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Old 02-01-2009, 11:47 AM   #1
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When looking at women on dating sites or in a room at a mixer event do you find yourself scanning the croud picking out the biggist girls for first consideration for dating prospects? How much does size matter given all other things considered equal? Size matters alot to me and its the first thing I gravitate to. I am just curious how other FAs feel.

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Old 02-01-2009, 12:23 PM   #2
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Her being the biggest isn't that important to me. I like big women, but pretty faces are a bit higher on my list.
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Size is such a small thing when it comes to relationships as a whole in my opinion. There's just so much more to it.

Either way, I don't really believe in the "Bigger is always better" paradigm. I have ranges and groups, and if a range is met, then it's equal game . I'll hit on the 2's, the 3's, the fo's.. lol. Not that I care about numbers anyhow: Just what I see. It's something I can interpret as a perk, but it depends on the person.
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Personality and self-esteem is so much higher on my list for what to look for in a women.
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I don't really find size all too important, really. I like consider myself an equal opportunist for the most part. I'm an FA and I really am attracted BBWs and SSBBWs but that doesn't mean I wouldn't stop dead in my tracks if Scarlet Johansen walked by. I've dated women of a variety of shapes and sizes and there is plenty to appreciate about each one. I will say that I'm not a skin 'n' bones fan. Some curves are requisite. If I was into the 10 year old boy look I would have joined the clergy... ba dum bump. Now I do have to admit that I do love to see a beautiful woman grow, so when I date a thin girl there is that little thought in the back of my mind saying "wow, just think how sexy she'd be after another x amount of pounds". Not something I've ever pushed though. Thin can be just as sexy to me.
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Size on its own doesn't catch my eye. An unconventional dress sense or gender presentation does. A combination (eg. tattooed curvy goth chick) certainly gets my attention.

I don't think I can date someone smaller than me though, no matter how awesome that person is.
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It depends on the FA. I'm one of those luckless souls who has to live with himself after admitting that - yes, I do scan the room for the larger women when I walk in. For me that's just part of looking for the prettiest girls to be nervous about hitting on and goes along with checks for pretty faces, a full complement of digits, teeth, and appendages; etc. Size matters about as much as any other physical indicator of beauty.
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Size on its own doesn't catch my eye. An unconventional dress sense or gender presentation does. A combination (eg. tattooed curvy goth chick) certainly gets my attention.

I don't think I can date someone smaller than me though, no matter how awesome that person is.
Agreed on all counts. Especially the tattooed curvy goth chick one...
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Agreed on all counts. Especially the tattooed curvy goth chick one...
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I feel the exact same way. I am honest enough to admit that I gravitate to the fattest women which is kind of obvious since I am an FA. With all other things being equal a woman's body is paramount since I am not interested in being physically intimate with a skinny female. If a woman happens to be charming and blessed with a great personality but is also skinny I will gladly be her friend- but not more than that. Bring me a super fatty with a great personality and
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I feel the exact same way. I am honest enough to admit that I gravitate to the fattest women which is kind of obvious since I am an FA. With all other things being equal a woman's body is paramount since I am not interested in being physically intimate with a skinny female. If a woman happens to be charming and blessed with a great personality but is also skinny I will gladly be her friend- but not more than that. Bring me a super fatty with a great personality and
I also gravitate towards the supersized women. It is not the weight or the number but rather a feel for what I find attractive. The bigger the better.
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Old 02-02-2009, 10:09 PM   #12
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As a ffa....distribution of fat matters most to me..
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Personally it is harder for me to find really large women with the right proportions, I prefer (by the standard of Dimensions) more midsize women which are quite large by society's standards.

That being said, put me in the "it's only one factor and not the most important" camp. Mutual attraction and compatible personalities are far more important if it's going to be a lasting relationship. A pretty face and warm smile look great on any woman.
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Old 02-02-2009, 10:58 PM   #14
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Generally I go for the larger women of the bunch rather than the smaller large women. When perusing through a crowd of people with multiple fat women, my penis does the talking. However, when perusing online on dating sites and such, I still go for fat and very fat women, but it's what she says about herself that matters the most. It's impossible to know what's to come with a person you just met someone 'in real life,' whereas it's available and usable when sorting through possible potential relationship partners online.

*Shrugs* I just go for the ones that I like as a whole rather than just a few picky things.
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It's not about the number on the scale but the girth of figure that I gravitate towards regardless of actual weight. The sheer size of a woman in my book has always been what has attracted me to look initially, then check for other attributes of beauty second. I do find that I will be attracted to a slightly thinner woman with an air of confidence than a larger woman with a I'm fat and the world hates me look about her.
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I'm more interested in body shape and how well a woman puts herself together. My range of attraction goes from curvy to plump to supersize. different women carry weight differently so I don not put a limit on size. I'm partial to hourglass shaped women and will probably be more interested in hip and waist ratios than actual pounds. Also important to me is a sense of style in how a woman dresses. If they have all that plus a gorgeous face, no woman is too big for me.
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Doesn't really matter to me. If she's attractive and we hit it off, then I just go from there.
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much like you, size is one of the first things, if not the first i gravitate to, but it takes more than that to keep me interested. (god, how pompous must i sound! )
to put it simply, fat catches my attention for sure. but it takes more than fat to keep me interested.
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Bigger the better, but high IQ and pretty face is (was) required also
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I've always wondered about this....
I have friends that like a petite lady, but from time to time date the willowy taller girls, and sometimes my fat-phobic friends even date plump girls. So, seeing that some men(FAs) don't zone in on the poundage is kinda nice I guess.
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99% of the time bigger is better. I find smaller women attractive, but a fat lady will always make me say to myself : " she is so hot!!"
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i agree 200% with him. size does matter, that makes you a FA or maybe a SA but i always look for the biggest ladies in the place can`t help it.
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Normally as we get older we all add some weight, so when I was younger size wasn't a significant issue to date someone. I've always gravitated to the SSBBW pear shape at first sight but then they must have a cheerful disposition and not be self-loathing for it to be a lasting relationship. Now, as I'm older, I don't have the years to wait for a BBW to become a SSBBW (by her choice) so I do pretty much head straight to the SSBBWs. The personality requirements stay the same.
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As I've said many times the big parts gotta come with big smarts. On top of that she has to have that ineffable quality that makes you wonder what it would be like to spend the rest of your life, not just tonight with her. What is it that makes her not just interesting but fascinating? Add the very rare quality of being willing to put up with me and as long as she's at least 500lbs I'm good to go. Just kidding about the last one but I think this helps explain why I'm no longer in the relationship game? I've got no bait for the kinda fish I like.
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