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Old 05-03-2012, 11:18 PM   #401
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This posted is rated M for mature... and W for Wayyyyyyy TMI. Don't read if you don't want to get to know me VERY personally... heh.

I picked up 50 Shades of Grey like every other woman on earth this week. I'm not sure if it's at all representative of real BDSM relationships/culture (not that there's such a thing as a "typical" BDSM relationship), but my god... I've always liked to be spanked, but I've always said I'm not a sub, I'd find it demeaning, that's not me....

...and now, if this book can be at all representative, I know it is. Holy fuck. I want to be tied up, tied down, scolded, trussed up, teased, spanked, flogged, ordered around, have my hair pulled, be thrown around, and be completely dominated.

I like to be in control in my "real" life... it never occurred to me that the opposite would be the hottest thing I could possibly imagine in the bedroom (with someone monogamous whom I trust implicitly).

My body is alive with this realization tonight. It is so erotically charged that the slightest touch sets my skin on fire. I accidentally sat down the wrong way in my office chair at work today and my long hair caught and yanked my head back... I inadvertently moaned. Fortunately I have my own office!

I haven't had sex in so long that the first person to touch my thigh is going to make me explode.
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This posted is rated M for mature... and W for Wayyyyyyy TMI. Don't read if you don't want to get to know me VERY personally... heh.

I picked up 50 Shades of Grey like every other woman on earth this week. I'm not sure if it's at all representative of real BDSM relationships/culture (not that there's such a thing as a "typical" BDSM relationship), but my god... I've always liked to be spanked, but I've always said I'm not a sub, I'd find it demeaning, that's not me....

...and now, if this book can be at all representative, I know it is. Holy fuck. I want to be tied up, tied down, scolded, trussed up, teased, spanked, flogged, ordered around, have my hair pulled, be thrown around, and be completely dominated.

I like to be in control in my "real" life... it never occurred to me that the opposite would be the hottest thing I could possibly imagine in the bedroom (with someone monogamous whom I trust implicitly).

My body is alive with this realization tonight. It is so erotically charged that the slightest touch sets my skin on fire. I accidentally sat down the wrong way in my office chair at work today and my long hair caught and yanked my head back... I inadvertently moaned. Fortunately I have my own office!

I haven't had sex in so long that the first person to touch my thigh is going to make me explode.
I find this to be a fairly common dichotomy, G. People who are dominant and in control in their professional lives tend more toward the submissive in their personal lives. Not that I've done a full-scale scientific study, mind you...this is just what I gather from personal experience (as I'm almost required to be a dominant figure for my chosen career) and from talking to others. I've always thought that quite interesting.

I keep having people tell me to read this book, and I just haven't gotten around to picking it up. I'm intrigued that so many women I know are completely entranced by it. I've never heard anything about the story or the concept-- only that it's filled with pure sexay. Is it anything like the Sleeping Beauty Trilogy? Is it something completely different? I'm just going to have to suck it up and read it, I guess...

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*reaches over and touches G's thigh*
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LOLOL!!! Back away from there, you!! I'm giggling like crazy over here.

I will say, the writing style is not that great. But yes, the sex scenes... yum. I think you'd probably love it if you're on the same page as I am. I have not heard of the Sleeping Beauty Trilogy. Is this something I need to pick up?!
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LOLOL!!! Back away from there, you!! I'm giggling like crazy over here.

I will say, the writing style is not that great. But yes, the sex scenes... yum. I think you'd probably love it if you're on the same page as I am. I have not heard of the Sleeping Beauty Trilogy. Is this something I need to pick up?!
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Ok, Ginny...this sounds like my kind of book...How much was it? And can you give me a run-down...without giving away too much?
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There is a lot of feminist writings on S&M because of the large percentage of us who are submissive in the bedroom. Just saying.
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I downloaded the e-book Katie for $9.99 but you can probably find it used cheaper somewhere. If you google I'm sure you'll find any number of rundowns - it's been all over the news.
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IC I want to explore this attraction I have for dominating men in the bedroom. Yes, I mean the Christian Grey type man. (Fuck, I love that book...). I want to know if it's just the fantasy of that situation that turns me on, or if it's the real thing. A little hard to figure it out with no man around though, lol.
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I've always liked to be spanked, but I've always said I'm not a sub, I'd find it demeaning, that's not me....

...and now, if this book can be at all representative, I know it is. Holy fuck. I want to be tied up, tied down, scolded, trussed up, teased, spanked, flogged, ordered around, have my hair pulled, be thrown around, and be completely dominated.
I haven't read the books yet, but being submissive isn't about being demeaned. Sure, some like that, but that's not usually the intent. Submitting to someone else, whether just in the bedroom or out of it as well, isn't for everyone, but oh boy, is it fun

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This is quite common, with both men and women. Being able to let go of that control in a safe place, and letting someone else be in charge is fun. And the opposite is true for others, too.
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I like to be dominated in the bedroom......
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This conversation has been had over and over again on Dims, but I'll say it anyway because it's always been interesting to me - I've encountered far more FAs who wanted to be dominated than the other way around. Frustrating when you're looking for the opposite. lol
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This is how I am (and FTR, I don't like being demeaned or humiliated or anything like that). I'm a total control freak in "real life" so (/but?), in the bedroom, I love it when someone else takes charge. Occasionally I'll have a switcharoo, but mostly I'm definitely more of a sub.
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Why do you think that is?
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If I'm involved with a man, I like him to be dominant. If I'm with a woman, I like to dominate. I don't mind another woman being in charge sometimes, but I'm not interested in domming men.
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Why do you think that is?
Big women tend to be larger than the submissive counterpart? I would think those that like to be dominated by fat women like the size aspect.
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If I'm involved with a man, I like him to be dominant. If I'm with a woman, I like to dominate. I don't mind another woman being in charge sometimes, but I'm not interested in domming men.
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