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Old 09-18-2008, 10:15 AM   #26
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Hi! *waves back* eek you're a dalek!
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Old 09-18-2008, 10:38 AM   #27
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Well, Pinkylou... I guess it sucks that I'm another one of those darn US guys!
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Old 09-18-2008, 10:58 AM   #28
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Noooo!! Well isnt that the suckiest of all sucky things! Maybe you would like Ireland better? I dunno, and there was me reserving my squishy bits for you *shakes head*
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:21 AM   #29
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We're here ;-)

I agree with alot of what's gone before, meeting a bbw or ssbbw in the UK with the same 'fatitude' and confidence as US BBWs and SSBBWs (this is a massive generalisation I know - ofcourse there are big girls in the US that have confidence issues).

I'm currently in a relationship with a BBW (YAY!) she's about 20 stone, but something I've encountered in the past is that my size puts some BBWs and SSBBWs off, I'm 6'4" and about 26-27 stone (my scales don't actually go that high!LOL!) because of course BBWs and SSBBWs aren't necesarilly into fat guys...

Anyway, just wanted to give a shout and wave! BBW and SSBBW loving fat boy in Wales :-)

UK FA's... We're real, not a myth like unicorns or tasty low fat cheese ;-)

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Old 09-18-2008, 11:33 AM   #30
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WTF! Unicorns arent real?? *cries*
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:46 AM   #31
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I'm a female ssbbw admirer. I am also a very big ssbbw....who is married to the bestest FA in the whole world. He is English and I am American. We live in the UK.
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Old 09-18-2008, 11:46 AM   #32
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For every UK SSBBW who says there are no FAs there's a UK FA who says there are no SSBBW We've all just got to figure out a way of meeting each other!

It's stating the obvious perhaps, but BBW dating websites are the way to go... I haven't met many UK SSBBW, but those I have I met online on a dating site.

As for whether the FA in question is a closet FA or not, or wants a serious relationship or not... I think you just have to accept that you're bound to meet a few duds before you meet the right guy. This is just the way of the world I'm afraid. I don't think FAs are inherently more promiscuous than guys who like skinny girls... so I imagine finding a nice guy who wants a relationship is just as hard for skinny girls as it is for SSBBW!

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I can honestly say I've never met an SSBBW, I was beginning to assume there were none on this side of the Atlantic.

Happy to be proved wrong.

What? You NEVER? Ever? ???? half the ssbbws I know in the UK live in London. Maybe you aren't going to the right places.
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One right here!

And I actually think the UK is relatively well of in terms of ssbbws. But I do live in Scotland which is the fattest part lol!
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:03 PM   #35
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I've seen plenty of girls who, like me would be classed as ssbbw around and about, go loiter outside Evans, you'll see plenty! FA's arent so easy to spot lol
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I've seen plenty of girls who, like me would be classed as ssbbw around and about, go loiter outside Evans, you'll see plenty! FA's arent so easy to spot lol
lol... if only I could figure out how to make loitering outside Evans work for me........

"hey baby, I'm just standing here loitering outside Evans in search of SSBBW and wondered if you'd like to go out for a drink?"

I'm guessing more SSBBW would call the Police than say yes

Mind you, I've always thought I should apply for a job in Evans...........
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:23 PM   #37
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I'd be impressed you would ask me out for a drink! Might be an idea not to loiter for extended periods though lol! So I'm a ssbbw, nice to meet ya!
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I'd be impressed you would ask me out for a drink! Might be an idea not to loiter for extended periods though lol! So I'm a ssbbw, nice to meet ya!
And I'm a SSBBW admirer, so nice to meet ya too!
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:29 PM   #39
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Nice drumming pic btw anyhoo if you go working in Evans...wanna share the staff discount
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Heading off to the nearset Evans store as we speak. I've got some loitering to do.
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Nice drumming pic btw anyhoo if you go working in Evans...wanna share the staff discount
Thanks!

And sure... in my imaginary Evans job I offer discounts to all Dimensions members! We'll have to have some kind of secret handshake system so I know who you all are though. Or perhaps the secret sign could be sitting on my lap if you're a Dimensions SSBBW... hmmm... so many possibilities!
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Hehe dont get arrested!
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Or just take me shopping in Evans then Id sit on your lap for all eternity! (jokin)
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Or just take me shopping in Evans then Id sit on your lap for all eternity! (jokin)
lol... that sounds like a deal. And a forum post is a written contract!!
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So, aside from the guys loitering outside of the stores, is there anything in particular that you ladies can spot that a guy would be an FA?

Okay, and aside from the random t-shirt (saw a post with a guy that had a shirt on that said "I love fat chicks").
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So, aside from the guys loitering outside of the stores, is there anything in particular that you ladies can spot that a guy would be an FA?

Okay, and aside from the random t-shirt (saw a post with a guy that had a shirt on that said "I love fat chicks").
lol... guys walking into lamp posts/crashing cars as a SSBBW walks by is always a give away...
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So there are guys like me who are pretty shy about talking to women (aside from posting on message boards like this). If you saw a guy and you thought he would be into you, what is your best pickup move: (1) if you're actually interested in dating, and/or (2) if you just thought it'd be fun to have a fling with him. Answer on whatever your preference would be.
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:50 PM   #48
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So, aside from the guys loitering outside of the stores, is there anything in particular that you ladies can spot that a guy would be an FA?

Okay, and aside from the random t-shirt (saw a post with a guy that had a shirt on that said "I love fat chicks").
http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/fo...ad.php?t=46159

This thread might help you out.

I still think we should consider the badge idea personally.
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oops, I'm an idiot...I meant to start that as a new thread. How do I remove it from here? Help!!
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Old 09-18-2008, 01:02 PM   #50
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If a forum post is a contract...whens the shopping date?? Teehee!
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