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Old 06-25-2009, 12:50 PM   #26
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Excellent info - thanks Ivy!

Exile, I understand you not wanting to have to justify yourself. Perhaps you have the good luck to only be involved with enthusiastic feedees at this point in your development. If so, mazel tov. Some of us are trying to navigate our way in relationships where we're trying to meet both our partner's and our own needs at the same time - when those needs aren't always the same.

The point of the workshop (as I envisioned it, anyhow) was to spread a little understanding, not to justify anyone's desires. That everyone has the right to their desires was a given, not the topic of conversation - as spelled out in the description: "Participants are expected to be respectful of people’s right to explore their fantasies and pursue consensual sexual activity."

Oh, and Miss L. - I'll PM you for info about your privates.
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That looks awesome Ivy. And that is exactly the kind of information I would love to share and have shared. Thank you!
it is awesome. you should take part in it asap if it is physically possible for you and your partner.

and you're welcome ladies! i'm out the door now (lunching with di-va!), but i look forward to seeing what direction this thread takes.
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Thanks for posting that link Ivy. The position that worked for me was this one. This won't work for everybody though. I might try yours out some day before I die Ivy.
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Old 06-25-2009, 03:02 PM   #29
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Thanks for posting that link Ivy. The position that worked for me was this one. This won't work for everybody though. I might try yours out some day before I die Ivy.
I am a big fan of that position!!!!
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Excellent info - thanks Ivy!The point of the workshop (as I envisioned it, anyhow) was to spread a little understanding, not to justify anyone's desires. That everyone has the right to their desires was a given, not the topic of conversation - as spelled out in the description: "Participants are expected to be respectful of people’s right to explore their fantasies and pursue consensual sexual activity."
My first thoughts obviously went to a gay couple being asked who pitches and who catches. Too pedagogical for my taste but I see the purpose now that I have a better picture.

And I used to be freer about sharing ideas and fantasies before some real think tanks borrowed them to make money off of them.
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And I used to be freer about sharing ideas and fantasies before some real think tanks borrowed them to make money off of them.
pretty sure that a) if the people making the product in question are actually into the fetish they may have similar fantasies and b) nothing is original and paysite girls get the same requests over and over and over again. nothing is original.

this thread is not about making money off of a fantasy. it's about sharing information and helping people who have questions/issues about making a particular fetish work for them and their partners. no need to be so angry.
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idk it's pretty hard to be original, especially here. you post pictures of yourself in belted dresses and next thing you know, everyone is wearing them. i guess i will go back to jeans.

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i wasn't at the bash, so obviously i did not attend the workshop.

anyway, re: too full for sex

depending on the size of your partner and the size of your penis this position is awesome when the girl is too full for sex but still really, really wants to go at it. the best part about it is that if they guy takes it really slow he can give his partner a really nice belly rub while they do their thing. i HIGHLY recommend this.

p.s. huge thank you to Cors for relinking me to the site linked above.
my ass is too fat for that

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my ass is too fat for that
unless your vagina is located in your asshole or your boyfriend has a small penis or is bad in bed it really shouldn't be a problem. i have friends who are very bottom heavy and 500+ pounds that have no problem with the position.
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I was going to suggest maybe we share some feeder/feedee fantasies but it's just not going to work... at the Bash in person we're more of a community... trying to duplicate any sense of that here seems futile

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Could be worse, I could have been there lol
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what if the asshole is located in my girlfriend's vagina

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Ohhh how snide...if you weren't so damn attractive this would irritate me. I saw the comments by Exile and Tooz but I missed this one.
I'm not opposed to fantasy talk at all but there are so many threads about that here already. Unless yours includes genie pants and Beano® it has probably already been talked about.
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I'm not opposed to fantasy talk at all but there are so many threads about that here already. Unless yours includes genie pants and Beano® it has probably already been talked about.
Although recently it seems as though if it's about genie pants or Beano or whatever random, inane shit, it will have been discussed. In fact, perfectly good threads will be derailed in order to discuss the inside jokes of a few.

I think that it might be a good idea to try and have some sort of discussion on fantasy in a panel like we had at the bash, really; although it might be a bit too personal for people to share face-to-face with a crowd, which would be an issue.
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Ok I'll go first. I'm an FA so I like fat. I like it on me and on my partner but I don't *need* fat to be present. If neither of us were fat it wouldn't make much difference. I'm about as dull and ordinary as you can get until I am turned on. I fantasize that I'm growing in every place, clothing bursting, furniture crushing beneath me, etc. till the orgasm is over. Talk of gaining excites me and I'm a foodee who likes to be full and sated. Not always arousing but it can be.
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See? This is exactly why I hate sharing. I would throw my stuff out there and then the thread would be immediatley killed. For crying out loud, somebody SAY something so my post isn't just sitting there like a Baby Ruth in a swimming pool. Shees!
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Lilly--it isn't easy to do this. I have a dozen or more finished stories, and at least twice that many unfinished, that only partially explore my feelings around this. Trying to put it into a few sentences? Agh!

I like fat on anyone, and think anyone gaining weight is interesting, and anyone deliberately gaining weight is OMGSEXAYY!!!! ....in fantasies in my head. Real life is way more complicated, and even when it comes to admiring others it is not so simple for me. My fantasies often include experiencing the physical changes of weight, like taking up more space, or finding it harder to climb stairs, or having to adapt sexual positions for newly fatter bodies. For me probably the sexiest parts of such fantasies are the choices, to let oneself gain, to deliberately gain, to keep gaining despite obstacles, and so on, so when it comes to fantasy I often have things reach a point where continuing to gain faces some real obstacles, and the people involved choose to keep doing it anyway (pretty much the opposite of how I am in real life, which is probably part of the appeal).

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Ok I'll go first. I'm an FA so I like fat. I like it on me and on my partner but I don't *need* fat to be present. If neither of us were fat it wouldn't make much difference. I'm about as dull and ordinary as you can get until I am turned on. I fantasize that I'm growing in every place, clothing bursting, furniture crushing beneath me, etc. till the orgasm is over. Talk of gaining excites me and I'm a foodee who likes to be full and sated. Not always arousing but it can be.
great post lilly! while i am not an FA myself, i definitely identify with all of the fantasy stuff here. i am a huge fan of my partner talking about me gaining even more weight in addition to talking about what i've already gained. unfitness/being out of shape is also a huge turn on for me as well and talking about that almost always seems to make it into dirty talk. i have immobility fantasies as well, and i've had partners who wanted to role play that which has been pretty fun and interesting to say the least.

as far as fullness goes, i think that it's a lot hotter in fantasy (for me). i love overeating, but eating to the point of being sick kind of sucks a lot of the time when it comes to reality. it definitely can be really arousing and has a time and a place.
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Yes, the lazy and unfitness aspect is a turnon for me as well. I've been uncertain about going so far as naming immobility as a part of my fantasies because the atmosphere around that particular fantasy always seems so... I dont know, "special." The mystique around some of these things seems way over the top at times where it doesn't really play out like that at least for me. But it is a part of what I like now that I look back. It's not something I'd want in real life but I have role played and been immensely happy to just lie there and let my lover feed and stuff me and rub my belly all weekend. I loved not being able to get up yet not really needing to.
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Yes, the lazy and unfitness aspect is a turnon for me as well. I've been uncertain about going so far as naming immobility as a part of my fantasies because the atmosphere around that particular fantasy always seems so... I dont know, "special." The mystique around some of these things seems way over the top at times where it doesn't really play out like that at least for me. But it is a part of what I like now that I look back. It's not something I'd want in real life but I have role played and been immensely happy to just lie there and let my lover feed and stuff me and rub my belly all weekend. I loved not being able to get up yet not really needing to.
i completely agree with all of this. immobility fantasies still seem to be very taboo, which is kind of understandable since some people do not understand the differences between someone talking about fantasy and reality. it is definitely not something that i want for reality, but with the right partner and the right mood it is a fun fantasy to play with.
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Ok I'll go first. I'm an FA so I like fat. I like it on me and on my partner but I don't *need* fat to be present. If neither of us were fat it wouldn't make much difference. I'm about as dull and ordinary as you can get until I am turned on. I fantasize that I'm growing in every place, clothing bursting, furniture crushing beneath me, etc. till the orgasm is over. Talk of gaining excites me and I'm a foodee who likes to be full and sated. Not always arousing but it can be.
My fantasies are fairly similar, although it's my partner that does the growing and not me.

What I'm "into" kind of shifts around, though. Sometimes it's very grounded in reality, but other times it shifts to the impossible and is probably closer to inflation than feeding. There's an emphasis at times on pressure/release, like buttons popping, clothing bursting, at times even outgrowing a room or building, that sort of thing. I believe that it's synonymous in my mind with orgasm. Other times, though, it's the fat itself that is sexual, and just that can make me achieve orgasm.

So the fantasies will reflect what's currently catching my fancy.
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Yeah, my peeps are sharing, thank you!

For me, I was a foodie before I ever even knew what a feedee was. My husband has shared his fantasies with me only after having already been in the relationship for quite awhile.

For us, it started out as my great new guy bringing me food and me thinking that this is the best thing ever. He of course was enjoying watching me eat, showing me the pleasures of a belly rub and watching the eventual weight gain.

It took me years to fully understand that this was an actual and specific turn on for him. Once I understood that, I then started to realize that I could incorporate his fantasies into mine. I will use my desire for food to turn him on by demanding things and then talking about the results.

I am personally not into weight gain per se, because I don't mind being fat, I just don't like being heavy. I would take up alot more space if it wasn't so dang hard to carry it around when necessary.

There are many times that I incorporate food into sex and sex into food, because it is a win/win situation. I like the power and control that I have while I am "enchanting" my mate.

I like to hear about what others may be doing because sometimes it gives me ideas of something that I or my mate might like, and then I can surprise him, or discuss it in advance. Sometimes just talking about things is good because we can explore possibilities.
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Yeah, my peeps are sharing, thank you!

For me, I was a foodie before I ever even knew what a feedee was. My husband has shared his fantasies with me only after having already been in the relationship for quite awhile.

For us, it started out as my great new guy bringing me food and me thinking that this is the best thing ever. He of course was enjoying watching me eat, showing me the pleasures of a belly rub and watching the eventual weight gain.

It took me years to fully understand that this was an actual and specific turn on for him. Once I understood that, I then started to realize that I could incorporate his fantasies into mine. I will use my desire for food to turn him on by demanding things and then talking about the results.

I am personally not into weight gain per se, because I don't mind being fat, I just don't like being heavy. I would take up alot more space if it wasn't so dang hard to carry it around when necessary.

There are many times that I incorporate food into sex and sex into food, because it is a win/win situation. I like the power and control that I have while I am "enchanting" my mate.

I like to hear about what others may be doing because sometimes it gives me ideas of something that I or my mate might like, and then I can surprise him, or discuss it in advance. Sometimes just talking about things is good because we can explore possibilities.
I agree DAB. In my first and only feeder/feedee relationship I recall he and I connected so strongly in our desires. We didn't even know it was a 'thing' as it seemed to evolve naturally for us. This was problematic because outside of that aspect of our relationship we found each other irritating. As a matter of fact we were on our way to breaking up til we stumbled upon this new kick. At that instant we were insanely in love and would die for each other, much to the unsettling astonishment of everyone who knew us. Once fantasy land was over the spell was broken as we were reminded that we aren't on the same wavelength otherwise. I think what stikes me as terrific about you and L is that you have so much common ground in your relationship outside of that. Striking only to me maybe because of my experiences with it.
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