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I only find fat women/men attractive. 61 16.14%
I lean strongly toward fat women/men, but rarely find normal/thin/muscular attractive. 85 22.49%
I generally prefer fat women/men, but ocassionaly find normal/thin/muscular attractive. 164 43.39%
I generally prefer normal/thin/muscular women/men, but ocassionaly find fat attractive. 48 12.70%
I lean strongly toward normal/thin/muscular women/men, but rarely find fat attractive. 13 3.44%
I only find normal/thin/muscular women/men attractive. 7 1.85%
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Old 04-08-2009, 01:14 PM   #26
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Number three is as close to me as this can get. But my "Big" range goes from just a little extra, all the way up to ssbbw. But that's too complicated, and would start another conversation about ranges. I'm just saying that's not spot on, but on the way.

I can't say I'll always pick x size over x size if they're both the same with everything else. I keep shifting a little every so slightly, and the woman that I may be gawking can change in size in a snap. I got bodacious... and I got playboys. lol
That's also what I picked. Forgot to mention.
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Old 04-08-2009, 01:18 PM   #27
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Oh, what CCC said! In my teens I even feel quite hard for a thin, athletic, girl, but I had no initial physical attraction, it was all about how amazing she was, which over time led me to find attractive things about her body (or to see things that I'd previously been indifferent too as attractive). My family moved before it went too far, so I don't know if my FA-ness would have caused problems eventually.
I've been in this situation before and it did cause problems. I fell pretty heavily for an amazing person but it was very internally destructive that she wasn't attractive physically... there ends up being a building sense of dishonesty and physical mismatch (or there was in my case as a teen dating a thin girl)... Perhaps I lack the romanticism or self delusion to choose to put myself in a similar situation again? I've found it much easier in my life to draw a notional line in my head where all women who aren't fat automatically and permanently remain in the 'friends only' category.
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I really only do find fat guys attractive, or at least some guys with some sort of chub going on, since I don't think they would all qualify as "fat". That said, I can be attracted to anyone from the kind of sort of chubby guys to the very big boys, but guys who are either thin or very athletic don't really do it for me.
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Old 04-08-2009, 02:13 PM   #29
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So I totally generally prefer fat guys, those are the ones I'm drooling over when I go out. A big, thick guy with a belly will catch my eye before anyone else.

I'm currently dating a muscular guy who has basically no fat on him, and I think that he's ridiculously good looking, and I'm very attracted to him. So I guess generally, Fat is where it's at for me.
But I'm learning that I can be attracted to lean, muscular guys, too [at least one, anyway].

Prior to this relationship, I did not really know that about myself!!
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I spent so many years dating thin guys, not being sexually fulfilled and fantasizing about fat men that now i'm finally with a fat man, I know I could never go back to dating someone thin - sex without fat is like eating dark chocolate....

I can look at a stereotypically good looking guy and appreciate the fact that he is attractive, but I never feel like dragging them into bed.
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I spent so many years dating thin guys, not being sexually fulfilled and fantasizing about fat men that now i'm finally with a fat man, I know I could never go back to dating someone thin - sex without fat is like eating dark chocolate....

I can look at a stereotypically good looking guy and appreciate the fact that he is attractive, but I never feel like dragging them into bed.
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Its person to person. Some people look better bigger, some people don't. If someone is cute to me, I go for it, big or not, I'm right down the middle
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I am with Cors on this issue, both on her response and a desire for a fat butch paysite.

The breakdown for me would be something ridiculous like 94.2% BBW/SSBBW,
5.6% soft butches who are average to small BBWs and .2% Milla Jovovich.

I have pretty much adopted James' stance on the issue in practice, creating a kind of screening process that stops me from really going for non-BBWs. Lame though it is, I need to be physically attracted to a lady I am going to want to date. I do dearly love to flirt though.

The soft butches have appealed to me since my late teens, whereas I can't remember a time I was not attracted to BBWs. Of course, the vast majority of soft butch women I like are gay, so it is a moot point. It never fails to crack me up though, that even though I am straight, a bit of boyishness in a lady somehow attracts me to women I would otherwise never go for. I'm sure there is some Dims psychologist willing to take a crack at this.

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I need to be physically attracted to a lady I am going to want to date.
this should be anyone. but i'd like to emphasize a huge distinction between who we're physically attracted to and who we're sexually attracted to. i don't many people can deny say, scarlett johannsen, has a very attractive face, and kissing it could be fun, but that doesn't mean hypothetical sex wouldn't be boring when faced with a body you "like" at best, but don't hunger for. i think it's like when gay dudes play with female friends' tits.
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I picked the second option. A fat woman is definitely more likely to catch my eye but her size alone doesn't do that much for me. I only look at thin women who are unconventional in some way (genderqueer/goth/punk/hippie/tattooed/whatever).
Similar, but size probably catches my eye more.
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this should be anyone. but i'd like to emphasize a huge distinction between who we're physically attracted to and who we're sexually attracted to. i don't many people can deny say, scarlett johannsen, has a very attractive face, and kissing it could be fun, but that doesn't mean hypothetical sex wouldn't be boring when faced with a body you "like" at best, but don't hunger for. i think it's like when gay dudes play with female friends' tits.
Good point actually. I think a lot of us confuse that or imply it (Directly or non) when it's not true.
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this should be anyone. but i'd like to emphasize a huge distinction between who we're physically attracted to and who we're sexually attracted to. i don't many people can deny say, scarlett johannsen, has a very attractive face, and kissing it could be fun, but that doesn't mean hypothetical sex wouldn't be boring when faced with a body you "like" at best, but don't hunger for. i think it's like when gay dudes play with female friends' tits.
I often use the two interchangeably, as a distinction seems kind of unnecessary in this context. If you want to make that distinction, it could be fun to play with an egg full of Silly Putty but I wouldn't try to take it to bed. I suppose that would make the Silly Putty physically attractive.
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Number three is as close to me as this can get. But my "Big" range goes from just a little extra, all the way up to ssbbw. But that's too complicated, and would start another conversation about ranges. I'm just saying that's not spot on, but on the way.
Yep, I have a vast range as well. I like thick to very fat. But I also can appreciate and be sexually attracted to average/thin/muscular men.

I guess I'm greedy.
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I had to go with the fourth vote down, just since my ultimate favorite type of pudgy boy is, from what I've seen, generally not seen as fat around around here I tend not to go for extremes, so a very thin guy who's ribs and spine are visible is just as equally unsexy to me as a very fat guy with too much overhang. Not one is more unattractive or attractive to me, I just tend to stick to the middle (and I'm not calling either body types disgusting or gross or anything of the sort, just so that's not misinterpreted please). I like leaner guys who still have a bit of a solid bulk to them, but at the same time I can't deny one of my all time favorite body types is a guy who's so used to being thin that when he starts putting on a bit of a potbelly or has got a noticeably stuffed tummy he doesn't even realize it
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this should be anyone. but i'd like to emphasize a huge distinction between who we're physically attracted to and who we're sexually attracted to. i don't many people can deny say, scarlett johannsen, has a very attractive face, and kissing it could be fun, but that doesn't mean hypothetical sex wouldn't be boring when faced with a body you "like" at best, but don't hunger for. i think it's like when gay dudes play with female friends' tits.
I know what you mean. This is going to make me sound like a pig..but anyway, when i was in my 'am i or am i not' an Fa phase i would see women that were hot, they had amazing personalities, really pretty.. then when i got them to bed..i would be thinking 'Shit! no fat bits ' I suppose i never translated the 'shit no fat bits' into real thoughts for a while, i think it took actually being with a fat chick before i got it! After i went 'Yay, fat bits!' i never looked back... But, yes, there are people i have thought were really pretty and i was even attracted to them but i just knew that i wouldnt be turned on sleeping with them..which would be a shame for us both.
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I know what you mean. This is going to make me sound like a pig..but anyway, when i was in my 'am i or am i not' an Fa phase i would see women that were hot, they had amazing personalities, really pretty.. then when i got them to bed..i would be thinking 'Shit! no fat bits ' I suppose i never translated the 'shit no fat bits' into real thoughts for a while, i think it took actually being with a fat chick before i got it! After i went 'Yay, fat bits!' i never looked back... But, yes, there are people i have thought were really pretty and i was even attracted to them but i just knew that i wouldnt be turned on sleeping with them..which would be a shame for us both.
I've felt that way too! With a fat girl I just want to stroke and kiss every jiggly inch but with a thin one, I find that I have to do so much more in bed (eg. roleplay, intense BDSM scene) just to take the focus off her body. I would rather sleep with a kinky skinny girl than a fat dead fish though.
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I've felt that way too! With a fat girl I just want to stroke and kiss every jiggly inch but with a thin one, I find that I have to do so much more in bed (eg. roleplay, intense BDSM scene) just to take the focus off her body. I would rather sleep with a kinky skinny girl than a fat dead fish though.
hmm.. see.. i dunno about that for me.. Obviously i would enjoy it if i wasn't sleeping with a dead fish at all!..but i think just to be with someone who's body i enjoyed can sometimes even be exciting for me. To be honest i may prefer a fat dead fish to a kinky skinny alive fish! I'm not sure i like the fish metaphor.. its kinna creeping me out now!! lmao
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Well, my tastes run from slim to chubby/small BBW, with that being what someone I know called 'extreme hourglass', mostly very busty, big butt, medium belly. I sometimes say 'I love girls built like Violins...up to girls built like Cellos'. I do like the occasional girl built like a big ol' double bass as well...



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FA's can admire the beauty of a thin/muscled women but for me anyway there is nothing sexual about it.

How much screen time in movies is lost for the FA as he has to sit through the "thin" love scene. At least we have popcorn.
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Well i voted.."I generally prefer fat women/men, but ocassionaly find normal/thin/muscular attractive"

I go gaga over the tall, thick and juicy...usually
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My thoughts exactly. While I can find thin/muscular guys attractive, I really only want to do fat guys. For example, my new celeb crush is Hugh Jackman, such a fine lookin' man. But in all honesty, I really only want to look at him. His abs don't turn me on at all and the desire to go to bed with him is like nil. I guess you can find someone attractive but not have them turn you on? I never really thought about it like that.

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It's all relative for me. If a girl looks attractive to me, whatever her weight she might be at, there's a very good chance she'll be just as attractive to me with less or more weight. I've seen girls most would call "gorgeous".. the blonde haired blue eyed beauties you find in Maxim or Playboy or whatever.. that just do absolutely zip for me. But I've seen thin girls I've been quite attracted to, check out suicide girls dot com for a few good examples of just that.

I guess what I'm getting at, as plain jane and overused as it sounds, personality is everything. Take two girls, same figure, doesn't matter the weight.. big or small, whatever.. both very pretty. Make one girl your run of the mill party girl, doesn't read the news, doesn't care about anything else other than being "cool" and going out, your typical TMZ reading, Mtv watching sort of chick. Bleh. Now, make the other girl a smart, well read, girl that can discuss whats going on in the world, maybe has a quirky hobby or interesting major in school or cool job. Now we're talking. Hotness level for the second girl, at least in my book? Way higher.. even if she was thin as a rail.

I know this answer is somewhat off topic, but it's what I've always factored in as number one, right up there with physical beauty. The two are intertwined for me, inseparable from one another. A nasty personality can make even the hottest model thin or curvy goddess look rather unappealing, at least that's where I stand.

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Definitely the first option for me.
I mean, I can tell if a skinny girl is attractive, just like I can recognize a good-looking man, but I have zero desire to get it on with either of them. Basically, I experience no sexual attraction to skinny girls at all. There's just nothing there. Occasionally, this has led to some problems and hurt feelings, when I've met really rad thin girls with very similar interests to mine, and who are attracted to me. On the other hand, it's led to some great friendships as well. But when it comes to physical attraction, I just love chub, swrry.
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