For all bbw's and FA

rocky112 · 03-10-2008, 09:21 AM

First of all, im new FA guy and i have alot things to ask about.. one of the thing is lapsitting .. for both bbws and Fa ... how does it feel .. and please who have photos try to share it .. i'd like to see how its look like to have a bbw on skinny guy..

hope everyone share his or her photos ...

Totmacher · 03-10-2008, 09:40 PM

It looks and feels great. I'd advise you to go to the nearest BBW event and find out for yourself... bring a camera too.

rocky112 · 03-11-2008, 02:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Totmacher

It looks and feels great. I'd advise you to go to the nearest BBW event and find out for yourself... bring a camera too.

i will try .. thnx .
hope other give opinions and share their photos ..

rocky112 · 03-25-2008, 10:36 AM

where are u people .. no want to share anything .

SocialbFly · 03-27-2008, 06:19 PM

we are waiting for you...you first! Go out and find a nice BBW and then take pix please, and then, let us know..

AnnMarie · 03-27-2008, 06:26 PM

SSBBW and skinny guy - there ya go!

rocky112 · 03-29-2008, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by SocialbFly

we are waiting for you...you first! Go out and find a nice BBW and then take pix please, and then, let us know..

thanks alot i will try as soon as possible ..

rocky112 · 03-29-2008, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by AnnMarie

SSBBW and skinny guy - there ya go!

hi ann,
oh my

... that feels perfect i need to try ..

Arrhythmia · 04-05-2008, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnMarie

SSBBW and skinny guy - there ya go!

I wish I had the confidence to sit on someone's lap like that!

Chimpi · 04-05-2008, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by rocky112

hi ann,
oh my

... that feels perfect i need to try ..

The great thing about AnnMarie is that she's so gorgeous you can literally feel it in your heart and your soul even thousands of miles away. You're right, rocky!

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Originally Posted by Arrhythmia

I wish I had the confidence to sit on someone's lap like that!

If you do not mind me asking, why do you not have the confidence to sit on someone's lap? Is it strictly because you have low self-esteem? Do you think you might hurt the person underneath? Do you think you might feel vulnerable being on top of someone in that fashion?
I'm merely just curious. There have been a few threads about the issues dealing with sitting on a persons lap (or a person of size on top of a smaller person in general). You might want to check them out: here... and here.

Green Eyed Fairy · 04-05-2008, 05:12 PM

I'm not trying to answer for her, Chimpi, but just wanted to say that I sometimes have my own apprehensions. It's mainly due to fear of hurting the guy....but I have to admit I would be most comfortable doing it with guys that are open about liking fat women because if he asked me to do it, then I could figure he liked it

Butterbelly · 04-05-2008, 06:29 PM

GEF, I have to agree with you. I don't like sitting on someone's lap not because I lack the confidence to do it, but because I don't find it comfortable. Plus, I worry that it's not that comfortable for the other person either.

Arrhythmia · 04-05-2008, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Chimpi

If you do not mind me asking, why do you not have the confidence to sit on someone's lap? Is it strictly because you have low self-esteem? Do you think you might hurt the person underneath? Do you think you might feel vulnerable being on top of someone in that fashion?
I'm merely just curious. There have been a few threads about the issues dealing with sitting on a persons lap (or a person of size on top of a smaller person in general). You might want to check them out: here... and here.

Chimpi,

thanks, but I don't need to check the threads out since I was probably one of the ones who replied on them. It's not low self esteem nor is it the fear of vulnerability (GAWD...I wish someone would ravish me!

). Being or sitting on top leaves me with the fear that I will hurt the one underneath. Simple as that. I've never been with an FA, so someone asking me to sit my buttery flesh on them hasn't been something I've experienced.

Brach311 · 04-05-2008, 10:16 PM

I'd much rather have a curvy bum on my lap over a skeleton butt any day. I've been sat on by both and the extra padding in the derriere was far more comfortable.

AnnMarie · 04-06-2008, 04:11 PM

For the ladies who are afraid of hurting someone, I'll share what I've shared a few times.

I am 400lbs if I'm a pound. Have been high towards 435, but not below 400 since I started freely sitting on people.

I have sat on heads, chests, bellies, and laps. Not a single injury and no one I've sat on weighs over 200 or so pounds (not anyone for any length of time anyway). Some of them have weighed as little as 120 and I was sitting there for over an hour... on his entire torso.

In the picture above, that's my boyfriend, and he's about 6', 170lbs. He's also all broken... he's got really bad knees and a hip that's in need of permanent fixing, surgically. I still didn't hurt him. In that picture I think I sat there for about 15 mins. He loves it, but I still check with him every 5 mins or so because I know that he's got pain/joint issues that eventually start to make him uncomfy, even though he's not exactly good about telling me to get off because it's a "but it's soooo good!" thing, he doesn't want to give up.

So, all of that is to illustrate... if a guy wants you to sit on his lap, do it. You can easily just say "Are you ok? Just give me a tap when you'd like me to get up" and that's that.... Even when they say "ok, can you get up?" it doesn't mean "Damn, you fatty, get off me!!" It means "Damn, that was so fun, but I need a break so I can enjoy more later!"

Do it, really.

ekmanifest · 04-06-2008, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnMarie

In the picture above, that's my boyfriend, and he's about 6', 170lbs.

Every time I see that wonderful picture it just makes me want to go find someone whose lap I can sit on - right now!

LillyBBBW · 04-07-2008, 05:51 AM

I think I might have been 355 pounds in this picture?? Give or take. I was a lovely funeral. I'll miss that guy.

rocky112 · 04-07-2008, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by AnnMarie

In the picture above, that's my boyfriend, and he's about 6', 170lbs. He's also all broken... he's got really bad knees and a hip that's in need of permanent fixing, surgically. I still didn't hurt him. In that picture I think I sat there for about 15 mins. He loves it,
Do it, really.

well i cant say anything this is perfect

....

thanks guys and girls keep posting .. i really enjoy reading
and try to show us some photos more ..

JayInBuff · 04-09-2008, 08:33 AM

I love when a larger woman sits on my lap. The problem most of the time is they are afraid of crushing me. I'm 5' 8", 160lbs and have yet to be crushed. Besides lapsitting I love when they lie on top of me. BTW AnnMarie, you are one of the sexiest women I've seen online. What a great pic of you sitting on your boyfriend, I've enjoyed seeing you sit on other parts as well.

HisBear · 04-12-2008, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Arrhythmia

Being or sitting on top leaves me with the fear that I will hurt the one underneath. Simple as that.

Me too!
My fiance has to remind me every once in a while that I'm not hurting him. According to him, most of my weight is on my legs when I'm riding/strattling him. As for sitting on his lap... I would never. I'm only about 30 pounds heavier than him but I'm still terrified.

AnnMarie · 04-12-2008, 04:39 PM

Okay, I KNOW some of you ladies are convinced that the physics in your relationship outdo any laws established elsewhere on Earth, so I present photographic evidence that you will NOT hurt them - never mind kill them - by simple, planned, fun squashing with willing participants.

155lbs vs. 420lbs - full weight, sitting from ribs to knees.

Still alive and kicking - promise. I have no interest in finding ways to bury bodies.

If you're not comfortable with the idea, then don't do it... really. But if you sort of think it sounds fun, but you're just petrified you're going to kill him or smush him into a stain on the bedspread, then think of my posts as a public service announcement.

The More You Know.

Violet_Beauregard · 04-12-2008, 05:00 PM

I've got to agree with AnnMarie on this folks.... I too was TERRIFIED that I'd really hurt the guy... TERRIFIED!!!! But I did it.... sat in the lap.... and he lived to tell about it!! LOL I don't hesitate to do it now... it's perfectly fine.

I've also sat full weight on the chest, upper chest and face (that one was very tough)... and again, it was no big deal... when he needed me to get up, I did and he was perfectly fine. It wasn't for more than 15 min total, but he loved it... and again, he didn't get hurt.

Now the chest and face thing aren't for everyone, but ladies... don't hesitate to sit on the lap... really. It's not a problem, and it will make YOU feel like a million bucks...

trust me......

BothGunsBlazing · 04-12-2008, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by AnnMarie

Okay, I KNOW some of you ladies are convinced that the physics in your relationship outdo any laws established elsewhere on Earth, so I present photographic evidence that you will NOT hurt them - never mind kill them - by simple, planned, fun squashing with willing participants.

155lbs vs. 420lbs - full weight, sitting from ribs to knees.

Still alive and kicking - promise. I have no interest in finding ways to bury bodies.

If you're not comfortable with the idea, then don't do it... really. But if you sort of think it sounds fun, but you're just petrified you're going to kill him or smush him into a stain on the bedspread, then think of my posts as a public service announcement.

The More You Know.

Upon further inspection. You're sitting on a gumball machine.

Oh and yeah, I've been sat/laid on many times and there was no worry about anything cracking or breaking or whatever, I mean, sure you'll get a tad winded from having some one sitting on your chest, but well, that could probably happen with a thinner person too.

Green Eyed Fairy · 04-12-2008, 07:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AnnMarie

Okay, I KNOW some of you ladies are convinced that the physics in your relationship outdo any laws established elsewhere on Earth, so I present photographic evidence that you will NOT hurt them - never mind kill them - by simple, planned, fun squashing with willing participants.

155lbs vs. 420lbs - full weight, sitting from ribs to knees.

Still alive and kicking - promise. I have no interest in finding ways to bury bodies.

If you're not comfortable with the idea, then don't do it... really. But if you sort of think it sounds fun, but you're just petrified you're going to kill him or smush him into a stain on the bedspread, then think of my posts as a public service announcement.

The More You Know.

I notice you're sitting on a mattress that bends to accommodate- is it different on a hard surface such as a floor?

AnnMarie · 04-12-2008, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Green Eyed Fairy

I notice you're sitting on a mattress that bends to accommodate- is it different on a hard surface such as a floor?

Yes, it would be!! It would be much more pressure on the guy, and might hurt (but not necessarily injure) him. Unless someone is really into squashing and experienced, I would not recommend that full weight sitting on a hard surface.

However, sitting on someone who is on a hard (wood/banquet) chair is fine... you're not full weight (legs down, feet usually still on floor, etc) and it's just not the same putting weight on a lap/legs as it is on a back/stomach/chest, etc.

03-10-2008, 09:21 AM	#1
rocky112 Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 99	For all bbw's and FA First of all, im new FA guy and i have alot things to ask about.. one of the thing is lapsitting .. for both bbws and Fa ... how does it feel .. and please who have photos try to share it .. i'd like to see how its look like to have a bbw on skinny guy.. hope everyone share his or her photos ...

03-27-2008, 06:19 PM	#5
SocialbFly I am keeping Tina! Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: In a house Posts: 4,548	we are waiting for you...you first! Go out and find a nice BBW and then take pix please, and then, let us know.. __________________ LEARN to ACCEPT without GUILT what is given in LOVE to you. RV Medical advisor to the Mayor of Fatopia

04-05-2008, 05:12 PM	#11
Green Eyed Fairy is giggling. Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: In Your Head Posts: 19,275	I'm not trying to answer for her, Chimpi, but just wanted to say that I sometimes have my own apprehensions. It's mainly due to fear of hurting the guy....but I have to admit I would be most comfortable doing it with guys that are open about liking fat women because if he asked me to do it, then I could figure he liked it __________________ "The longing of my heart is a fairy portrait of myself: I want to be pretty; I want to eliminate facts and fill up the gap with charms." "See these eyes so green, I can stare for a thousand years, Colder than the moon It's been so long and I've been putting out fire with gasoline"

04-05-2008, 06:29 PM	#12
Butterbelly Melting in the desert Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: So. Cal Posts: 1,118	GEF, I have to agree with you. I don't like sitting on someone's lap not because I lack the confidence to do it, but because I don't find it comfortable. Plus, I worry that it's not that comfortable for the other person either. __________________ smooth like butter, jiggly like jello "Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born." - Anais Nin "It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

04-06-2008, 04:11 PM	#15
AnnMarie ✰cuddly and terrifying✰ Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Twirly Girl Posts: 19,250	For the ladies who are afraid of hurting someone, I'll share what I've shared a few times. I am 400lbs if I'm a pound. Have been high towards 435, but not below 400 since I started freely sitting on people. I have sat on heads, chests, bellies, and laps. Not a single injury and no one I've sat on weighs over 200 or so pounds (not anyone for any length of time anyway). Some of them have weighed as little as 120 and I was sitting there for over an hour... on his entire torso. In the picture above, that's my boyfriend, and he's about 6', 170lbs. He's also all broken... he's got really bad knees and a hip that's in need of permanent fixing, surgically. I still didn't hurt him. In that picture I think I sat there for about 15 mins. He loves it, but I still check with him every 5 mins or so because I know that he's got pain/joint issues that eventually start to make him uncomfy, even though he's not exactly good about telling me to get off because it's a "but it's soooo good!" thing, he doesn't want to give up. So, all of that is to illustrate... if a guy wants you to sit on his lap, do it. You can easily just say "Are you ok? Just give me a tap when you'd like me to get up" and that's that.... Even when they say "ok, can you get up?" it doesn't mean "Damn, you fatty, get off me!!" It means "Damn, that was so fun, but I need a break so I can enjoy more later!" Do it, really. __________________ Snacks are good for the soul. Raw Full Maow BigFatTweets - I caved, but no promises I'll use it.

03-10-2008, 09:40 PM	#2
Totmacher Master Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Montebello, NY Posts: 2,142	It looks and feels great. I'd advise you to go to the nearest BBW event and find out for yourself... bring a camera too.

03-25-2008, 10:36 AM	#4
rocky112 Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 99	where are u people .. no want to share anything .

04-05-2008, 10:16 PM	#14
Brach311 Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 178	I'd much rather have a curvy bum on my lap over a skeleton butt any day. I've been sat on by both and the extra padding in the derriere was far more comfortable.

04-07-2008, 05:51 AM	#17
LillyBBBW Executive Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 12,305	I think I might have been 355 pounds in this picture?? Give or take. I was a lovely funeral. I'll miss that guy. __________________ Expecting the world to treat you kindly because you are a good person is like expecting the bull not to charge because you are a vegetarian. He who asks a dumb question is a fool for five minutes. He who never asks questions remains a fool forever. You are not superior just because you see the world in an odious light. Have you hugged a fat girl today? @~;~~

04-09-2008, 08:33 AM	#19
JayInBuff Keyser Soze Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 273	Lapsitting I love when a larger woman sits on my lap. The problem most of the time is they are afraid of crushing me. I'm 5' 8", 160lbs and have yet to be crushed. Besides lapsitting I love when they lie on top of me. BTW AnnMarie, you are one of the sexiest women I've seen online. What a great pic of you sitting on your boyfriend, I've enjoyed seeing you sit on other parts as well.

04-12-2008, 05:00 PM	#22
Violet_Beauregard Master Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 5,007	I've got to agree with AnnMarie on this folks.... I too was TERRIFIED that I'd really hurt the guy... TERRIFIED!!!! But I did it.... sat in the lap.... and he lived to tell about it!! LOL I don't hesitate to do it now... it's perfectly fine. I've also sat full weight on the chest, upper chest and face (that one was very tough)... and again, it was no big deal... when he needed me to get up, I did and he was perfectly fine. It wasn't for more than 15 min total, but he loved it... and again, he didn't get hurt. Now the chest and face thing aren't for everyone, but ladies... don't hesitate to sit on the lap... really. It's not a problem, and it will make YOU feel like a million bucks... trust me......

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