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Old 03-09-2007, 08:38 PM   #26
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PLENTY of imagination. Lots of fantasies, some FA specific, some not. But zero chance I'm going to reveal them here.


I'll check boxes in an anonymous poll though!

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Old 03-09-2007, 09:11 PM   #27
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right now, my fantasies involve my paysite wishlist, which is full of 'big' candy (like the BIG CUP from reese's,and other things i haven't had).

and I started typing this facetiously, and not unlike many of the best fantasies, it was only in joking about it that I realized how serious I am about it. And that surprises me. I think that would be hot. To have those things purchased for me. To have the resulting interest in eating them shared between me and the buyer.

who knew?
Well as long as you don't get too hungry while waiting and eat that "Light the Night" balloon. At least it looks like that logo.
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Old 03-09-2007, 09:14 PM   #28
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Mmm...which reminds me of my Weekend at Bernie's fantasy....

No. Not really.
Heh I still love that movie, though.
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Old 03-09-2007, 09:22 PM   #29
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I kinda like the "rough" thing too, with the right person.
Yeah, it has its place.

And that place is right over the arm of my living room couch!


Wait, did I just say that out loud?


Some of my biggest turn ons aren't really legal, so I'm with Rainy on the 'won't divulge' thing.
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Old 03-09-2007, 09:56 PM   #30
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OK Here is one of my many out there fantasy's
Imagine a bbw/ssbbw version of the movie EYES WIDE SHUT...... you can be whom ever you want to be ....dress as provocatively as you want act as sexual as you want being masked and unheard. There are no rules but to have fun anyway you want.Men being able to touch you as they want,caressing the small in your back.Feeling the breath of his desires.This is where all the human inhibitions let lose.I would bet there are many people out there who would act on this fantasy if no one knew who they were......I know i would.
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Interesting,

So we have fantasies of men taking you ladies forcefully, very common female fantasy, pirates, gang thugs etc..

We have some feedee fantasies.. Lilly you were ripped off by whoever that guy was- couldn't have been an FA!

We have desires to have belly rubs- I volunteer! Actually for any of these fantasies

And we have I think it's a fantasy to be able to touch and be touched by anyone at anytime...

We have a laundry room fling.. hehe

And we have some undisclosed fantasies- which I really want to hear

A good thread... it's good to hear some BBW fantasies
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Old 03-09-2007, 10:54 PM   #32
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PLENTY of imagination. Lots of fantasies, some FA specific, some not. But zero chance I'm going to reveal them here.
Exactamundo, rainy!

Gonna be living a few very soon, though, as Biggie will be here for a week tomorrow afternoon...
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Exactamundo, rainy!

Gonna be living a few very soon, though, as Biggie will be here for a week tomorrow afternoon...
Oh stop teasing us poor deprived sods, ya gloater! (Have fun!)
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Interesting,

So we have fantasies of men taking you ladies forcefully, very common female fantasy, pirates, gang thugs etc..
Bit of a minus for me that a very common female fantasy is being taken by a man. I want to be forcefully taken by a women, throw her weight around (hence my 'core' fantasy is rather 'intense' squashing).
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Bit of a minus for me that a very common female fantasy is being taken by a man. I want to be forcefully taken by a women, throw her weight around (hence my 'core' fantasy is rather 'intense' squashing).
BAH! It's OUR fantasy time! Go hang out on the boy-fantasy threads!!!!

Now for my little admission. I love leather. Wearing and viewing. Now let your imagination run wild, because that's all you're getting from me, and I betcha it's 100% right. lol
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Bit of a minus for me that a very common female fantasy is being taken by a man. I want to be forcefully taken by a women, throw her weight around (hence my 'core' fantasy is rather 'intense' squashing).

How about a little give and take? Everyone just start throwing someone around and we'll see what happens from there. Could be hot....or very painful.

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Old 03-10-2007, 08:40 AM   #37
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Some of my biggest turn ons aren't really legal, so I'm with Rainy on the 'won't divulge' thing.
OK, this is such a gray area I need some clarification. Are we talking things that are illegal in the U.S. to an extent (sort of like how you can't show fisting or real violent S&M in American porn), or are we talking fantasies and role playing that crosses too many boundaries (teacher/student, doctor/patient, daddy/daughter, 12th level neutral good human ranger/15th level chaotic evil drow elf priestess)?

I don't care who ya are (dear Jesus, I'm channeling Larry the Cable Guy), a chubby girl in pigtails is gonna be sexy whether she's 16 or 60. And if they didn't want to make Catholic schoolgirl outfits a fantasy, they shouldn't have fetishized it during puberty. I can't look at blue tartan anymore without getting instantly aroused. I blame Judy Garland for my whole issue with gingham and Yorkie terriers...

I think for many women the rape fantasy comes down to a simple S&M thing. Many women love to be taken hard, fast and without being in complete control. I think anything that threatens injury or death runs to the extreme. For every 5 women who wouldn't humiliate themselves by having a man ejaculate on their face, there is 1 out there who climaxes at the thought of a bukkake orgy. Different strokes for different folks.
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Lilly you were ripped off by whoever that guy was- couldn't have been an FA!
No, he was definitley an FA. The problem was that he is very sub. He'll do anything you tell him to do but you have to TELL him step by step which ruins the whole fantasy. It was like being the director of a really bad opera with a guy who has never been on stage. He's a good guy though, we were just badly cast. Eh, maybe I'll give it another shot with someone else when the post traumatic stress wears off.
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OK, this is such a gray area I need some clarification. Are we talking things that are illegal in the U.S. to an extent (sort of like how you can't show fisting or real violent S&M in American porn), or are we talking fantasies and role playing that crosses too many boundaries (teacher/student, doctor/patient, daddy/daughter, 12th level neutral good human ranger/15th level chaotic evil drow elf priestess)?
I'll take all of the above for 500 Alex. What I find so amusing is that the men will come in here and easily blurt out all manner of fantasy and women will sit there all the while with their eyes crossed thinking "Eeeew," or "Owww," but when it comes to talking about our own, "Oh no no no no..... mother wouldn't approve at all. We'll get in trouble." Somehow I have a hard time believing that our fantasies are anything worse than what we've seen so far in here and there have been some DOOZIES. Bottom line is that most women just aren't comfortable with having all eyes looking in on that side of them even if it's a 'June Cleaver' fantasy with chore gloves and stilettos.
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Bottom line is that most women just aren't comfortable with having all eyes looking in on that side of them even if it's a 'June Cleaver' fantasy with chore gloves and stilettos.
Yeah. That's mine. RIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT.

Boys, don't ask so many questions. Youse gonna scare the ladies away from saying anything. I can see another two pages of posts along the lines of "my fantasy involves fruit but I won't say more" and "I like ****** and being ****** but I can't tell you all that!".

The more I think about what my fantasies are, and what it would look like for me to post them here, the more, I too, think it would be unwise. I think it would taint for so many people who barely know me an image of me and I would forever be the girl who likes ******** or whatever it is. It's all so interesting because, and LillyBBBW alludes to this, men can and do share fantasies and I don't think the ramifications are quite as drastic.

I wonder just how many other women relate to several others who've already posted in that they also feel they have very graphic, personal somewhat "taboo" fantasies?

And are they really "taboo" or are they taboo because we're women and women just aren't supposed to think about such dirty, dirty, fucking dirty things?
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Here's an idea: if there were some way to send e-mail anonymously to an address, then someone could take those anonymous messages and place them up here. Then people wouldn't know who's got what kink unless it was stated blatantly.

Just an idea, 'cause I do think that it'd be nice to hear about what some of you ladies like.
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I think for many women the rape fantasy comes down to a simple S&M thing. Many women love to be taken hard, fast and without being in complete control. I think anything that threatens injury or death runs to the extreme. For every 5 women who wouldn't humiliate themselves by having a man ejaculate on their face, there is 1 out there who climaxes at the thought of a bukkake orgy. Different strokes for different folks.
Not picking on you A_S, but statements like this are another reason a lot of women keep quiet about what toots their horn. There is always this need for people to analyze and categorize folks for what they think. "All women who like 'bla bla bla' must be motivated by 'bla bla bla'," which is a myth. It's the same maddening habit for people to say, "All men who like fat girls must have/be/think ___(enter theory here)___." Nobody wants somebody jumping to conclusions or making assumptions about them personally because of what they dream.
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OK, this is such a gray area I need some clarification. Are we talking things that are illegal in the U.S. to an extent (sort of like how you can't show fisting or real violent S&M in American porn), or are we talking fantasies and role playing that crosses too many boundaries (teacher/student, doctor/patient, daddy/daughter, 12th level neutral good human ranger/15th level chaotic evil drow elf priestess)?

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I know the difference between illegal and immoral/unethical. I choose my words wisely.

Get my drift??

Which isn't to say that immoral/unethical don't work for me, too. They do. I like the idea of preserving the animalistic part of sex. THe unthinking part. The part where you don't negotiate anything, talk anything out. There are reasons to do those things, but in my fantasy life, there's no need. It is what it is. So for me, my fantasy life revolves around the power sex has over people (in both directions--I can throw my weight around too, fear not). It makes them powerless. Makes them do things they wouldn't normally do, wouldn't even want to do. That's very intense for me. And it plays into those illegal things referenced above.
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I'll take all of the above for 500 Alex. What I find so amusing is that the men will come in here and easily blurt out all manner of fantasy and women will sit there all the while with their eyes crossed thinking "Eeeew," or "Owww," but when it comes to talking about our own, "Oh no no no no..... mother wouldn't approve at all. We'll get in trouble." Somehow I have a hard time believing that our fantasies are anything worse than what we've seen so far in here and there have been some DOOZIES. Bottom line is that most women just aren't comfortable with having all eyes looking in on that side of them even if it's a 'June Cleaver' fantasy with chore gloves and stilettos.
"chore gloves!!" Now I wanna have sex with YOU, Lilly! Pearl necklace, indeed!
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"chore gloves!!" Now I wanna have sex with YOU, Lilly! Pearl necklace, indeed!
You are getting SO repped for this.
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You are getting SO repped for this.
Now that's hot! Girl on girl repping...mmm. I dream about being repped over and over again. Rep me harder, Baby!
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Old 03-10-2007, 10:43 AM   #48
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And i agree--perhaps cutting down on the analysis will make us wommens feel more comfortable typing out what it is we like in our heart of hearts (and loin of loins). Let us analyze OURSELVES, guys. It's something women tend to do best.

My experience in life (and mine alone, I speak for no one but myself) has been that men think women 'play games' when in reality, I feel I only try to negotiate the expectations/judgements put on me by others.

For example, the whole 'no sex on the first date' thing. I think that if most women hadn't had the experience of being judged for a move like that, we'd feel much more free to do it. But we know that's not very realistic (and the thread elsewhere where almost every guy, down to a man, says they don't think less of a woman for doing so? I don't want to say anyone is lying, but that very real judgement does come from SOMEWHERE, so do we have a skewed cross section here, or...?) and so we wait, sometimes seeming to 'play games.' Trust me--if I thought it wouldn't disrupt things and cause drama, I would do shit that NONE OF YOU would be prepared for. haha. As would others, I'm sure.

where was I? I don't remember. Back to the fantasies!
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Not picking on you A_S, but statements like this are another reason a lot of women keep quiet about what toots their horn. There is always this need for people to analyze and categorize folks for what they think. "All women who like 'bla bla bla' must be motivated by 'bla bla bla'," which is a myth. It's the same maddening habit for people to say, "All men who like fat girls must have/be/think ___(enter theory here)___." Nobody wants somebody jumping to conclusions or making assumptions about them personally because of what they dream.
Oh no worries, Lilly. I may be analyzing, but only because I want to learn; why a certain woman likes what she likes, or whether it's just something she can't point a finger to. I gave up categorizing people for sex a LONG time ago; we're all just too different to make any sort of judgement call (infinite diversity in infinite combinations you could say) and to me anything and everything is fair game in fantasy (reality may be an entirely different matter based on local laws and ordinances).

I don't believe I tried to make a sweeping generalization about women's fantasies; I am only going by the women I have known and the fact that every single one of them--no matter how Emily Post on the outside--had that dark room of their psyche where they just let loose in an atavistic fit of lust and desire. This, to quote Martha, is a good thing.

Sex fantasies are still something (at least in the States) sill subject to those outdated, hypocritical puritan notions. The madonna/whore complex is still quite rampant, and I think both sexes are terribly judgemental on things. Depending on your audience, any sort of play where a lady attends to her man's backside workings can be heavily laced with homophobic attitudes, despite the fact that buttsecks is de rigeur for nearly every single guy/girl porn out there these days.

I would like to think that despite the fact that Dimensions can be an opinionated bunch, we would be open-minded enough to allow a free exchange of ideas, interests and fantasies (I mean, the overall fantasy and reality of big living is why many of us are here!).
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