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Old 05-25-2009, 02:52 AM   #1
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What looks better? I am thinking of just loving and embracing my new jiggly shape.

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Old 05-25-2009, 03:07 AM   #2
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Old 05-25-2009, 03:15 AM   #3
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I think I am tired of fighting my natural shape. I am a fatty. I come from a family of fatties. I am exhausted with having to worry about it all the time.
This is who I am.
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Old 05-25-2009, 03:16 AM   #4
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i think that you are perfectly beautiful either way, sweetpea.
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Old 05-25-2009, 03:19 AM   #5
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I think I am tired of fighting my natural shape. I am a fatty. I come from a family of fatties. I am exhausted with having to worry about it all the time.
This is who I am.
I want to feel good about myself.
Well you're certainly in the right place :P As long as YOU are happy, and you don't feel you're jeopardising your health, confidence, happiness, etc- do whatever you want! x
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Old 05-25-2009, 03:30 AM   #6
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Well you're certainly in the right place :P As long as YOU are happy, and you don't feel you're jeopardising your health, confidence, happiness, etc- do whatever you want! x
I do not plan to put on much more weight than this, for obvious reasons I have to be careful with that, I just think that I am sick of fighting to be a weight that my body seems to reject.
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Old 05-25-2009, 05:11 AM   #7
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Miss Susannah : You look as gorgeous as ever! I love ever pound you have gained you sexy aussy lady. You are one of the sexiest phat aussy ladies on Dims!
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Old 05-25-2009, 06:40 AM   #8
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Shoshie, you are beautiful now, and before, and I'm sure you were beautiful when you were fat. It's always nice when a woman gains back weight that she lost, and that cute little belly you are showing off there is particularly adorable. I hope you had a good time growing it.

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Old 05-25-2009, 07:50 AM   #9
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You are very pretty fat. You are very pretty thin. Do what is best for you. If you feel more comfortable with life with a little weight and less worry go for it.
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Old 05-25-2009, 08:19 AM   #10
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you look extremely sexy when you are more cuddly...
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Old 05-25-2009, 10:11 AM   #11
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Your hair is gorgeous in both pictures. A little off topic, I'm sorry, but it needed saying!
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Old 05-25-2009, 10:19 AM   #12
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I think you look better fatter, but I like fat women, so there you go. Also, imo, fighting a pitched constant battle against what your body naturally wants to do is not a good way to live, and the mental stress it causes might very well offset whatever health advantages there are to being thinner. I'm naturally thin, and although I find weight gain quite erotic, it would be a terrible, unpleasant uphill battle for me to try to gain weight.

Of course, as others have already stated, only you know what's best for you.
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Old 05-25-2009, 10:36 AM   #13
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Old 05-25-2009, 10:42 AM   #14
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I think I am tired of fighting my natural shape. I am a fatty. I come from a family of fatties. I am exhausted with having to worry about it all the time.
This is who I am.
I want to feel good about myself.
I think on these pages we've touched a great number of times about life conditions on the steppes and in the shtetls that 'bred' the Ashkenazim for sharp wits and economic use of calories to survive tough winters... we wouldn't have a Size Acceptance Movement without this small-yet-crucial segment of the American, erm, Australian populace... so wear those plump pounds l'chaim-ishly!!!

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Old 05-25-2009, 10:58 AM   #15
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i'm agreeing with hayes... again.

seriously shosh. you're a great lady just do what feels right.
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Old 05-25-2009, 03:29 PM   #16
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Old 05-25-2009, 04:48 PM   #17
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I thought I remembered your story from another thread about being bigger and losing. Feeling comfortable in your own skin is what's important and you seem to be tired of trying to maintain something in your life that you don't care about/don't want too. Regardless of what we say or anyone in your community/family/anyone...are you comfortable with yourself...that is your answer...
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Old 05-25-2009, 05:03 PM   #18
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I feel in agreement with just about everyone above. Honestly, this is a place where if you feel like you're naturally meant to be fat, we're all about you loving yourself this way and spending your energies on more productive things.

If you woke up one day and loved the way you looked, what would you spend all your leftover energy on?
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Old 05-25-2009, 05:18 PM   #19
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Susannah in 2009 this past weekend.
Honey, this is meant with the gentlest of responses...you have enough to worry about, stop worrying about the waistline for a while...hugs, one step, one day at a time..
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I could tell you my opinion, but I must preface it with the statement/disclaimer that I live about 12,000 miles (19,200 km) away and - like everyone else here - will probably not speak to you much outside of this thread let alone end up being someone who's opinion matters in your life. As long as you can go look at yourself and go out in public without feeling like everybody is looking at your with disapproval you're ahead of the game. That being said I pick jiggly .
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Old 05-25-2009, 09:19 PM   #21
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Your new physique looks fine. If you like also eat away.....Stay healthy also for your bundle of joy..
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Old 05-26-2009, 04:25 AM   #22
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Thanks friends for the advice. I think I need to let myself just be awhile.
So tonight I ate lasagne for dinner, followed by butterscotch pudding that I made for desert!

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I am always a step slow on posting. But in both pictures you are a beautiful young lady and as long as you are happy that is what should matter. Out of curiousity, did you have any leftovers of the lasagne?
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Thanks friends for the advice. I think I need to let myself just be awhile.
So tonight I ate lasagne for dinner, followed by butterscotch pudding that I made for desert!


I hope that you can relax and enjoy your life. Nature has a great way of balancing everything it looks like nature wants you to be a big girl
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Old 05-27-2009, 04:17 AM   #25
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I think that my mother does not approve of any of her children gaining weight.
I think the only reason my family are not on me about my weight gain is due to my illness. If I was not sick they would be more on me about it.

The strange thing is that we are all fatties fighting our weight.

I have only recently reunited with my mother after a very long estrangement.

Already I can tell that she expects me to live up to certain standards.

Fuck it.

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