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Old 08-15-2010, 01:10 AM   #26
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Wow this is something that i have missed, am going to be aware of this next time.....
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Well it was a disaster. We could not get comfortable. It just wasn't working. I couldn't get comfortable. Is that normal? Should I try and jerk off into a few before we try sex again? What should I do?
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It will be uncomfortable for awhile because it's a new experience, and honestly, it's something in the way. You might want to practice getting used to one on your own, first, yes. If your wife sees that you're comfortable with it on, she would most likely get more comfortable with it, too. Practice definitely makes perfect.
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It will be uncomfortable for awhile because it's a new experience, and honestly, it's something in the way. You might want to practice getting used to one on your own, first, yes. If your wife sees that you're comfortable with it on, she would most likely get more comfortable with it, too. Practice definitely makes perfect.
Ok thanks we'll have to have some masturbation sessions for a few times first. She loves when I jerk off for her anyway so we'll have fun with it.
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Well it was a disaster. We could not get comfortable. It just wasn't working. I couldn't get comfortable. Is that normal? Should I try and jerk off into a few before we try sex again? What should I do?
Sorry to hear this. I know the awkwardness and newness can really suck. As I suggested before, try masturbating with condoms alone for a while. It's less uncomfortable than with a partner in the room. You can just relax, be yourself, fantasize about what you want to fantasize about, and masturbate the way you usually do. Once you start getting comfortable with condoms and more used to them, it won't be such a big deal when you have sex with your wife. It's going to take some time, though, so make sure you give yourself enough, don't beat yourself up about it, and maybe refrain from partner sex for a while until you've reached your comfort level. I know refraining from sex sucks, but it can be done and will not kill you for a few weeks.
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Refraining from having partner sex makes it that much steamier when you finally get back to doing it.

Just sayin'.

You can also do mutual masturbation sessions to get used to it and still get off without having to actually have sex. Gives you both some time to get used to it
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Ok thanks we'll have to have some masturbation sessions for a few times first. She loves when I jerk off for her anyway so we'll have fun with it.
Finding other ways (oral, mutual masturbation, toys... all of these still = sex!) for both of you to get off helps take the pressure off the whole condom / penetrative sex thing... And helps maintain that connection between the two of you...
If the two of you have a go with the condom and it doesn't work out, you can do something else that "session", and try again afterwards and/or the next session... You'll get there soon enough...

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But what about anal sex? Do you or don't you use a condom + lube, what will stop bacterial infection on ones member, if there is a bit of fecal material?
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I can't truly reply to this, because I don't allow anyone through the backdoor EVER. It's just not sexy to me. Personally, I feel very violated and disgusted if someone does want it or try to do it.

But as some friends of mine will say....

Condoms are the best way to prevent bacterial infection, and since the walls of the anal canal are extremely thin and very easy to tear, always use lube and when it seems like there's too much, only then would you have on enough to penetrate anally without any possibilities of interior trauma to your partner or yourself.

I've had that discussion many times with friends, so I know their advice by heart now.
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Well it was a disaster. We could not get comfortable. It just wasn't working. I couldn't get comfortable. Is that normal? Should I try and jerk off into a few before we try sex again? What should I do?
Honestly the best thing you can do is try again. Condoms are a necessary part of life if you don't want children. I would buy the sampler packs until you find a brand you both like. But the best advice I can give is to have a sense of humor about it.
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When I do a man up the butt with a dildo, this, of course, is never an issue. Maybe if you kept your anal to a ' receive only ' kind of situation, there would be less stress.

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To be honest you probably will NOT enjoy sex as much with a condom.
The only men I have ever met who prefer it had premature ejaculation problems
that condoms helped..

I would honestly look into a barrier method like a diaphram or cervical cap for long term.... or even an IUD if you don't want kids at all or not for a couple years.

In the interim there are some great condom brands out there... if you are average or smaller i recommend Kimono or beyond seven (i like the studded)

For thicker (even just slightly) or larger I like magnum. if you are really huge magnum XL

Lifestyles makes good condoms...and they are probably the cheapest when bought in 12+ packs...They do make a larger and snugger version as well.

The only brand I do NOT recommend I think would be durex as I had 4 break in a row... in one encounter... from different boxes...

Comdomania.com is a good place to look for deals and if you are into it they sell custom condoms.
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There used to be a Condomania store on Melrose. I miss it. It was a fun place. My first trip there was over 18 years ago with an ex-boyfriend who was trying to find the right condom style for him. A friend recommended Condomania, so off we went, and after some searching, he found what he was looking for. I have happy memories of that store.
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I hate wearing them but I have no choice. I have girth and when I wear condoms it's really tight and uncomfortable. Also I cant feel anything when I wear one.
Try Trojan magnum Ecstasy.
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Tried a Trojan ecstasy and they felt the best in terms of wearing a condom. Also the Durex brand sucks. I too have had several problems with them. Never again will I use Durex.
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The only brand I do NOT recommend I think would be durex as I had 4 break in a row... in one encounter... from different boxes...

Comdomania.com is a good place to look for deals and if you are into it they sell custom condoms.
I've had the same problem with Durex. Even tried the different varieties but have had several break.

I agree about Condomania.com. They have a large selection of condoms, some I've never seen in the stores. The prices are awesome to.
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