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Old 07-22-2013, 04:40 PM   #26
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You've all so delightfully over sensitive, and your collective propensity to apply your silly implications,in order to win arguments never made, absolutely thrills me.

Did I say anyone ought "screw loads of women" or have "cheap sex"? Both of which have about as much to do with the topic at hand as "meaningful relationship". Also, did I say something about being effeminate as an insult or a flaw? NO?? oh...

In future, it would be proper to confine your response to what I actually said and not some imaginary conversation. That said, loopytheone, I probably agree with with your 2 cents, but it does not in any way invalidate the relevance of what I said. Because I'm right.

Tad, this thread is about is about first times, not LTRs...as above.

Paquito, sexual activity is not an arbitrary value. It is a biological imperative. And I did not dictate, I encouraged. Which you will see if you go back and read the actual quote you used.

Jose, grow up. If you think someone is an asshole, tell them straight up...if you're man enough. Passive aggressive name calling is for cowards ( see what I did there).

Tankyguy, I like your posts and I appreciate your candid nature. I encourage you not give up on yourself or sex or a loving relationship. All 3 are entirely worthy pursuits.
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OMG was I just called a troll? I guess it's suicide for me...again.
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Old 07-22-2013, 04:56 PM   #30
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You've all so delightfully over sensitive, and your collective propensity to apply your silly implications,in order to win arguments never made, absolutely thrills me.

Did I say anyone ought "screw loads of women" or have "cheap sex"? Both of which have about as much to do with the topic at hand as "meaningful relationship". Also, did I say something about being effeminate as an insult or a flaw? NO?? oh...

In future, it would be proper to confine your response to what I actually said and not some imaginary conversation. That said, loopytheone, I probably agree with with your 2 cents, but it does not in any way invalidate the relevance of what I said. Because I'm right.

Tad, this thread is about is about first times, not LTRs...as above.

Paquito, sexual activity is not an arbitrary value. It is a biological imperative. And I did not dictate, I encouraged. Which you will see if you go back and read the actual quote you used.

Jose, grow up. If you think someone is an asshole, tell them straight up...if you're man enough. Passive aggressive name calling is for cowards ( see what I did there).

Tankyguy, I like your posts and I appreciate your candid nature. I encourage you not give up on yourself or sex or a loving relationship. All 3 are entirely worthy pursuits.
hahaha, well I'm touched that you thought I was calling you an asshole. Sadly my comment was not in regards to you or anyone else.

I firmly believe that as a person, you're allowed to do whatever you want and whatever makes you happy as long as you aren't harming anyone else.

And it's Hozay.
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Old 07-22-2013, 05:25 PM   #31
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Promiscuity is undignified, but fear flavored celibacy is lame. I encourage my fellow fat guys to stop making me look bad and start boning one and all.
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It's a very effeminate trait, and a turn off for someone who wishes to fuck a man and not a be-dicked girl.


And just to reiterate my point, I want people to have whatever kind of sex life they want (as long as it's consensual and not hurting anyone). I don't care if you want to fuck enough people to fill a country or never orgasm in your life, as long as it's the sex life that leaves you satisfied.

And I thought it was Whorezay, not Hozay.
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Old 07-22-2013, 05:30 PM   #32
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You've all so delightfully over sensitive, and your collective propensity to apply your silly implications,in order to win arguments never made, absolutely thrills me.

Did I say anyone ought "screw loads of women" or have "cheap sex"? Both of which have about as much to do with the topic at hand as "meaningful relationship". Also, did I say something about being effeminate as an insult or a flaw? NO?? oh...

In future, it would be proper to confine your response to what I actually said and not some imaginary conversation. That said, loopytheone, I probably agree with with your 2 cents, but it does not in any way invalidate the relevance of what I said. Because I'm right.

Tad, this thread is about is about first times, not LTRs...as above.

Paquito, sexual activity is not an arbitrary value. It is a biological imperative. And I did not dictate, I encouraged. Which you will see if you go back and read the actual quote you used.

Jose, grow up. If you think someone is an asshole, tell them straight up...if you're man enough. Passive aggressive name calling is for cowards ( see what I did there).

Tankyguy, I like your posts and I appreciate your candid nature. I encourage you not give up on yourself or sex or a loving relationship. All 3 are entirely worthy pursuits.
Oversensitive? I was expressing my opinions on what you said. If you don't want to hear other people's opinions stay away from internet forums, simple as. I was giving my thoughts on what you said, that is all. For the record, I don't take advice off strangers on the internet but if I were to give some it would be to try and understand the difference between your opinion and facts. Incidentally, sex is not a biological imperative as it is not necessary for survival. A drive, yes, and imperative, no. People who were born without a desire for food or warmth etc die as children unless given medical care for they are lacking a drive for something necessary for life. The last time I checked myself and the other asexuals out there are not dying off due to our lack of sex drive.

Incidentally, as the creator of this thread and the person who asked the question in the first place I should point out that all types of relationship are fine to talk about. There is nothing wrong with giving advice to other people on this board and looking for your first long term relationship is just as relevant as looking/talking about your first sexual encounter.

Ah, and thanks to Paquito for that, I didn't have the patience to go back and do it myself but those were the phrases I was thinking of as well.
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Old 07-22-2013, 05:35 PM   #33
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And just to reiterate my point, I want people to have whatever kind of sex life they want (as long as it's consensual and not hurting anyone). I don't care if you want to fuck enough people to fill a country or never orgasm in your life, as long as it's the sex life that leaves you satisfied.

And I thought it was Whorezay, not Hozay.
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Paco, I agree with most of what you're saying. If doing whatever, feels right for you the individual, then by all means go with it. Don't let anyone ever dictate how to live your life! But, I do have to agree with one part of Archetypus' statement. Fear flavored celibacy is lame. In my opinion, anything done or not done for that matter, out of fear, is lame. I do know though that it is something easier said than done, but to me there is nothing more sad than letting fear dictate your actions. Hopefully in any issue one has in their lives they will take the appropriate steps to overcome a fear-based life.
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Oh no, I don't want anyone to feel that they must remain celibate just out of fear. I just think that people place a lot of huge expectations and values on sex, when it doesn't have to be an enormous deal. If you want to have sex I certainly hope that you go for it, I don't want anyone to deny themselves based on fear.

But I do just want to point out that people can be celibate for lots of reasons.
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Who said I was giving up on myself, the possibility for a relationship or anything else?


I certainly don't intend to give up on love. I'm just prioritizing other things. I'm sure a relationship with the right person can be a wonderful thing, but at the same time I accept that for some people it's just not in the cards. Either way, I'm playing the hand I've been dealt as best I can.
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You are men. Go forth and FUCK.


I was younger for my first kiss. Like 12 or 13. The year I turned 18 was when all the fun stuff happened... giving/receiving oral, fingering, then finally i did IT with my bf at the time. Sex was weird amd not incredibly pleasureable with him so i didnt give it up often. After we broke up I was celibate for quite a few years until about 3 years ago when i had my first casual sex encouter with a friend and it was like a switch was flipped and i realized how amazing sex can feel! Since then, i have been with men that are (waaaaay) bigger and (waaaay) better than my ex. I currently have 2 sex partners that i love being with for different reasons. One is extremely adventerous (like, we dun it allll over the county... abandoned houses, the side of the road, in the woods. We've been kickin it for over a year and only ONCE was it in an actual bed) and he likes to get wild and rough. And the other guy...we only do it at his house, but i just think hes so damn sexy and he has the most beautifuk penis i have ever seen. The man could make a lot of money doing porn. Its HUGE.
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I'm going to guess my first post helped spark where things headed in this thread. I'm not going to lie and say that Archetypus was off-base with some of what he said, but as loopy very eloquently stated, we all have our own preferences and our own ways of doing things. Sure, I'm not the most confident guy, and I'm also not very proactive in the dating scene (which should be obvious from my first post), but it's not as simple as "fear" or introversion. There are several reasons that have nothing to do with emotional state, that keep me from pursuing a relationship. I won't go into them in detail, but suffice it to say, physical issues beyond my control, as well as financial problems, are a big part of it.

Also, in regards to sex, I didn't single it out because again, I just don't have any interest in "casual" sex. I really don't. Will I change my mind after my first time? I can't say for sure, but I very much doubt it. It might sound like I'm bullshitting or that I'm masquerading as some "nice guy" stereotype, but I would just genuinely prefer to have that kind of intimate relationship with someone that I share a mutual bond with--otherwise, I honestly don't think it would do much for me. It's not just sex either, but any kind of physical interaction like that. If that makes me some "effeminate, be-dicked girl", then whatever. I'll be the first to admit that I've never been the alpha-male type, and frankly, I'd sooner ritualistically rip out my fingernails than to become another narcissistic knuckle dragger with my head up my ass. (Not that all alpha-male types are like that, of course.)

In other words, what loopy and tad said are spot on, and if I could rep either of them, it would have been done .
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Great to see other people come out with similar experiences. I am still a virgin going on 25. I can say my first kiss was when I was 21. Like others before me have said before me some of us just have different priorities in life and in our intimate encounters.

To be perfectly honest, I am pretty oblivious to women showing any interest in me. It so bad that even when it's blatantly obvious, I just don't pick up on it. Its embarrassing to say that the dates I have been on have been initiated by the women. Its not to say that I unwillingly go on these dates, as we talk and get to know each other long before we go out. Though it seems that when we go out I really have little interest in escalating physically.

Despite this, I believe it doesn't make me any less of a man. It's great to know that my friends and family respect who I am.
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I was... 12? When I first had an open mouth kiss... I honestly can say I didn't really enjoy making out until VERY recently. Like literally last night was the first time I just made out with somebody for a while and really, really, REALLY liked it

I "lost my virginity" in the standard term at 15. Mind you, that was by force... and I have no recollection of it. I just remember having to ... um... hope that my pro-life friends didn't hate me forever.

I didn't know HOW to really enjoy sex/masturbation/everything until I was just about to turn 17. I am unlike most girls, when I considered myself to be losing my virginity (mentally) I had my first orgasm.

Prescribed medications+street drugs at an early age= not developing correctly sexually. So I didn't really have the right hormones pumping until I was like 16 I don't think. Buuut I also didn't start growth spurting until 18 so I guess that makes sense, haha.

Losing my virginity (what I consider it to be) was fantabulous. I lost it in my friends parents INCREDIBLY soft bed. Because I'm an arse like that.....
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I was in my twenties for both. I was an abused child so I didn't trust anyone and it took a lot for me to let someone in. It happened to be the same man for both, although there was a time period between both, lol.

The nice thing is all these years later, we still have a very affectionate warm friendship that's survived marriages (no one was married while we were messing around). His is going strong, while mine is over, thankfully.
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Am I only one who sees how bizarre this is? We're on a forum more or less dedicated to sexual attraction, in a thread about first times...and I'm being thoroughly ass-handed by a pack of feral virgins because I suggest that their non-stories might be exciting as stories.

And as if I needed any more proof that you guys really need to get some, none of the posters who actually know what's up took offense, or at least had the decency to shrug it off.

Anyhow, I apologize to any who did take offense, it was not my intent. Mods, should you care to delete another of my comments, I understand and I forgive you in advance.

I'm toying with the idea of starting a thread about LAST TIMES, as in what it was like the last time you did the hunka-chunka, but maybe this forum isn't as broad minded as all that...

Oh BTW, why come nobody is repping me? Is it because I'm fat??

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Am I only one who sees how bizarre this is? We're on a forum more or less dedicated to sexual attraction, in a thread about first times...and I'm being thoroughly ass-handed by a pack of feral virgins because I suggest that their non-stories might be exciting as stories.

And as if I needed any more proof that you guys really need to get some, none of the posters who actually know what's up took offense, or at least had the decency to shrug it off.

Anyhow, I apologize to any who did take offense, it was not my intent. Mods, should you care to delete another of my comments, I understand and I forgive you in advance.

I'm toying with the idea of starting a thread about LAST TIMES, as in what it was like the last time you did the hunka-chunka, but maybe this forum isn't as broad minded as all that...

Oh BTW, why come nobody is repping me? Is it because I'm fat??
Last I checked we were on the BHM/FFA board which is to talk about anything we like, sexual related or not. This isn't the Fat Sexuality board. If you want to make that board go ahead, but you might want to put it in the Fat Sexuality board as that is where it would belong.
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Old 07-24-2013, 08:34 AM   #46
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Oh BTW, why come nobody is repping me? Is it because I'm fat??
This ^^^^ comment is, I'd suggest, either:
- the self-satisfied sneer of the successful troll, or
- the comment of someone who is so wilfully oblivious that there isn't much point in responding.

Either way, not worth going into why your latest post is so full of it that it is leaving brown stains on my monitor..... time to go use the lovely 'ignore' function.
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You always have the best advice, Tad!
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Did someone call the WAAAAAAAmbulance?

I've noticed a lot of new contributors and unfortunately with that comes some trollishness. How people expect backpats while insulting others for not petting them or giving them rep is kind of hilarious.

And Tad, not so sure I'd use the word, 'successful' in this case, but that may be a matter of opinion.
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Old 07-24-2013, 11:00 AM   #49
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...time to go use the lovely 'ignore' function.
In 6 years on Dimensions, I have used the ignore function once.
The person I put on ignore DIED.

Seriously.

Since then, I am reluctant to put anyone on ignore for fear of tragic results.







Although...maybe I should hire out my services as a CONRACT IGNORER. Contracts can be paid by sending items from my Amazon wish list.
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Am I only one who sees how bizarre this is? We're on a forum more or less dedicated to sexual attraction, in a thread about first times...and I'm being thoroughly ass-handed by a pack of feral virgins because I suggest that their non-stories might be exciting as stories.

And as if I needed any more proof that you guys really need to get some, none of the posters who actually know what's up took offense, or at least had the decency to shrug it off.

Anyhow, I apologize to any who did take offense, it was not my intent. Mods, should you care to delete another of my comments, I understand and I forgive you in advance.

I'm toying with the idea of starting a thread about LAST TIMES, as in what it was like the last time you did the hunka-chunka, but maybe this forum isn't as broad minded as all that...

Oh BTW, why come nobody is repping me? Is it because I'm fat??
No offense taken here, I was simply giving my own view point to show that it's not always as black and white as you think. Instead of getting pissed that you're called out for not being the definitive voice of all that is reason, use it as a learning experience. Everyone's different.
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