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Old 01-20-2007, 11:02 PM   #1
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About a month ago I started going out with this amazing woman I met at school. Shortly after I tell her that I am an FA and she starts gaing on her own, not harcore but doesn't hold back if she''s hungry and stopped working out. Last ngiht we went out for dinner and a movie. She wore the outfit she wore on her first date and it was tight. Her belly was poking out and when I got her home after I noticed it's started to hang significantly! she is still a little weird about the who FA thing,she isn't used to being praised about her tummy but has come to terms with the fact that I adore her softness. She still won't tell me the numbers though T-T
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Old 01-22-2007, 06:46 AM   #2
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I'm glad for you!

If you want to be a bit devious and have a little money in your pocket, take her out shopping. Get her to model lots of outfits for you....and in the process find out her dress size. At least then you'll know one of her numbers...

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Old 01-22-2007, 01:02 PM   #4
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Better yet treat her like a human and just work on building trust--you know, like you do in relationships with anything but mannequins. Then maybe she'll just tell you. Unless you're not willing to wait because the numbers are more important than the trust/relationship you could be building--in which case I can see why she'd be nervous about telling you. If it's that important, I mean, whew that's a big deal.

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It just isn't healthy to divulge everything about yourself instantly, with that in mind, I wouldn't worry too much if it takes her some time to tell you some details. I'm sure you have details that, while you're not hiding per se, you haven't shared yet. These things sometimes take time.

And, by the way, I really am happy that you've found someone who seems to make you happy over all. Genuinely.
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Haha, some girls are just like that- with the numbers... I don't tell Stan how much I weigh, and I don't think he cares too much. (we've been together for 3.5 years, and are getting married soon!) For me, it's kind of an old fashioned thing, a man should never ask a a lady how much she weighs. It's just rude!

She might not be as old ladyish as I am though... Give her time. Its a weird transition to make, from trying to fix yourself all the time, make yourself thinner, don't eat, squeeze into those pants that are just one size smaller...to appreciating and even loving the chub, and even gaining... It's weird. I went through it, and It took some getting used to.

Congrats! Be patient! It's awesome that you found someone that makes you happy!
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Congratulations, NowhereMan, but do her and yourself a favor and don't spend too much time explaining the FA concept to her...unless she asks about it. She's probably thankful that she's met a nice guy like you that finds her attractive, but that doesn't mean that she hasn't let go of any insecurities.

You're her first FA, so it's YOUR responsibility to ease everything in slowly. She probably doesn't even know what BBW stands for yet, so let her learn these things slowly. Let her dictate the pace and don't bombard her with links to Dimensions or whatever other sites you go to.

Now is not the time to be asking for numbers. If you desire anything longterm with her, then let the relationship develop on its own and continue to shower her with compliments and affection until she's comfortable enough to take the next step and familiarize herself with all the terminologies and fantasies we discuss in here.

Also be sure to give her belly plenty of gentle caresses, it'll help!
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i only said that its what i am and have planned responces if she askes but haven't gone any further into. in no way did i even say i was interestedin her gaining. she just did it all on her own.

@ Rebecca: I do treat her human and we rarely even talk about her weight. i see it as more as the cherry on top of her wonderful person sunday.
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Haha, some girls are just like that- with the numbers... I don't tell Stan how much I weigh, and I don't think he cares too much. (we've been together for 3.5 years, and are getting married soon!) For me, it's kind of an old fashioned thing, a man should never ask a a lady how much she weighs. It's just rude!

She might not be as old ladyish as I am though... Give her time. Its a weird transition to make, from trying to fix yourself all the time, make yourself thinner, don't eat, squeeze into those pants that are just one size smaller...to appreciating and even loving the chub, and even gaining... It's weird. I went through it, and It took some getting used to.

Congrats! Be patient! It's awesome that you found someone that makes you happy!
i only hinted once then let it go, it's not like i ask her to weigh in daily thats just dumb atthis stage in our relationship. and yeah it is a big change, she used to work out and diet al lthe time from what i hear and now she's jsut letting her self go for me ~<3
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honestly people i'm not a superficial asshole i'm jsut excited that she accepts and embraces my prefernce.
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Congratulations, NowhereMan, but do her and yourself a favor and don't spend too much time explaining the FA concept to her...unless she asks about it. She's probably thankful that she's met a nice guy like you that finds her attractive, but that doesn't mean that she hasn't let go of any insecurities.

You're her first FA, so it's YOUR responsibility to ease everything in slowly. She probably doesn't even know what BBW stands for yet, so let her learn these things slowly. Let her dictate the pace and don't bombard her with links to Dimensions or whatever other sites you go to.

Now is not the time to be asking for numbers. If you desire anything longterm with her, then let the relationship develop on its own and continue to shower her with compliments and affection until she's comfortable enough to take the next step and familiarize herself with all the terminologies and fantasies we discuss in here.

Also be sure to give her belly plenty of gentle caresses, it'll help!


Listen to Bruce.... as a female who is somewhat new to enjoying her body and accepting praise for it, he's giving you fantastic advice.

Congrats and good luck!!
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i give her nightly back massages and belly rubs with oils and lotions, and extra belly rubs after we have gone out to eat and she feels sick and bloated. she says it helps her feel better. I may be young but im not an idiot.
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No one called you a superficial asshole, we're just as excited as you are...and we're only giving you sound advice that will bring you to where you want to be with your new lady friend.
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Yah, I remember that stage. If you think it would work, you could always take her fantasy shopping. You agree that you aren't buying anything, so you are free to try on the fanciest clothes you can find. Of course you may get some dirty looks from sales folk, but it can be a lot of fun.

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No one called you a superficial asshole, we're just as excited as you are...and we're only giving you sound advice that will bring you to where you want to be with your new lady friend.
it just seemed like everyone was attacking me
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