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Old 03-14-2014, 08:15 PM   #101
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oh I am sure plenty of people want to send you things.. just not sure sending clothes is the best option.. since it might be a better pic with less clothes...
hm yes, on second thought i do have some constructive advice about your work outfit. first, trousers are over rated; you should prob take them off. the color on the shirt really looks great on you, but i suggest unbuttoning all the buttons and simply leaving it open for a more modern look.
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:52 PM   #102
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oh my. a) those eyes. heart-melting.

b) you rock the formal wear! you and BL both have a great eye for colors that stand out in a good way and compliment your skin tone and features. love the cut of the suits too, and the satin ties. you may have me re-thinking my anti-necktie stance for a minute, because you do look great in them.
A good tie can make or break an outfit. I tend to go for ties that are of the same color as the rest of the outfit, but usually satin or with a nice sheen. Or, something garish. I really like pink ties with blue.

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hm yes, on second thought i do have some constructive advice about your work outfit. first, trousers are over rated; you should prob take them off. the color on the shirt really looks great on you, but i suggest unbuttoning all the buttons and simply leaving it open for a more modern look.
Exactly what I was thinking...
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:09 PM   #104
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A good tie can make or break an outfit. I tend to go for ties that are of the same color as the rest of the outfit, but usually satin or with a nice sheen. Or, something garish. I really like pink ties with blue.

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I tend to go the opposite with ties. Usually they match my socks, or will match a color that my shirt has a very small amount of. Helps it pop more, for me at least.
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Old 03-14-2014, 10:55 PM   #105
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I usually go with solid colors, with varying shades. Especially with my pinstriped suits.
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Old 03-15-2014, 09:59 AM   #106
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A good tie can make or break an outfit. I tend to go for ties that are of the same color as the rest of the outfit, but usually satin or with a nice sheen. Or, something garish. I really like pink ties with blue.

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Ties SUCK!!!! I HATE TIES!!!

Since I have to wear the god awful things I protest by only wearing ties I purchase for a dollar or less at thrift stores.
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Old 03-15-2014, 01:25 PM   #107
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I rarely have to dress up, but, truth be told, I dislike wearing formal wear.
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Old 03-15-2014, 01:30 PM   #108
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Let's focus on this outfit of yours instead. Spectacular. A fitting model for the rest of the board, though if anyone wanted to zoom out a bit more, I don't think we'd complain.
Don't tempt me.
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:19 PM   #109
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I rarely have to dress up, but, truth be told, I dislike wearing formal wear.
You hide that exceptionally well!
Nobody who is so good at something - see purple tie & waistcoat, awesome, bold & fashionable choice - can honestly dislike it.

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Ties SUCK!!!! I HATE TIES!!!

Since I have to wear the god awful things I protest by only wearing ties I purchase for a dollar or less at thrift stores.
Weren't you the one who was complaining on the other board that BBW never paid any attention to you?
Could this be somehow related to your dress and the attitude it radiates????
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Old 03-15-2014, 06:03 PM   #110
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Weren't you the one who was complaining on the other board that BBW never paid any attention to you?
Could this be somehow related to your dress and the attitude it radiates????
I said I was paid much less attention during fatter periods. I said that if a BHM wants to get more play a gym membership is a far better investment than dropping hundreds (if not thousands) on fancy clothes.

If a BHM isn't getting any play wearing khakis and polo shirt from Target or Walmart its unlikely a $900 suit will change anything -- other than making him more poor of course. The idea that a positive attitude and more expensive possessions will cure what ails you are very American ideas -- ideas I reject.
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Old 03-15-2014, 10:43 PM   #111
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Default ^I think that was directed more at the guys who already dress very badly....

but are otherwise within range. As in however far down the scale you go in either area, the simplest or least investment will be a more marked improvement. Like, if you're walking around in a bath-robe and sweatpants, switching to a fitted pair of pants or jeans of any kind (that fit) with a belt is a huge upgrade. If you really need a haircut, even a not-so good haircut looks a lot better.

If you wear your hair long and shaggy, the need for a haircut and its immediate benefit is somewhat less noticeable. But it still looks better.

If you have a very poor attitude (nasty, rude, belligerent, etc...or a complainer) just keeping quiet, smiling-politely will have a more noticeable benefit than, say, for a roughly comparable guy who has an okay personality that is just acting a little bit friendlier than he normally would.

So, it's all quite relative. And, given a competitive playing field, each incremental advantage is not being measured independently against some other. It's the cumulative effect off all of these things taken into account at one time.

We generally don't get to see this at work because we are so rarely even able to make a true apples to apples comparisons. If we're much more or less fit, it also tends to go without saying that some time has also past. So, then it's not really a case of all things being equal. Clothes, on the other hand, we can change pretty quickly. Although, it would also probably take a certain amount to time to be noticeably dressing much better on the whole. Which, I think, also counts for something besides whatever an individual happens to be wearing at the moment.

@agouderia: What's a "faded-vulture?" I googled-it and must admit to not really knowing what you mean.
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:06 PM   #112
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:41 PM   #113
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I believe this might be your answer?


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What's with all the tie hate? Is there some extreme discomfort that I'm ignorant of, never having worn one? I actually really like the idea of a small, exceptionally tailored me-sized suit. It just seems a lot more appealing to me than the typical female versions of suits (though I have no issue with dresses.) It also seems like one of the few ways that a woman could dress is a completely masculine manner.
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:20 AM   #114
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Ties do look incredibly uncomfortable and constricting. My big guy loathes them. He's strictly a Dockers, jeans and polo kind of guy. Being in IT&S has advantages I guess since polos and Dockers tend to be their "uniform" of choice.
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Ties SUCK!!!! I HATE TIES!!!

Since I have to wear the god awful things I protest by only wearing ties I purchase for a dollar or less at thrift stores.
Think about what you can do with them after you take them off...

IJS...lol
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Think about what you can do with them after you take them off...

IJS...lol
We have a sleigh bed -- no posts to tie things to --
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We have a sleigh bed -- no posts to tie things to --
you can use them as blind folds... there are...ummm.. nevermind... that would be an overshare..lol
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We have a sleigh bed -- no posts to tie things to --
Wrist leash! No news to tie to anything.
Just a thought.
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Wrist leash! No news to tie to anything.
Just a thought.
Wrists also tie well to each other and to ankles. Food for thought.
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Wrists also tie well to each other and to ankles. Food for thought.
Wrist Leash is better and safer, when you let go you can part your hands if its knotted you can't. Can't disagree on ankles though.
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I like more than one type of fashion for a guy. Sometimes it depends on their personality as well. I like a guy in uniform, but in the same breath a guy in a flannel or plaid tshirt and jeans could just make me go crazy. Or a nice collared or polo shirt and nice dress pants. Just as long as you put a little time and effort into how you present yourself. Or a guy in those army type pants with the side pockets, boots and a t-shirt. That'd kill me.
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idk, just squish me. no need for ties.
Its on!
Bring beer and snacks.
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Its on!
Bring beer and snacks.
if one day you wake to find an american on your doorstep holding a pizza and case of beer, dressed in a long peacoat and stiletto boots (only lace panties underneath, of course)...don't say you didn't invite me!

hmmm, now i think about it, maybe a tie would be useful. most guys i've been with are frustratingly reluctant to give me a proper full-weight squishing. perhaps a gentle-but-persuasive tie flogging will render the next gentleman more cooperative.

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