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Old 08-09-2014, 01:00 PM   #26
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How about the married woman who cheats on her husband?
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Unfortunately this is nowhere close to true in the United States. The prostitutes I deal with (as is the case with many of my clients) have very limited healthcare access.
Yes. But it is true in Nevada.
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Old 08-09-2014, 01:30 PM   #27
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Just a tad off-topic but I'd just like to say here that I am most definitely NOT the bbw "escort" calling herself Ruby in the UK. I have had countless men online ask me, and several proposition me. I also think at least three of my online friends don't believe that it isn't me.

It is actually an English SSBBW who knows me well from online and knows that I've used Ruby as my name as long as she's been online. She CLEARLY knows that people would think it is me, especially as her photos on her prostitution site don't show her face. And she decided to use the name Ruby long after she knew me here. I hope she reads this.

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Old 08-09-2014, 01:57 PM   #28
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I feel ranty about this these days. Who's (as people phrase it) "cleaner": a married guy who every ten years cheats on his wife but never uses a condom in any situation, putting everyone at risk, or someone who has many more sexual partners but practices safer sex each time? I don't like the way we match up STI risk and our perception of people's personal lives.

Epidemiology is epidemiology. Can't approach this topic the way you can approach anything else.

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Arguably the former (depending on whether his wife was faithful and the lifestyles and practices of the paramour). It also matters what STI one is concerned with. A straight male could get HIV having vaginal sex with a female partner, but that route of transmission is somewhat poor, with the female at more risk if the male has HIV, but still far lower risk than than anal intercourse brings.

When is comes to HSV, there really is no safe sex. HSV can be found around the labia and easily contact the base of the penis which the condom doesn't cover.

A condom can be quite effective at stopping HIV, NGU, gonorrhea and many other STIs provided it does not break.
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Old 08-10-2014, 05:44 PM   #29
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It also matters what STI one is concerned with. A straight male could get HIV having vaginal sex with a female partner, but that route of transmission is somewhat poor, with the female at more risk if the male has HIV, but still far lower risk than than anal intercourse brings.

When is comes to HSV, there really is no safe sex. HSV can be found around the labia and easily contact the base of the penis which the condom doesn't cover.

A condom can be quite effective at stopping HIV, NGU, gonorrhea and many other STIs provided it does not break.
Agree with all of those estimations, especially about HSV. All reasons why I wish public information would create more of a directive about making better, stronger, simpler (sometimes), broader choices about safer sex, with all that in mind.
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Old 08-11-2014, 10:29 AM   #30
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Hahah sorry I was ranty.

AS YOU WERE, OP. BBW escort, eh?...
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You don't know that. And it is only variably true. And FWIW in places where prostitution is legal, sex workers have much lower rates of infection than the general pop.

I feel ranty about this these days. Who's (as people phrase it) "cleaner": a married guy who every ten years cheats on his wife but never uses a condom in any situation, putting everyone at risk, or someone who has many more sexual partners but practices safer sex each time? I don't like the way we match up STI risk and our perception of people's personal lives.

Epidemiology is epidemiology. Can't approach this topic the way you can approach anything else.

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I'm sure the "escorts" are so clean you can eat off them. All I said was that he should use a rubber...
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So...about prosititutes.
I don't use them for the same reason I don't use communism. Sounds great in theory, a safe, efficient way of disposing of one of lifes biggest iches at a fair price, but in fact...not so much. I mean it would be great for me if I could find someone reasonable to scratch my back for me, but there are not only the threats of cooties, personal society shaming, and apparently high cost, but also (from what I've read) that pimps basicly make slaves of these women and collect their profits by coersion of "love" of beatings, or drugs. Personaly I'd rather geld myself (Chemically! CHEMICALLY!) than force myself on someone like that. Maybe from there it may be a short way to rapetown.
and if there was someone who would sleep with me for a price, I would be insulted that their services wouldn't be rendered free and would adjust MY price accordingly.
(I would sell myself if there was a reasonable safe and sane market to my skinny white boys ass. Not literally my ass, as I'm a kinsey...well ok but they would have to pay a lot and buy me flowers. Everyone has a price, its just the hageling that is difficult.)
and if it was safe and free, and vegas type fun.... I would have to consider my position as one of the major backers of bbw and ssbbw pornography. (Yes I do buy porn sometimes as I realize that our nice is small enough at the moment that one day I am bound to meet some of the actual performers and I would prefer to have it be a positive expereince. ) (Said porn buying would have to be in my top ten range of performers, surprisingly there is bad porn out there.)
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You don't know that. And it is only variably true. And FWIW in places where prostitution is legal, sex workers have much lower rates of infection than the general pop.

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Here in the good old USA with our pathetic healthcare system and third world poverty the STD rate for sex workers is far higher than general population rates.

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/other/sexworkers.html
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This may surprise you, but there is a whole lotta world out there that isn't North America. There's also a hell of a lot outside your personal experience.
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This may surprise you, but there is a whole lotta world out there that isn't North America. There's also a hell of a lot outside your personal experience.
That is the essential problem that affects a lot of folks on this web portal. They have limited experiences. They don't meet people outside of their areas. There is a huge world beyond the USA, and I am glad for the mosiac of cultures this world has to offer. It would be better for Americans to travel, meet new people, and learn foreign langauges--three things that would seriously expand Americans' horizons.


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This may surprise you, but there is a whole lotta world out there that isn't North America. There's also a hell of a lot outside your personal experience.
Yeah I'm sure the lives of prostitutes in Africa, Southeast Asia, Central America ... are just great.
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Yeah I'm sure the lives of prostitutes in Africa, Southeast Asia, Central America ... are just great.
It sounds like you're confusing sex trafficking and slavery with voluntary prostitution. They are two different issues. People who are forced into prostitution - either by other people, addiction, or circumstance - will have different experiences than of those who choose it as a career. There are plenty of men and women out there who DO choose sex work and who DO take care of their health, and the health of their clients.

Brothels are legal in most states here, if not all. There are strict guidelines as to where they can operate, they are taxed, and the health of the workers is important. It is legal to work as a solo operator from your home (more than one person in a residence doing it falls under the brothel rules), but not streetwalking, though that does happen if you know where to look.

There are many, many reasons why someone would hire a prostitute, and none of them are any of your fucking business, and none of them require your moral stamp of approval. There is a huge difference between saying that you would or wouldn't do something, and that anyone who does it is wrong. Yet again you miss the preference vs judgement issue.

Your little pocket of the world is not the whole world. I know many people out there are forced into it, and there will be a portion who have contracted an STI while on the job. But you know what? There is a portion of the general population who have contracted STIs from regular sexual encounters, too. There are many men who use women for sex, who will pay for dinners and drinks and expect that a woman puts out for them. For men like this, their date "owes" them sex. It's an outdated, sexist ideology that has to go. As is the idea that prostitution is a moral failing.
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It sounds like you're confusing sex trafficking and slavery with voluntary prostitution. They are two different issues. People who are forced into prostitution - either by other people, addiction, or circumstance - will have different experiences than of those who choose it as a career. There are plenty of men and women out there who DO choose sex work and who DO take care of their health, and the health of their clients.

Brothels are legal in most states here, if not all. There are strict guidelines as to where they can operate, they are taxed, and the health of the workers is important. It is legal to work as a solo operator from your home (more than one person in a residence doing it falls under the brothel rules), but not streetwalking, though that does happen if you know where to look.

There are many, many reasons why someone would hire a prostitute, and none of them are any of your fucking business, and none of them require your moral stamp of approval. There is a huge difference between saying that you would or wouldn't do something, and that anyone who does it is wrong. Yet again you miss the preference vs judgement issue.

Your little pocket of the world is not the whole world. I know many people out there are forced into it, and there will be a portion who have contracted an STI while on the job. But you know what? There is a portion of the general population who have contracted STIs from regular sexual encounters, too. There are many men who use women for sex, who will pay for dinners and drinks and expect that a woman puts out for them. For men like this, their date "owes" them sex. It's an outdated, sexist ideology that has to go. As is the idea that prostitution is a moral failing.
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Your little pocket of the world is not the whole world. ...

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Again you've got things reversed. Australia's system is the tiny little pocket. A good pocket -- but a very small one. As I've said over and over I'm all for legalization. Sounds like Australia has done a great job. However, the reality of Australian sex workers is not the reality of the vast majority of the world's sex workers.
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http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/other/sexworkers.html
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"Again you've got things reversed. Australia's system is the tiny little pocket. A good pocket -- but a very small one. As I've said over and over I'm all for legalization. Sounds like Australia has done a great job. However, the reality of Australian sex workers is not the reality of the vast majority of the world's sex workers."
I would say that both the US & Australia are somewhat unique. Both different from each other and from a lot of the rest of the world.

How many countries have labor protections like Australia's? Added to its geographic remoteness from the source of much of the world's undocumented labor.

The US has a good deal of wealth and a very large economy. But, compared to much of the similarly developed world, a disproportionately weak social safety net. And is lagging in areas of early & secondary education, vocational development, etc... It's newly begun a process to revamp its healthcare system. But, also, will probably take a while (maybe decades-even) to catch up with some of its European or Asian counterparts...

Neither country, however, is truly either tiny or a pocket. From the point of view of it being where you live and will spend most of your life. If it's the broader environment in which you will raise your kid(s). Or acquire a blood transfusion, should that become necessary.

And so, different laws and different morality is just a reflection of different people facing different material factors. The later of which will not change so quickly....
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Australian here, we have a fair few bbw escorts in our city. A couple of ssbbw ones sometimes pop up online. One ssbbw escort in particular is huge and is in her 50s. She's too big and old to be hired for a 'real job', has diabetes, and cannot stand or sit for too long. She is the cheapest escort around by far, and is amazing for those who cannot easily find a ssbbw or are into mature ssbbw. She doesn't particularly like the label whore or prostitute or escort but its a way of making money, she gets regular sex and it makes people happy.

I am in my early 30s but she said more and more young people in their teens and twenties are interested in ssbbw. A couple of them even asked her to be their girlfriend. She said no I am not dating someone younger than my daughter! Must be the internet and the ssbbw stuff out there. I told her for me the heavier the better, and savoured her huge hanging gut and a wide ass. She said most clients come for a fully clothed blow and go. I seem to get extras for free which is a bonus. Barebacking is risky but I usually cant resist when there's a 200kg grandmother ready and waiting

She has brought up something about a bbw swingers club, I dont know much about it, but I told her it would be cool to meet other FAs and bbws
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She doesn't particularly like the label whore or prostitute or escort but its a way of making money, she gets regular sex and it makes people happy.
Most sex workers don't like the label "whore".
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Old 04-04-2015, 02:28 PM   #47
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Australian here, we have a fair few bbw escorts in our city. A couple of ssbbw ones sometimes pop up online. One ssbbw escort in particular is huge and is in her 50s. She's too big and old to be hired for a 'real job', has diabetes, and cannot stand or sit for too long. She is the cheapest escort around by far, and is amazing for those who cannot easily find a ssbbw or are into mature ssbbw. She doesn't particularly like the label whore or prostitute or escort but its a way of making money, she gets regular sex and it makes people happy.

I am in my early 30s but she said more and more young people in their teens and twenties are interested in ssbbw. A couple of them even asked her to be their girlfriend. She said no I am not dating someone younger than my daughter! Must be the internet and the ssbbw stuff out there. I told her for me the heavier the better, and savoured her huge hanging gut and a wide ass. She said most clients come for a fully clothed blow and go. I seem to get extras for free which is a bonus. Barebacking is risky but I usually cant resist when there's a 200kg grandmother ready and waiting

She has brought up something about a bbw swingers club, I dont know much about it, but I told her it would be cool to meet other FAs and bbws
Sounds like this poor lady has no other choice. Would be beyond my abilities to abuse someone who is trying to survive.
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"...huge and is in her 50s. She's too big and old to be hired for a 'real job', has diabetes, and cannot stand or sit for too long."
Doesn't Australia have a pretty good job-market? Just how old or huge does one have to be in order to be mostly unemployable?

In my state, in the US, we have something called VESID, that helps disabled people learn about & access all kinds of vocational & educational opportunities. Best part, going back to work even full-time doesn't necessarily affect your benefits. So, it's sort of like an incentive to get otherwise motivated people to just give it a shot.

Then again, it's also important to keep in mind that when some people act as if they don't even want to work, there can often be other, less tangible issues in play (e.g. Don't know what it is they really want to do, no road-map for how to go about it or even market themselves. Self-confidence.)

But, aside from any of that, when you say "amazing, " is it that people, in general, are amazed by her-personally? Or is it just more like they're amazed at the whole situation? That they're (again?) resorting to essentially paying for human-contact. I'm also hoping, you don't mean either Sydney or Melbourne as our city as an Ausralian; just because I think it would be unfair to characterize anything other than Canberra as Australia's city, per se...

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