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Old 07-03-2008, 08:03 AM   #251
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After while you get used to just not having. It still hurts but you get into a pattern that you can't get out of. At least I can't. I've never had any luck meeting women and that was when I was going out all the time.

Even when you have friends being a BHM you are not the one your friends think of when it comes to hooking up other single women they know.
I imagine it's something I've reluctantly become used to, but it doesn't rule all the odd night where it just seems like everyone else's life is going right, but that success only serves as a reminder of my possible failures.

Hell, I made my initial post on a bit of a whim. In a way, it was a cry for attention, but deep down I also know any friendships it might attract will need to be more than just the common interest that likely brought us all here. Such has been the case for all my interests, as it's hard to keep things going on the net when conversations have dried up and your daily life is abysmally predictable.

Nonetheless, I'm all too familiar with that "not the first choice" feeling. I'd like to think I'm good at what I choose to invest my time in, but vanity can be a pretty ugly thing if I ever try to take things a step further with those I meet up along the way. Lost a couple friendships recently because of that, and while it's easy for an outsider to suggest they're not worth my time, there was still an investment, and often times a sharing of personal thoughts or desires.

I'll be 25 in a month, and it feels like an awkward age. Not one of the kids, but not really an "adult" adult, either. Most net hopping I do tends to hook me up with people 21 and under. Some aren't bad people, but I just can't bring myself to pursuing a relationship with someone 7 years younger than me at this point. Being a bit more local couldn't hurt, either. I was all about long-distance relationships when I first started getting net savvy, but after a few failed ones... I dunno.
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Old 07-03-2008, 09:31 AM   #252
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Old 07-03-2008, 11:11 AM   #253
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I imagine it's something I've reluctantly become used to, but it doesn't rule all the odd night where it just seems like everyone else's life is going right, but that success only serves as a reminder of my possible failures.

Hell, I made my initial post on a bit of a whim. In a way, it was a cry for attention, but deep down I also know any friendships it might attract will need to be more than just the common interest that likely brought us all here. Such has been the case for all my interests, as it's hard to keep things going on the net when conversations have dried up and your daily life is abysmally predictable.

Nonetheless, I'm all too familiar with that "not the first choice" feeling. I'd like to think I'm good at what I choose to invest my time in, but vanity can be a pretty ugly thing if I ever try to take things a step further with those I meet up along the way. Lost a couple friendships recently because of that, and while it's easy for an outsider to suggest they're not worth my time, there was still an investment, and often times a sharing of personal thoughts or desires.

I'll be 25 in a month, and it feels like an awkward age. Not one of the kids, but not really an "adult" adult, either. Most net hopping I do tends to hook me up with people 21 and under. Some aren't bad people, but I just can't bring myself to pursuing a relationship with someone 7 years younger than me at this point. Being a bit more local couldn't hurt, either. I was all about long-distance relationships when I first started getting net savvy, but after a few failed ones... I dunno.
I made my first post on a bit if a whim too. And it was also pretty much a cry for attention. It's kind of funny that when you find a community where you are desired it only serves to remind you of what you donít have. That in turn only makes it harder to find those things you want. Itís a big viscous circle.

Iím 40 but I tend to be attracted to younger women. Maybe itís because I still donít quite think of myself as an adult. I know Iím an adult, I have adult responsibilities and adult bills but my mind is 22 and looking for the next party. Unfortunately there havenít been any parties for a long time. I donít even drink anymore. And Iím much more interested in keeping the house neat than making a mess.

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Old 07-03-2008, 10:51 PM   #254
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Old 07-06-2008, 08:13 PM   #255
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I'm single and I'm 29. I'm looking, but not actively. I'm not much of a party-goer, I don't really like going to bars, and I flinch whenever I hear the word date. I have not had good dating experiences. I'm just hoping to find a nice guy with a minium amount of emotional baggage before I turn sixty.
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Old 07-06-2008, 08:41 PM   #256
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Old 07-07-2008, 11:33 AM   #257
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Old 07-09-2008, 12:29 AM   #258
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after some thought...I am looking...lol I have to admit, I miss cuddling haha...so anyone i southern oregon?...lol
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Old 07-12-2008, 11:36 AM   #260
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Old 07-12-2008, 12:31 PM   #261
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Old 07-13-2008, 04:07 AM   #263
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Been looking for too long, and any time I think I'm about to get anywhere, they're either not interested or mysteriously find another boyfriend. Pretty frustrating when you don't really have anyone whose brain you can pick or just snuggle up with and do nothing.
and they (women) keep telling me " you're the perfect guy. you'd be the perfect boyfreind" yet none of them will go out with me.
man it's hard when you're perfect. j/k
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Old 07-13-2008, 04:40 AM   #264
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and they (women) keep telling me " you're the perfect guy. you'd be the perfect boyfreind" yet none of them will go out with me.
man it's hard when you're perfect. j/k
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