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Old 08-30-2012, 09:36 PM   #1
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I think there should be a "How to be a Better Lover" series made for and by people of size and those that love us.

I have seen a good bit of porn made with BBWs that were pretty mainstream but I have also seen videos where the BBW was sort of treated like a circus sideshow. The same thing can be said with BHMs in porn, although there is a lot of gay BHM porn out there.

I think it would be great for a group of people to get together and discuss different things we as people of size (and those that love us) go through when making love; difficulties we face in certain positions and solutions we have come up with in order to make our sex lives more fulfilling.

I just think it's time people realize that as fat people and admirers of fat people, we are sexual beings like the rest of the planet. Anyway, just an idea I thought I would share.
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Old 08-30-2012, 11:51 PM   #2
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Just when you think you're out, they pull you back in.

Ok, let me round up some willing actresses and I'll get cracking on this tout de suite!
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In case you need a script that offers at least some plot, I could pitch in!
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There is at least a book and it is very good
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Old 08-31-2012, 07:35 AM   #5
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I think there should be a "How to be a Better Lover" series made for and by people of size and those that love us.

I have seen a good bit of porn made with BBWs that were pretty mainstream but I have also seen videos where the BBW was sort of treated like a circus sideshow. The same thing can be said with BHMs in porn, although there is a lot of gay BHM porn out there.

I think it would be great for a group of people to get together and discuss different things we as people of size (and those that love us) go through when making love; difficulties we face in certain positions and solutions we have come up with in order to make our sex lives more fulfilling.

I just think it's time people realize that as fat people and admirers of fat people, we are sexual beings like the rest of the planet. Anyway, just an idea I thought I would share.
I couldn't agree more with you, especially with that last point you made. It has always bothered me that, in any kind of mainstream media, they seem to send the message that the only kind of sexuality you can have as a person of size, is the comical kind.

It's all good and well to have various skits floating around out there and I can still appreciate them in different ways. But I personally have not seen much else about fat sexuality portrayed outside of the comical; and that's not cool.

What is that supposed to say to you about your sexuality as a person of size or as an admirer?

Phew, ok! Glad I got that rant out of my system Good thread!
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There are some site that, thankfully, don't treat the subject like a farce. They are few and far between unfortunately. Hopefully things will start going in the other direction.
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There are a few good April Flores movies out there. Including one where it's a bizarre John Waters-esque film that's really weird and trippy but in that one she makes out with a woman who is a SSBBW.

I too haven't seen any good porn with BHMs in it though. The only time I asked I was told there was gay porn with BHMs in it.. "bear porn" the sales lady called it.

For visual movie-porn in general I would also like to find stuff where the couple are into each other, looking at each other and not the camera, and where they talk sweetly to each other and speak sexy to each other too. There's too much crap out there!

But does anyone have any recommendations?
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Old 09-01-2012, 06:44 PM   #8
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I am thinking something professionally made, edited, with credible sets and using real couples who were actually actively having sex in their relationship all the time. Or maybe couples who were having trouble with their sex lives and agreeing to have a sex therapist teach them things.

Not the usual porn fare, instructional videos aimed at making fat people and their admirers more comfortable in exploring their own sexuality.
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There is a TV show here 'embarassing bodies' and one particularly stuck in my mind. A young woman was getting depressed and not having sex with her husband because of her fat belly and pubic area. How i would love to remake these shows! Instead of helping her to make the most of what she had, of course in typical mainstream fashion they carted her off to the surgeon and had some of her fat bits removed. Eugh.
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There is a TV show here 'embarassing bodies' and one particularly stuck in my mind. A young woman was getting depressed and not having sex with her husband because of her fat belly and pubic area. How i would love to remake these shows! Instead of helping her to make the most of what she had, of course in typical mainstream fashion they carted her off to the surgeon and had some of her fat bits removed. Eugh.
I agree. Eugh.
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