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Old 03-05-2007, 04:51 AM   #1
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I don't remember off hand there being a thread having been done on this subject... The idea of this thread is to make a list of things that make for being a good FA whether that is a female or male FA. Things that make the fat people that we admire comfortable with this admiration and just simply to make their lives better:

Here's my contribution...

1.) Don't dwell on the fat. It's sort of like a guy being obsessed with a girl's boobs, or a girl with a guy's penis. There are other things to appreciate.

2.) Try to avoid things that put the fat person you admire in an awkward or uncomfortable position. Think ahead. For example, avoid places that they don't fit or doing things that they are too heavy for etc. If your significant other is a super sized person, you will probably have to get rid of the Mazda Miata, or Suzuki Samurai.

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Old 03-05-2007, 05:22 AM   #2
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3.) Don't assume a BBW will fall at your feet just because you're an FA. We're not easier than 'normal' women. We have standards, types and whatnot.
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I am a person first, above all else. The first question you ask me should not be "How much do you weigh?" Get to know me, the person, first, and in time we can talk about my body. Do not think that I want to cyber or talk about sex within 5 minutes of starting to talk to you. Just like in real life, if you want me to talk about sex, you have to get me comfortable first.

I am more than the sum of my fat rolls. Adore me, adore the whole package - not just my body.
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Old 03-05-2007, 05:57 AM   #4
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GREAT Thread.....

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Don't say stupid things that make me feel even worse for being my size.

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"Badmitten is for slow people." After I said I like such things.

And...." I could so kick your ass at basketball." No shit! comes to mind.



I'm not going to say who said those things but it was a HE and he is about 235lbs and tall...of course he could kick my ass at sports...was a dumb thing to say......but even the people who love you most make stupid comments that make you feel like an invalid.
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Old 03-05-2007, 06:32 AM   #7
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1.) Don't dwell on the fat.
Actually, I'd amend this to "pay attention to what they want." I mean, what if s/he WANTS you to dwell on it? Not dwelling on it might have a negative effect. So, I'd say "Figure out what the fat person wants [regarding this] and act accordingly."
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"Badmitten is for slow people." After I said I like such things.
Badminton is SO totally not for slow people. Not the way I play it, anyway.

I LOVE Badminton.
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Badminton is SO totally not for slow people. Not the way I play it, anyway.

I LOVE Badminton.

ME TOO!!!!!! But SOMEONE wont play with me cos "its for slow people"...sometimes boys REALLLLLLY suck, lol. You wanna come play with me
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ME TOO!!!!!! But SOMEONE wont play with me cos "its for slow people"...sometimes boys REALLLLLLY suck, lol. You wanna come play with me
OMG, yes. If I ever come over there (like I really, really want to!) I will TOTALLY come find you and we will play!
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.........firstly, i played badminton to a reasonably good level, and it is a wickedly fast game. watch the olympics competition next time, it's pretty amazing.

secondly, re FA code of conduct:

Rule 3, or whatever) Don't forget to ask bra and pantie size.
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secondly, re FA code of conduct:

Rule 3, or whatever) Don't forget to ask bra and pantie size.

no no no no no. you should NOT ask bra and pantie size til you already know the person. That's like someone asking you how long your penis is. come no now. We are people...not just numbers and stats.
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.......if you tell me your bra and panties size, i'll tell you how long my peenissss is. in fact, i'll tell you anyway. it's HUUUUUGGGGEEEEEE. i mean weally, weally MASSSSSSSSSIIIIIIIIVVVVVVEEEE. it is, honest.
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lol....WELL...in that case....Im an 84 JJJ and my panty size is 100
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.......if you tell me your bra and panties size, i'll tell you how long my peenissss is. in fact, i'll tell you anyway. it's HUUUUUGGGGEEEEEE. i mean weally, weally MASSSSSSSSSIIIIIIIIVVVVVVEEEE. it is, honest.
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.......if you tell me your bra and panties size, i'll tell you how long my peenissss is. in fact, i'll tell you anyway. it's HUUUUUGGGGEEEEEE. i mean weally, weally MASSSSSSSSSIIIIIIIIVVVVVVEEEE. it is, honest.
No matter what your mother told you, 4 inches is not massive.
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..........it's not just her though, i tell it to myself also. that makes two of us.
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tx, bigbeautifulme! I was just typing out how when boys feel the need to talk about size, "massive" is usually the last adjective i'd use to describe their bits&pieces. that and "ginormous." but you are so right on! couldn't have said it better myself!
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Always be a gentleman!Nothing turns a lady off more than listening to some moron trying to impress a lady by talking about the size of his or her body parts!At least as opening conversation.You must remember that she is a human being...NOT some side off meat for you to consume.Getting to know what's inside can lead to greater rewards than just acting like a little kid in a candy store!If the lady wants you to get a little more "playful" she'll let you know.
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Not a good plan around women with sharp objects.

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I've heard some great ones so far.

-Hold your preference with at least some honor. You don't have to be a open book and yell it to the world, but always tell the truth when asked about the subject. It doesn't matter whether you only speak of it around family and close friends, or if you have a picture of a fat person tattooed on your arm.
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Bingo!! Right on the money...... thanks!!


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If you're an FA and through getting to know a BBW you find out that she really wants to lose weight because she thinks she would be happier DON'T try to talk her out of it. I think its okay to state your preference but trying to talk her out of something she feels she needs really disrespects her knowledge of her self, undermines confidence etc., just for the sake of your own desires.

Make sure a BBW wants to be a BBW before getting so close that you, the FA, would be super invested in her staying that way. Relationships should be about helping each person become whoever it is they have been born to be - not about trying to make someone into what you want them to be.
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Don't say stupid things that make me feel even worse for being my size.

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...And...." I could so kick your ass at basketball." No shit! comes to mind.

......of course he could kick my ass at sports...was a dumb thing to say......but even the people who love you most make stupid comments that make you feel like an invalid.
Remind people making such derogatory comments that you could probably slam them to the ground in a wrestling match, there are plenty of contact sports where you could easily kick their asses... There is no such thing as a better body, just a different body.

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I've heard some great ones so far.

-Hold your preference with at least some honor. You don't have to be a open book and yell it to the world, but always tell the truth when asked about the subject. It doesn't matter whether you only speak of it around family and close friends, or if you have a picture of a fat person tattooed on your arm.
Jon you are absolutely right! The idea of keeping respectable should apply to all relationships weather FA or non FA...

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If you're an FA and through getting to know a BBW you find out that she really wants to lose weight because she thinks she would be happier DON'T try to talk her out of it. I think its okay to state your preference but trying to talk her out of something she feels she needs really disrespects her knowledge of her self, undermines confidence etc., just for the sake of your own desires.

Make sure a BBW wants to be a BBW before getting so close that you, the FA, would be super invested in her staying that way. Relationships should be about helping each person become whoever it is they have been born to be - not about trying to make someone into what you want them to be.
That's also a very good point! There are some unique things about being a FA, but there are some things that I think we'll find are universial to all relationships. Respect for the other person is definately one!

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