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Old 01-08-2009, 09:40 AM   #1
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It cant be just me but I never see any talk or anything on this topic anywhere online. I adore BBW's and SSBBW's as well and LOVE there soft belly's and the rolls that go along with them. Im sure more than one of you will agree there is nothing sexier than a pair of huge tits and a belly jiggling as a girl is having sex.

Anyway, these soft rolls make the best place to fuck, better than titty fucking in my opinion. My wife lets me "belly fuck" her in the shower all the time and at times I'd rather have that than her pussy, its just THAT good.

So...main question I guess is, am I alone here...does anyone at least even fantasize about fat roll fucking? Also...if so, where do i find porn with that even...id kill for that. Only option is to film me and my wife, but shes reluctant to agree to that one.

Hope to hear from some like minded fat lovers like myself.
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I am not into it, but I think there is another thread somewhere that speaks of it.
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You are not alone by any means, I LOVE it one the most pleasurable sensations I've found (and a huge advantage BBWs/SSBBWs have over their thinner sisters I might add). There is actually a fair amount of fat-sex erotica out there, besides tit-fucking, but you have to dig for it. I agree though there should a lot more of this material especially around here. I do see a definite uptick but I think fat-sex is still one of those things that fat girls do with their FAs behind closed doors, happily but quietly.

Hopefully sometime in the future fat acceptance will no longer be necessary and the focus can shift to more of one being fun and fat lust.

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Thanks Russ, this was my first post and as I only joined and found this site a few days ago. If you know any site that even has one pic or vid please let me know. Also if you could point me towards any threads about this I would be in debt to you.
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Heavens no.... you are not alone by a long shot. Being able to place your penis in places (for sexual pleasure), only provided by BBWs and SSBBWs is one of the great benefits of being an FA!
Handy if you work close to home and are able to go home for "nooners!" Hey.... you can eat a sandwich on your 3PM break. Its simple priorities, most important appetite first, appetite for food second.
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Well, if your wife LETS you do it, that doesn't imply that she enjoys it. Personally, I prefer to actually penetrate because if it's not mutually satisfying, I don't really see the point. Any ladies actually like it this way?
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I personally wouldn't get anything out of it, but some ladies do. I'd deck a guy for suggesting such a thing tho.
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I personally wouldn't get anything out of it, but some ladies do. I'd deck a guy for suggesting such a thing tho.
"Lets me do it" in the same sense she "lets" me titty fuck her sometimes and things like that. I feel honored she indulges my taboo fantasy so much.

Famouslastwords...do you also smack a guy for suggesting a hand job or a tittyfuck? those are not mutualy enjoyable, either is me gowing down on her, but they are not focused on the belly where women seem self consoius and that emotion takes over. And if it were suggested to you, you should feel at least happy that he thinks so highly of what you consider a flaw.

I dont know, I get such mixed results when i bring this up with people. I think the "shame" of fat takes over when you focus directly on it. ie...nothing wrong with feeling like a "sexy fat girl" unless you REALLY mean it and really love and want to play with her fat.

my wife indulges me because she loves to make me happy, as i do to her. But she is self consious and dosent like being a bbw really so there is a fine line where i dont want to focus to much on it because it reminds her to much of it. does anyone else have this situation with a bbw lover?
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And if it were suggested to you, you should feel at least happy that he thinks so highly of what you consider a flaw.
I don't know her well, but my impression is that FLW does not consider her fat rolls "flaws."

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I think you may be projecting. No one here has said they are ashamed of their fat, as far as I can tell. Your idea that all fat women are ashamed of their bodies is yesterday's news. Whatever your relationship with your wife is like, please don't assume that it makes you an expert on how all fat women feel and what they like in bed. IF a woman says that roll-fucking doesn't do anything for her and turns her off, it's a good idea to take her at her word and not assume it means she hates her body. IT's your fantasy. Enjoy it. Just don't foist it on others, please.
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My wife loves it, too.

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One interesting thing to me about this topic is that it illuminates some of the issues that can come up between an FA with fat-specific sexual interests and the women who may encounter them.

I'm a very open-minded person, and a lover can tell me anything that they like or want. I may not be into it, it may not be something that gets me off, but I would NEVER judge them for expressing an interest. I would expect the same from a partner. I have interests sexually that haven't been indulged, and that's fine. It's nice sometimes to just share the things inside your head with someone who will be open to hearing it, never mind if they want to actually do it.

I don't know, it's just hard for me to imagine someone I like a lot or love mustering up the guts to tell me something personal and probably something they're afraid will get a poor reaction, and then me doing exactly what they fear. Someone else's wants don't threaten me, so there's no harm in knowing what gets someone going. I know a lot of chicks who are into it and really enjoy it.

While it's not something that I'd find sexually stimulating, I've done many things in bed that aren't getting me off, but when I know they're getting him off... it's still sexy and fun. Obviously I wouldn't do anything that I was opposed to, but being turned on by something isn't a requirement as long as I have a guy who is just as willing to accommodate my likes/wants.
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I really enjoy it...but my belly is a big *giggle* erogenous zone for me.
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I don't know, it's just hard for me to imagine someone I like a lot or love mustering up the guts to tell me something personal and probably something they're afraid will get a poor reaction, and then me doing exactly what they fear. Someone else's wants don't threaten me, so there's no harm in knowing what gets someone going. I know a lot of chicks who are into it and really enjoy it.
I think the thing is that everyone has their limits. That has to be respected. I'm open-minded and caring but even I can imagine that there would be situations in which someone I cared about or loved mustered up the guts to tell me something personal that I'd have an absolute gut reaction against. Everyone has limits.

The idea that anyone should push past his/her own boundaries for the sake of indulging someone else's fantasy doesn't sit well with me. Just because some people enjoy it, doesn't mean that I have to enjoy it, as well. Nor do I have to have the same degree of openness to every fantasy that the next guy does. It would be a boring world if everyone were exactly "into" the same stuff to exactly the same degree. Since eventually everyone has a limit to their open-mindedness, I think it's only fair to let each person decide for himself how open-minded he wants to be, in the end.
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.....Everyone has limits.

The idea that anyone should have to push past his/her own boundaries for the sake of indulging someone else's fantasy doesn't sit well with me. ...

I'm not sure if that was to my post, since I was in a quote... but I certainly didn't suggest that. In fact I was clear that...

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I'm not sure if that was to my post, since I was in a quote... but I certainly didn't suggest that. In fact I was clear that...
It was to your post, but not in antagonistic tone or anything. Sometimes I like to just toss ideas around and build on what others have said. Wasn't suggesting you suggested anything. Those were my words, my ideas. Peace.
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I'm a very open-minded person, and a lover can tell me anything that they like or want. I may not be into it, it may not be something that gets me off, but I would NEVER judge them for expressing an interest. I would expect the same from a partner. I have interests sexually that haven't been indulged, and that's fine. It's nice sometimes to just share the things inside your head with someone who will be open to hearing it, never mind if they want to actually do it.

I don't know, it's just hard for me to imagine someone I like a lot or love mustering up the guts to tell me something personal and probably something they're afraid will get a poor reaction, and then me doing exactly what they fear. Someone else's wants don't threaten me, so there's no harm in knowing what gets someone going. I know a lot of chicks who are into it and really enjoy it.

While it's not something that I'd find sexually stimulating, I've done many things in bed that aren't getting me off, but when I know they're getting him off... it's still sexy and fun. Obviously I wouldn't do anything that I was opposed to, but being turned on by something isn't a requirement as long as I have a guy who is just as willing to accommodate my likes/wants.
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You mean Fat fucking. Oh yeah - tons of fun. For me sex is about pleasing my partner and having fun - if it's fun for him it's fun for me. If it turns him on - it turns me on. If I'm turned on my hubby is turned on. It is about mutual satisfaction.
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to the "i would never do that" people - i feel bad for your partners if they've asked and been denied. this is a pretty softcore (pun intended) act to perform; i.e. it's a tittyfuck with a larger playing field. it's not mutual waah waah. find something for him/her to do in return. if you can't do that, you should brush up on your sexual vocab.
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Actually tried it for the first time a few weeks before finding this Thread LOL, and although the idea of it has entered my mind i never asked for it or suggested it to her, (mainly because i didn't see how she would really get enjoyment from it). anyway She initiated the belly sex and i am officially a huge fan!!!!! I think the enjoyment she got was partly the closeness we experienced and the pleasure she gave me.

Eclectic's lessons are good rules to live by, When i'm with my girl i usually concentrate on pleasing her, most of the time my own pleasure takes a back burner. The interesting thing about our relationship is that she does the same. alot of times when you hear people talking about their love life it seems as though everyone is out for there own or one person is feeling like they are being taken advantage of, (i'll admit to feeling this way with my ex-wife) i can see things staying fresh and interesting when each of us is a giver, and usually thinking about the other person
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This is a character thing...I think this is usually sorted out when you're first meeting and learning to judge a person's character before you get serious with them. Then once you do, give them your body!
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I've done it, and really enjoyed it. Part of the pleasure comes from how it makes me feel totally sexy in my fat skin.

When a partner wants to enjoy all of the hidden treasures unique to a supersize gal, it lets me know how much he appreciates my size. It is something I can share with him that enables us to connect in a way that I never could when I was married to a non-FA.
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