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Old 09-18-2008, 01:02 PM   #51
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Well, I'm an SSBBW admirer, and I live in Stourport-on-Severn, I love 25 stone + girls, and I am a bit of a feeder too, if the girl is agreeable.
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I am a American SSBBW married to a amazing English FA, living here in the London area. I have lots of SSBBW friends that are single. They always ask me where are all the good single fa's. So I think I will have to send them to this post.

I do want to say hello to all the Fa's from the UK its nice to know they are out there and are proud to be Fa's.


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If a forum post is a contract...whens the shopping date?? Teehee!
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Old 09-18-2008, 01:24 PM   #56
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In the meantime, try coming out with us to the BGP events if you want. We have a great time, and you can watch the car crash that is UK-FAs in action.
Oi Miranda!

Crikey... are we really that bad?

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Old 09-18-2008, 01:37 PM   #57
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Apparently so James lol (sorry for double posting dumb wap) Think I scared him off Bexy
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Old 09-18-2008, 04:48 PM   #59
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That is gross Susie
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No chubby hand pics for you, bad, bad Susie!!
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I would say don't get me started, but it's too late for that now!

After several years of looking, with no word of crash diets or WLS seeping from my lips, I've given up. And there's about a billion people on here who'll tell ya I'm as confident as they come.

All I ever seem to meet are timewasters and closeted FA; Guys either come out and act like a kid in a sweet shop and hop from one BBW/SSBBW to the next, or they want to indulge their fantasy for a night whilst the wife and kids are at home.

And when I used to look on line - after I filtered out the men who think it's a nifty idea to send shots of their winkle to impress me - I seemed to always end up in this spiral of conversation
'Wow! I *never* meet anyone of your size, where are all the fat girls?! I only ever get set up with size 12s or under..'
'Well, who sets you up on these dates then?'
'My Friends'
'And have you told your friends you'd prefer fat chicks?'
'Umm...no....thats tricky. They wouldn't understand....'

Oi vey!

Ok, there are some guys who will worship the ground you walk on, but the ones I've some across have unfortunately been.....well...dull, weird and downright creepy.

I dont mean to cast a shadow of general hopelessness onto your plight, but you'll have much more of a blast if you cease looking and let whatever happens, happen. In the meantime, try coming out with us to the BGP events if you want. We have a great time, and you can watch the car crash that is UK-FAs in action.
LO effeing L...

God Miranda, that provided my daily dose of jaded condescension. Can skip Jeremy Kyle now.

Sadly, for me at least, a car crash actually is a pretty apt metaphore.

Anyways... Hi, I'm Ben and, as my dims name cannily reveals, I too am floating around these sunny isles.
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Hi Ben...cute dimples
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I would say don't get me started, but it's too late for that now!

After several years of looking, with no word of crash diets or WLS seeping from my lips, I've given up. And there's about a billion people on here who'll tell ya I'm as confident as they come.

All I ever seem to meet are timewasters and closeted FA; Guys either come out and act like a kid in a sweet shop and hop from one BBW/SSBBW to the next, or they want to indulge their fantasy for a night whilst the wife and kids are at home.

And when I used to look on line - after I filtered out the men who think it's a nifty idea to send shots of their winkle to impress me - I seemed to always end up in this spiral of conversation
'Wow! I *never* meet anyone of your size, where are all the fat girls?! I only ever get set up with size 12s or under..'
'Well, who sets you up on these dates then?'
'My Friends'
'And have you told your friends you'd prefer fat chicks?'
'Umm...no....thats tricky. They wouldn't understand....'

Oi vey!

Ok, there are some guys who will worship the ground you walk on, but the ones I've some across have unfortunately been.....well...dull, weird and downright creepy.

I dont mean to cast a shadow of general hopelessness onto your plight, but you'll have much more of a blast if you cease looking and let whatever happens, happen. In the meantime, try coming out with us to the BGP events if you want. We have a great time, and you can watch the car crash that is UK-FAs in action.
Preach! It's like that in the US too.
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Old 09-19-2008, 05:14 AM   #65
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Oi Miranda!

Crikey... are we really that bad?
*Points to Ben* Heh heh heh!

Sorry James, you're not ALL as bad as Ben admittedly, but the clubs - to me - are still pretty good to see FAs in action because you get to see people's behaviour. Such as the guys who are just happy to watch fat chicks bounce around and just lurk at the bar, or the one's you know who have tried to chat up everyone else in the room.
Or you get a complete weirdo coming up to you, trying to flirt with you and once he sees he has no luck, he then decides that, no matter what happens, he wont leave the table. They're harder to shake off than a cold in the Arctic.
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don't give up hope just yet though, or you won't notice the people checking you out and even if you're already confident its a huge boost,

thing is that the more you want something, be it a relationship or more money or a car, anything, the more you want it, the more you subconsciously push it away, in effect because you say "I want a relationship" and your subcounscious follows that to the letter, creating you "wanting a relationship" and so we only perpetuate our wanting.

If you want to find a lasting relationship, find one for a friend but you can't do it because you want one yourself, you have to be sincere.
If you can give that to someone else you are more likely to find one yourself because the act of giving makes your subconsious think you already have it.
Its like if you are in a relationship its always easier to skip to another one because you are still in the period of "having a relationship" whereas to start from not having a relationship is harder because your mind doesn't think you're in one. does that make any sense? well anyway, just don't quit yet
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I think it makes sense...my tiny brain takes a while to function lol! I have numb butt I need a wander ..
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Old 09-19-2008, 07:33 AM   #68
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There are men over here in the UK who like ssbbw's ( they lurk in the shadows lol ) but i think that they all go looking over in the USA for women. I dont know why they so as we have some stunning ssbbw's over here just sadly i think that most men in the uk think that most supersize women are from the USA but come on boys look round HERE in the UK

Either that or all us girls maybe should start looking for some nice hot tallent in the USA hehe
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I have to admit, in the short stay I had in the UK I honest to God felt like the fattest person in the world. The doors were all small, the rooms tiny, the funiture miniscule and it seemed like the people constantly stared at me and I didn't see a single fat chick or guy there. It was a very odd sensation but then maybe it was because of where I was visiting (the Cotswolds (sp?) ). My sister lived there for 12 years and I know that she felt really out of place (she is tall) and always fat (even though she is average).
So...I honestly never think of the UK as having Fat people. It's just kinda hard for me to wrap my mind around...it just seemed like everyone there was small. Heck, I even felt tall!
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Hey hey Kitty cat looking fierce in that pic! I dunno, Im not exactly shy and if I thought someone liked me I would ask him out for sure, but I dont see that anyones remotely interested! Even the dating adverts in the paper its the "seeks slim, blonde" guys! Anyhoo if cupid strikes..yay! If not Im still a happy soul so yay too!
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*Note: not that I'm drawing comparison...but...
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Diggers my sweet are you saying Im evil or you? Meh evil as you may be, you're an FA...so...hey, how yooou doin Im in a silly mood sowwie!
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We do have quite a lot of fat people. According to a dims thread I saw a while ago, we're the third fattest nation on the planet. There are plenty of BBWs (and even SSBBWs) that UK FAs can and do date. I happen to have been dating an American SSBBW simply because she was/is the girl I liked and cared about the most, not because she was American! Believe me, it would have been a whole lot easier if she lived 20 minutes , rather than 20 hours by plane and 8 timezones away!

I fully take Miranda's point about the types of guys that can be encountered at the BGP night. Whilst it never really went that way for me, the sweet shop effect is kinda understandable (i'm not defending it, just explaining it) because FAism does get kinda suppressed and emerges a little later than is usually the case. Once a guy is out, it often happens that they will want to make up for lost time. I was talking to a gay friend about this and he seemed to think that the same was true in that community also...
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We do have quite a lot of fat people. According to a dims thread I saw a while ago, we're the third fattest nation on the planet. There are plenty of BBWs (and even SSBBWs) that UK FAs can and do date. I happen to have been dating an American SSBBW simply because she was/is the girl I liked and cared about the most, not because she was American! Believe me, it would have been a whole lot easier if she lived 20 minutes , rather than 20 hours by plane and 8 timezones away!

I fully take Miranda's point about the types of guys that can be encountered at the BGP night. Whilst it never really went that way for me, the sweet shop effect is kinda understandable (i'm not defending it, just explaining it) because FAism does get kinda suppressed and emerges a little later than is usually the case. Once a guy is out, it often happens that they will want to make up for lost time. I was talking to a gay friend about this and he seemed to think that the same was true in that community also...
I'd also like to add that Mike didn't fall in love with me because I was American. He became friends with me online whilst having an English ssbbw girlfriend at that time. Once that relationship ended we decided to move an already great friendship to the next level. So when he found me, he wasn't looking for a girl much less an American girl.
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