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Old 07-21-2017, 07:41 PM   #26
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Can relate to that. My partner too. He's totally different from other guys. Then I found out that his uncle is a gay??
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Old 07-21-2017, 08:05 PM   #27
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Just because his Uncle is gay doesn't mean your guy is Pattie.
Its not like you catch it being around a gay person.LOLOL
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Old 07-31-2017, 08:58 AM   #28
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Then I found out that his uncle is a gay??
What the actual fuck? First did you really say "a gay"? I mean... People still say shit like that? And what does a gay uncle have to do with anyth *head explodes*

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Old 09-19-2017, 06:45 AM   #29
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Just talk with him about whts the matter. Is he interested in you or not.
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Old 09-19-2017, 08:43 AM   #30
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Old 02-06-2018, 02:19 AM   #31
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Finally got him to the Dr after the sex died a horrible death, we hadnít done anything in a year. Heís still massively affectionate, but he admits he just canít be bothered and itís too much effort.
Test results showed he had low Tostesterone levels so he will need that fixed, itís a relief to finally have an answer tbh. Weíre still together and very much in love but we will also be seaking counselling if thereís no improvement, atm weíre in a sex once a year at best relationship and itís frustrating for me
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Old 02-06-2018, 09:37 AM   #32
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Have you ever thought about reversing the situation to try and understand where he is coming from?
If you didn't want sex and he did? Would you like it if he said you need to get that fixed like you had low E lets say.
Many couples after years of marriage just lose the sex drive because its the same every day you are with that person all the time.
My ex lost interest because I was a bitch and complained all the time about him. He was a jack ass yes but I drove him away.
My point is look at yourself first and don't put all the blame on him because maybe its you that has changed.
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Being the first time I've read through this thread, and after reading through it's whole progression, I have something else to say. But originally I came here to say that it might be a low T problem. I myself have had an issue with T since I started getting up there in the Lbs, and my sex drive still isn't what it was when I was a much lower weight.

But I'm glad you two have found the issue, I would just mention that it can take some time for him to get his drive back. The body and mind takes time to adjust to the introduction of hormones when they've been lacking.
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Have you ever thought about reversing the situation to try and understand where he is coming from?
If you didn't want sex and he did? Would you like it if he said you need to get that fixed like you had low E lets say.
Many couples after years of marriage just lose the sex drive because its the same every day you are with that person all the time.
My ex lost interest because I was a bitch and complained all the time about him. He was a jack ass yes but I drove him away.
My point is look at yourself first and don't put all the blame on him because maybe its you that has changed.
The problem is low T... and we have a very close and understanding relationship, I was paranoid that it was me that was the problem but heís frequently reassured me that Iím not. Now we have a diagnosis we know this for sure.
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Being the first time I've read through this thread, and after reading through it's whole progression, I have something else to say. But originally I came here to say that it might be a low T problem. I myself have had an issue with T since I started getting up there in the Lbs, and my sex drive still isn't what it was when I was a much lower weight.

But I'm glad you two have found the issue, I would just mention that it can take some time for him to get his drive back. The body and mind takes time to adjust to the introduction of hormones when they've been lacking.
Thank you for the insight, yeah I understand itís something thatís going to take time and thatís ok I want to ensure heís not under any pressure to have sex so he doesnít get stressed out or frustrated when things donít work out. Thankfully we have a very loving and intimate relationship otherwise so I think we can work through this together 💕
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