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Old 01-10-2007, 05:35 PM   #51
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I love boobs. Thanks for asking. Oh "breast men"? Well shoot. Still love em. Ditto everyone else about the complete fat package though.

Where my "cock girls" at? :P
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Old 01-10-2007, 05:48 PM   #52
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You've just described me to a T. I think it is cold outside and this coldness is activating people's mating instincts. LOL

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I've run into quite a few dudes who'd match what people say here...big breasteses were kinda of their entree into FAdom. Like HEY! Lookee...THERE!
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Sorta like boobs, not too big, not too small. Though I'd probably want bigger boobs than cocks.

Can I say that here? Everyone's over 18, right? RIGHT?
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Old 01-10-2007, 09:28 PM   #54
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my boyfriend is an fa and a total breast man. he likes HUUUUGE titties, like big enough to take over the world.. maybe the universe.

and then he dates me, a lifetime member of the itty bitty fat girl titty club.
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Old 01-10-2007, 10:31 PM   #55
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I can say that while I love women in all sizes of large and all shapes of large I started my attraction to abundant women through my attraction to women with large breasts. I suspect that this was due to it being a more socially acceptable attraction. As I matured I came to realize that it was not just large breasts and certainly not large breasts attached to slender bodies that caught my eye and were found to be physically attractive.

I find it interesting that the women who don't seem to believe there are many FAs who like fat women with big breasts are those who themselves don't have particularly large breasts. The few women who replied and who are abundantly bosomed beauties found this suggestion odd since they have never been short of men who found their breasts a source of fascination. Perhaps the explanation is the simple one. Fat women with smaller breasts tend not to attract the FAs who are particularly focused on larger breasts while those with larger breasts do.

Having spoken with a few ladies with abundantly endowed breasts they have all expressed that the problem is not finding FAs who are turned on by their breasts, but rather finding the FAs who are into them as a whole and not just focused on their breasts.

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Butt/hip/thigh man here Huge butts are the best I also like a big flabby belly with TINY breasts, lol.

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Yeah,... I'm the same + a love handle guy. But something about BBW and SSBBW with small boobies... :-). I call it traffic cone as opposed to pear since pear shaped gals tend to have smallish waists (precludes the belly)
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Old 01-10-2007, 11:51 PM   #57
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my boyfriend is an fa and a total breast man. he likes HUUUUGE titties, like big enough to take over the world.. maybe the universe.

and then he dates me, a lifetime member of the itty bitty fat girl titty club.
Trade? :-)

Just kidding... or am I?
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Yeah,... I'm the same + a love handle guy. But something about BBW and SSBBW with small boobies... :-). I call it traffic cone as opposed to pear since pear shaped gals tend to have smallish waists (precludes the belly)
Traffic cone may be accurate, but I have to say it's not very appealing. There must be a more artful word.

And HappyFA, I've been thinking the same thing. The men we have experience talking to often tend to be ones who like whatever feature it is we're most endowed with, so it skews the sample somewhat.
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[QUOTE=rainyday;326500]Traffic cone may be accurate, but I have to say it's not very appealing. There must be a more artful word.

Well... orange is my favorite color.... but...

Conch shell?...Tear Drop?...or Hershey's Kiss?
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Hershey's Kiss?
It's perfect.

...wait, wouldn't you have to be black for that?
Still works, just not for everyone.
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Tear Drop?...or Hershey's Kiss?
Both much better.
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Old 01-11-2007, 01:13 AM   #62
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breasts are loads of fun. but i like tummies more
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So true. So very true.
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thankfully the GF loves having her nipples played with. hehehe
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thankfully the GF loves having her nipples played with. hehehe
Amen to that. to me there is something very sad about a lady with monumental boobs who could take it leave it as far as nipple play goes. My ex-wife was like that - 42DDD and I might as well play with her elbow as spend time with the girls. sad. scroll forward, the current SO loves it, to the point of almost orgasiming from a good nipple workout ( a couple of times she actually has). LOL, we kid around about it, but sometimes I can't resist and will 'accidentally' brush up against the girls in a certain way, in totally inappropriate public places. just to elicit her deep throated, moan/gasp.
hee hee that almost always means i will get a 'beating' later!
And, at 44G, thats a serious beating!
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Amen to that. to me there is something very sad about a lady with monumental boobs who could take it leave it as far as nipple play goes. My ex-wife was like that - 42DDD and I might as well play with her elbow as spend time with the girls. sad. scroll forward, the current SO loves it, to the point of almost orgasiming from a good nipple workout ( a couple of times she actually has). LOL, we kid around about it, but sometimes I can't resist and will 'accidentally' brush up against the girls in a certain way, in totally inappropriate public places. just to elicit her deep throated, moan/gasp.
hee hee that almost always means i will get a 'beating' later!
And, at 44G, thats a serious beating!
I can honestly say I dont know the exact size of mine girls, girls. we've only been daing botu 2 weeks haha but i'd guess shes a D
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I have to say that we don't have nearly enough threads discussing what us girls admire about the male body(must start some asap Shala!!!) What do ya'll think ladies???

Back on topic, I have run into very few men not enamored by the girls(I'm a 44DDD...with spillage ). Even those guys not attracted to my fat, love my breasts. These are the guys who foolishly think they can find big pillowy REAL boobies like mine on a girl who weighs 100lbs. Just crazy.
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Back on topic, I have run into very few men not enamored by the girls(I'm a 44DDD...with spillage ). Even those guys not attracted to my fat, love my breasts. These are the guys who foolishly think they can find big pillowy REAL boobies like mine on a girl who weighs 100lbs. Just crazy.
You bring up an interesting dynamic, attracting actual non-FA boob men. We've already covered that for some FAs, it was a starting point. I often find, though I'm certainly not huge in the scheme of fatdom, my breasts are obviously much larger than is typically possible for a thin woman, and men react to that. Some breast men are so into it they can ignore a body that otherwise doesn't suit their interests. So very interesting!
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I am, without a doubt, a boob girl (meaning I have them, not that I'm interested in them). Like others, I find that regardless of my size, men tend to stare at them whether they like big women or little women. I figure that they must think that boobs are just boobs.... even if they're on a fat woman.

I was always fascinated by my ex, a self-proclaimed ass man, who is not an FA. His gf before me was a size 2, absolutely flat as a pancake, but appeared hippy because of her extremely small waist. He always said that he could give or take the breasts, as they were not something he really cared to pay much attention to.... until he dated me.

I suppose that there is something unique and special about every person we date. Maybe we don't change a person's preference or mind, when it comes to what they like the most. But, I guess there are just those certain things that stick out on some people that you learn to appreciate once you've had the chance to experience (and play with) them.
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I don't like to pick out a portion of somebody's anatomy and concentrate on it soley, but I enjoy the best features I see on people. For my wife I'm certainly a breast man (definitely her best feature). For previous women I dated I would always notice what their best feature was and try to compliment (or pay homage) to it (whether it be their legs, eyes, belly etc...). I always feel I care about the person and not one part of them though...
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For me, I tend to spread my focus all over a womans body, I mean it's all so beautiful how can you leave any part out? Hair , lips, breasts, belly, ass, hips, thighs, etc... seriously where can you go wrong? Some areas do need more attending than others depending on the individual, and her mood, and I can only make that call during the moment. As for being just a breast man I'd feel limited in my choices, when there's plenty of variety of juicy, delicious, treats to nibble away at! Of course, this is just my own personal preferance.
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You bring up an interesting dynamic, attracting actual non-FA boob men. We've already covered that for some FAs, it was a starting point. I often find, though I'm certainly not huge in the scheme of fatdom, my breasts are obviously much larger than is typically possible for a thin woman, and men react to that. Some breast men are so into it they can ignore a body that otherwise doesn't suit their interests. So very interesting!
This last idea is interesting and occasionally rather demoralizing and, if I may get all venn diagrammy here, what we were talking about, it occurs to me, when we were discussing sex along the fetishist/FA/non-FA spectrum in another thread--about how--for instance--some very non-FA guys dive for more socially accepted bits that are "allowed" to be fat (boobs, butt) and want to pretend you don't have a tum or fat legs or anything else...

...and yet on the other hand it makes me think (more diagrams!) about EdX's interesting question about wanting to be liked for things *you* appreciate about yourself, the special feelings that come from being seen/appreciated for the things you really think are neat/underappreciated/whatever.

The point being that my feelings as your basic boobular individual live between those two ideas in their own way. I get yucked out and just heartsick at the idea of some guy finding my tits okay to have sex with but not the rest of my bod (as it were), at the same time that I want to be appreciated for something I consider one of my better features, or even really appreciated for them! (Who am I kiddin, I love feeling worshipped all over, but you know what I mean.)

I think in the land of skinny girls/big boobs the same tensions of feelings can exist--the classic feeling of wanting to be seen as more than just your boobs, but still appreciated for them, if nothing else for the pleasure they bring. But it's different being a fat girl. Lil trickier, I think.

I don't mean to talk about this in a perfectionistic way--the Boob Test!; there are always things that turn you on more or less about your partner and it's even fun to even have your opinions change--but it's just one of the perils/interesting ironies of being so very WRONG by society's standards in a crucial way (fat), and yet, as we've been saying...not entirely (boobies!). Irony irony!

Never thought I could get so thoughtful in a thread w/ "breast men" in the subject line. Bwah!

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The feelings you express are typical of most women. I think the only women who might really want men to focus on their boobs to the exclusion of everything else are either dancers in a topless/strip bar or women who are very insecure and starving for any kind of attention.




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This last idea is interesting and occasionally rather demoralizing and, if I may get all venn diagrammy here, what we were talking about, it occurs to me, when we were discussing sex along the fetishist/FA/non-FA spectrum in another thread--about how--for instance--some very non-FA guys dive for more socially accepted bits that are "allowed" to be fat (boobs, butt) and want to pretend you don't have a tum or fat legs or anything else...

...and yet on the other hand it makes me think (more diagrams!) about EdX's interesting question about wanting to be liked for things *you* appreciate about yourself, the special feelings that come from being seen/appreciated for the things you really think are neat/underappreciated/whatever.

The point being that my feelings as your basic boobular individual live between those two ideas in their own way. I get yucked out and just heartsick at the idea of some guy finding my tits okay to have sex with but not the rest of my bod (as it were), at the same time that I want to be appreciated for something I consider one of my better features, or even really appreciated for them! (Who am I kiddin, I love feeling worshipped all over, but you know what I mean.)

I think in the land of skinny girls/big boobs the same tensions of feelings can exist--the classic feeling of wanting to be seen as more than just your boobs, but still appreciated for them, if nothing else for the pleasure they bring. But it's different being a fat girl. Lil trickier, I think.

I don't mean to talk about this in a perfectionistic way--the Boob Test!; there are always things that turn you on more or less about your partner and it's even fun to even have your opinions change--but it's just one of the perils/interesting ironies of being so very WRONG by society's standards in a crucial way (fat), and yet, as we've been saying...not entirely (boobies!). Irony irony!

Never thought I could get so thoughtful in a thread w/ "breast men" in the subject line. Bwah!
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I don't know why but there is something that I find to be special--even magical--women with about large, luscious breasts. I hope I can marry a woman who is as big as your wife or ex wife.


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Amen to that. to me there is something very sad about a lady with monumental boobs who could take it leave it as far as nipple play goes. My ex-wife was like that - 42DDD and I might as well play with her elbow as spend time with the girls. sad. scroll forward, the current SO loves it, to the point of almost orgasiming from a good nipple workout ( a couple of times she actually has). LOL, we kid around about it, but sometimes I can't resist and will 'accidentally' brush up against the girls in a certain way, in totally inappropriate public places. just to elicit her deep throated, moan/gasp.
hee hee that almost always means i will get a 'beating' later!
And, at 44G, thats a serious beating!
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