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Old 10-12-2005, 10:56 AM   #1
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Cool Thread for the single people!

I have seen an awful lot of threads for couples, so how about a thread for the single people?

Lets share our frustrations and the best "hunting grounds" we have found.

I have had a little luck at okcupid.com (which is free) and I have gotten a lot of nice emails from http://personals.ufies.org/home.html Unfortunately I have never met anyone from that site - they all seem to get scared away before I actually meet them.

I used to think a good year was one when I had at least one date, but I did have a boyfriend for 3 months this year, so I think I have met my quota for the next 30 years or so!

I never had *this* many problems before moving to Texas, so I'm not sure if it is because I am older, because I am fatter, or because I live in Austin.

So, who else is single and looking, and where have you found to be good places to look?
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Old 10-12-2005, 11:03 AM   #2
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good question!
i've found it hard to meet people in Philly--I'm originally from the midwest and it just seemed easier to talk with people and move to the 'hanging out' stage (with all types of people, not just in dating situations). Here, when I hold doors for people or speak to them in elevators, they often look at me like I'm nuts. Once, a life-long east coast friend told me: Don't you get it? We don't WANT to talk to strangers on the street!!! Well, that's at odds with my suburban midwestern upbringing. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a crazy, chatty hayseed, but I can't just walk down the street and pretend no one else exists. The smiles or the 'hello's have to come out some time.
So that's a long-winded way of saying: i ain't havin' much luck, which is why I can post to this thread!
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Old 10-12-2005, 11:46 AM   #3
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Anyone providing advice in this thread that actually helps me to meet a good man can have my firstborn.





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So, who else is single and looking, and where have you found to be good places to look?
Haven't a clue. No one in my area is into the same things I am and I'm really not into looking online.
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I'm a chronic work-a-holic so I never meet anybody. So far I've found the dating ritual to be a disappointment for the most part. I guess I just don't know how to play.
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Old 10-12-2005, 12:44 PM   #6
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I don't think I have met anyone in a way other than online in ...gosh....10 years? More?
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Old 10-12-2005, 01:44 PM   #7
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I had NOOOOOO luck with eharmony, cause i don't think they include a section for not only size but lack of character in some men that cant see past size...oh did i say that out loud?? ok, that being said, i have had some luck with tango wire, they have several linked sites that include bbw hearts big gorgeous women and i don't know what else, oh wait, overweight date too...i have met a couple of nice guys from there, a couple of butts too, but hey, that is the chance you take eh? i also didn't have any luck with yahoo dating sites, because again, no place to write that i am fat, and since that is a huge problem to some men, it is an issue.

so, try tango wire, i have had some good luck with them, let us know how ya do?!
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I actually have a Tango Wire affiliate (http://bbwpersonalads.net/) and when I initially signed up ...3 years ago? I did get a few dates through them. I have not had anyone interested in me there (that I would be interested in) in well over a year though.
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Old 10-12-2005, 02:23 PM   #9
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Old 10-12-2005, 02:40 PM   #10
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Hmm... If a dude suggests himself, and it turns out to actually be good advice, and you marry and have a kid, then you really get outta that one.

Personally, I've been single my entire life. Been on, uh... (counts on fingers... carry the six) three dates in my life, which, as you can conclude, didn't work out.

How can this be? you ask. Well, I haven't quite narrowed it down yet, but I suspect the following are at work:

- My inability to respond outwardly to emotion
- My near inablility to be attracted to anyone who isn't already my friend, and thus fail to respond for fear of breaking down what already exists
- My badass metalhead look is just way too much for anyone to handle

Although I seriously do suspect the last point plays a small part, I'm unwilling to change that at present, so I'll grit my teeth and take it on the chin if it comes to it.

Only within the past couple months has my singleness been really beating down on me for the first time. But I suppose it's a passing phase.
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Old 10-12-2005, 02:50 PM   #11
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Flip "nice lady" in there in place of "good man" and I'll second that motion. lol
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hmm, a thread for us single folks...not bad. i guess that's all there is to be said on the matter...single...and looking, i suppose.

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I don't think I even want to touch this topic.

Tonight is more difficult than most; I'm not sure why...

I'm ok with being single most of the time...but tonight, it hurts a little bit.

Hope you are all well.
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I just have to say that I love your signature. Office Space is an AWESOME movie!
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Hmm... If a dude suggests himself, and it turns out to actually be good advice, and you marry and have a kid, then you really get outta that one.
Nahh.... he'll be putty in my hands by then.
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I don't think I even want to touch this topic.

Tonight is more difficult than most; I'm not sure why...

I'm ok with being single most of the time...but tonight, it hurts a little bit.

Hope you are all well.
I know exactly what you mean.... sometimes it just sneaks up on you. Hope you're feeling better today.




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I'm not single anymore...can I play anyway?

Believe me when I say that I have had personal ads on damn near all the sites I could find...here's a list of a few I've tried...


Dimensions Matching System...met a few nice guys there, never in real life since they lived way far away. But, I got a couple good chat buddies from it. And it's FREE!!

www.generous.net Specifically for fat folks...again, a few hits, but none IRL. It's free!

www.sexyads.net This is definately an 'adult' site, with most of the people looking for sexual encounters over long term relationships. But, there are people there looking for true love, if you only have the patience to weed out the horndogs. Very size friendly, even have a Lovin' Large chatroom I still hang out in from time to time. I've met a couple of guys IRL and had positive experiences. Basic membership is free, you can only send messages if someone sends you one first if you are just a basic member. You have the chance to send tickles to folks who interest you, and if they're a VIP they can write to you.

www.lindasbigconnections.com Totally free personals. This site is based in the Chicago area but they get ads from all over. Linda also holds BBW dances every month. Good site, nice message board.

www.bbwdatefinder.com I tried it but wasn't too thrilled with it. Free to have an ad, but really no way to contact someone unless they contact you first. Only paying members can email.

www.okcupid.com Someone already mentioned this place, I tried it but had no luck. Free, I think.

And of course, Yahoo! Personals....where I met my sweetie....not the best site and as mentioned, not too size-friendly, but the headline of my ad was "Fat Girls Are Harder To Kidnap" so I'm hoping it was obvious I'm a big girl! Free to have an ad, have to subscribe to send messages, but I took a chance and paid for a month and that's when I met my boyfriend. Yahoo! works sometimes!!

Hope all this information helps someone....online dating can be nuts but sometimes it works!

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Hi Trisha,

Glad to hear things worked out for you. I've tried most of those places. No desire to post anything at sexyads (I have enough people bug me for sex as it is without encouraging even one more, and sites like that just repel me). It is great that Linda has free personal ads, but most of the people are in the northeast, and I'm in Texas. We used to have a lady who did free personal ads for people in Texas, but there weren't many male ones, and she closed up shop a couple of years ago.

I've been looking for more than 10 years now, and I'm getting pretty close to the point where I'm resigning myself to being alone (NOT lonely) for the rest of my life. I'm going to be 39 tomorrow, and I'm just weary of looking. Everything else in my life is great, so no real complaints.

I'm not whining, so I hope no one takes it that way. It just is what it is.
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Old 10-13-2005, 01:07 PM   #22
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OK I'm not single but I do have some advice for the folks in the NY/NJ area. I met hubby when we both lived in NJ at a dance for big folk. I also was involved in the NJ - South Jersey and Philly NAAFA groups. There are lots of groups for dances in the NY/NJ/PA area. Met lots of nice people at the NAAFA events and they know all the social events in their areas.

For the person who lives in Philly - I used to love to go to South Street on the weekends. I met the most interesting (and sometimes strange but always fun) people there.

That's my 2 cents for what it's worth.
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I'm now 51 and still single, never married and not by choice. Its just been so hard for me to meet bbws that are looking for real relationships. I met my last girlfriend in the Dimensions chat room and the one before that in the Dimensions printed magazine and it had been several years between having girlfriends. At one time I'd had ads in more than a dozen online bbw personals sites and I wasted money for 6 months at that super rippoff eharmony. They have no way to specify that you prefer larger ladies and they always try and match women with guys at least 2" taller and being that I am short that doesn't leave to many matches for me. Never got to meet even 1 lady from eharmony in 6 months. I live in a small town and there are few oppertunities to meet singles here. Everytime I find someone online to chat with they always live thousands of miles away and are not interested in anything long distance and after the experiences I've had with LDRs I am not keen on one again either. I am in a position that would make it hard for me to move for someone so I also do not expect someone to want to move for me either. It seems I am going to end up being "the eccentric old man with cats".

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Originally Posted by ValentineBBW
LOL I think so too. We've got at least 2 members, do we need 3 to consider it a group?
It seems to me - there are a lot of single people here and a group would be a really good idea. Why not set up a regular chat time or something. You never know when lightening will hit.

Good luck to you all. I knew right before I met hubby I was gonna be alone for the rest of my life. LOL - that'll teach me. I was 31 he was 39. 13 years later he is still the love of my life and worth waiting for.

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