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Old 07-04-2009, 09:41 PM   #51
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so, my question is sorta easy...i thought the definition of a fetish is something that someone MUST have in order to obtain sexual satisfaction...the word must is the word i question...it seems like many of these things are a sexual like that may not be mainstream, but hardly considered a true fetish...

true of false?
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so, my question is sorta easy...i thought the definition of a fetish is something that someone MUST have in order to obtain sexual satisfaction...the word must is the word i question...it seems like many of these things are a sexual like that may not be mainstream, but hardly considered a true fetish...

true of false?
This question comes up everytime someone mentions fetishes. Your definition is correct, in my opinion. Liking belly buttons or dark hair or chubby legs isn't really a fetish, IMO.

I'm into feederism.. that's a fetish. I prefer dark hair and guys over 6 foot.. that's just a preference.
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Old 07-05-2009, 01:11 AM   #53
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so, my question is sorta easy...i thought the definition of a fetish is something that someone MUST have in order to obtain sexual satisfaction...the word must is the word i question...it seems like many of these things are a sexual like that may not be mainstream, but hardly considered a true fetish...

true of false?
I think a fetish is not a must for every case (whoever makes that definition is wrong, I would like to say a fetish is a sexual attraction that general population don't share). I can be satisfied when the person is not overweight or all that so maybe i just have many of options.

Don't think I could be with a bean pole though!
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Old 07-05-2009, 01:08 PM   #54
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so, my question is sorta easy...i thought the definition of a fetish is something that someone MUST have in order to obtain sexual satisfaction...the word must is the word i question...it seems like many of these things are a sexual like that may not be mainstream, but hardly considered a true fetish...

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That is the definition of a psychosexual fetish, (An objective attraction to a non sexual object that is required for sexual gratification) but partialisms (Body part lovin' lol) are kinda a fuzzy area. Some say "Yes: That's still a fetish," whether it's liking boobs or feet, but others say partialisms are not, so it's a big hmmm.....
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"Fetish" is for non-sexual things/objects, not living beings, which are required by an individual in order to reach certain satisfaction.

"Phillia" is the proper word I think, in regard to sexual freakiness for the living. I saw something on dailymotion last night about this misuse of the word "Fetish". Anyhoo.

I'm still a guy into squashing....the good kind....not that other stuff.
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"Fetish" is for non-sexual things/objects, not living beings, which are required by an individual in order to reach certain satisfaction.

"Phillia" is the proper word I think, in regard to sexual freakiness for the living. I saw something on dailymotion last night about this misuse of the word "Fetish". Anyhoo.

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hmm what about "necrophillia"?? Thats like exactly the oposite!
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I'm just enjoying the list....keep going, fetish or turn on, whathaveyou.
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This question comes up everytime someone mentions fetishes. Your definition is correct, in my opinion. Liking belly buttons or dark hair or chubby legs isn't really a fetish, IMO.

I'm into feederism.. that's a fetish. I prefer dark hair and guys over 6 foot.. that's just a preference.
Hmm..what about feedeers who could do without feederistic fantasy to 'get off' and what about people who would HAVE to be with dark haired people over 6 feet to get turned on?
I think fetish and preference are words which are open to interpretation, i'm not actually even sure that it matters anymore. If you like something you like something, whatever you decide to call it.
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Hmm..what about feedeers who could do without feederistic fantasy to 'get off' and what about people who would HAVE to be with dark haired people over 6 feet to get turned on?
I think fetish and preference are words which are open to interpretation, i'm not actually even sure that it matters anymore. If you like something you like something, whatever you decide to call it.
Yeah, I mean I don't really care that much either way.. I just think saying something like I like tall guys and calling it a fetish is a little extreme.. unless of course you really do need tall guys to get off, aha.

I don't NEED feederism to get off but since it's out of the norm and I definitely need it in some form a few times a week (even if its online stuff only and not real life) I consider it a fetish. My preferences are tall, dark haired guys but like, I don't go online looking for erotic stories or porn with tall, dark haired guys in it because it's not that central to my sexuality. That's how I differentiate it personally.
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so, my question is sorta easy...i thought the definition of a fetish is something that someone MUST have in order to obtain sexual satisfaction...the word must is the word i question...it seems like many of these things are a sexual like that may not be mainstream, but hardly considered a true fetish...

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varies. some people can't get off without their one big turn-on, some make do, most fall in between. speaking personally, i run the gamut depending on my mood.
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I'm a sucker for mutual gaining.

And I definitely have the "fatish." I'm fascinated with all things fat, whether they be bellies, boobs, butts, etc. Watching fat people is the best, whether they be guys or gals (when theres a big fat guy nearby, I imagine being his weight).
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but like, I don't go online looking for erotic stories or porn with tall, dark haired guys in it because it's not that central to my sexuality. That's how I differentiate it personally.
Ahh..see i think this is the best definition of either sexuality or fetish as opposed to preference yet. Preference you can take or leave but you would rather take, given the option. Sexuality-Is central to your sexual self and you need to have what you desire on that front. Fetish is like an offset of sexuality or a focal point (i think it can be a spectrum) where you might actively seek out things to satiate it.
Do you think that 'fetish' is something you cannot do without?
e.g. You may be gay and not have sex or fantasise for a long period of time.. but say you are a gay feeder/feedee, do you think the 'fetishistic' side is one that HAS to seek out fantasy?
I was wondering also whether this had to do with the fact that so many people repressed 'fetish/sexuality' that they thought was abnormal in some way, so that now its something they must have. I don't think something is ONLY a fetish if it is ONLY that you can 'get off' to but i do think it might be a central theme to most fantasy.
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lol my preferences are based on the naughty naughty things I would do with those who meet my criteria.... then those would most certainly be fetishes. But thats going into a much deeper realm
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oohh.. go deeper.. go deeper!!!
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oohh.. go deeper.. go deeper!!!
That's what she said! LOL i'm such a riot
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you ARE!! Also, i think you look Irish.. but i don't know why! I think it may be because you look a wee bit like one of my Irish friends..
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I'm more of what you'd call a european mutt.

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and yes, a wee bit irish
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I'm more of what you'd call a european mutt.

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and yes, a wee bit irish
Nice! see you could be Scottish or Irish and also be 'British'. Though, generally when people say British they mean English.. especially during wimbledon!!
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Nice! see you could be Scottish or Irish and also be 'British'. Though, generally when people say British they mean English.. especially during wimbledon!!
yeah by british i think theres english and welsh as well... but all in all, we sum all those up as american
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hey hey I read the word 'italian' ,that's right? !?!
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Oh you most certainly do haha! My father's parents came here from Napoli about 50 years ago.
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yeah by british i think theres english and welsh as well... but all in all, we sum all those up as american
wow..Irish, scottish, English and welsh.. your ancestors moved about a LOT!!
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lol go ask my mother about it, hun... she's everything under the sun.
but looks english.
Its crazy which traits stick around.

and yes nik... its mainly italian blood running through these veins
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Do you think that 'fetish' is something you cannot do without?
Yes, in general.. meaning not every single time you get off you need that thing to be present in some form but in general, overall it's something central enough to your sexuality that you need it at some point. Does that make sense?
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