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Old 10-01-2016, 01:39 PM   #1
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So while I am a fat positive chica I'm trying to understand from some admirers why they like being squished. I'm seeing a guy who really enjoys me being on top and looking up at me. He also enjoys me bouncing all my weight on him. What's the appeal, what do you FAs like about it? Give me some tips
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Old 10-01-2016, 01:56 PM   #2
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I can't say I'm into squishing for the sake of squishing but I really do love the way it feels when my wife is on top of me and allows her weight to settle into place on me. I like when she's on top. I like when she leans forward and her big boobs are in my face. Maybe your partner likes similar things?
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I can't say I'm into squishing for the sake of squishing but I really do love the way it feels when my wife is on top of me and allows her weight to settle into place on me. I like when she's on top. I like when she leans forward and her big boobs are in my face. Maybe your partner likes similar things?
I completely agree
with one addition. The feeling of my 400 lbs wife's soft and heavy belly on my chest makes me to the happiest guy of the world.
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I like having bigger partners on top of me. I like the feeling of supporting all their weight, of feeling it all pressing down on me and being at their mercy.
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I am in agreement with everything said above. I love everything about a big girl on top of me during bedroom activities. Being straddled by a BBW is one of life's greatest joys.

I guess it might depend on what the guy wants. Do you mean he likes it when you are just laying/planking on him or sitting on him, without kissing or sexual activity? If this is the case it could be about control.
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It's erotic to me to feel someone's weight on top of me and it becomes more so the heavier they are. I enjoy feeling my body compress under someone and also the soreness that comes afterwards. And being really large myself it's a turn-on to feel someone even bigger being able to truly crush me.
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I like the way Snrub thinks.

For me it's the feeling of power and the feeling of knowing she is in control. Both of those are big turn ons for me.
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I am not sure where to put it, but I feel here is a nice place.

I work at a call center where pressure to make miracle (sales with a badish product) is intense. However there are some BBW which make the situation more bearable (and a plump lesbian which improves the situation a bit more). I was on the phone with a customer, the discussion was going well and then I looked at the skinny female supervisor. She was following the conversation using a handset and said "If you loose the sale, I am stepping on you". I had a very hard time not laughing fortunately the gentleman I was talking with was very nice and my difficulties turned to be the next ice-breaking discussion.

When I narrated the conversation to the young plump lesbian (who knows how I like (SS)BBW ) she laughed for both of us.

I am not sure if the supervisor had said about delegating the squashing "threat" to a BBW co-worker would have worked - too horny to continue the conversation!
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I like having bigger partners on top of me. I like the feeling of supporting all their weight, of feeling it all pressing down on me and being at their mercy.
I like being on top but I have found most partners are uncomfortable with someone as big as me on top.
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Hard to say. I've always liked fat bodies, the way they look, they way they feel, what they represent to me. That includes the mass and weight, and feeling that on top of me is just wonderful.

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Old 11-13-2016, 02:53 PM   #12
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It's erotic to me to feel someone's weight on top of me and it becomes more so the heavier they are. I enjoy feeling my body compress under someone and also the soreness that comes afterwards. And being really large myself it's a turn-on to feel someone even bigger being able to truly crush me.
Interesting thoughts here...
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How so? In a good way or bad? I'm curious...
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Oh, good of course. I've never really thought in depth about why I like the things I like or why other people would like things they do, but having a description like that makes it more appealing and understandable I suppose.
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Old 11-13-2016, 05:10 PM   #15
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Oh, good of course. I've never really thought in depth about why I like the things I like or why other people would like things they do, but having a description like that makes it more appealing and understandable I suppose.
I think about why I like some of the things I do. I've questioned very hard why I have the preferences I do (well, I did years ago when I first came out of the FA closet) and I can honestly say, being ridden hard by a 300+ pound partner was immensely appealing. I recall weighing ~150 and had a girlfriend of 350 pounds years back and loved that she didn't buy into that "I'm afraid I'll break you" nonsense. She was aggressive and demanding and liked being on top and even said if I couldn't handle it I should go look for a skinny girlfriend.

FF to today. My wife likes being on top sometimes and is incredible at it. I love the way it feels when her weight settles in on top of me and how much of a workout it is to give her a firm "foundation" to work on. It can be hard work but it is worth it!
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