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Old 04-16-2009, 11:29 PM   #1
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This may sound a bit strange but ive noticed that the deeper i get into this fa/bbw/ssbbw thing im finding 2 things: that im slowly becoming more attracted to bigger and older women. So my question is, is this normal cuz i mean i can remeber like 5 years ago if you would have asked me if i thought a37 year old 380 pound woman was hot i proably would have said no but now im finding myself having a hard time not looking at these women, and dont get me wrong i still like women around my age but im also becoming more and more attracted to the latter. So idk is there ne one else on here who is or has gone through this? Let me know.
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Old 04-17-2009, 02:09 AM   #2
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This may sound a bit strange but ive noticed that the deeper i get into this fa/bbw/ssbbw thing im finding 2 things: that im slowly becoming more attracted to bigger and older women. So my question is, is this normal cuz i mean i can remeber like 5 years ago if you would have asked me if i thought a37 year old 380 pound woman was hot i proably would have said no but now im finding myself having a hard time not looking at these women, and dont get me wrong i still like women around my age but im also becoming more and more attracted to the latter. So idk is there ne one else on here who is or has gone through this? Let me know.

Maybe when you examine one bias such as devaluing women because they are fat the effects of confronting that bias extends to other biases. Soon the baby boom generation will be the largest cohort so we might want to see the beauty in older fat women. Let's expand our concept of beauty shall we?
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Maybe when you examine one bias such as devaluing women because they are fat the effects of confronting that bias extends to other biases. Soon the baby boom generation will be the largest cohort so we might want to see the beauty in older fat women. Let's expand our concept of beauty shall we?
Thank you for your reply but im not 100 % sure at what you are getting at could you please clarify. Thans
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I am sorry that I was not clear. There is a tendency in the American culture to rate beauty as belonging exclusively to young thin women. To appreciate the beauty of fat women is to expand one's idea of beauty beyond the cultural norms. To consider that an older fat woman is beautiful is to expand again one's concept of beauty. The largest cohort in this country is older women some of whom are fat. Just think of it maybe the by-product of acceptance of others is that they appear more beautiful. What do you think?
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Well katherine22 Thank you for clarifying your statement and i could not agree more.I mean theres so many things in american society and in so called "civilized society" that try and control and make us believe what beauty is in so many ways its almost terrifying when you think about it. I mean just look at how many diet commericals or ads you see a day its almost impossible not see one along with these "age reversing products". Its just that its been strange for me having this new found appreciation it just came out of no where and im trying i guess you could say....understand it and not feel the pressures of society who would say i had a problem. understand what im saying?

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I actually think there is more to it than that though. For some reason, bbw porn and mature porn can be lumped in together (even if one is not into 'mature' or 'bbw'). I dont think the porn industry considers percieved beauty spectrums so there must be something else going on there.
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I actually think there is more to it than that though. For some reason, bbw porn and mature porn can be lumped in together (even if one is not into 'mature' or 'bbw'). I dont think the porn industry considers percieved beauty spectrums so there must be something else going on there.
Yea but you have to understand the porn industry is only trying to make as much money as it so they will branch off into as many categories as possible to make money plus bbw porn isnt qoue on qoute mainstream porn i mean you wont see a show on E called the big girls next door nor will you see a copy of bodacious mag at your local coner store or barnes and Nobles at least over here in America idk what its like in Scotland LOL.
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Yea but you have to understand the porn industry is only trying to make as much money as it so they will branch off into as many categories as possible to make money plus bbw porn isnt qoue on qoute mainstream porn i mean you wont see a show on E called the big girls next door nor will you see a copy of bodacious mag at your local coner store or barnes and Nobles at least over here in America idk what its like in Scotland LOL.
Well in scotland we have newsagents specially built for Fat porn! Unfortunatly, this is not the case but that would be nice.
Haha, check me out being all porny..ive seen two fat pornos in my whole life! lmao
yeah, i see what you mean.. but why lump in fat and mature together? Surely they are two seperate genres.
On a non porn note.. i think what Katherine said is right. Perhaps you are allowing yourself to open your eyes to beauty. Beauty that your brain (amongst other organs) is recognising is true because you find it valid, not because its being sold by society, peers etc. I had to laugh though when you said ..'older 37'. My gf is 38 in about a week and i see her as really young!! I am 30 though, so i'm sure much older than you.
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I find myself in this situation. I think its because I prefer someone whos a bit more experienced in the world and life than myself. I find it enjoyable conversing with older women. Most of the ladies i meet seem real and genuine, any usually prety sure of what they want out of life. Of course that isn't to say I wont look at someone my own age, but I've noticed this too. I think I find older age and what it could offer more attractive.


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Maybe this is a reaction of necessity for some? I mean, for the older FAs into SSBBWs who were around before the Internet or during the pre-2000s phase of the Internet there was almost definitely a low low number of young SSBBWs visible. Especially those who like really REALLY big SSBBW.
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That's exactly the journey my fantasies have taken. I think it does have to do with getting older, in that when I was 18, 40 seemed like the far end of cougardom. Now at 37 the archetypal "older woman" really is... old. As for size, let's face it: there are more ssbbws around us in general, and certainly posing on the internet. It raises the bar.
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This may sound a bit strange but ive noticed that the deeper i get into this fa/bbw/ssbbw thing im finding 2 things: that im slowly becoming more attracted to bigger and older women. So my question is, is this normal cuz i mean i can remeber like 5 years ago if you would have asked me if i thought a37 year old 380 pound woman was hot i proably would have said no but now im finding myself having a hard time not looking at these women, and dont get me wrong i still like women around my age but im also becoming more and more attracted to the latter. So idk is there ne one else on here who is or has gone through this? Let me know.
You are not the only person who feels this way. I've known since I was 24 that I was attracted to older BBWs and SSBBWs, with "older" meaning 35-55.

I find all women attractive and do not equate beauty with youth or thinness.

I will admit I also enjoy conversing with older women. They do have interesting perspectives on life.
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Speaking as a 48 year old fat girl - some of us are still hot. And if I was single I'd be cruising the younger guys.

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This may sound a bit strange but ive noticed that the deeper i get into this fa/bbw/ssbbw thing im finding 2 things: that im slowly becoming more attracted to bigger and older women. So my question is, is this normal cuz i mean i can remeber like 5 years ago if you would have asked me if i thought a37 year old 380 pound woman was hot i proably would have said no but now im finding myself having a hard time not looking at these women, and dont get me wrong i still like women around my age but im also becoming more and more attracted to the latter. So idk is there ne one else on here who is or has gone through this? Let me know.
You are so not alone in this I would say,when I was in my mid-twenty's that my attraction for older bbws and ssbbws came about. What I found is the older I became the stronger that attraction became. There is nothing I love more than being around a intelligent,smart,loving and caring older bbw, who I can have a conversation with.
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This may sound a bit strange but ive noticed that the deeper i get into this fa/bbw/ssbbw thing im finding 2 things: that im slowly becoming more attracted to bigger and older women. So my question is, is this normal cuz i mean i can remeber like 5 years ago if you would have asked me if i thought a37 year old 380 pound woman was hot i proably would have said no but now im finding myself having a hard time not looking at these women, and dont get me wrong i still like women around my age but im also becoming more and more attracted to the latter. So idk is there ne one else on here who is or has gone through this? Let me know.
Welcome to the new guys! Always great to see new friendly faces here.

I used to be totally against dating younger guys, because I have a grown son and have raised several boys, and it just seemed weird to date someone their age, or near that. But in more recent years I've come to find younger guys more viable, relationship-wise. My husband is 7 years younger than I, which is a record.

I think that age and experience broadens our tastes in many things. When I was much younger, musically I just liked Rock/Metal and Funk/Soul, but now I love so many genre of music that there are more that I like than I don't like, and it's that way almost across the board. I think that maturing a bit really does broaden one's horizons as to what we find attractive and desirable.
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Actually, I heard and have known for years about this phenomina, myself included. That FAs, whatever their size preference is, will tend to edge upwards in the size they prefer, as they age.
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This may sound a bit strange but ive noticed that the deeper i get into this fa/bbw/ssbbw thing im finding 2 things: that im slowly becoming more attracted to bigger and older women. So my question is, is this normal cuz i mean i can remeber like 5 years ago if you would have asked me if i thought a37 year old 380 pound woman was hot i proably would have said no but now im finding myself having a hard time not looking at these women, and dont get me wrong i still like women around my age but im also becoming more and more attracted to the latter. So idk is there ne one else on here who is or has gone through this? Let me know.
I totally get what you are talking about. Same thing with me, seems the older I get the broader the spectrum of bigger woman grabs my attention. It also helps that fat women age better so half the time when I find out that the woman I am talking to is not only spectacularly beautiful but 20 yrs my senior I find myself redefining my list of sexy attributes in relation to age. groups.
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Well im glad to see im not the only one going through this makes me feel better because for i quick second i thought something was going wrong with me when a couple of weeks ago at work i couldnt stop staring at this lady who works with me.
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Not exclusively, but how open I am has increased dramatically. Like you, if someone would have asked me something similar when I was in my mid/late teens irrespective of size, I would have said no immediately. Now with time, I have become a lot of more open.
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i guess by default; i've been surprised to find out the ages (in both directions) of various crushes. if i don't notice your age at all it doesn't matter.
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Older women are going to be the majority as 60 is the new 58. Mae West taught the older girls how to behave!!!!!!!!!
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In my experience as a superfatty - you're not alone. Lots of guys I've been interested in and had interest from are at least a little younger, or much more, than me. I'm no cougar, just a regular chick - but I'm dangerously close to leaving my 30s (wahhhh!!). Being single, I'm fine with this reality and will date whoever I find appealing and compatible.
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I'm not specifically attracted to just older women, but I'm not opposed to it either, as I've dated 2-3 women that were quite a bit older than me. Which I guess is a lot, considering I don't date much. For me at least, it's more of a matter of matching up the more desirable but harder to find qualities of physical and personality attraction. With personality, it's a lot easier to go older than younger for me I guess. Even though intelligence and other traits I'm looking for aren't limited by age, they often seem less developed or flexible, in the younger girls I find. And older women seem more likely initiate things, whether big or little, which certainly doesn't hurt. I'm not much of a alpha male, so losing any supposed 'power' in the relationship doesn't bother me, appearances or not. I'm not sure if that makes sense, but I can't really think of any other way to put it.
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