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Old 02-13-2009, 12:27 PM   #26
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Yeah like the above poster says, as I've gotten older seems I look for sizable women above all else more and more. The "don't want to wait for BBW to become SSBBW" might be a factor, but I think it's more like "once you've had fat, you don't go back" I can admire beauty in a skinny girl for sure but it's not the same, it just doesn't turn me on like the sight of a big girl.
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Old 02-14-2009, 09:56 PM   #27
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My last two girlfriends were plus-sized. I recently dated a thin girl (well, average with some curves) because we had a great emotional connection. Also, it made me feel more manly because I was so much bigger and stronger than she was. However, I didn't really worship her, or want her that much sexually, and she actually ended things with me because she wanted me to want her more. I thought with time maybe I could get used to her body, and I think she hoped that, too, but it didn't work out.

I think there's a lot of factors in attraction and there's no formula for me. It is difficult, though, to find someone who is well proportioned, plus sized, put-together, smart, and beautiful, but that's what I'm looking for.

Anyway, size is very important, and too thin is a deal breaker, but you need everything else there too in order to have a good relationship.
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i agree 200% with him. size does matter, that makes you a FA or maybe a SA but i always look for the biggest ladies in the place can`t help it.
right ,I cant help it either, big girls rock!!!!!!!!
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Hmm it is true super fat is super Sexy - and Fat & Sex go together but there could be situations where other factors might out point the set formula. Think about it -- sometimes a unique situation could happen, now your tipping point is different than mine - but there could be a girl who can push other buttons, pull other strings, and make things work differently. Ok a super Fat lady would be involved but there are unmentionable things that just might happen, you know.
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Old 02-19-2009, 05:38 PM   #31
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To me,size is not a terribly important issue-though I obviously notice a larger woman in a group,it's when we communicate and get to know each other that is important to me,not neccessarily if she happens to be pretty,or very big. Look over to her-she could be a plain looking woman,but go ahead and talk to her.She just might be the nicest gal you've ever had the pleasure of meeting.
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Old 02-20-2009, 05:57 PM   #32
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To be honest, the size of the woman your dating should only matter to her. If she likes herself for however large or small she is then i'm happy to be with her, though were i to be with a woman who was lacking in self-esteem or simply doesn't like being who she is, then i'd be less attracted to her.
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I wish there were more people with the 'bigger is better' attitude near me.
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I'm sure there is you're just not looking hard enough
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When I was single and on the prowl the biggest girls always caught my attention first. However, I never had a relationship with a really large SSBBW and seemed to end up with girls on the BBW/SSBBW cusp. So I guess Iím not a totally dedicated FA Ė I gravitate to the largest girls who donít require the effort and compromise that dating a true SSBBW does.

Also smart, successful girls with cute faces, long brown hair and button noses ROCK! (Iím married to a 320lb social worker who had a 4.0 GPA in college and all the rest).
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i think i pick out the bigger women, though it dosent matter wiether there big or small if we get along then we get along.
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I do look for size first, and my ideal woman is a big girl who is somewhere at or between okay and happy with being big. That said, that isn't all I look for. I won't ignore a smaller woman with a great personality, and I won't stay with a big or fat woman if her personality doesn't mesh with mine.

As an example, I loved to massage my last girlfriend so I could feel all of her lovely fat, but the personality click just wasn't there, so it didn't last long.
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Old 02-27-2009, 07:35 PM   #38
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As long as she is good looking, has a pretty smile and nice energy, I'll be attracted to her!
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God forbid that effort and compromises are made, ever.
Agreed,Valentine-aren't you supposed to sacrifice or compromise things in the name of love?
That's what I figured,anyway.
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I gravitate to the largest girls who don’t require the effort and compromise that dating a true SSBBW does.
(I’m married to a 320lb social worker who had a 4.0 GPA in college and all the rest).
How thrilled your wife must be to know that she doesn't require too much effort or compromise from you. Words like that just make a girls heart sing! Seriously, doesn't even begin to cover it!

As for all the rest of you lovely men - I've been really interested by your answers - oh, and I'm single! Lol

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I too am loving most of the answers I've read here...lol and I second what Bea Bea says...
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Old 03-01-2009, 05:47 PM   #43
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I'd like to say I'm bi sizual because it would make me more accepting, which is what I'd WANT to be, but I'm not. I'm hardwired FA. I've been in FA heaven for the past 20 years with my SSBBW, and look forward to the next 20. Maintenance 'issues' and all...
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Old 03-02-2009, 01:33 PM   #45
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I wonder if I could have real sex with a skinny woman? I'm a 100% FA and I really love the fact that my gf is fat. She has known from the beginning that I was looking for a fat woman.
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Size isnt' that important. As long as she is squishy and confident, I'm quite happy.

My g/f is awesome, she dresses so well, and loves to show off her ample booty. I LOVE it!

But its the confidence that really gets me going. The strength that she has to have to flaunt a big butt in a society that attacks big women everytime I turn around, is amazing!
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Old 03-12-2009, 02:22 PM   #47
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For me, it's the whole package you have to evaluate, not just the size.
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Old 03-12-2009, 02:40 PM   #48
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I go with along the lines of what the poster before me said.

I gravitate toward personality over looks. If a 150 pound girl and a 350 pound girl stood next to each other, looks wise I'd date the 350 pounder. However, if the 350 pounder is a complete and total bitch (there are quite a few) and the 150 pound woman is a sweetheart, is friendly to family and friends and can keep up with bills....I'd date her in 2 seconds.

However if you turn it around and the 350 pound girl is the nice girl who's friendly to everyone, I'd date HER just as fast.

Race, culture, background....doesn't matter. Size....doesn't matter, its all about the heart and what's inside. If she's got the personality of a bitchy trout, I'm not interested.

That's just my preference though, I don't speak for anyone but myself.
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For me there are four qualities: personality, curves aka weight distribution, face and total size. I seek all four qualities blending together in harmony with one another. If something is missing, something is not right. Size matters no question, but so does everything else. If her personality is questionable, I'll get uncomfortable and leave. At the same time if the weight is too low and not where I'd like it, something in the bedroom may be missing. I apologize if that makes me sound like a jerk. Can't control what I like. I don't need to explain the value of a pretty face because it's something that can't be explained with words, you gotta feel it to know it.
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Old 03-19-2009, 02:47 PM   #50
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Size isn't the most important thing for me. Sure I'd look for big women when I was dating, but if I met a skinny girl who had a great personality and was fun to be around, I wouldn't discriminate.

Size plays a part when it comes to FAs, but it shouldn't be the MAIN part. If I had to choose between a 6'2 600lb woman with a shitty personality and a 5'8" 230lb woman who was a joy to be with, I'd pick the smaller one in a heartbeat. While there would be some initial attraction with the bigger woman, it would all go away once I found out what a bitch they were.

That's just how I am though.
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