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Old 05-14-2009, 07:12 PM   #1
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Come on, everyone... I know there have to be a lot of FAs out there who have no fetish, i.e. feederism, gaining, squashing, etc., but who just are in love with the BBW/BHM form. Now is the time to say, I'm like Rubens, and I love it!!!

Do you prefer a particular form or body type, or is it a look, or what?
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Old 05-14-2009, 09:11 PM   #2
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As far as fetishes go, I'd just like for whoever I happen to be with to keep an open mind about things, you know?
Like, if one person is into feederism, but the other isn't, but everything else is GREAT, a compromise would be really important.
I try not to shut myself off to people who aren't necessarily into the same "kinks" as me, because relationships are about a little bit of give and take, ya dig?
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Having no fetish can be a real turn-on. Often it's sexier than actual fetishes.
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Having no fetish can be a real turn-on. Often it's sexier than actual fetishes.
I like to give people who have fetishes verbal spankings and tongue lashings... So I suppose not having a fetish is in fact my fetish... therefore I'm not qualified to post in this thread.




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I'm prudish and proud of it.
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*Checks in*

Ultimately it comes down to the person. I've been all over the place with size, shape, etc... The person I'm crushin' on now (Who reciprocates these feelings... oh..... haha ) is 5'4", and is a former hourglass that's become slightly more bottom heavy. She did gain a bit, but I liked her then, and I like her now.
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You run around wearing women's avatars Skellington! Don't you be telling us that you have no fetishes!!!!



See, that's all part of my fetish...





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You run around wearing women's avatars Skellington! Don't you be telling us that you have no fetishes!!!!
My love of Madame Leota is not a fetish. Perish the thought. It's a good, clean love... without utensils. Props to anyone that gets that quote.
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My love of Madame Leota is not a fetish. Perish the thought. It's a good, clean love... without utensils. Props to anyone that gets that quote.
The way you phrased that sounded so... well.. very prudish.



I suppose you're telling the truth... clean as a whistle... no fetish...





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Ultimately it comes down to the person. I've been all over the place with size, shape, etc... The person I'm crushin' on now (Who reciprocates these feelings... oh..... haha ) is 5'4", and is a former hourglass that's become slightly more bottom heavy. She did gain a bit, but I liked her then, and I like her now.
That's what I mean.... you liked her then, and you like her now!
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Tapirs aren't a fetish, right?
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Is it wearing pantyhose? The answer to that is the answer to your question.
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I'd just like to say that as an FA with no fetish, ...I have no fetish.



.......all right then.
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Well.... I wouldn't say I have NO fetish (coughdommecough), but my fetish isn't fat related, so I'm counting myself in

Although, fat butts do have a more satisfying jiggle when I spank them...
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I am attracted exclusively to fat women, so I do not need whips, chains, rubber, masks or something else.
The fat jiggling body of my wife does it for me.
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hmm.. actually, i am pretty boring and dont have any fetishes. Though, i do love to please and i have never encountered anything that has shocked me sexually, so i would do most things that my partner wanted and i would enjoy them. So i guess i am a fetishistic non-fetishist. hmm if that makes any sense.
Oh actually, i'm speaking bolllocks..i do have some gainer fantasies. They are only head ones that only leak out now and then. hmm its funny i forgot about that. Though i see this 'fetish' as relating to me not to my love of fat. Well not other peoples.. shit. am i making any sense AT ALL???? lmao
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I'm ordinarily pretty vanilla but I won't say I've never wavered. I like to be as accommodating of my partner as the law allows so there isn't much I haven't tried. Can't say any of it made the experience any more or less enjoyable, just different. Commitment to her pleasure always overwhelms any reticence on my part. Who she is (in all dimensions) stimulates me far more than what we do together.

I think fetishes are kind of like children in that they make little or no sense until you have one of your own? I imagine for many they help break down barriers and form a deeper intimacy? Smoke 'em if ya got 'em, YMMV.

My only issue with fetishes has always been stealth. Fly your freak flag proudly. If it's an important part of you hiding it from someone who may care about you is wrong. JMO! With that one caveat, Carpe Kink!
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I'm ordinarily pretty vanilla but I won't say I've never wavered. I like to be as accommodating of my partner as the law allows so there isn't much I haven't tried. Can't say any of it made the experience any more or less enjoyable, just different. Commitment to her pleasure always overwhelms any reticence on my part. Who she is (in all dimensions) stimulates me far more than what we do together.

I think fetishes are kind of like children in that they make little or no sense until you have one of your own? I imagine for many they help break down barriers and form a deeper intimacy? Smoke 'em if ya got 'em, YMMV.

My only issue with fetishes has always been stealth. Fly your freak flag proudly. If it's an important part of you hiding it from someone who may care about you is wrong. JMO! With that one caveat, Carpe Kink!

That's what I was trying to get at- no matter what, if there is a great connection, then it won't diminish her just because she isn't into something. Even at first, I'm not going to let a narrow preference dominate, or discount someone because of it. To me, it would creep me out if someone started off with that rather than getting to know me better... and I have heard of that happening!
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That's what I was trying to get at- no matter what, if there is a great connection, then it won't diminish her just because she isn't into something. Even at first, I'm not going to let a narrow preference dominate, or discount someone because of it. To me, it would creep me out if someone started off with that rather than getting to know me better... and I have heard of that happening!
"I'm into latex, golden shower and lizard role play." don't need to be the first words out of your mouth, I agree. Still, you know it's not cool to conceal the fact that you drink or smoke because many people have strong aversions to those things. If it's really a fetish it's BS to say you want them to "get to know you first" because that's a part of you. Anything "non-negotiable" about you needs to come up pretty early or there's something slimy about it to me. JMO, as always.

I've been snarked and flamed mercilessly on other threads for this position but it still comes down to an integrity issue. That's about functionality not morality for me. Honesty works better. Bitter experience and reason both convince me of that. I'm no paragon of integrity by any means but I know what seems to work and what doesn't.
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"I'm into latex, golden shower and lizard role play." don't need to be the first words out of your mouth, I agree. Still, you know it's not cool to conceal the fact that you drink or smoke because many people have strong aversions to those things. If it's really a fetish it's BS to say you want them to "get to know you first" because that's a part of you. Anything "non-negotiable" about you needs to come up pretty early or there's something slimy about it to me. JMO, as always.

I've been snarked and flamed mercilessly on other threads for this position but it still comes down to an integrity issue. That's about functionality not morality for me. Honesty works better. Bitter experience and reason both convince me of that. I'm no paragon of integrity by any means but I know what seems to work and what doesn't.
It sounds to me like you have an honesty fetish Nagel...


And maybe even some kinky stuff goin' on with vanilla....


... just sayin'.
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I suppose I'd better stand up to be identified as a non-kink FA. My only kink, if one could call it that, is a desire to spoil the lady of my interest to the point of her not wanting anyone else, whether that means a blindfold, a latex mattress and ten gallons of cake mix, or keeping the place we would share spotlessly clean.

I also agree wholeheartedly with the disclosure policy, Mr. Nagel; when these things are hidden until after feelings get involved is when people get mad, and following that, get even.
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