What does DIMs and the BHM/FFA Board Mean to you? - Page 7

lovelocs · 12-28-2010, 04:49 PM

The BHM section is my DIMS base, in as much as I have one.

Oh, and BTW...

There are over 60 people logged in to the BHM section at this time, and few of them are posting. It's almost like a BHM army gathering on the pre-dawn horizon.

Either that, or they're all PM'ing one another.

Edit: now up to 75. Jeepers...

Sasquatch! · 12-28-2010, 06:58 PM

Zulu Dawn? No. Fatboy Dawn? Yes.

lovelocs · 12-28-2010, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Sasquatch!

Zulu Dawn? No. Fatboy Dawn? Yes.

I've had that dream before. I usually wake up *right* before they breach my perimeter....

Goreki · 06-14-2011, 04:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lovelocs

I've had that dream before. I usually wake up *right* before they breach my perimeter....

And now, the next time I get drunk, all I will be able to do is yeall at people to breach my perimeter

ForeignSoul · 06-25-2011, 05:19 AM

I must admit, I don't really go anywhere else on the boards than the BHM area....perhaps it's time to venture out....

I just usually stick here cause I've become familiar with some of you and, I'm not a fetish feeder/feedee or anything like that....I'm just a BHM...meh

Broadside · 07-11-2011, 09:20 PM

What does it mean to me?

...another shot at something I gave up on.

SlightlyMorbid · 07-25-2011, 12:26 PM

I'm just thankful ChrisVersion2 and I were talking a lot on FF and he referred me to this site and this place is great to finally be able to discuss a life-long passion and to be able to be open about a part of me without feeling ashamed or anything.

Shame that the Dimension's Chat doesn't seem to be working for me tho =/

ChrisVersion2 · 07-26-2011, 04:23 PM

I'm glad you joined and thank you for the kind words

BLK360 · 08-09-2011, 09:35 AM

Joined up only recently, so to me, the DIMs boards in general are kind of an exciting new place to really learn, become more comfortable, and meet people like myself.

KingBoo · 09-01-2011, 06:38 AM

Love and Joy

Paquito · 09-01-2011, 05:04 PM

9/1/2011: the day a complete asshat troll nuked the board.

Never forget.

BLK360 · 09-06-2011, 08:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paquito

9/1/2011: the day a complete asshat troll nuked the board.

Never forget.

Should we get t-shirts made for the occasion? If so, I leave it to you to pick who's picture we use as the half-faded mascot.

TheLargeLawStudent · 02-27-2012, 10:05 PM

As a completely new person here, it'd be disingenuous to try and claim that I have any sort of emotional investment in this board and its members. However, I can state WHY I chose to join just a short time ago.

I actually first heard of this place from a fellow classmate of mine. Apparently she has been a member of Dims for quite some time now. I confess, that before my conversation with her, I had never before heard of a "BHM/FA/FFA/BBW". Honestly, I was intrigued. Curiosity led me to this site, and now curiosity has led me to join.The people here seem interesting and different (in a good way), so for me I see this board as simply an opportunity to talk to and get to know people who I probably wouldn't have to opportunity to meet in my "normal circles". In my view, this is a whole new group of diverse people who, as different as they may be from me, have one thing in common. Either they're big guys like me, or they have an affinity for us big guys! So, that said, I hope to meet many interesting people!

CastingPearls · 02-27-2012, 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paquito

9/1/2011: the day a complete asshat troll nuked the board.

Never forget.

HMU!!!!!!!!!

Never forget.

'Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it' ~ Santayana

CastingPearls · 02-27-2012, 10:09 PM

Welcome new peeps!!!!

Librarygirl · 06-04-2012, 11:24 AM

This board has proved a lot of fun so far as well as putting me in touch with some lovely people, who have variously made me think, laugh and offered some fantastic advice and support.

I don't know what I was waiting for!

ODFFA · 06-06-2012, 08:21 AM

I love that this is a specifically carved little corner in cyberspace where BHMs & FFAs can come to encourage each other. I would love to one day be able to point a BHM/FFA or two to this site. If that opportunity ever does present itself, I'll be sure not to miss out on it!

Quote:

Originally Posted by ForeignSoul

I must admit, I don't really go anywhere else on the boards than the BHM area....perhaps it's time to venture out....

I just usually stick here cause I've become familiar with some of you and, I'm not a fetish feeder/feedee or anything like that....I'm just a BHM...meh

That's just the thing, you're not 'just' a BHM here. We need you guys to stick around.

seeker421 · 07-16-2012, 03:07 PM

I'm mainly here because I am proud of who I am and I want meet people who respect that I'm happy being a big guy.

BigWilliamUK · 07-21-2012, 05:55 AM

Quite simply it gives me a chance to be part of the crowd, rather than the odd one out, a chance to feel Im not alone there are simlar people to me, a chance to read and learn from their experience as well as voice my own without being judged just as a fat man.

BigWilliamUK · 07-21-2012, 05:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by seeker421

I'm mainly here because I am proud of who I am and I want meet people who respect that I'm happy being a big guy.

Thats great, im not like that im not happy about myself, but would love to be and hopefully with support and just general acceptance this site provides I will get there.

ODFFA · 07-24-2012, 05:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigWilliamUK

Thats great, im not like that im not happy about myself, but would love to be and hopefully with support and just general acceptance this site provides I will get there.

I think the chances of that are very good. I haven't been here long at all myself, but I can already tell you that for the most part this is an awesome place for larger folks and their unashamed admirers to support each other. Stick around, I think you'll find it's totally worth it.

The Fat Man · 07-25-2012, 08:03 PM

Dims came about for me right at about the time I started to realize I was more inclined towards bigger girls... for a while I thought I was just broken or weird. Typical teen social pressure. But when I stumbled across Dims and saw it wasn't just a "fetish" but it was a legitimate preference. I know that sounds a little derp but honestly, at like fifteen, sixteen years old that was huge for me. As the... *gulp* decade or more passed Dims became a respite from the daily bombardment of "weight loss, skinny equals happiness, you can only be healthy and content thin" culture on television and movies and... well everywhere.

After I got married Dims became a portal to a world I accepted was just going to be a fantasy. My now ex-wife was never totally comfortable with the whole BBW culture so it became my private little world again, just like in high school and college. Now though? Dims and all the sites and social networking sites that have a thriving BBW and BHM culture like Tumblr have come to represent pure potential. I'm still a young man, I own my own business, no kids, the world is my God damn oyster and by God I want to meet a girl that's into... hell, at least AWARE of this culture and how much fun it can be.

Wishful thinking but I'd love to find a confident (maybe gainer, who knows) girl and have a relationship where I can actually SHARE this amazing community and this culture and revel in it a little bit. The BBW and BHM "thing" has been such a huge part of my development, its just this huge part of my sexual identity that's always been confined to private internet sessions and at almost thirty that's a little disheartening to me.

Here's hopin'... and thanks Dims!

BigWilliamUK · 07-28-2012, 11:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ODFFA

I think the chances of that are very good. I haven't been here long at all myself, but I can already tell you that for the most part this is an awesome place for larger folks and their unashamed admirers to support each other. Stick around, I think you'll find it's totally worth it.

Thankyou for the kind words

cakeboy · 07-28-2012, 03:36 PM

I still enjoy the HMU ladies!!!! meme from time to time.

WhiteHotRazor · 07-30-2012, 10:32 AM

temporarily alleviates boredom

12-28-2010, 04:49 PM	#151
lovelocs Nunc est Bibendum Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Squaresville USA Posts: 1,102	The BHM section is my DIMS base, in as much as I have one. Oh, and BTW... There are over 60 people logged in to the BHM section at this time, and few of them are posting. It's almost like a BHM army gathering on the pre-dawn horizon. Either that, or they're all PM'ing one another. Edit: now up to 75. Jeepers... __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] Ad astra per alas porci. Last edited by lovelocs; 12-28-2010 at 04:56 PM.

06-25-2011, 05:19 AM	#155
ForeignSoul Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Greater Philadelphia Area Posts: 51	I must admit, I don't really go anywhere else on the boards than the BHM area....perhaps it's time to venture out.... I just usually stick here cause I've become familiar with some of you and, I'm not a fetish feeder/feedee or anything like that....I'm just a BHM...meh __________________ "When it comes to love you must make assumptions, Forget past pains, Live in the moment and Hope for the future" -Bill-

07-11-2011, 09:20 PM	#156
Broadside Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Kansas City Posts: 258	What does it mean to me? ...another shot at something I gave up on. __________________ Things are never black and white, there are always shades of gray. Never be afraid to PM.

07-26-2011, 04:23 PM	#158
ChrisVersion2 0110100001101001 Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Boston South Shore Posts: 898	I'm glad you joined and thank you for the kind words __________________ Have you tried turning it off and on again? :doh: Last edited by ChrisVersion2; 07-26-2011 at 04:26 PM.

02-27-2012, 10:09 PM	#165
CastingPearls Go Big Or Go Home Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Possum Grape, AR Posts: 15,178	Welcome new peeps!!!! __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]http://castingpearls-blowingbubbles.blogspot.com/ Free me, free yourself A life of sacrifice controlled me But those promises I made No longer hold me Mercurial more wayward by the hour The shackles fall away I'm in your power People throw rocks at things that shine.

12-28-2010, 06:58 PM	#152
Sasquatch! A wild loser appeared! Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Cardiff Posts: 3,068	Zulu Dawn? No. Fatboy Dawn? Yes.

07-25-2011, 12:26 PM	#157
SlightlyMorbid Darth Cuddles Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Netherlands Posts: 436	I'm just thankful ChrisVersion2 and I were talking a lot on FF and he referred me to this site and this place is great to finally be able to discuss a life-long passion and to be able to be open about a part of me without feeling ashamed or anything. Shame that the Dimension's Chat doesn't seem to be working for me tho =/

08-09-2011, 09:35 AM	#159
BLK360 Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 151	Joined up only recently, so to me, the DIMs boards in general are kind of an exciting new place to really learn, become more comfortable, and meet people like myself.

09-01-2011, 06:38 AM	#160
KingBoo On Timeout Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 51	Love and Joy

09-01-2011, 05:04 PM	#161
Paquito don't July to me Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,639	9/1/2011: the day a complete asshat troll nuked the board. Never forget.

02-27-2012, 10:05 PM	#163
TheLargeLawStudent Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Minneapolis, MN Posts: 13	As a completely new person here, it'd be disingenuous to try and claim that I have any sort of emotional investment in this board and its members. However, I can state WHY I chose to join just a short time ago. I actually first heard of this place from a fellow classmate of mine. Apparently she has been a member of Dims for quite some time now. I confess, that before my conversation with her, I had never before heard of a "BHM/FA/FFA/BBW". Honestly, I was intrigued. Curiosity led me to this site, and now curiosity has led me to join.The people here seem interesting and different (in a good way), so for me I see this board as simply an opportunity to talk to and get to know people who I probably wouldn't have to opportunity to meet in my "normal circles". In my view, this is a whole new group of diverse people who, as different as they may be from me, have one thing in common. Either they're big guys like me, or they have an affinity for us big guys! So, that said, I hope to meet many interesting people!

06-04-2012, 11:24 AM	#166
Librarygirl Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: England Posts: 523	Great people and good fun! This board has proved a lot of fun so far as well as putting me in touch with some lovely people, who have variously made me think, laugh and offered some fantastic advice and support. I don't know what I was waiting for! __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]This above all: to thine own self be true (Hamlet)

07-16-2012, 03:07 PM	#168
seeker421 Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 25	I'm mainly here because I am proud of who I am and I want meet people who respect that I'm happy being a big guy.

07-21-2012, 05:55 AM	#169
BigWilliamUK Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Telford Posts: 63	Quite simply it gives me a chance to be part of the crowd, rather than the odd one out, a chance to feel Im not alone there are simlar people to me, a chance to read and learn from their experience as well as voice my own without being judged just as a fat man.

07-25-2012, 08:03 PM	#172
The Fat Man Fat Don Draper Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: TX Posts: 348	Dims came about for me right at about the time I started to realize I was more inclined towards bigger girls... for a while I thought I was just broken or weird. Typical teen social pressure. But when I stumbled across Dims and saw it wasn't just a "fetish" but it was a legitimate preference. I know that sounds a little derp but honestly, at like fifteen, sixteen years old that was huge for me. As the... gulp decade or more passed Dims became a respite from the daily bombardment of "weight loss, skinny equals happiness, you can only be healthy and content thin" culture on television and movies and... well everywhere. After I got married Dims became a portal to a world I accepted was just going to be a fantasy. My now ex-wife was never totally comfortable with the whole BBW culture so it became my private little world again, just like in high school and college. Now though? Dims and all the sites and social networking sites that have a thriving BBW and BHM culture like Tumblr have come to represent pure potential. I'm still a young man, I own my own business, no kids, the world is my God damn oyster and by God I want to meet a girl that's into... hell, at least AWARE of this culture and how much fun it can be. Wishful thinking but I'd love to find a confident (maybe gainer, who knows) girl and have a relationship where I can actually SHARE this amazing community and this culture and revel in it a little bit. The BBW and BHM "thing" has been such a huge part of my development, its just this huge part of my sexual identity that's always been confined to private internet sessions and at almost thirty that's a little disheartening to me. Here's hopin'... and thanks Dims! __________________ myundertaking.tumblr.com Last edited by The Fat Man; 07-25-2012 at 08:11 PM.

07-28-2012, 03:36 PM	#174
cakeboy Douchepuncher Supreme! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 314	I still enjoy the HMU ladies!!!! meme from time to time. __________________ Badass fatass.

07-30-2012, 10:32 AM	#175
WhiteHotRazor Time Travelling Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Illinois Posts: 1,134	temporarily alleviates boredom