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Old 03-21-2016, 12:20 PM   #1
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There seems to be a trend perhaps it is natural or maybe social media push. I've been seeing a lot of BBWs especially white women that prefer BBCs. Wondering if this is because BBWs naturally want a man with a bigger penis or if there are other reasons.

So I'd like to know what BBWs here think about this topic.

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I totally agree, from Dr. Who to Fawlty Towers many BBWs enjoy the British Broadcasting Company. You clearly have brought up an interesting and intelligent point. Thank you for substantially raising the level of intellectually stimulating discussion on this site. Good day, sir.

Also have you spoken to Frankbell, Mudee? I think you guys would get along great. Potential for some real stellar discussion there.
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I'm not sure if it's a trend or something you're noticing only as a product of your perspective. BBWs of any ethnicity do not function as a unit but as individuals. As such their preferences are going to vary. Some of them probably like bigger equipment and others may not have as strong a preference there so long as her partner can use what he's got and isn't a selfish lover.

Size has only a few times come up.

Years ago I dated a very attractive plus size AA woman. She was shaped much like a Layne Bryant model, but bigger: 6'1" tall, thick torso, big thighs and butt and boobs so big I hardly knew what to do with them! I'm 5'7" and at the time weighed ~150-155 or so. I was the first white guy she'd ever dated and she teased that I'd likely not be endowed enough to satisfy her. After we had sex the first time she said I was great for a "little white guy" and enjoyed teasing me about being smaller than any of her AA previous partners. But she always came back for more and always seemed to really enjoy what we had together, so despite the teasing I doubt the size was actually an issue.

A couple years later I dated a white BBW who was short, ~358 or so pounds. She had been with a "larger" AA partner about a week before I entered the picture. After our first time together she broke things off with him because I was a more manageable size for her. Big enough for conventional sex and small enough for anal without it rupturing her inside her bottom. She had found it challenging to find the right combination of size and willingness to do anal until she met me.

More recently my wife has mentioned my size relative to her weight and shape. Sometimes she will say, "you're not big enough for us to do that position" and other times she'll say "I'm too fat for us to do that" but more importantly to me is she always says I am the perfect size for her and very skilled at what I do.

I know I'm not overly large but I think I am above average in size. I haven't actually ever played a game of "mine is bigger than yours" but I did read the average D is 4" long when fully aroused. I don't recall how big around the average is, nor do I recall my own dimensions. I did measure after reading that and I was above average in length and girth but I don't recall my own specs.

I do know I've had a wide range of partners before I was married and size was only a teasing point with one and actually earned me a win with another. I guess they're all different.
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I'm not sure if it's a trend or something you're noticing only as a product of your perspective. BBWs of any ethnicity do not function as a unit but as individuals. As such their preferences are going to vary. Some of them probably like bigger equipment and others may not have as strong a preference there so long as her partner can use what he's got and isn't a selfish lover.

Size has only a few times come up.

Years ago I dated a very attractive plus size AA woman. She was shaped much like a Layne Bryant model, but bigger: 6'1" tall, thick torso, big thighs and butt and boobs so big I hardly knew what to do with them! I'm 5'7" and at the time weighed ~150-155 or so. I was the first white guy she'd ever dated and she teased that I'd likely not be endowed enough to satisfy her. After we had sex the first time she said I was great for a "little white guy" and enjoyed teasing me about being smaller than any of her AA previous partners. But she always came back for more and always seemed to really enjoy what we had together, so despite the teasing I doubt the size was actually an issue.

A couple years later I dated a white BBW who was short, ~358 or so pounds. She had been with a "larger" AA partner about a week before I entered the picture. After our first time together she broke things off with him because I was a more manageable size for her. Big enough for conventional sex and small enough for anal without it rupturing her inside her bottom. She had found it challenging to find the right combination of size and willingness to do anal until she met me.

More recently my wife has mentioned my size relative to her weight and shape. Sometimes she will say, "you're not big enough for us to do that position" and other times she'll say "I'm too fat for us to do that" but more importantly to me is she always says I am the perfect size for her and very skilled at what I do.

I know I'm not overly large but I think I am above average in size. I haven't actually ever played a game of "mine is bigger than yours" but I did read the average D is 4" long when fully aroused. I don't recall how big around the average is, nor do I recall my own dimensions. I did measure after reading that and I was above average in length and girth but I don't recall my own specs.

I do know I've had a wide range of partners before I was married and size was only a teasing point with one and actually earned me a win with another. I guess they're all different.
Hi, thanks for sharing your thoughts. Just from personal experience I've seen many BBWs especially white BBWs with black men. I think it's like mutually beneficial relationship, the black guys in this role typically like large white women, the large white women like the bigger penis size that is often associated with blacks.

Not to mention I've seen images in media promoting this type of relationship. There definitely seems to be a large social trend. BBWs may be individuals but even individuals conform to some extent. I once dated a thick white woman, not necessarily BBW, but getting there and mind you I am a South Asian male and she commented she preferred darker men due to size. Her ex white boyfriend was smaller and unable to satisfy her, and as a thick woman she realized she didn't to be more open to darker men who have a higher likelihood of having a larger penis than a white guy.

I wonder if any BBWs here can offer their opinions.
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Hi, thanks for sharing your thoughts. Just from personal experience I've seen many BBWs especially white BBWs with black men. I think it's like mutually beneficial relationship, the black guys in this role typically like large white women, the large white women like the bigger penis size that is often associated with blacks.

Not to mention I've seen images in media promoting this type of relationship. There definitely seems to be a large social trend. BBWs may be individuals but even individuals conform to some extent. I once dated a thick white woman, not necessarily BBW, but getting there and mind you I am a South Asian male and she commented she preferred darker men due to size. Her ex white boyfriend was smaller and unable to satisfy her, and as a thick woman she realized she didn't to be more open to darker men who have a higher likelihood of having a larger penis than a white guy.

I wonder if any BBWs here can offer their opinions.
Oh, I certainly agree black males and white BBWs is a fairly common combination these days, I just wonder to what extent it is a "growing trend." I live in an area with a relatively high AA population and see a little of everything here. In fact my next door neighbors are and AA/BBW mixed race couple. I know more than a couple white male/AA woman mixed race couples as well. I think mixed race is so mainstream now I don't really even consider it noteworthy any more. And so too are those who date/marry within their own ethnicitry.

Another observation I've picked up on is that white women who date black men come in all shapes and sizes, the trend if one exists, doesn't seem to bel limited to white BBWs. So that could be good news if you have a wide range of body types you like. Meanwhile I think it's less common, based on what I've observed, to see a fit white male date an AA BBW. This was something my afore mentioned GF pointed out to me as well: white men who AA women don't go for the fat ones so she had her suspicions of me early on. Again, that's a somewhat anecdotal observation but I've had it reinforced more recently (a story for another time perhaps).

My wife does get hit on by AA men at our gym, but it's pretty rare for her to be bit on by white men. I definitely can see why you have the observations you do, and agree to a great extent both with the observation itself and some of the factors you've suggested explain it. But like I said, I question the degree to which it is a trend. Then again I may be splitting hairs on the definition of a word.

Also there are some good BBW opinions on a similar topic on this thread:

http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/fo...d.php?t=113995
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Hmmm your use of a meme on the second post what really convinced me. It's a powerful argument. I found documentary film evidence supporting the attraction of African American males to Caucasian women.
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I'm a BBW with no racial preference.

Then again, I also have no interest in having sex with anybody so obviously things like the dimensions of a person's genitalia have no relevance to me.
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Dwesterny,

Seriously stop spamming the thread with nonsense videos. If you have nothing of value to contribute then just do us a favor...
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Seriously stop spamming the thread with nonsense videos. If you have nothing of value to contribute then just do us a favor...
Gosh, I feel terrible for being an ass on the forums. How shall I ever hold my head up among decent people?
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Why did you post that meme, OP? Calling yourself a "BBW Specialist" won't endear you to anyone on this site btw.
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Why did you post that meme, OP? Calling yourself a "BBW Specialist" won't endear you to anyone on this site btw.

I tend to think this whole thread is "spam".

And I read a few posts whilst wondering what in the world BBC stood for. I have been known to watch Dr Who in my younger years.


But seriously, I'm usually the first one to make a crack about big dicks .... but to make a thread and pretend to be "serious" when you're making a correlation using porno slang?

Please continue on DWesterny- your posts make this shitbag thread worth reading, IMHO.


P.S. There is such a thing as BWC, BNAC, BJC, BHC, etc. Crikey you seem to be disrespecting not only men in general by making it all about body parts, but also the mentality you perceive women to have.
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I actually liked the subject, save maybe the vulgarity. Then again, on a site that allows advertising for adult sites I have to admit I am a little surprised that people are objecting to OP's use of slang. Still, I didn't consider it spam and actually a worthwhile subject.
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My thought's!

In Porn movies/videos there seems to be a push or following toward BBC. I think the market is giving what the audience is calling for...after all it is a money making business.

In everyday life I believe that Black men do like "thicker", heavier and even really Fat women. Likewise they seem to be very open about it.....where as a lot of white men that like heavier or fatter women may be in the closet a bit....or at least a good percentage. I don't know exactly why that is....but it seems that way. If a beautiful girl/woman keeps getting hit on and made to feel beautiful by someone that certainly makes them feel better and attractive rather than someone that never shows the attraction. That's my very simple quick minded take on it.
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In Porn movies/videos there seems to be a push or following toward BBC. I think the market is giving what the audience is calling for...after all it is a money making business.
Interesting observation. It makes sense, too. Everything in porn is exaggerated so a monster-sized penis, or BBC using OP's vernacular, makes for a good feature in these films. Plus it doesn't get any more representative of "male hood" than a penis, and a BBC says, "bigger, stronger, more man" than a more averaged size...uh..."cast member" if you will. Of course we know from the parallel thread about 300+ pound women needing "bigger dicks" that bigger is not necessarily better in real life. In real life women are all different, from the size queens to those who can be satisfied with an average size or even smaller penis. That goes for women of all sizes, too. And like I experienced, a 350 pound woman with a big butt chose me over a black male expressly because I was smaller and therefore more manageable for her. But real life isn't porn and porn isn't real life and a lot of times in porn bigger is better.

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I guess it's a cultural difference. And it varies by location. For example, in Souther California it is common to see black men with Philipinas, who tend to be on the smaller/petite side especially by American standards. (The ensuing offspring, BTW, are gorgeous!). It's also common to see them with Latinas, another killer combo! There definitely is a stereotype that black men like bigger girls. But look at most hip-hop videos and you get an idea they really like thick curvy solidly built shapely women more so than "fat" women. But there definitely is a trend toward them liking fat women too.

Incidentally just this past week a very fit AA woman struck up a conversation with me at the gym. The weight room is the one place I remove my wedding band so I don't pinch my skin between in and the weights. Long story short: she asked if I'd like to get a "recovery drink" with her when I finished up. I explained I was flattered but very much married. My wife and her friend was waiting just down the stairs and I pointed her out. The woman smiled and asked, "Are you sure you're not part black?" Well played on her part. And as I mentioned in this thread already, my wife does get hit on by black men from time to time.

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Likewise they seem to be very open about it.....where as a lot of white men that like heavier or fatter women may be in the closet a bit....or at least a good percentage. I don't know exactly why that is....but it seems that way. If a beautiful girl/woman keeps getting hit on and made to feel beautiful by someone that certainly makes them feel better and attractive rather than someone that never shows the attraction. That's my very simple quick minded take on it.
It is interesting, especially because you see PLENTY of white couples involving fat women. Someone once suggested to me that white men who end up with fat women do so reluctantly, generally speaking. There are obviously exceptions to this, so many in fact the theory is likely without merit, but that's a topic for another day. Another possible explanation is that since it's more cultural norm for black males to date bigger women (of any ethnicity) than white males, white males are more likely to experience teasing about their choices from friends or other white males. And in my experience, women tend to be far nastier to men who date fat women than other guys are. When I started to come out of the FA closet I got teased over a couple of my partners by my friends, but the teasing stopped when they realized I was all in on having a fat GF. Had it been a one-time thing I'd have never heard the end of it. But girls were far worse than guys. Especially girls I'd already dated who I'd run into in/around town with one of my fat girlfriends. In fact, my first childhood girlfriend was fat, and even my little sister, herself a bit chunky even, teased me relentlessly because the only girlfriend I could get was a fat girl.

So there really are some interesting cultural dynamics at play. But they don't have to ever be definitive of any given individual, male or female of any ethnicity. As individuals we like what we like and are free to pursue it. Pursuing what we like instead of what society wants us to like is both liberating and rewarding!
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Prior to reading this thread, I also only knew BBC as British Broadcasting Corporation.

It also took me a while to deduce that AA, in this context, was not Alcoholics Anonymous.


Acronymic pedantry does little to further obfuscatory eschewance.


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...you seem to be disrespecting not only men in general by making it all about body parts, but also the mentality you perceive women to have.
I certainly hope we never see the day that women are objectified in such a manner!



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There seems to be a trend perhaps it is natural or maybe social media push. I've been seeing a lot of BBWs especially white women that prefer BBCs. Wondering if this is because BBWs naturally want a man with a bigger penis or if there are other reasons.

So I'd like to know what BBWs here think about this topic.

Thank you

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Upon re-reading this post, I see a politely- asked (if colourfully-phrased) question that does seem to have had some thought put into it.



One fallacy (no, that doesn't mean 'little phallus'), however, is that the size of the organ in question is linked to the race of the...'operator'...of said organ.

Some women looking to have sexual relations with men will specify a preference for a larger instrument, regardless of race.

Also, one would imagine it would be easy to find examples of women who do not fit the BBW category who also seek the 'qualifications' sought by those cited in the OP's observations.




Aside from these issues, it does appear to be an honestly-asked (although perhaps somewhat naive) question.

As much as I am entertained by the digressions from it, I am glad to see it being answered.

Some people who do not know something will not ask. This person has asked. I'm not prepared to write him off as a troll just yet.
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What I don't like and what a lot of society thinks is that someone who prefers BBWs and SSBBWs has a pervert fantasy whereas I view it as a physical preference. This, I believe, affects some in showing their true preference.
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Old 04-06-2016, 08:11 AM   #20
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There's no correlation between race and penis size.

People like what they like. One of my closest friends likes petite women. I like black BBWs. At least we'll never come to blows over a woman (even if I weren't married.)
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That is a good point about race and penis size. That there are extremes is unquestionable but that goes for big and small. I suspect the notion that black males tend to be larger is forwarded by numerous factors such as porn and hip hop music and reinforced to individuals anecdotally like in the examples I shared above. Below is a link that dispels a few different myths about penis size, masculinity and sexuality. Definitely worth a quick once-over. And I definitely agree with those who have asserted people like what they like and that is often not limited by ethnicity or body type.

http://small-penis-facts.com/?page_id=19
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I'm no owner of a BBC, but have had only two women complain in my lifetime - one was a size queen, and the other was a "size" queen (my wallet came up short).

I wonder if I should start a thread "BBWs and Intelligentsia male members."
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So here is a legitimate question. Where does the notion that black men have bigger D's than others come from? Some fairly reputable studies have dismissed it as a myth, but that notion came from somewhere. And pretty much every partner I've ever had who has also been with a black man or men has reinforced the notion. Aside from the two I mentioned already there were other girlfriends I had who indicated their previous partners who were black were bigger. Not that they felt this was necessarily better, because other than women who are definitely "size queens" most women actually don't seem to care. Unless a guy is too big. And a co-worker of mine, not a BBW, said (in an alcohol influenced conversation during a conference last year) of a black partner she once had that, "it hurt" and after sleeping with a black man she was hesitant to do it again because she was so sore afterward.

So if the studies say it's a myth, but experiences seem to say otherwise, what's the truth? And where does the narrative come from?
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So if the studies say it's a myth, but experiences seem to say otherwise, what's the truth? And where does the narrative come from?
Africa's a huge place and since its the cradle of humanity its home to an incredible amount of diversity (Africa is home to both the shortest and tallest people on the planet). It shouldn't surprise anyone that some men of African origin are very large while others are not.
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In Porn movies/videos there seems to be a push or following toward BBC. I think the market is giving what the audience is calling for...after all it is a money making business.

In everyday life I believe that Black men do like "thicker", heavier and even really Fat women. Likewise they seem to be very open about it.....where as a lot of white men that like heavier or fatter women may be in the closet a bit....or at least a good percentage. I don't know exactly why that is....but it seems that way. If a beautiful girl/woman keeps getting hit on and made to feel beautiful by someone that certainly makes them feel better and attractive rather than someone that never shows the attraction. That's my very simple quick minded take on it.
I have to agree with you there is definitely a trend in the porn industry that pushes interracial sex between white BBW and BBC men. I think we see that reflective in reality as well.
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