Where are the Skinny FFAs at?

[psychiatryst22]

I'm definitely pretty thin at 5'5" and ~ 105lb but i'm proportionate and surprisingly have boobs

[Jackoblangada]

I'm with Dionysis...i love being climbed on by a smaller woman.

[Paul Delacroix]

Originally Posted by AnnMarie

I'm hoping the "6" was a typo???? 6'2" and 115lbs is WAY less than skinny.

Yep, I once worked at the firehouse with a fellow named John who was 6'2" and weighed 165 pounds. He was so thin he resembled Ichabod Crane. The other firemen nicknamed him "Blade".

[Eroica86]

Hm, I'm pretty small.. 5'3 and 95 lbs.
I like BHMs because:
1. The contrast is really nice! I feel more feminine around bigger guys.
2. There's nothing like hugging a big soft warm man.
- . . . . with muscular guys .. hugs feel like being crushed by a waffle iron.
hugs with BHMs are like teddy bears
3. The general shape of a belly on a guy is really just the sweetest thing. I feel like society today really shuns bellies on anyone. So it's kind of like a taboo to enjoy it, and to be able to touch one seems more exciting.
4. Touching a belly is exciting.
5. I've also found a trend in personality compatibility with myself and larger men, so it just encourages the interest!

[AZ_Wolf]

Welcome, and your replies and reasonings are so good but.....21 y/o! So the UFOs haven't taken you away yet, this is why you're posting here.

[Ninja Glutton]

Originally Posted by Eroica86

Hm, I'm pretty small.. 5'3 and 95 lbs.
I like BHMs because:
1. The contrast is really nice! I feel more feminine around bigger guys.
2. There's nothing like hugging a big soft warm man.
- . . . . with muscular guys .. hugs feel like being crushed by a waffle iron.
hugs with BHMs are like teddy bears
3. The general shape of a belly on a guy is really just the sweetest thing. I feel like society today really shuns bellies on anyone. So it's kind of like a taboo to enjoy it, and to be able to touch one seems more exciting.
4. Touching a belly is exciting.
5. I've also found a trend in personality compatibility with myself and larger men, so it just encourages the interest!

Aw, you're adorable. You can touch my belly anytime lol.

[ntwp]

Originally Posted by Eroica86

I like BHMs because:
1. The contrast is really nice! I feel more feminine around bigger guys.
2. There's nothing like hugging a big soft warm man.
- . . . . with muscular guys .. hugs feel like being crushed by a waffle iron.
hugs with BHMs are like teddy bears
3. The general shape of a belly on a guy is really just the sweetest thing. I feel like society today really shuns bellies on anyone. So it's kind of like a taboo to enjoy it, and to be able to touch one seems more exciting.
4. Touching a belly is exciting.

Couldn't have said it better myself. But I will add. That is a very valid point about hugging a muscular guy. Not the same, at all! I've had friends who think that me liking "big guys" meant muscular or that if I like the "bigness" of fat guys, why not go for a muscular guy instead of my handsome, fat (not a bad word!) man? I had trouble explaining that it doesn't satisfy the same need. Fluffy, chubby, soft-- that is what I'm all about, and muscular just doesn't cut it!

[Fatgator]

I never understood why people equate hugging a big guy with a muscular one...as a big guy myself, I know how soft I am lol...I would think muscular guys are uncomfortable to hug, they'd be like hugging a pillar or something.

Hugging a fat guy would be much better and softer...I mean if you think about it, all of you FFA's refer to us as big teddy bears...people like hugging stuffed animals right? We're bigger, better and (sometimes) softer...what more could you want?

[Nightfire]

Originally Posted by Fatgator

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Hugging a fat guy would be much better and softer...I mean if you think about it, all of you FFA's refer to us as big teddy bears...people like hugging stuffed animals right? We're bigger, better and (sometimes) softer...what more could you want?

Could not say it better myself, good show sir, good show.

Is it wrong of me to seek a petite mate?? Some may say so, I say I know what I want. May be the reason I stay single more than taken but if they can't accept me for me then I don't need them. So I'll be single until I can find that petite FFA I am seeking. (hint hint)

[Fatgator]

Nothing wrong with wanting a petite mate. Nothing wrong with wanting a fat one. It's your preference.

[boompoet]

Time for me to rant.... well, it's not a rant it's more a train of thought careening out of control down the topic mountain. Weeeeee!

Personal preference changes throughout history with different factors leading to different points of view. The world was much bigger long long ago and the gaps between societal tiers were vast. The thought of what is beautiful depended and depends on where one was from, what status they held and the ques other members of their level of society gave each other. Pale skin was attractive because it meant you weren't working in the field. Tan skin became attractive because it made one appear fit and healthy. The same can be said for girth. At one point, the nearly world wide view was that bigger men were more attractive because it meant not only that you had the money to feed yourself, but that you had enough to indulge. Your thin corseted wife on your arm was beautiful because she was pale and that meant she didn't have to work and she was dominated by your girth as evidenced by her size and tightly fitted clothing. (By the way, almost any woman looks good in a corset as far as I'm concerned.)

The long and short of it is this; society, the media, your friends, your religious beliefs, any social interaction you have tells you to think something is sexy. Society at large forces images of thin, toned people down our throats because that's what the makers of media are PAID to do. No one here has allowed it to effect what they find attractive and that is a beautiful thing.

Finally, I'd like to share what I find attractive, purely from a physical stand point, as all the women I've read posts from have been spiritually gorgeous. I like, what my friends say, is a woman I could accidentally break. My mom said that when I was in college I liked “dead girls” who were pale with dark hair and light colored eyes. My last girlfriend could be described as bucksome or voluptuous. I find a lot of things attractive in a woman, but I prefer small women, 5 ft to 5”5' or so, waifishly to athletically built with dark hair and fair skin. I try not to discriminate, however. Just to name a few I've noticed on here who fall into my category (sorry if I put you on the spot), Eroica86, Britanni, MaryElizabethAntoinette. They don't build them like you guys down here. Mostly in the south is big hair, bleach blond, and a distinct lack of intellect, usually with about 10 kids by the time they're 16. More's the pitty for me.

[kittymahlberg]

Originally Posted by lucyp

Hmm. Yeeeah, I guess I'd count as skinny. I'm about 5'1" and 100 pounds. Here in NZ I'm a size 8, but in the US that'd be about a size 2. Size 8 is not rare here in NZ, lots and lots of very small, short, petite women here. Maybe you short BHMs might try looking outside of the US? =)

From over on another part of the forum here I found this bit describing us skinny girls and wee little women:


Ow. =( No matter what you do or what you wear or how you look, people often decide they can read your mind by looking at you. I haven't 'driven the devils of sensuality out of my body' and I don't have a goal of 'flaunting my asexualness' (*is frankly boggled*). I'm not ill. I don't have an eating disorder. I'm not trying to be skinny. I've never been on a diet, ever. I like to eat. Like many people who are heavy, it's just the particular genetic cards I drew that I'm built light. My entire family is built like miniature greyhounds; it's got nothing to do with anything I did that I'm like this. Or as this nice fat woman blogger says of her skinny friend, "the bodies that we have tell us a whole lot of nothin' about each other." I think that's often true.

Women my size may be fairly common here in New Zealand, but in the US women this small seem to be much more rare and people that I was trying to make friends with in the US sometimes would look at me and make assumptions about what I must have in my head that I look like this, and I'd have to prove myself each time that I'm not media-crazed insane. Men, they never did make the first move. I learned to pursue, to seduce- because I had to. (And after the first success, I discovered that pursuing is actually lots more fun than waiting to be asked. And so much quicker! Hehehe!)

As for what I like about fat men- I like the feel. I like almost not quite getting my arms to go all the way around, I like his belly pressing into mine and my breasts resting on top. I kind of have a thing for those little dimples over really big people's knuckles, though my guy isn't big enough to have those any more. I just admire other people's hands a lot.

And about the whole being afraid of crushing women who are this small as mentioned above by some other posters--- I like a light squishing especially. I ask for that. I don't know that I can describe it, maybe you'd have to experience it from the smaller person's perspective yourself, but it's awesome! I didn't start out an FFA, wasn't born with the predilection or acquire it in childhood like some, but after I experienced a nice gentle smooshing as an adult, I really just couldn't get enough and my preference was set pretty well after that. =)

I'm replying a bit late in the game, but I couldn't agree with you more. Here in the States, I'm usually the smallest size they've got--and sometimes not even that! It's darned inconvenient. Like you, my size is in the genes. Trying to gain makes me physically sick. And, yes, I've gotten used to my parents worrying that I might be a closet anorexic. I don't care anymore. I eat what I feel like eating and exercise a little every day because I enjoy it.

I didn't find the quote all that offensive (though I can see how some would), if only because I feel like all those beautiful women deserve to get a little of their own back. Considering all they have to put up with, a skinny mini like me doesn't mind taking a few knocks.

Most of us recognize that everyone has their own preferences, despite what the media try to tell us. If someone doesn't like my figure because I'm too skinny, I know there are people out there who do. And vice versa. The main thing is confidence, because it's healthy, and because many of the guys I've talked to appreciate that in a woman, no matter what her size.

~.Kitty.~

[xm41]

I'm glad there are so many small FFA's. I came here looking for small FFA's. This is the only place on the net that I know of where small FAA's hang out
(other than the BHC that is). I really wish I knew of others. I sure as hell wish I knew of one in real life.

I have never had the fortune of meeting a FFA in real life. Sometimes I fear that I will die alone never having met one. I wish it was easier for us big guys. All my life I was trained to think that no woman would ever want me. I got that message loud and clear from both family and friends. It’s nice to know different.

I'm not hating on BBW's I come from a family of BBW's and I love them dearly. It's just not what I'm attracted to.

Ron
http://www.myspace.com/xm41

[Ninja Glutton]

FFAs big and small are welcome as far as I'm concerned. It's been too long since I've had a warm body pressed up against mine...

*Scurries off to creep on the BHM experiences thread*

[jujuspice93]

I'm.....kind of little? I guess compared to others I'm not but I'm 5'2 and a 110 pounds, but I'm very active (more due to ADHD and the inability to sit down for long periods of time than discipline). I'm also attractive to all guys. I know some FFA's can't see themselves with a scrawny or a muscular guy, but I'm pretty easy going in my preferences. I'd rather have a scrawny bean pole who can dress great, is incredible confident, has a great personality, and is fairly intelligent than an unconfident, shy, and not very bright BHM (and vice versa - no generalizations here). BUT! I do know that I always love bigger guys probably because of their size, how fun it is to cuddle them, and how much they can eat. Also, when you walk around the city or go somewhere with a BHM, no one will give you any trouble. They our own knights in shining armor with the sweetest smiles. That and everything is better bigger.

[kinkykitten]

I'm pretty small i guess at 97lbs... i love feeding my man up he is 3 times heavier than myself and i LOVE the size difference.

[WhiteHotRazor]

97lbs is definitely small I think my leg weighs 97lbs..well maybe not, but yea that's pretty teeny

[Ninja Glutton]

Originally Posted by kinkykitten

I'm pretty small i guess at 97lbs... i love feeding my man up he is 3 times heavier than myself and i LOVE the size difference.

I wish I had a gorgeous gal like you to feed me...

[kinkykitten]

Originally Posted by WhiteHotRazor

97lbs is definitely small I think my leg weighs 97lbs..well maybe not, but yea that's pretty teeny

Lol I love the way my other half just scoops me up it's cute.

Originally Posted by Ninja Glutton

I wish I had a gorgeous gal like you to feed me...

Aww thanks x

[djudex]

Teeny tiny women are a good thing and far less breakable than one would think. I had a girlfriend who was 4'11 and 95 lbs. (myself being 6'7) and there were a few times she almost broke me! The funsized girls are a lot of fun since you can pick them up and toss them around willy-nilly.

That being said tall women are good too but as a ogre I probably have a more unique perspective on that as I can pick them up and toss them around as well. I also dated at one point a gal who was 5'11 and she was quite surprised and more than delighted to find that I could scoop her up in one arm and carry her around.

[Hole]

Originally Posted by Lotsachub2006

Hey folks, a BHM here and was just curious as to how many FFAs would consider themselves "skinny" and what most appeals to them about having a BHM cuddling next to them....

J.

I'm don't label myself a FFA but I am in love with a BHM. I detest when people wonder why I'm him because of his size. I find him incredibly sexy and that's what matters. I hate it when he tries to starve himself ocassionally. I tell him he's a man and he needs his food!

I'm not skinny by the way. I'm very much a average sized girl who has had struggles with weight. I've been big and small.

My fiance hates his stomach but I actually love his big belly. I love laying there in bed rubbing it.The softeness of it ..<3 I love his thick thighs too. I just love how much bigger he is than me. It makes me feel feminine. Protected even.I love how when we make love he'll squish me sometimes. I call him my cuddly wuddly bear. It's such a warm feeling to have his body on mine.

[otherland78]

have for us guys ( feeding them up 3 times fatter than you ) ;-) ?

really hmm i would like this imagination i wish one day i meet a lady who tries to fatten me up perhaps a little secretely but hmmm....


what a nice idea why you don´tlive in europe my dear?;-) argghh

have a nice sunday all

[Cane]

Yeah as a BHM I definitely don't discriminate against BBWs, have dated a couple, but I must admit there's something undeniably sexy about dating a comparatively skinny girl. Something about the contrast when I have my arms around her looking in the mirror is just plain hot. Rock on skinny FFAs lol.

[kinkykitten]

Originally Posted by Cane

Yeah as a BHM I definitely don't discriminate against BBWs, have dated a couple, but I must admit there's something undeniably sexy about dating a comparatively skinny girl. Something about the contrast when I have my arms around her looking in the mirror is just plain hot. Rock on skinny FFAs lol.

Lol i like that aspect. I love it when my other half holds me.. it's like he is hugging himself and i see us together... Particually on the side profile... he is like almost 2 and a half of me

[Rowan]

Originally Posted by kinkykitten

Lol i like that aspect. I love it when my other half holds me.. it's like he is hugging himself and i see us together... Particually on the side profile... he is like almost 2 and a half of me

well he's a lucky guy....you're wicked cute