn't, I'd call his parents and tell him he was looking up my skirt. I'd order him to take off all his clothes. Then I'd order him to take off mine. I'd tell him to kneel in front of me and lick my pu--y. Then I'd make him f-ck me, hard, until he just couldn't hold it in anymore. I'd tell him detention was over, and he could go home, but that he'd better start behaving in class if he didn't want to stay after again.

Strictly sexual fantasy #2 is not as elaborate. It simply involves me handcuffed and blindfolded, a feather, some candle wax, an ice cube, and other tactile pleasures.
It's good to hear that there are women out there who voice their desire for a nice guy as opposed to the rough and burly pirate or ex-con sorts of men. However, I've got a girl who seems to be so busy with her friends or whatever (when she goes home from college on break) that when I do call because I was thinking about her--she asks if she can call me back later. In a week I've talked to her all of 10 minutes.
Get this: we've been together for about 2 years. Takes me for granted perhaps?
Anyhow, my fantasy as an FA is to find a young woman who will reciprocate the work that a relationship does require as time goes on.
That and who appreciates the adoration she recieves from me regarding who she is, as she is, and who she wants to be.
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Old 03-16-2007, 09:37 PM   #245
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It's good to hear that there are women out there who voice their desire for a nice guy as opposed to the rough and burly pirate or ex-con sorts of men. However, I've got a girl who seems to be so busy with her friends or whatever (when she goes home from college on break) that when I do call because I was thinking about her--she asks if she can call me back later. In a week I've talked to her all of 10 minutes.
Get this: we've been together for about 2 years. Takes me for granted perhaps?
Anyhow, my fantasy as an FA is to find a young woman who will reciprocate the work that a relationship does require as time goes on.
That and who appreciates the adoration she recieves from me regarding who she is, as she is, and who she wants to be.
I can't speak for anyone else, but I couldn't see myself settling down with blue beard or a band of ruffians I met in the woods. Fantasies are merely scenarios in which I get my jollies off from an exaggerated form of what churns my butter. Attention? Being desired? Adoration? All of the above possibly, I never really gave it much thought till now - I was too, erm, busy to examine my motives. My idea of a first date or a life together with someone special is no relation at all to my fantasy of an orgy with sailors.

I think it's easier for me to share twisted fantasies with people because they ARE fantasies, a detachment from reality. They're fun and can be a hoot to laugh over and compare with others as it has been these past days. I have really enjoyed this thread. But they don't define me. Sharing my romantic wants hits too close to home though. When someone shares their idea of being romanced in real life somehow I feel I should cover my eyes, like I'm looking in on something I shouldn't be seeing. To me a true relationship with a S.O. is sacred ground. That's where my yellow 'Do Not Cross' tape is set up. NOT that I'm begrudging anybody else the liberty to share these things, they're wonderful! I guess it's just a sensitive area for me where as a fantasy is just guilty pleasure trash. I don't know any other way to explain it.
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I can't speak for anyone else, but I couldn't see myself settling down with blue beard or a band of ruffians I met in the woods. .
settling down with the band of ruffians from the woods would make you one crazy Snow White, now wouldn't it?

Anyway, I agree. We were asked to talk about our fantasies, not who we'd want to settle down with. Fantasy implies no settling down (in that settling down is reality, and fantasy isn't reality).

So bring on the pirates and the pantyless school teachers!
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settling down with the band of ruffians from the woods would make you one crazy Snow White, now wouldn't it?
Tiny, pudgy ruffians. That have silly names that end in Y. Except that Doc guy, but he's the ruffiest of them all. Tiny, pudgy ruffians who whistle a lot when they're happy. Especially when they're peering effortlessly up the short skirt of a pantiless BBW.

I've been "off" for a while, so I'm just now reading this thread. All nine pages worth. Interesting and enlightening responses, folks.
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