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Old 07-10-2009, 03:59 PM   #1
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...and vice versa? somehow preferentially to other combinations?

The comedian Lisa Lampanelli makes this idea a major piece in her standup routine. I'm not a big fan of her humor, but i found this interesting. You do seem to see a lot of black men in pics of gatherings of fat, mostly white women.

I'm a white FA married to a hispanic BBW. I find I am attracted to fat women of all races, and that there seem to be a few racial tendencies. Black women more often have very large breasts, white women have large bellies, with many obvious exceptions from both sides. My wife was busty and plump at about 160 and 40C when we got married. Now, at about 300 and 44DD, she's big(and beautiful-I'm still intoxicated with the sensual movements of her breasts when she walks, rides in a car, etc) all over.

So, is there anything special/significant here? Do fat white women and black men somehow find each other more attractive than they find other combinations, and why?

If it's true, Ill admit to being somewhat jealous of my black FA counterparts.
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...and vice versa?
Well, I don't know about the "vice versa" to that. I don't think so, generally speaking, although there are always exceptions. From what little I've seen, most white admirers of plus-size women like white plus-size women.

As for the black/white situation that you describe, I think much of it has to do simply with the fact that liking full-figured women is not stigmatized in the black community. I think a lot more black guys who like plus-size women are open about their preference than white guys, because in Caucasian communities a man who admits such a preference is likelier to be ostracized, or at least ridiculed for his preference.
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Sure, some black guys like fat white girls... and some black guys like thin asian girls, and some black guys like other black guys, and some black guys probably take a fancy to balloons or statues. I don't think the FA percentage is really any higher for black men than for any other race, although as Kioewen pointed out they may be less likely to be closeted.
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...and vice versa? somehow preferentially to other combinations?

The comedian Lisa Lampanelli makes this idea a major piece in her standup routine. I'm not a big fan of her humor, but i found this interesting. You do seem to see a lot of black men in pics of gatherings of fat, mostly white women.

I'm a white FA married to a hispanic BBW. I find I am attracted to fat women of all races, and that there seem to be a few racial tendencies. Black women more often have very large breasts, white women have large bellies, with many obvious exceptions from both sides. My wife was busty and plump at about 160 and 40C when we got married. Now, at about 300 and 44DD, she's big(and beautiful-I'm still intoxicated with the sensual movements of her breasts when she walks, rides in a car, etc) all over.

So, is there anything special/significant here? Do fat white women and black men somehow find each other more attractive than they find other combinations, and why?

If it's true, Ill admit to being somewhat jealous of my black FA counterparts.
I am not sure that there is a special attraction between black men and fat white women. Like the previous writer wrote, fat is not stigmatized in the black community the way it is in the white community.

I did not hear about closet FAs until I started hanging out with NAAFA and the size acceptance crowd.

I've never understood why it is that white men seem to be so worried about black men and white women. Most white women still date and marry only white men.





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I think your title paints too broad a picture, but as said: Some do some don't.

Me? Well there's only two people in my family that specfically find fat women attractive (Along with thin women): My brother and I. While some of my other family members are dating/are large, most are neutral about size.

The only trend I could give is that for some time, the white women that I was interested in used to be larger in comparison to the black women, but that was four years ago, and it's a trend I notice: Not a preference or anything. Though the girl that did the "Conversion action" for me is Filipino.

My girlfriend currently is white and she is currently the largest woman I've dated, but her race/ethnicity is not something that attracts me to her.

You didn't say anything about Nationality though. Blaze loves the Canadian girls! lol
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Not Funny at all More Sad than anything else Smushy....
What's sad is that some people are so politically correct that they can't or won't acknowledge that there are differences between blacks and whites, black s and hispanics, whites and asians, etc, etc. My hispanic wife laughs at my silly anglo stodginess, inability to dance, uptightness, etc all the time. So what?

The real measure of the end of racism is when we can talk about these things without fear.

Sorry if it this bothered anyone. The moderators can feel free to delete this thread if they feel it is offensive.
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Well I found at least one black man that likes this fat white girl At least he said so today.
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i prefer men of color thats just me. They def are more outgoing when it comes to their affection of women of size!
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...and vice versa? somehow preferentially to other combinations?

The comedian Lisa Lampanelli makes this idea a major piece in her standup routine. I'm not a big fan of her humor, but i found this interesting. You do seem to see a lot of black men in pics of gatherings of fat, mostly white women.

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So, is there anything special/significant here? Do fat white women and black men somehow find each other more attractive than they find other combinations, and why?
While I agree that the most powerful humor is thought provoking, this in itself only illuminates a profit driven media; hence the proliferation of the pics you mention. Yes, the media is a powerful entity, playing on our fears and suggesting role models to emulate, but at the end of the day we have to realize that they are not responsible for the lifestyles we lead or the choices we make, especially those with whom we live our lives.

White women of size don't have to mistakenly expect their only admirers to be members of the Black community, Black men don't have to ridiculously expect White women to be superior or more desirable, and White men don't have to save White women from being conquered or scandalized by Black men. That was a long time ago, and if there was any truth to the preferences of either party mentioned here, we should all be more discerning, and consider more substantial factors in our mates, such as class. I hope no one has been offended; that was not my intention in posting, and if I have offended anyone, I apologize.

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...and vice versa? somehow preferentially to other combinations?

The comedian Lisa Lampanelli makes this idea a major piece in her standup routine. I'm not a big fan of her humor, but i found this interesting. You do seem to see a lot of black men in pics of gatherings of fat, mostly white women.

I'm a white FA married to a hispanic BBW. I find I am attracted to fat women of all races, and that there seem to be a few racial tendencies. Black women more often have very large breasts, white women have large bellies, with many obvious exceptions from both sides. My wife was busty and plump at about 160 and 40C when we got married. Now, at about 300 and 44DD, she's big(and beautiful-I'm still intoxicated with the sensual movements of her breasts when she walks, rides in a car, etc) all over.

So, is there anything special/significant here? Do fat white women and black men somehow find each other more attractive than they find other combinations, and why?

If it's true, Ill admit to being somewhat jealous of my black FA counterparts.
Don't even get me started about Lisa Lampanelli. I don't find her jokes to be interesting, just plain over the top. She says she tells those jokes to make people think about racial issues and to expose bigots, but there's gotta be a better way.

I don't think that it matters all that much in the grand scheme of things. At least it doesn't matter to me since I've been rejected by all races. But as has been pointed out black guys do tend to be more open about their fat admiration. What I have to wonder is do white guys seem less open about it because there are many many many more examples (and unfortunately therefore definitions) in the media of what female beauty is supposed to represent, which is more often than not thin white women.

Maybe a side benefit of being underrepresented can sometimes mean those groups are left to define their own cultural definitions unimpeded.
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as a plus sized black woman, i have so many thoughts and words to say about this, however i'm fairly new here and i dont know how PC this place is. not sure if folks can handle a hot kitchen if it was served.
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I am a black Guy and this morning a saw a Sister who I use to work with, she had always been chunky but in 5 years she has gained in a SSBBW. I hope it was not obvious but I had to sneak glances at her breasts which grew a lot and her ample tummy and butt.

I would have talked longer but I forgot her damn name!!!!

I use to do her paychecks, I must be getting old

Of course this afternoon I remembered her name and hope to run into her again

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Actually, that is a good question. Now that I think about it, I have been attracted to overweight light-skinned women more than the dark-skinned. But I'm still atrracted to the overweight dark-skinned women as well. So to answer your question, I have NO idea. lol
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I have dated several men of color and they were very nice.Its all about personality for me funny,witty,clever that gets my attention.
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ABSOLUTELY!!!


Try being in the military where most of your counterparts are alpha dog a-holes.

Of course black men love chubby white women! They are always all over the chicks I go for at the club/bar, and I am on here. So therefore, that postulate is correct.

Think about this though. Ethnic women are (generally) more curvy than your garden-variety Caucasian female. Maybe because our culture is so size-biased. I joke with my buddies that are of the ethnic minority (holy crap, a white guy with black friends, who knew!?) that they have it so good when it comes to women, because they are so deliciously curvy! I am not hating on white girls here, but the majority of the white chicks are rail skinny! I should shut up while I am still ahead, but my curvy dream babes aren't on the beach or in the clubs and bars en masse here in Panama City!

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First, the self-congratulatory PCness in this thread is kinda barfy.

Second, are you people actually saying you haven't noticed that black dudes often tend to go for big white girls? As (unfortunately) rare as miscegenation is in this country, the one combo you actually see with some frequency is black men and white women, and more often than not the woman in question is overweight.

I definitely agree that at least partly what's going on is that there's far less stigma in black culture about dating fat women.
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First, the self-congratulatory PCness in this thread is kinda barfy.

Second, are you people actually saying you haven't noticed that black dudes often tend to go for big white girls? As (unfortunately) rare as miscegenation is in this country, the one combo you actually see with some frequency is black men and white women, and more often than not the woman in question is overweight.

I definitely agree that at least partly what's going on is that there's far less stigma in black culture about dating fat women.
countless times i've read fat people saying that they're sick and tired of people not looking beyond their fat, and their ideas about what that fat means. and yet here's a thread that encourages people to think about a concept or an idea instead of looking at the individual.

the fat white girls around me are more educated than the fat black girls around me. That's a socioeconomic reality. That's why fat white girls are more attractive to me. It wouldn't be surprising if there were some black men who felt the same way.

perhaps the issue goes deeper than skin color at least in some cases.
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First, the self-congratulatory PCness in this thread is kinda barfy.

Second, are you people actually saying you haven't noticed that black dudes often tend to go for big white girls? As (unfortunately) rare as miscegenation is in this country, the one combo you actually see with some frequency is black men and white women, and more often than not the woman in question is overweight.

I definitely agree that at least partly what's going on is that there's far less stigma in black culture about dating fat women.
Dude, your proud anti-pcness is getting old. Especially when just about everyone else has said similar things, only without the whole "being a dick" part.

Also, I'm with you, Olwen - Lisa Lampanelli sucks. Then again, someone who advertises as "Howard Stern's favorite comedian" is not likely to be high on my list.
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Sure, some black guys like fat white girls... and some black guys like thin asian girls, and some black guys like other black guys, and some black guys probably take a fancy to balloons or statues. I don't think the FA percentage is really any higher for black men than for any other race, although as Kioewen pointed out they may be less likely to be closeted.
Your "sure, some black guys like blah blah" list was actually the bit of inane bien-pensant foofery I was referring to, so thanks for responding.
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Your "sure, some black guys like blah blah" list was actually the bit of inane bien-pensant foofery I was referring to, so thanks for responding.
Peppering our patronizing snarkiness with French now, are we? Good move! I like L'enfant terrible. How old did you say you were, MG? BTW, are you sure you like big girls? If so I'd hate to see how you behave with people you don't like. Just kidding! I really don't GAF.
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