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Old 01-30-2015, 06:59 AM   #1
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I'm fortunate in that my BBW wife likes for me to tell her how big her parts are (thighs, rear end, etc) while we have sex.

She also likes when I call her:
-Fat girl
-Big girl
- The words big and fat in front of other dirty/degrading words that I probably can't use on this forum

I guess she gets turned on at the thought of me being turned on by her big assets.

Now, I'm trying to think of other things I can call her that could have the same effect. I thought of big boned girl and plus sized girl but those seem kinda weak compared to the ones I already mentioned.

Can you BBWs share some that you like to be called?

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Old 01-30-2015, 07:26 PM   #2
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My partners are usually down with the standard who're, slut, bitch, meat sleeve, etc.
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Old 01-30-2015, 08:19 PM   #3
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i do love being called a slut
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Old 01-30-2015, 08:21 PM   #4
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But what else as far as nicknames describing the fatness?
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Old 01-30-2015, 08:47 PM   #5
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Old 01-30-2015, 10:41 PM   #6
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Maybe it's more about whatever would otherwise be totally out of character for the person saying it? Like if they are normally kind of rough and crass, then it's something sentimental, poetic, & tender. Or, conversely:

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Have you asked her what she would like to hear?
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Old 01-31-2015, 12:14 AM   #8
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If who-are is what you really mean, then just say it, already...
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That is a beautiful sound coming out of a lover's mouth... it really is.
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Old 02-09-2015, 04:59 AM   #11
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If who-are is what you really mean, then just say it, already...
"Baby, say your name."
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"Yes. Seriously, who are you? I'm pretty sure you told me earlier, but for the life of me I can't recall."

Kinda ruins the moment, no?
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like I mentioned in the other sex talk thread, if you're doing it right you aren't able to say NOTHIN
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personally I like to be called beautiful but that's just me.
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Old 03-06-2015, 03:24 PM   #15
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I tell my BBW wife just how sexy she is the whole time, and she loves that. Sometimes I ask "what kind of girls do I like" and she'll say "big girls" and that turns me on huge! Its so hot to hear her say that. Lately she has been getting a little dirty saying fuck me or fuck me hard. Its all very hot. She also likes to say "cum inside me" I want your cum inside me" and that is extremely hot also.
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All the "Hot Sexy Bitches" on this forum and we got Squat so far. Man you ppl are looking lame.
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It depends on my mood.. if I am up for straight up *ucking.. then I like dirty.. so the dirtier the man can get the better.

If I am feeling mushy, then it is sweet things I like to hear.

If I am in between the two, then I want some dirty and some sweet stuff.
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Old 03-09-2015, 04:39 PM   #19
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Let's get into specifics...

Ladies: What are some super dirty things you like your men to say to you in bed?
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It depends on my mood.. if I am up for straight up *ucking.. then I like dirty.. so the dirtier the man can get the better.

If I am feeling mushy, then it is sweet things I like to hear.

If I am in between the two, then I want some dirty and some sweet stuff.
Me, too. I either say, tell me sexy stuff, or tell me lovey stuff. It gets the motor started, especially with a kiss on the neck.
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I get that in an FA aspect, they may like saying and hearing the "fat phrases" but being a BBW in bed, I personally am NO different to any other woman. I would feel awful if some guy was calling me a gigantic cow or something in bed.
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I get that in an FA aspect, they may like saying and hearing the "fat phrases" but being a BBW in bed, I personally am NO different to any other woman. I would feel awful if some guy was calling me a gigantic cow or something in bed.

indeed. this is why i'm always encouraging people to step back FA mode and think . what happens in porn and in fetish doesn't have much to do with most fat women because most fat women are not porn characters/sex workers or feel like an object of fetish. they just feel like women.

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Okay so for ME personally I want my size, my weight, my physical appearance to be ONE of the many things a man in MY bed likes about me. I must admit when I was in a relationship I would giggle in a cute manner when my boyfriend would look lovingly at my stomach and call me his "round goddess" before kissing me which has helped me appreciate my apple shape a little bit more.

To be honest I want to be called things that make me feel sexier and more beautiful in bed since I'm not sure about the other women but I get put down enough when I leave the house. Talking about my size isn't a bad thing especially if I know you are sincere with your words but uh...how to put this without being too vulgar? Uh...parts of you will let me know you're sincere. Telling me you love my fat tummy, my big thighs, you love my massive breasts? You love my warm rolls? even telling me in the most vulgar of ways that you want to explore all the fat areas of me?



BUT also things that aren't about my weight are amazing as well. It's a bit hard to answer this so generically because all of us lovely women in here are so different look and personality wise BUT Knowing you like the things we've been told are ugly for so long is SO nice and if anything will get me in the mood to love your face right off it's you telling me from head to toe, I'm perfect the way I am and really meaning it.
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My wife sometimes enjoys a little dirty talk and at times can be far more vulgar than I am. But basically any use of words like "fat" are out of the question. She doesn't want me to call her names or anything like that. However, general references to her size, if delivered appropriately, are okay. Even she will tell me to [do stuff] to her "big, soft ass." She's even referred to it as her "giant" ass and I am free to use word like big, soft, even giant or massive. She knows her posterior drives me crazy and is very open to some feisty talk and behavior, but the second I use the "f" word I am a goner!
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