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Old 11-26-2008, 10:19 PM   #201
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WOW! How on earth can you reconcile that with this.... http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/fo...ad.php?t=46709 In that ONE pic collage you are EATING, showing your GAIN by a photo of you standing on weighing scales, then an "oops, naughty me" pic right after it?????? Hypocritcal to the nth degree!
I can see your point Ruby, it does seem to be hypocritical, but Jae could be in the same situation both my girlfriend and I are in. We both have a mutual understanding that no-matter what, if health becomes an issue, the feederism ends. Even so, with an explicit "this is how it'll work" there is still a potential that after so much time involved in gaining weight, that when the time comes to stop, or lose weight for personal reasons, that there is a loss of excitment, or attraction, in the partner.

So maybe the pressure she's feeling is less of a current pressure, and more of a concern for the future (much in how I have concern for the future about my Credit Card debt, yet right now I enjoy spending money that technically isn't mine.) I think a lot of the feedism community is too shortsighted and doesn't seem to have any focus on what's to come down the road, and so we get into habits of being overly critical of someone's concerns, while they continue to practice.
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I think everyone involved in this thread just needs to take a few big, deep breaths....
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and i agree with Jae, lets watch and see what *actually* happens
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Rooby, I am thinking that such a reaction could be similar to women with paysites who would not actually blow kisses and giggle in real life, if a guy complimented them. I worked retail....and sometimes...when I said Have A Nice Day....I was as sincere as a Jimmy Swaggart apology. There is always a lil more flash and sizzle to sell something...keep a job...etc..

I don't know Jae, and I do understand why you said what you did. I just know that sometimes, things are not what they seem, and people do all kinds of things for all kinds of reasons.
I do know Jae...or at least I used to. She does have issues she struggles with but she does it with class and the best she can. Her husband takes good care of her.

Paysites are entertainment which requires a bit of acting, sure some models may not be comfortable doing certain things, but if it makes people happy and continues to purchase clips, pix, vids...then sometimes its for the better.

She's afraid to lose weight because she's afraid of being ripped on my members here. To that I say, fuck em! Do what makes YOU happy Jae, and there will still be loyal, caring friends (such as me) who've seen you much thinner than you are now who will certainly still talk to you no matter what. That's what friends are for, take care of yourself.

As for CP, I don't know what else to say...I'll just wait till the show comes out.

As for Dan, the link is George Carlin's infamous skit about dirty words on television....all the talk about scat and what not got me thinking about it.
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I think there is a huge difference in getting on TV to talk about how you want to eat yourself into immobility and discussing your issues with husbands expectations about gaining.

I personallly could never understand why anyone gets on TV to showase their private lives but I can bet there is a huge percentage of women in the same situation as Jae and I can't help but think she is brave for sitting in front of everyone and being judged. I know I couldn't do it.

As for being hypocritical- I don't think so. These sites are for entertainment purposes only. The way I see it- it's all acting. There are girls that boast huge gains when you can clearly see they have lost weight - you can't possibly expect them to keep up with the demands of so many subscribers. What they put up on their site does not have to be an exact reflection of their private lives or feelings.
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I Think this thread is a perfect example of why fantasy should remain fantasy and reality should be what you live in.

I'm all for fantasy and having fun with it - but when your fantasy life becomes your main foucus in life your life will surely deteriorate people get hurt, children are forgotten, health both mental and physical will be in jepordy.
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I Think this thread is a perfect example of why fantasy should remain fantasy and reality should be what you live in.
and a perfect example of .. reading being fundamental.

otherwise you might just end up like tyra got in my face and yelled aty mwe and i was like i dont get why are you yelling at me i love food and its not like she had a rip cage sticking out she was so mad you could see her eyes bulging out of the suckets and i was all like but rolls are squishy and she was like yerll tyelll yell what a psycho im hungry winston churchhill was the best player on the yankees but really i prefer the ones with cream filling because i can eat at least 5 boxes of those and still have room for lots of Nostradamus is a pickle. anhway mortality of the shtory is purple is a fruit
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and a perfect example of .. reading being fundamental.

otherwise you might just end up like tyra got in my face and yelled aty mwe and i was like i dont get why are you yelling at me i love food and its not like she had a rip cage sticking out she was so mad you could see her eyes bulging out of the suckets and i was all like but rolls are squishy and she was like yerll tyelll yell what a psycho im hungry winston churchhill was the best player on the yankees but really i prefer the ones with cream filling because i can eat at least 5 boxes of those and still have room for lots of Nostradamus is a pickle. anhway mortality of the shtory is purple is a fruit

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Let me ask you something Donna, did I personally attack you in my posts? I don't know you, so why would I? I simply just addressed what happened on the show, giving another point of view... anywhere in my post did I criticize you? Didn't think so.

So now I guess I have to explain myself, even further.



They didn't ambush my husband exactly, he had a basic idea of what the show was about, but as far as how badly I was hurt by his fantasies, not a clue. He does feel that he was made out to be a bad guy, and you don't think I feel guilty about that? There were some things that he should of got out, and well... it would of made things better, and more of a discussion rather than it feeling like an ambush. And SURE it should of been discussed in private, but I was given the opportunity to talk about it on the show, and I personally know a few women in our community who are going through almost the same thing, there are many in my boat and for once I wanted to feel like I was getting a point across and helping other women like they are not alone in this...

Very intimate things WERE brought up but let me ask you this: so you think your husband, boyfriend, or whatever and you weren't talking about intimate things yourselves? Come on...



And I understand that, like I said, I was just putting more input into what had happened because I was there. I ALSO said that it was probably a misunderstanding. So many things today are taken out of context, turned around and made to sound horrible. I am sorry about your mother, you are right about that.



I don't think it was quite like that, I think it was more like "Oh, thank you for putting more perspective on it."... uh, just like what people said.



My husband has his own free will, first off. How do you think I feel? He told me all the time how he wanted me to get to 500, or even more and that was constantly beat into my mind that is what he wanted me to look like, so YEAH, I am going to be a little insecure about losing weight... I'm not that comfortable at 400 plus pounds, SO WHAT. I want to be able to have children one day, right now at my weight, it would be quite unhealthy to do so. It was almost a shock to me when he said he wouldn't leave me if I wanted to lose weight, because almost every time I mentioned it at home he would get upset. It's not my fault that he didn't admit to Tyra these things on the show. I don't know how I made my husband look like a creep, if he came off that way he did that all on his own. And I made feeders look bad? There are many feeders that go to extremes that make other feeders look bad on their own. Don't get me wrong, nothing against them (well, I'm married to one) but I am also friends with feeders AND feedees, so please don't go there. I'm not on Tyra's side... yeesh.


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Oh yeah, that is one of the videos they showed on the Tyra Show actually. How can you use that video to call me hypocritical? I went on the show admitting that I am not comfortable with such things, and I would love to lose weight, but am afraid to, did you not read that part?

Being hypocritical would be if I advertised my site as being a gainer or a feedee (in which I do say I like being fed, but what woman doesn't (feederism aside)! Strawberries n' whipped cream...yum!). I would also like to add that my site is for entertainment purposes only, though it interferes with my real life - that is why I felt so horrible about myself. :/

I think what is needed is for everyone to see the show before you make any more judgments.
Im in the UK, I wont see the show. Im not talking about a video either. Im talking about the photos on that paysite update, which blatantly speak for themselves. You certainly don't appear in way afraid or coerced, or anything like it, in those pics. Youre cashing in on photos that tell a story of you gaining. Simple.

Sorry for hijacking your thread Donna, and good luck.
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Im in the UK, I wont see the show. Im not talking about a video either. Im talking about the photos on that paysite update, which blatantly speak for themselves. You certainly don't appear in way afraid or coerced, or anything like it, in those pics. Youre cashing in on photos that tell a story of you gaining. Simple.

Sorry for hijacking your thread Donna, and good luck.
It's a pity too, because the whole frightened and coerced feeding pics are in high demand.

I think what it boils down to with Jae's situation is the old feederism argument of how much of gaining is done for the enjoyment for the gainer themselves and how much is done to please their partner. I'm not saying Jae hates herself or doesn't take any enjoyment, but why can't people question the fetish?

I love fat. But that doesn't stop me from asking why or if i should at times.

I just wanted to say that i support you Jae. It takes courage to speak up about what you keep inside.
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Im in the UK, I wont see the show. Im not talking about a video either. Im talking about the photos on that paysite update, which blatantly speak for themselves. You certainly don't appear in way afraid or coerced, or anything like it, in those pics. Youre cashing in on photos that tell a story of you gaining. Simple.

Sorry for hijacking your thread Donna, and good luck.
NEWS FLASH: Sometimes people in the entertainment industry take on roles and give off an image that does not necessarily reflect their true feelings.

Some dudes bust a nut over this gaining stuff. She's playing to an audience. Deal with it, and stop being so daft.
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I Think this thread is a perfect example of why fantasy should remain fantasy and reality should be what you live in.

I'm all for fantasy and having fun with it - but when your fantasy life becomes your main foucus in life your life will surely deteriorate people get hurt, children are forgotten, health both mental and physical will be in jepordy.
This would be something I agree with. That's why feederism will never come off well on TV; it's not meant to be something that defines people so publicly, and if it's tied in with simply being fat...well, then that makes all fat people look like they're into it, which they certainly aren't. It's all a big mess.
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NEWS FLASH: Sometimes people in the entertainment industry take on roles and give off an image that does not necessarily reflect their true feelings.

Some dudes bust a nut over this gaining stuff. She's playing to an audience. Deal with it, and stop being so daft.
It must be roleplaying and fantasy stuff, because I sometimes get upset when I see women laying on the floor etc in those shoots covered in food, and referring to themselves as "Pigs and piglets" and "watch me oink " etc. It makes me cringe.
A woman can present herself with style and class. This degradation stuff while part of a fantasy, lowers the status of women.

No woman would want to refer to herself as a pig, and act in such a manner.
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and a perfect example of .. reading being fundamental.

otherwise you might just end up like tyra got in my face and yelled aty mwe and i was like i dont get why are you yelling at me i love food and its not like she had a rip cage sticking out she was so mad you could see her eyes bulging out of the suckets and i was all like but rolls are squishy and she was like yerll tyelll yell what a psycho im hungry winston churchhill was the best player on the yankees but really i prefer the ones with cream filling because i can eat at least 5 boxes of those and still have room for lots of Nostradamus is a pickle. anhway mortality of the shtory is purple is a fruit
ahn canser put a hit out on meh anywuiy so ima eat an trya wishes she had hertiary canser so she cud get celululuite ivy leege five languges haterz etc.
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Ill be on Tyra in a few weeks..they came to my house and brought 40 candy bars 3 dozen dounts 3 loaves of bread 4 carton of eggs 4 packs of bacon 7 cans of family size ravioli 2 cakes 7 bags of chips 5 contianers of icing..it was awesome!!!! they were here all day shooting me eatting..they ordered a pizza..it was a feeders dream..I thought about all of you wonderful feeders out there it was a dream come true..I go to the studio tomarrow and Ill let everyone know when the show will be on..wanted to share
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For me, one of my dream is that I feed Tyra Banks with 5 pizzas, 7 hamburger, 6 bag of chips, 4 cake and 3 liters of coke and beer. After that Tyra watch me and says : " I'm sooooooooooooooooooo stuffed....... but I'm still very hungry". Then I continue to feed her untill she explode!
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For me, one of my dream is that I feed Tyra Banks with 5 pizzas, 7 hamburger, 6 bag of chips, 4 cake and 3 liters of coke and beer. After that Tyra watch me and says : " I'm sooooooooooooooooooo stuffed....... but I'm still very hungry". Then I continue to feed her untill she explode!
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Please explain your thoughts, not stupid images something else.
Before that you say "una stronzata" I say to you that I'm a fanatic of feedee, feeder and feederism.
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