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Old 10-21-2011, 06:42 PM   #4326
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Old 10-21-2011, 07:06 PM   #4328
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Thanks! I'm celebrating with some blackberry wine tomorrow at the orchard. Pumped! Hope you are all having good weekends and sending hugs to everyone hurting tonight. I'm so blessed.
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Old 10-22-2011, 07:02 AM   #4330
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Congrats on the good news, aocutiepi!


I hate the idea of people watching me exercise...But IC, I get some major satisfaction out of seeing the reactions of some of the snooty women in my water aerobics class when they realize the biggest girl in the class can out-perform them. Take THAT, biznatches!
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Old 10-22-2011, 01:10 PM   #4331
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I hate the idea of people watching me exercise...But IC, I get some major satisfaction out of seeing the reactions of some of the snooty women in my water aerobics class when they realize the biggest girl in the class can out-perform them. Take THAT, biznatches!
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IC I have a giant pile of student mid-term papers to grade. Relatedly, I also confess that I really want a margarita (or 7) right now.
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Thanks you all for the kind words and the rep. I'm really looking forward to being able to do and be something positive in the medical community for us because it disgusts me when other "medical professionals" shame people into not seeking treatment by blaming head colds on body type. *off soapbox*

And yeah, mcbeth, the same interview. I'm thrilled it went well!
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I confess I hate being a woman sometimes. Menustration does not make me feel all magical and part of the universe and creation it makes me feel like tiny scorpions are trying to sting their way out of my guts and nether parts.

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OMG Lamia you took the words right out of my head. I am hatin' being a woman today, i just want to curl up in bed until it passes. I don't feel like scorpions but like something is burst inside of me and filling up my abdomen past its capacity.

I sort of look forward to menopause...
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OMG Lamia you took the words right out of my head. I am hatin' being a woman today, i just want to curl up in bed until it passes. I don't feel like scorpions but like something is burst inside of me and filling up my abdomen past its capacity.

I sort of look forward to menopause...
lol no doubt it's just messy and gross and I don't wanna!
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A bit vexed that at the last minute I have a 9am meeting on my day off, particularly as Thursday's going to be a 9am-7pm day. Grrrrr to this. However, I'm completely over-the-top geeked for Whedon's Much Ado!

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OMG Lamia you took the words right out of my head. I am hatin' being a woman today, i just want to curl up in bed until it passes. I don't feel like scorpions but like something is burst inside of me and filling up my abdomen past its capacity.

I sort of look forward to menopause...
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Had a second trans vaginal ultrasound....did not like. They told me I have a complex thick endometric layer. I have to start meds on Nov 7th to try to shed it if not I have to have a D and C. Good news the mystery item in my cervix is gone.
I had a D and C because I had polyps on my uterus. It wasn't bad at all. I was less sore from that than I was from my pap smear.

It was great. My periods weren't as heavy and I just had an easier time during my period. I told my gyno that I would be back every few years to clean out my cobwebs as I called it. I'm about due now that I think about it.

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I was about your age when i got my first one. They're certainly fun!
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Not that you're asking for advice...but I'd start with something like this. And stick to a more independent, women-owned retailer like I linked to, instead of some of the other online retailers - because otherwise you can get put on a mailing list where you're getting these porno DVD offers for months with seductive women on the envelopes (or so I've heard...).
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IC I was an idiot over the weekend and slept with the ex.(purely on the agreement of it being a one nighter)
Now he wont stop texting me.
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IC I'm going on my first real "date" in over two years on Thursday. I'm really nervous about it. I've had the opportunity to go on dates since then, but I decided that I wasn't going to date men that didn't meet my expectations just to have a date. Anyway, after five years of doing online dating, I finally got contacted by a man who met my expectations (educated, not an atheist but not a minister, near my age). We've been talking for three weeks. He seems pretty awesome but I'm not getting my hopes up.

Anyway, I told my mom about him and then she mentioned it to my dad. After finding out that the guy is an athletic guy who runs every day, my dad said, "He knows you're not exactly skinny, right?"

And this is why I hadn't been getting my hopes up. I realize that I am an idiot and this is all my fault, but here goes... we met on OkCupid. I used to have pictures of me with my skinny friends as a body type comparison thing, but I took them down after one too many guys called me fat and then asked for "that hot blonde in the blue's" number. Men. I had planned on perhaps putting them back up with blurred out faces but hadn't gotten around to it. There was still one on there, but you couldn't really see their bodies as well (can see my large arms and a little double chin action) and we were crowded around a pizza that was half as big as a twin bed. The other photos I have are head and shoulders shots. I listed my body type as "Used Up" as I found none of the other "not skinny" descriptors fit me--not that "Used Up" does. But I never mentioned being fat explicitly.

I'm paranoid that between the pizza, my fat face and the "Used Up" he might not have gotten it and I'm going to walk away from this date and not date again for two years. Is there any way to bring this up in conversation without sounding like a total weirdo? I thought about asking him to be Facebook friends if he has Facebook where I have over 700 photos of myself, not all of them flattering (I don't always de-tag).

I don't want to get there and be disappointed and I don't want him to, either. Maybe I'm not giving him enough credit and he's not a shallow guy.


ETA: I also realize that if I were going to ask him about my fatness I should have done it before now, but I'm perfectly capable of owning that mistake.

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IC I'm going on my first real "date" in over two years on Thursday. I'm really nervous about it. I've had the opportunity to go on dates since then, but I decided that I wasn't going to date men that didn't meet my expectations just to have a date. Anyway, after five years of doing online dating, I finally got contacted by a man who met my expectations (educated, not an atheist but not a minister, near my age). We've been talking for three weeks. He seems pretty awesome but I'm not getting my hopes up.

Anyway, I told my mom about him and then she mentioned it to my dad. After finding out that the guy is an athletic guy who runs every day, my dad said, "He knows you're not exactly skinny, right?"

And this is why I hadn't been getting my hopes up. I realize that I am an idiot and this is all my fault, but here goes... we met on OkCupid. I used to have pictures of me with my skinny friends as a body type comparison thing, but I took them down after one too many guys called me fat and then asked for "that hot blonde in the blue's" number. Men. I had planned on perhaps putting them back up with blurred out faces but hadn't gotten around to it. There was still one on there, but you couldn't really see their bodies as well (can see my large arms and a little double chin action) and we were crowded around a pizza that was half as big as a twin bed. The other photos I have are head and shoulders shots. I listed my body type as "Used Up" as I found none of the other "not skinny" descriptors fit me--not that "Used Up" does. But I never mentioned being fat explicitly.

I'm paranoid that between the pizza, my fat face and the "Used Up" he might not have gotten it and I'm going to walk away from this date and not date again for two years. Is there any way to bring this up in conversation without sounding like a total weirdo? I thought about asking him to be Facebook friends if he has Facebook where I have over 700 photos of myself, not all of them flattering (I don't always de-tag).

I don't want to get there and be disappointed and I don't want him to, either. Maybe I'm not giving him enough credit and he's not a shallow guy.


ETA: I also realize that if I were going to ask him about my fatness I should have done it before now, but I'm perfectly capable of owning that mistake.



DO IT.

I have no advice but just wish you all the luck in this endeavor and that it turns out he's a great guy into YOU
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I sometimes wonder if i missed out on a lot with the whole dating and experimenting thing by marrying the first guy that i ever kissed/everything at the tender age of 19. I love my husband and we're so much alike but i just wonder some days.. (He lived before meeting me since he's 11 years older than me)
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