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View Poll Results: which parent/guardian gives you a harder time about your preference?
mother 68 25.95%
father 38 14.50%
stepmother 2 0.76%
stepfather 1 0.38%
other - someone else who raised you 2 0.76%
all guardians give you a hard time equally 31 11.83%
no guardian gives you a hard time 120 45.80%
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Old 04-16-2009, 04:12 PM   #26
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My father does not approve of anyone I date. Ha. My mum has made snarky comments here and there but it's not like she tells me not to date big guys. Her comments usually die down when she realizes we're serious.
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Old 04-16-2009, 04:46 PM   #28
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Neither of them know, as far as I'm aware, though it wouldn't surprise me if they did know. They're very easy going, and highly doubt there'd be any problems.
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My parents found out simply by observing whom I was attracted to. It never really came up, because it was a traditional upbringing, and it would have been weird to discuss it with them. I'm still surprised that people can, or would want to, talk about something like this with their parents, or that the subject would even come up, but to each their own.

My father once expressed mild surprise when he saw which girl I was eager to dance with at a wedding, but that was about it.

My mother is thin, but since I come from an ethnic community where fuller figured women are traditionally considered attractive, I don't think it ever struck her as particularly odd. Every once in a while she'll say something like, "I saw a girl at [wherever] today who I think you'd like." Funnily enough, she's often right.
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Santaclear, I understand what you've gone through, as both of my parents are also long gone. My Dad never said a word, as I brought home the big girls. My Mom however, was different story. As I got older, I dated bigger and bigger women, just like others here. My last GF got up to around 400 pounds, before Mom died. She was so angry at me for dating a fat girl, and she wanted to know why. I said to her, I love fat women, always have. She told me I must be sick then, what a battle we had. Nothing was ever resolved, and about a month later she passed. That was 13 years ago. The thing I hate most about this is, what a stupid thing to fight about, and I think of that day so much. I loved my Mom dearly, and I can never change, that terrible day.
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Santaclear, I understand what you've gone through, as both of my parents are also long gone. My Dad never said a word, as I brought home the big girls. My Mom however, was different story. As I got older, I dated bigger and bigger women, just like others here. My last GF got up to around 400 pounds, before Mom died. She was so angry at me for dating a fat girl, and she wanted to know why. I said to her, I love fat women, always have. She told me I must be sick then, what a battle we had. Nothing was ever resolved, and about a month later she passed. That was 13 years ago. The thing I hate most about this is, what a stupid thing to fight about, and I think of that day so much. I loved my Mom dearly, and I can never change, that terrible day.
The heart wants what it wants. You can no more change your feelings than you can change the course of a river through will alone.

Both my parents know and don't really care as I'm pretty sure my dad is an FA though we've never brought it up and really talked about it. I mean, why give a name to something that is open in plain sight? You wouldn't walk up to a guy and say, "So I noticed your shoes are tied... you must really like having tied shoes, when did you first tie your shoes, have you ever worn velco strap shoes, do you hate velcro shoes? DO YOU HATE VELCRO?"

My older brother on the other hand is much more plebeian in his pursuits and in his opinions. This is a man who has a barbed wire tattoo around his left arm, a pony tail & handle bar mustache, smokes Marlboro reds and has collected enough Marlboro dollars to get a cowboy smoking at sunset comforter which he still proudly uses despite the dozens of cigarette burns pot marked all over it from over a decade of use.

He once told me while I was grieving over th recent break up of a very cute fatty "Bill, after this one, no more fat chicks"

Looking back, I realize I should have ridden my penis like The Patrick Swayze on on a surfboard at the end of Point Break into a set of massive fat girl waves while shouting, "It's not tragic to die doing what you love" only to drowned with out so much of a yelp amid their luxurious and torrid clad fat rolls but instead I just laughed and feign punched him in the stomach and said, "Whatever old man, lets go get some fucking Del Taco". Hindsights only 20/20, you know?
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Old 04-20-2009, 07:43 PM   #32
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I don't think either of my parents "get it" but I've had frank discussions with them both. They both realise they can't change me, and in general I think they've been [otherwise] down with the women I've brought home.

Dad: So what you're telling me I'm probably going to have a fat daughter-in-law someday?

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On the other side, my parents don't get that people I go out with prefer largeness--they think FAs are "seeing through to the person beneath" and "openminded," rather than (god help us all) liking it. Which is tantamount in their case to not wanting to talk about sex, period, but it's also some seriously acculturated disbelief.
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On the other side, my parents don't get that people I go out with prefer largeness--they think FAs are "seeing through to the person beneath" and "openminded," rather than (god help us all) liking it. Which is tantamount in their case to not wanting to talk about sex, period, but it's also some seriously acculturated disbelief.
My mom actually once argued that FAs are just trying to get back at their parents by dating outside the norm. The follow-up to that was that I should watch my step in dating an FA, since there would inevitably come a time when he would get over this need for rebellion and then subsequently lose interest in fat women. Yep. No joke.
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On the other side, my parents don't get that people I go out with prefer largeness--they think FAs are "seeing through to the person beneath" and "openminded," rather than (god help us all) liking it. Which is tantamount in their case to not wanting to talk about sex, period, but it's also some seriously acculturated disbelief.
I get that as well, but of course on the other end. I've had friends call me open-minded based on the same criteria, with a few exceptions.
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...is your brother single
His taste in women runs some where between the range of bar hag with smokers lung to spicy latino who's rebounding off her boy friend/baby daddy because he is in jail AGAIN.

The last one took a court order to get her out of his house and even now they are still boning. When he gives me advice about women I face palm, roll my eyes, and ask if he wants to get Del Taco to which he usually says, "Nah, Bill lets go to Taco Bell..." so obviously his taste in Mexican fast food parallels his taste in women: he loves to eat shit.

In answer to your query, Elle; my brother is 75% single.
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My mom actually once argued that FAs are just trying to get back at their parents by dating outside the norm. The follow-up to that was that I should watch my step in dating an FA, since there would inevitably come a time when he would get over this need for rebellion and then subsequently lose interest in fat women. Yep. No joke.
Blimey! I can (unfortunately) totally picture my parents saying that too. Anything to make "sense" of something that just doesn't, to them.

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My mother was the one that caused me the most headaches. Even to this day she disapproves of Mtmaiden's weight (even to the WLS Mtnmaiden had) although my mom keeps it to herself mostly now. My dad -back when he was alive - seemed to take my preference for fat girls in stride. He didn't really say much about their weight and always got along well with my earlier girlfriends and then with my wife.
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The heart wants what it wants. You can no more change your feelings than you can change the course of a river through will alone.

Both my parents know and don't really care as I'm pretty sure my dad is an FA though we've never brought it up and really talked about it. I mean, why give a name to something that is open in plain sight? You wouldn't walk up to a guy and say, "So I noticed your shoes are tied... you must really like having tied shoes, when did you first tie your shoes, have you ever worn velco strap shoes, do you hate velcro shoes? DO YOU HATE VELCRO?"

My older brother on the other hand is much more plebeian in his pursuits and in his opinions. This is a man who has a barbed wire tattoo around his left arm, a pony tail & handle bar mustache, smokes Marlboro reds and has collected enough Marlboro dollars to get a cowboy smoking at sunset comforter which he still proudly uses despite the dozens of cigarette burns pot marked all over it from over a decade of use.

He once told me while I was grieving over th recent break up of a very cute fatty "Bill, after this one, no more fat chicks"

Looking back, I realize I should have ridden my penis like The Patrick Swayze on on a surfboard at the end of Point Break into a set of massive fat girl waves while shouting, "It's not tragic to die doing what you love" only to drowned with out so much of a yelp amid their luxurious and torrid clad fat rolls but instead I just laughed and feign punched him in the stomach and said, "Whatever old man, lets go get some fucking Del Taco". Hindsights only 20/20, you know?
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My mom actually once argued that FAs are just trying to get back at their parents by dating outside the norm. The follow-up to that was that I should watch my step in dating an FA, since there would inevitably come a time when he would get over this need for rebellion and then subsequently lose interest in fat women. Yep. No joke.
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Many years ago both my parents gave me shit about my BBW girlfriend. They said I can do better and all she will do is get fatter. I told them I have the best Lady and I don't give a crap how much weight she may gain.
Well it's been 28 years and my BBW girlfriend is my BBW wife and she is as beautiful and loving as the day we met! And my parents never said another said another negative word about her since that one and only comment they made, 28 years ago!
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My parents are fully aware I like "squishy guys" and they don't care. I think my grandmother would. She has a problem with my tastes in guys; she's a little racist, but I really have a thing for black men, and she's somewhat preoccupied with weight loss, so I doubt she'd approve. Oh well, I love her anyway.
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My mother didn't approve of me dating my wife at first, because she was a Protestant, not Catholic. Size never entered into it.
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My father would be "deeply concerned". But we don't talk anymore, so that's that.
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My mom actually once argued that FAs are just trying to get back at their parents by dating outside the norm. The follow-up to that was that I should watch my step in dating an FA, since there would inevitably come a time when he would get over this need for rebellion and then subsequently lose interest in fat women. Yep. No joke.


Maybe someday when she sees you really happy with that special someone, she will realized that large women are beautiful, and there are those of us who find this so.
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