New FFA...

goofysgirl04 · 11-17-2005, 05:41 PM

Hi all, I've been lurking here for quite a while, and decided to finally introduce myself...I'm a college student from Miami, who's slowly "coming out of the closet" so to speak, about being an FFA. Looking to chat with any BHM's or other FFA's...
-Arianna

Amor · 11-17-2005, 06:02 PM

Hi--
I'm also a FFA college student whose struggling with the "coming out processes" as you put it. Do you go to UofM?

-Laura

P.S. I'd also love to chat with any other FFA's or BHMs...

missaf · 11-17-2005, 06:04 PM

Welcome! I'm glad to see other ladies discovering and learning their tastes! I'm a BBW, 29, from California and I'm not afraid to say I like fat on everyone

What led you to come to realize your tastes?

Amor · 11-17-2005, 06:17 PM

I was just to intimidated to say anything. I was always the skinny cheer leader, who was supposed to date the popular (i.e. slim/muscular) guys in high school...I just didn't know how to break out of it.

In college, I've tried dating a coupla BHM's...but neither of them believed that I actually perfered them heavy...oh well....

....Usually the guys I like won't (for whatever reason) won't approach me...and I'm usually to self consicous to approach a guy first... *sorry, I just kinda went off their...*

I think I knew even when I was a little girl-my favorite story was a winnie the pooh story where pooh eats so much hunney at rabbits' that he gets so fat that he can't fit out the door. I never really figured outwhy I liked that story till I was older though...

Aurora · 11-17-2005, 06:50 PM

I've got a BHM ex-bf who's looking for love. He's a pretty sweet guy, and around 380 pounds last I knew. Great belly on him. PM me if you'd like his email addy. I don't remember it off hand and I'd have to look it up, and I feel like being lazy at the moment, lol. He's not real picky when it comes to female body types, but I think he leans more toward the thinner (but not stick thin).

~Aurora

extra_fat_guy · 11-17-2005, 09:17 PM

Welcome ladies! As a college student all though I am an older student its nice to know there are some FFA's in college.

Baby Robot · 11-18-2005, 06:26 AM

Florida Represent!

Man, the Sunshine State gets a nice litlle cold snap and some FFAs from South Florida start showing up on the board. Life just gets better for us Florida-based BHMs. First the advantage of not sweating to death every day, and now this! Woo! Anyhow, Arianna, Laura, welcome to you both. I can relate to your problem, gals, with the amount of societal conditioning out there it's tough to get any big people, male or female, to just go ahead and admit that they can be attractive and desirable, not in spite of their size, but in part because of it. Coming out takes courage, but the more of us that do it, the easier it gets.

-Patrick

BigFusionNYC · 11-18-2005, 05:27 PM

Hello and welcome FFA's. This BHM from NYC bids you welcome and I hope your adventures in FFA-ism is well. If you care to chat, drop me a line. Perhaps I can pursuade you to exit the closet completely. It gets dark and lonely in there. Later....Jorge

tankgirl · 11-18-2005, 06:12 PM

Welcome welcome!
FFA from the other corner of the nation here... Where it's COLD and SNOWING and ICKY... But we're lookin at migrating come spring thaw anyway.
Message me sometime; the trolls don't seem to have a problem doing so, so I'd imagine my IM names and such are easy to find... just keep in mind I use a multiple connection client (Trillian) and messages from websites don't seem to work. *shrugs* The price of convenience.
Hopefully, talk to one of you soon!

SnapDragon · 11-20-2005, 01:40 PM

Closets are grotty and smell of mothballs. Or at least mine does...

I'd be interested to hear how the other ladies here classify 'outness'. I wouldn't class myself as a closet FFA, but I've never gadded about announcing my sexual preferences to everyone in sight like a lot of homosexual people do. All the men I've been involved with knew why they were my 'type' though, and some of my friends have noticed by observation that I have a 'fat fetish'.

Alvinolagnia · 11-20-2005, 07:43 PM

I know exactly how you feel! I'm also a somewhat "closeted" ffa. I'm 20 and in school. No one ever really understood where I was coming from when it came to taste in guys, until I found this site. I love this forum!

FreneticFangs · 11-20-2005, 08:58 PM

You want to hear a crazy story? I was in Amika in South Beach last Friday surrounded by a real estate broker, the host of the party, 2 DJs, ? on the amount of boys, and a bi girl fighting for my attention... and I was just looking past them at this really f*cking cute bouncer! He looked so freaking hot with all kinds of chunkyness around his middle. *drools*
I didn't leave with anyone that night because I didn't get a chance to talk to the guy I was crushing on.
Moral of the story?
Guys: If a girl is looking at you and not the person in front of her, it means she's interested!
To myself: Start going up to guys *slaps self* haha

FreneticFangs · 11-20-2005, 09:12 PM

Oh yeah... I forgot to say:
Hi everyone! I'm Cristi, 21, & from Miami

My lesbian friend just TOLD me one day "You like fat guys!"
I'm bi and I thought I was a lesbian for a long time. Truth is I'd choose one night with Fat Joe (if you know the artist) over the whole Victoria Secrets catalogue.
One of my best friends is a bi guy and he likes really skinny guys, but we made a mini-movie at his house about a girl (played by me of course) exchanging her boyfriend's steroid pills for weight gain ones. haha. fun times!

bellyboy · 11-21-2005, 12:47 AM

I think I'm just your type. The fat joe type that is.
I have a lesbian friend who said the same thing. She said she had a dream that she was doing a fat guy and liked it. Wonder what that's all about. How many lesbians do you think are closet ffa's?

Baby Robot · 11-21-2005, 06:24 AM

That movie sounds awesome! I remember reading an interview in Rolling Stone or soemthing similar in which Fat Joe's tailor complained that "He just kept getting fatter!" and constantly required new clothing. That's not the case for Joey Crack now, but surely we can all think back to the glory days of Big Pun!

FreneticFangs · 11-21-2005, 08:55 AM

What movie are you talking about?
And yeah I know Fat Joe is on this "drink water instead of booze" and "diet" thing. *tears*
I saw him on stage last Saturday and he still looks big though

Thank you universe for floor tickets! haha

Sasquatch! · 11-21-2005, 09:01 AM

I'm on the "no booze more water" diet. It's pretty darn good actually! :P

Baby Robot · 11-21-2005, 09:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FreneticFangs

What movie are you talking about?

The one you made about weight-gain pills!

FreneticFangs · 11-21-2005, 09:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Baby Robot

The one you made about weight-gain pills!

I couldn't find anything decent with BHMs in blockbuster so I made my own. We couldn't find a chunky guy to play the after part that looks anything like my skinny friend so we just stuffed him with pillows.

voidhead · 11-21-2005, 11:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Baby Robot

That movie sounds awesome! I remember reading an interview in Rolling Stone or soemthing similar in which Fat Joe's tailor complained that "He just kept getting fatter!" and constantly required new clothing. That's not the case for Joey Crack now, but surely we can all think back to the glory days of Big Pun!

Definitely. Pun is the best BHM by far. Absolutely huge.

If you like him you've gotta get the documentary about him. It has a whole section about his weight gain with interviews, pictures and even a good amount footage of him swimming with his shirt off.

Then there's a video of him in a limo freestyling with his crew and he is absolutely huge, taking up half the limo. And he starts jiggling his belly as he's joking about something and its fuckin enormous.

Also an interview and he's like leaning against a car, gasping for breath the whole time..so huge. And then he finally squeezes into the car mid-interview because he can't stand anymore.

voidhead · 11-21-2005, 11:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Baby Robot

That movie sounds awesome! I remember reading an interview in Rolling Stone or soemthing similar in which Fat Joe's tailor complained that "He just kept getting fatter!" and constantly required new clothing. That's not the case for Joey Crack now, but surely we can all think back to the glory days of Big Pun!

Definitely. Pun is the best BHM by far. Absolutely huge. He was supposedly 700 Ibs at his peak, and i believe it.

If you like him you've gotta get the documentary about him. It has a whole section about his weight gain with interviews, pictures and even a good amount footage of him swimming with his shirt off.

Then there's a video of him in a limo freestyling with his crew and he is absolutely huge, taking up half the limo. And he starts jiggling his belly as he's joking about something and its fuckin enormous.

Also an interview and he's like leaning against a car, gasping for breath the whole time..so huge. And then he finally squeezes into the car mid-interview because he can't stand anymore.

FreneticFangs · 11-22-2005, 01:23 AM

*swoon* Boricuas are so damn hot!

Karebehr · 11-22-2005, 05:52 AM

Hi Ladies!
Glad to see some new FFA's "coming-out"...lol. I am a SSBHM, and would love to chat with you anytime you like. I am from Canada, and am a little older than most of you, but would still like to chat if you like. I can be found on yahoo at lardam1@yahoo.com
Hope to hear from you soon....and again, welcome!

fat hiker · 11-22-2005, 08:46 AM

Hey, voidhead, what area the titles of the videos with Big Pun - especially the documentary with the section about his weight gain but also the one with him freestling by the limo, and the one with the interview? I'm sure I can't be the only lister here who'd like a copy of those.

Thanks!

fat_hiker

Quote:

Originally Posted by voidhead

Definitely. Pun is the best BHM by far. Absolutely huge. He was supposedly 700 Ibs at his peak, and i believe it.

If you like him you've gotta get the documentary about him. It has a whole section about his weight gain with interviews, pictures and even a good amount footage of him swimming with his shirt off.

Then there's a video of him in a limo freestyling with his crew and he is absolutely huge, taking up half the limo. And he starts jiggling his belly as he's joking about something and its fuckin enormous.

Also an interview and he's like leaning against a car, gasping for breath the whole time..so huge. And then he finally squeezes into the car mid-interview because he can't stand anymore.

voidhead · 11-22-2005, 03:39 PM

Luckily it's all contained within the same documentary, a film called

Big Pun: Still Not a Player

11-17-2005, 05:41 PM	#1
goofysgirl04 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Southern U.S. Posts: 5	New FFA... Hi all, I've been lurking here for quite a while, and decided to finally introduce myself...I'm a college student from Miami, who's slowly "coming out of the closet" so to speak, about being an FFA. Looking to chat with any BHM's or other FFA's... -Arianna

11-17-2005, 06:02 PM	#2
Amor Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 49	another newbie Hi-- I'm also a FFA college student whose struggling with the "coming out processes" as you put it. Do you go to UofM? -Laura P.S. I'd also love to chat with any other FFA's or BHMs...

11-17-2005, 06:17 PM	#4
Amor Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 49	I think I always knew... I was just to intimidated to say anything. I was always the skinny cheer leader, who was supposed to date the popular (i.e. slim/muscular) guys in high school...I just didn't know how to break out of it. In college, I've tried dating a coupla BHM's...but neither of them believed that I actually perfered them heavy...oh well.... ....Usually the guys I like won't (for whatever reason) won't approach me...and I'm usually to self consicous to approach a guy first... sorry, I just kinda went off their... I think I knew even when I was a little girl-my favorite story was a winnie the pooh story where pooh eats so much hunney at rabbits' that he gets so fat that he can't fit out the door. I never really figured outwhy I liked that story till I was older though...

11-18-2005, 05:27 PM	#8
BigFusionNYC Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: New York City - Lower Manhattan Posts: 215	Hello and welcome FFA's. This BHM from NYC bids you welcome and I hope your adventures in FFA-ism is well. If you care to chat, drop me a line. Perhaps I can pursuade you to exit the closet completely. It gets dark and lonely in there. Later....Jorge __________________ The General http://www.myspace.com/fusionjorge

11-20-2005, 08:58 PM	#12
FreneticFangs Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: South Beach (Miami), FL Posts: 274	Outness You want to hear a crazy story? I was in Amika in South Beach last Friday surrounded by a real estate broker, the host of the party, 2 DJs, ? on the amount of boys, and a bi girl fighting for my attention... and I was just looking past them at this really fcking cute bouncer! He looked so freaking hot with all kinds of chunkyness around his middle. drools* I didn't leave with anyone that night because I didn't get a chance to talk to the guy I was crushing on. Moral of the story? Guys: If a girl is looking at you and not the person in front of her, it means she's interested! To myself: Start going up to guys slaps self haha

11-17-2005, 06:04 PM	#3
missaf Master Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 4,734	Welcome! I'm glad to see other ladies discovering and learning their tastes! I'm a BBW, 29, from California and I'm not afraid to say I like fat on everyone What led you to come to realize your tastes?

11-17-2005, 06:50 PM	#5
Aurora Wild Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Minnesnowta Posts: 734	I've got a BHM ex-bf who's looking for love. He's a pretty sweet guy, and around 380 pounds last I knew. Great belly on him. PM me if you'd like his email addy. I don't remember it off hand and I'd have to look it up, and I feel like being lazy at the moment, lol. He's not real picky when it comes to female body types, but I think he leans more toward the thinner (but not stick thin). ~Aurora

11-17-2005, 09:17 PM	#6
extra_fat_guy I wasn't really gone Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 529	Welcome ladies! As a college student all though I am an older student its nice to know there are some FFA's in college.

11-18-2005, 06:26 AM	#7
Baby Robot Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: THE SOUTH Posts: 42	Florida Represent! Man, the Sunshine State gets a nice litlle cold snap and some FFAs from South Florida start showing up on the board. Life just gets better for us Florida-based BHMs. First the advantage of not sweating to death every day, and now this! Woo! Anyhow, Arianna, Laura, welcome to you both. I can relate to your problem, gals, with the amount of societal conditioning out there it's tough to get any big people, male or female, to just go ahead and admit that they can be attractive and desirable, not in spite of their size, but in part because of it. Coming out takes courage, but the more of us that do it, the easier it gets. -Patrick

11-18-2005, 06:12 PM	#9
tankgirl Phreakoid. Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: The Left Armpit of the USA Posts: 336	Welcome welcome! FFA from the other corner of the nation here... Where it's COLD and SNOWING and ICKY... But we're lookin at migrating come spring thaw anyway. Message me sometime; the trolls don't seem to have a problem doing so, so I'd imagine my IM names and such are easy to find... just keep in mind I use a multiple connection client (Trillian) and messages from websites don't seem to work. shrugs The price of convenience. Hopefully, talk to one of you soon!

11-20-2005, 01:40 PM	#10
SnapDragon Filthy Letch Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Midlands England Posts: 340	Closets are grotty and smell of mothballs. Or at least mine does... I'd be interested to hear how the other ladies here classify 'outness'. I wouldn't class myself as a closet FFA, but I've never gadded about announcing my sexual preferences to everyone in sight like a lot of homosexual people do. All the men I've been involved with knew why they were my 'type' though, and some of my friends have noticed by observation that I have a 'fat fetish'.

11-20-2005, 07:43 PM	#11
Alvinolagnia Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 28	I know exactly how you feel! I'm also a somewhat "closeted" ffa. I'm 20 and in school. No one ever really understood where I was coming from when it came to taste in guys, until I found this site. I love this forum!

11-20-2005, 09:12 PM	#13
FreneticFangs Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: South Beach (Miami), FL Posts: 274	Oh yeah... I forgot to say: Hi everyone! I'm Cristi, 21, & from Miami My lesbian friend just TOLD me one day "You like fat guys!" I'm bi and I thought I was a lesbian for a long time. Truth is I'd choose one night with Fat Joe (if you know the artist) over the whole Victoria Secrets catalogue. One of my best friends is a bi guy and he likes really skinny guys, but we made a mini-movie at his house about a girl (played by me of course) exchanging her boyfriend's steroid pills for weight gain ones. haha. fun times!

11-21-2005, 12:47 AM	#14
bellyboy Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 189	Bummer, I don't live in Miami I think I'm just your type. The fat joe type that is. I have a lesbian friend who said the same thing. She said she had a dream that she was doing a fat guy and liked it. Wonder what that's all about. How many lesbians do you think are closet ffa's?

11-21-2005, 06:24 AM	#15
Baby Robot Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: THE SOUTH Posts: 42	That movie sounds awesome! I remember reading an interview in Rolling Stone or soemthing similar in which Fat Joe's tailor complained that "He just kept getting fatter!" and constantly required new clothing. That's not the case for Joey Crack now, but surely we can all think back to the glory days of Big Pun!

11-21-2005, 08:55 AM	#16
FreneticFangs Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: South Beach (Miami), FL Posts: 274	What movie are you talking about? And yeah I know Fat Joe is on this "drink water instead of booze" and "diet" thing. tears I saw him on stage last Saturday and he still looks big though Thank you universe for floor tickets! haha

11-21-2005, 09:01 AM	#17
Sasquatch! A tame Sassy appeared! Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Cardiff Posts: 2,724	I'm on the "no booze more water" diet. It's pretty darn good actually! :P

11-22-2005, 01:23 AM	#22
FreneticFangs Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: South Beach (Miami), FL Posts: 274	swoon Boricuas are so damn hot!

11-22-2005, 05:52 AM	#23
Karebehr Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: St John's NL. Canada Posts: 55	Welcome to the new FFA'S Hi Ladies! Glad to see some new FFA's "coming-out"...lol. I am a SSBHM, and would love to chat with you anytime you like. I am from Canada, and am a little older than most of you, but would still like to chat if you like. I can be found on yahoo at lardam1@yahoo.com Hope to hear from you soon....and again, welcome!

11-22-2005, 03:39 PM	#25
voidhead Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Brooklyn, NY Posts: 152	Luckily it's all contained within the same documentary, a film called Big Pun: Still Not a Player

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