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Old 07-10-2009, 11:13 PM   #76
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I confess that while I was/am a huge supporter of this forum and am truly happy to see it here at last, I feel somewhat vaguely unwelcome because of the several comments I've already read about supersized women (like myself) making you lovely mid-sizers feel unwelcome or somehow invalidated because of your size. I feel shitty that that's ever happened to any of you, here or in real life, and fervently wish it hadn't, but I hope no one loses sight of the fact that there are many, many (in fact, I would venture to say the majority of) supersized women (again, like myself) who have never been anything but supportive and welcoming of our smaller friends. I hate that the negative in life always seems to get more press than the positive.
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Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/

I am so sorry you both feel so bad..I agree that we all need to work on accepting one another based on the fact we are women and not by our dress size..
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Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/
Ugh, that is complete bullshit! Makes me so mad to hear this kind of thing. SD, I really hope you will consider reporting that PM to a moderator, so whomever said that can be properly infracted (my preference would be tossed out on his/her ass!). Please, please, please believe that you are absolutely welcome here, regardless of size! I'm certain that you have, as you said, dealt with your share of human jerkiness and have a lot to contribute here, and to learn, as we all do, whether you're a size 0 or a size, well, me.

So stay and post, okay? You won't regret it.

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I am so sorry you both feel so bad..I agree that we all need to work on accepting one another based on the fact we are women and not by our dress size..
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IC that I checked and checked to see if this forum was open and then I started a farm on Farm Town in facebook. I have been so busy trying to build up my little farm, I just now noticed that the lights are on here.

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Old 07-11-2009, 06:56 AM   #79
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Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/

I feel the same way, and have been told the same crap in the past too. That I wasnt fat enough to be here, or even fat at all. It made me want to leave, and kind of put me in perma lurk mode, as I take things to personally too.
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Old 07-11-2009, 10:21 AM   #80
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I confess that I am not really sure what this thread is actually for.......
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Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/
As a few others have already stated, harassment is definitely not okay. If anyone has been harassed via PM or otherwise please report it to a moderator. You have just as much right to be here harassment free as anyone else no matter what size you are.

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Old 07-11-2009, 02:16 PM   #82
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Old 07-11-2009, 03:26 PM   #83
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IC that the SA movement and this site have given me a great deal of overall confidence in my life in the last 17 years, I still have a hard time thinking that I'm not still automatically judged based on weight by others, like it's a fight I'm constantly ready to have. Of course, I go about my life without stressing too much about my size either. It's very matter-of-fact.

IC that I'm completely unmotivated to do anything productive these days, as much as I want to get stuff done. I worry sometimes that my weight makes it harder to fight inertia, but I think sometimes it's just that there's a disconnect between what I want to do and what I feel guilted into doing by society's norms. [Like, hey, maybe I want to come home and eat dinner while chatting rather than getting yardwork done.]

IC that sometimes living so closely tied to an online community really skews my idea of how things work. Take relationships... the start of something... and how intense it is online versus how it is offline where you talk every few days, go on occasional dates, etc.
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I confess that I cried about my body recently and I haven't done that in a very long time. I realised I had new stretchmarks, which I understand what with there being a full term baby inside of my tum tum, but I think they are ugly and they really upset me. They are red and new looking and made me cry. I haven't put on any weight, actually lost a lot since being pregnant, so the stretchmarks caught me a bit by surprise.

Oh and I understand there are a lot of people that find new fresh stretchmarks attractive or a turn on, but I don't, certainly not on me when I have never really had them before and I am happy I have somewhere to say that without being told off.
aaah, Bexy, your stretch marks will fade with time and be less noticeable. Keep your skin well moisturised and this will help the elasticity. Also bio oil is meant to be quite good. My friend used it and said it helped. I suspect your hormones had a part to play in your tears over your body. Your body is doing something amazing right now, it's growing an actual human being that will grow up and love you and have an entire personality all of his/her own. Your stretch marks show that you have produced a life using your body to grow it in, that's pretty special. So you'll have a few stretch marks, fuck it!

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I confess that I cried about my body recently and I haven't done that in a very long time. I realised I had new stretchmarks, which I understand what with there being a full term baby inside of my tum tum, but I think they are ugly and they really upset me. They are red and new looking and made me cry. I haven't put on any weight, actually lost a lot since being pregnant, so the stretchmarks caught me a bit by surprise.

Oh and I understand there are a lot of people that find new fresh stretchmarks attractive or a turn on, but I don't, certainly not on me when I have never really had them before and I am happy I have somewhere to say that without being told off.
hi bexy! goldendelicious it totally right...it is all about moisturizing. i would highly recommend shea butter or cocoa butter. you can usually get pure shea or cocoa butter at a naturals store. it is great for your skin and will help ease up the stretch marks. this will help soften your skin and moisturize to hopefully lessen the chances of getting any more. try doing it right after your shower when you skin is very hydrated and really any time you feel your skin could use it.

i confess that i too lost a ton of weight during pregnancy (50lbs), but it was mostly due to 8 months of morning sickness and projectile vomiting.
luckily i was a chunky chick and had the mass to spare
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I confess that I've been a bit down lately. Too many stresses at work and at home has made me want to escape for a while. Thank goodness I have the internets...especially Dimensions and the BBW Forum. Sigh!
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IC that I'm feeling down today! I found out the land I was going to purchase to build a house on was not approved for the septic tank. I kinda dread starting the search over again for a piece of land. Not sure what to do!
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IC somedays, like today, when I can really feel ALL of my fat; its like I'm moving in slow mo' or something. Like I just can't get with it no matter what; I have so much I need to accomplish before going on vacay but my body is saying DOES NOT COMPUTE, for some reason.

Ugh. I put off running errands because I knew I just didn't have the energy to walk around the store to get what I needed...and I'd end up being a sweaty, huffy, puffy mess.

Fat is where its at, but sometimes (very rarely), I kinda think to myself, "not so much."
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IC somedays, like today, when I can really feel ALL of my fat; its like I'm moving in slow mo' or something. Like I just can't get with it no matter what; I have so much I need to accomplish before going on vacay but my body is saying DOES NOT COMPUTE, for some reason.

Fat is where its at, but sometimes (very rarely), I kinda think to myself, "not so much."
Does it help to know that I totally understand what you're saying and how you are feeling?

IC that I'm tired of this week, can it be Friday night right now! Sigh!
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I've actually heard this from a few people. I kinda sorta almost casually mentioned it to my mom the other day, and she said that it might have something to do with the fact that when you gain weight your hormones shift and your libido can skyrocket. Obviously, my mother does not know why I would *really* ask such a thing.

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IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/
I wouldn't call taking that too personally. No lie. Whoever said that to you is full of shit. First off. You seem freaking adorable and I promise that's not just the raging homo inside of me saying that. Stay. Post. Besides we need more younger chicas

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First, I confess that I'm an oblivious idiot, 'cause I just now noticed this new BBW forum.

Second, I confess to 2 major celebrity crushes....LL Cool J ('cause he's beautiful and sweet) and Jeff Goldblum (because he just IS sexy).
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Old 07-17-2009, 11:28 AM   #99
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First, I confess that I'm an oblivious idiot, 'cause I just now noticed this new BBW forum.

Second, I confess to 2 major celebrity crushes....LL Cool J ('cause he's beautiful and sweet) and Jeff Goldblum (because he just IS sexy).
Isn't Jeff Goldblum just hot!? Most people think I'm crazy, but since Earth Girls Are Easy he's just gotten better looking every year.
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Old 07-17-2009, 12:03 PM   #100
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He's totally hot looking....but in particular I'm drawn to his hands and his really quirky personality. Totally dig it.
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